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Title: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Steveboy on May 20, 2019, 07:31:02 AM
Just thought I would post agains about young women from Ukraine looking for marriage ..

They do not exist


Today they are all fakes, scammers or something very close... don't waste time or energy even trying to find a young Ukrainian bride..

40+ Great go for it, anyone under 35.. your fooling yourself if you think she will marry you..
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Lord of the Dance on May 20, 2019, 01:51:26 PM
Anyone who says money can't buy happiness just doesn't know where to shop.  :laugh:

But seriously, the risks and the challenges are worth the returns and rewards if one plans and executes properly. 
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: addkock on May 20, 2019, 02:31:52 PM
That is so weird, because I am currently very happily engaged to a 31 year old woman from Ukraine who is extremely busy planning for a wedding to take place in just over a month.
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Mr strange on May 20, 2019, 04:45:04 PM
I don't believe it with the girl I plan to get in a serious relationship with.
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Contrarian on May 20, 2019, 07:46:45 PM
Just thought I would post agains about young women from Ukraine looking for marriage ..

They do not exist


Today they are all fakes, scammers or something very close... don't waste time or energy even trying to find a young Ukrainian bride..

40+ Great go for it, anyone under 35.. your fooling yourself if you think she will marry you..


I just received a letter from this beauty and she says you’re a liar! Okay I made that up but we can all still enjoy her photos.  :laugh:


https://www.loveme.com/members/women_extraphoto?wid=186015&wname=6_Veronika
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: andrewfi on May 21, 2019, 01:42:04 AM
That is so weird, because I am currently very happily engaged to a 31 year old woman from Ukraine who is extremely busy planning for a wedding to take place in just over a month.

Your situation and plans do not invalidate Stefan's suggestion.

You might be lucky and end up happily married until the day you die.

A question for you though: where are you getting married? Ukraine or your country? IMHO, your reply will be indicative. ;)
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: addkock on May 21, 2019, 02:17:47 AM
That is so weird, because I am currently very happily engaged to a 31 year old woman from Ukraine who is extremely busy planning for a wedding to take place in just over a month.

Your situation and plans do not invalidate Stefan's suggestion.

You might be lucky and end up happily married until the day you die.

A question for you though: where are you getting married? Ukraine or your country? IMHO, your reply will be indicative. ;)

His words were: They do not exist
and that is a false statement as I have physical proof they do.

about your question, both :)

June 10th wedding in Ukraine with her whole family.
June 22th wedding in Sweden with my whole family.
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: andrewfi on May 21, 2019, 06:40:39 AM
I am sure that there is an exception to be had somewhere. However the general rule is correct. So, if you feel like the big lotto winner, good luck to you, sincerely!

I hope that all your dreams come true and if your fiancée's are compatible with yours then I wish her the same too. But if you are over 40 and she is younger than 35 then you'll have to excuse me if I choose to not accept imaginary Internet wagers backing a successful outcome.
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Contrarian on May 21, 2019, 11:05:48 AM
That is so weird, because I am currently very happily engaged to a 31 year old woman from Ukraine who is extremely busy planning for a wedding to take place in just over a month.

Your situation and plans do not invalidate Stefan's suggestion.

You might be lucky and end up happily married until the day you die.

A question for you though: where are you getting married? Ukraine or your country? IMHO, your reply will be indicative. ;)

His words were: They do not exist
and that is a false statement as I have physical proof they do.

about your question, both :)

June 10th wedding in Ukraine with her whole family.
June 22th wedding in Sweden with my whole family
.


Fantastic and congratulations ????????????How did you first make contact with her?

Maybe you could write a mini trip report and tell us more!!?
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Steveboy on May 21, 2019, 11:31:07 AM
That is so weird, because I am currently very happily engaged to a 31 year old woman from Ukraine who is extremely busy planning for a wedding to take place in just over a month.

You will be one of the very very few exceptions lucky man.. by the way how old are you? Just asking as if your an oldie the divorce will come soon enough as it does for so many others..

And I stick by my words Young Ukrainian women are not marring Western men, the same applies in Russia and most other FSU countries.. but of course there exceptions but few and far between..
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Contrarian on May 21, 2019, 11:45:46 AM
That is so weird, because I am currently very happily engaged to a 31 year old woman from Ukraine who is extremely busy planning for a wedding to take place in just over a month.

You will be one of the very very few exceptions lucky man.. by the way how old are you? Just asking as if your an oldie the divorce will come soon enough as it does for so many others..

And I stick by my words Young Ukrainian women are not marring Western men, the same applies in Russia and most other FSU countries.. but of course there exceptions but few and far between..

What about young women from Maldova? One married you and is still with you, correct?
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Steveboy on May 21, 2019, 11:52:50 AM
That is so weird, because I am currently very happily engaged to a 31 year old woman from Ukraine who is extremely busy planning for a wedding to take place in just over a month.

You will be one of the very very few exceptions lucky man.. by the way how old are you? Just asking as if your an oldie the divorce will come soon enough as it does for so many others..

And I stick by my words Young Ukrainian women are not marring Western men, the same applies in Russia and most other FSU countries.. but of course there exceptions but few and far between..

What about young women from Maldova? One married you and is still with you, correct?

Yes correct but even that was like eight years ago! Lots has changed in that time for 100%!! Just like maybe 15 years ago some guys married girls 30 years younger than themselves..but you will not see it now.. Unless you own a private Island..

But as I said there are always they few exceptions.  :smokin:  Im just one of them, Im forever young and enjoy myself and probably will be until Im 70..

Here is a little info just in case  you really are set on finding a young women to marry:

https://bridesandlovers.com/younger-girls
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Guile on May 21, 2019, 03:38:16 PM
dont know about Ukraine but not true in Russia.
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: msmoby on May 23, 2019, 03:57:05 AM
dont know about Ukraine but not true in Russia.

Quelle surprise...

I'd believe steveboy over your ( and my  experience,  anyday...





Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: BillyB on May 23, 2019, 10:35:18 PM

2011 got married. I was 40 yo and wife 19 yo back then. Still married.
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Steveboy on May 24, 2019, 03:19:45 AM

2011 got married. I was 40 yo and wife 19 yo back then. Still married.

Lots has changed in 10 years!! Even the kids have smart phones so no need for guys to even send the phone any more and feel like god  :laugh:

I can remember about 10 years ago most were still using Internet cafes , they are defunct now..

I give 4/5 years and it will be totally finished for young women wanting to relocate to the West, just a few stupid ones and that's it..

No problem with mature women though for a few more years yet! Problem is most guys in their 70's will not even look at a 45 year old women.. :ROFL:
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: msmoby on May 24, 2019, 03:36:12 AM
They are probably hoping to raise a new family ...
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Steveboy on May 24, 2019, 01:09:37 PM
For me I just try to give guys the best possible advice when it comes  to dating I think I know the business inside out and the Psychology of it all..

If you want to find a women to marry in one of the FSU countries good on you, and you can succeed if you are realistic in your searches and not chasing school kids about..

But the funny thing is day after day I get crap off guys complaining about scammers or women only wanting money..and usually it is guys in their 60's chasing women 25/30 years younger than themselves , when the women ignore their advances they report them for scamming.. :laugh:

Then they will write some pathetic mail like this one..

(https://scontent.fhel3-1.fna.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/60811567_2096021603830066_7862652171857166336_o.png?_nc_cat=101&_nc_ht=scontent.fhel3-1.fna&oh=2ee8e61cc58c3ca8d672e15ff0debaeb&oe=5D53D4F7)

If you had to see all the stories I read from men saying they have a genetic thing in their family that makes them look 30 years younger you would laugh..

I have a policy off removing such members from the web site as soon as membership has expired.. I do not need the money and certainly do not need to be plagued with pathetic mails all day and every day, they also **** up security as they  report any young women who do not even answer them..

These people just do not get it!!




Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: andrewfi on May 24, 2019, 01:15:38 PM
As somebody said to me, a long time ago: I am a beautiful woman and for beauty you must pay! Oddly enough, she was older than I am, was (and is) very attractive and did not mean her words in quite the way I am using them here. :)

Any old goat chasing after young beauties (and the bigger the age gap, the less objectively beautiful she need be to be attractive) has to pay one way or another. All these scams and rueful old goats are about the payment for beauty. I'd bet big money that if the rueful old goats were able to adequately pay for their young beauties that they'd have satisfactory relationships but it is very hard for many guys from the colonies to get their heads around the necessary ideas and practices to make it work - and, of course, a pension won't pay for much beauty!
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: dcguyusa on May 24, 2019, 05:53:24 PM
Where are all of the foreign men (20s to early 30s) in all of this?  Why are there so few dating profiles from this age bracket?

1) Don't have the money/free time to date internationally
2) Don't want to commit to a specific person (too young)
3) Satisfied with local dating
4) Don't want to deal with immigration hassles
5) Still have a lot of time to "sow my wild oats".

 :chuckle:
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Steveboy on May 25, 2019, 02:03:55 AM
Where are all of the foreign men (20s to early 30s) in all of this?  Why are there so few dating profiles from this age bracket?

1) Don't have the money/free time to date internationally
2) Don't want to commit to a specific person (too young)
3) Satisfied with local dating
4) Don't want to deal with immigration hassles
5) Still have a lot of time to "sow my wild oats".

 :chuckle:


It is mostly don't have money.. and of course when your that age you are usually stupid..but of course if all the young men had a crystal ball to see in to the future it would be a different story for most..
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Manny on May 26, 2019, 02:14:28 PM
The discussion with Crusader can now be found in the Off Topic room.
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: BillyB on May 26, 2019, 03:55:50 PM
Any old goat chasing after young beauties (and the bigger the age gap, the less objectively beautiful she need be to be attractive) has to pay one way or another. All these scams and rueful old goats are about the payment for beauty. I'd bet big money that if the rueful old goats were able to adequately pay for their young beauties that they'd have satisfactory relationships but it is very hard for many guys from the colonies to get their heads around the necessary ideas and practices to make it work - and, of course, a pension won't pay for much beauty!


A beautiful woman can demand a higher quality man. Not all beautiful women want a man to pay with his money. Many women demand the guy has brains, a good character, personality, and other quality traits.

If a man pulls out a handful of shit, he will attract flies. If he pulls out a handful of dollars, he will attract gold diggers. A man should challenge himself to attract a woman without money and using only his quality traits. When I communicated with women, I told them I live a normal American life. I tell them I work as a project manager for a construction company. I never tell them I'm the owner. I'm sure a lot of potential gold diggers quit writing to me because of what I said.
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Steveboy on May 27, 2019, 01:26:35 AM

2011 got married. I was 40 yo and wife 19 yo back then. Still married.

Your lucky! You did it 10 years ago, when most women had no internet at home, no phone or smart phone , those days most women never even has a debit card, it was still fairly easy to chat some younger women up, impress them with your latest I-phone , get your passport out , use your debit card ..all these things were fairly new.. today most young kids in Russia (In the cities for sure) are no worse off than Western kids and there are plenty of kids in the US living in poverty just as there are in the Uk, so no point even saying lots of kids in Russia live in poverty.
In my town where I was brought up there is a guy who is absolutely huge and not exactly Brad Pitt (Not that I'm saying you need to be slim and look like brad Pitt to be a good man OR find a wife) But 30+ years ago while Ukraine was still in the Soviet Union he married a Ukrainian girl who was a real beauty half his age ..They are still  together he is  wealthy so no money problems.. It was the talk of the town for years!! How he did this.. Do you think he could do this today?? 99.9% No for sure.

If you was in the same situation today 40 years old looking for a 19 year old wife , you would be looking for a very very very long time and probably still looking in 5 years time and the same applies for most in the forum who found their wife 10/15 years ago..

Im not saying it is impossible to find a very young wife today BUT it is very very very very very hard..

Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: BillyB on May 27, 2019, 09:09:51 AM
Your lucky! You did it 10 years ago, when most women had no internet at home, no phone or smart phone , those days most women never even has a debit card,


I don't depend on luck to get through life. Every FSU women I communicated with had internet and a phone. I would not communicate with anybody that didn't have those tools. Most FSU women I dated were living in America. I never looked in their wallets but I assume all had debit and credit cards.

I would only travel to the FSU to meet a woman if she was exceptional in some way. She'd have to be a 10 in beauty or another trait. FSU women on these forums have said my wife is the most beautiful of any that married a Western man. My relatives have said I dated more beautiful than my wife.

it was still fairly easy to chat some younger women up, impress them with your latest I-phone , get your passport out , use your debit card ..all these things were fairly new..


I wouldn't marry a woman if money and material items gets her horny. In the FSU I rent a cheap dumb phone, and use cash on dates. I don't pull out my cards.

today most young kids in Russia (In the cities for sure) are no worse off than Western kids and there are plenty of kids in the US living in poverty just as there are in the Uk, so no point even saying lots of kids in Russia live in poverty.

Money and green card isn't the only thing a guy has to attract women. Take away their poverty, if a guy has exceptional traits, an FSU woman will still consider him. A older, mature winner, is still better than a young immature loser.

My wife wasn't living in the FSU when I first wrote her. She was living in Libya. Her mom was a doctor there. Her mom had more cash in her bank than I had in mine. She wasn't living in poverty.  She had plenty of younger guys approaching her in real and internet life, and could choose from many men. She didn't need me, but she wanted me.

Do you think he could do this today?? 99.9% No for sure.


I don't know the guy so I can't judge him but I do know myself and I can do this over and over and over again. Why? Because I know I'm better than the average guy in many areas than just money.

If you was in the same situation today 40 years old looking for a 19 year old wife , you would be looking for a very very very long time and probably still looking in 5 years time and the same applies for most in the forum who found their wife 10/15 years ago..


While looking for a wife I dated a LOT of women. Told my story elsewhere and it is the most read FSU related thread on the internet. Some people thought I was a man whore. I was having a lot of fun. With or without marriage, I'll always have a lot of fun and I will never be lonely.
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Contrarian on May 27, 2019, 09:20:02 AM
Your lucky! You did it 10 years ago, when most women had no internet at home, no phone or smart phone , those days most women never even has a debit card,


I don't depend on luck to get through life. Every FSU women I communicated with had internet and a phone. I would not communicate with anybody that didn't have those tools. Most FSU women I dated were living in America. I never looked in their wallets but I assume all had debit and credit cards.

I would only travel to the FSU to meet a woman if she was exceptional in some way. She'd have to be a 10 in beauty or another trait. FSU women on these forums have said my wife is the most beautiful of any that married a Western man. My relatives have said I dated more beautiful than my wife.

it was still fairly easy to chat some younger women up, impress them with your latest I-phone , get your passport out , use your debit card ..all these things were fairly new..


I wouldn't marry a woman if money and material items gets her horny. In the FSU I rent a cheap dumb phone, and use cash on dates. I don't pull out my cards.

today most young kids in Russia (In the cities for sure) are no worse off than Western kids and there are plenty of kids in the US living in poverty just as there are in the Uk, so no point even saying lots of kids in Russia live in poverty.

Money and green card isn't the only thing a guy has to attract women. Take away their poverty, if a guy has exceptional traits, an FSU woman will still consider him. A older, mature winner, is still better than a young immature loser.

My wife wasn't living in the FSU when I first wrote her. She was living in Libya. Her mom was a doctor there. Her mom had more cash in her bank than I had in mine. She wasn't living in poverty.  She had plenty of younger guys approaching her in real and internet life, and could choose from many men. She didn't need me, but she wanted me.

Do you think he could do this today?? 99.9% No for sure.


I don't know the guy so I can't judge him but I do know myself and I can do this over and over and over again. Why? Because I know I'm better than the average guy in many areas than just money.

If you was in the same situation today 40 years old looking for a 19 year old wife , you would be looking for a very very very long time and probably still looking in 5 years time and the same applies for most in the forum who found their wife 10/15 years ago..


While looking for a wife I dated a LOT of women. Told my story elsewhere and it is the most read FSU related thread on the internet. Some people thought I was a man whore. I was having a lot of fun. With or without marriage, I'll always have a lot of fun and I will never be lonely.

Good response Billy.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Steveboy on May 27, 2019, 09:24:44 AM
Your lucky! You did it 10 years ago, when most women had no internet at home, no phone or smart phone , those days most women never even has a debit card,


I don't depend on luck to get through life. Every FSU women I communicated with had internet and a phone. I would not communicate with anybody that didn't have those tools. Most FSU women I dated were living in America. I never looked in their wallets but I assume all had debit and credit cards.

I would only travel to the FSU to meet a woman if she was exceptional in some way. She'd have to be a 10 in beauty or another trait. FSU women on these forums have said my wife is the most beautiful of any that married a Western man. My relatives have said I dated more beautiful than my wife.

it was still fairly easy to chat some younger women up, impress them with your latest I-phone , get your passport out , use your debit card ..all these things were fairly new..


I wouldn't marry a woman if money and material items gets her horny. In the FSU I rent a cheap dumb phone, and use cash on dates. I don't pull out my cards.

today most young kids in Russia (In the cities for sure) are no worse off than Western kids and there are plenty of kids in the US living in poverty just as there are in the Uk, so no point even saying lots of kids in Russia live in poverty.

Money and green card isn't the only thing a guy has to attract women. Take away their poverty, if a guy has exceptional traits, an FSU woman will still consider him. A older, mature winner, is still better than a young immature loser.

My wife wasn't living in the FSU when I first wrote her. She was living in Libya. Her mom was a doctor there. Her mom had more cash in her bank than I had in mine. She wasn't living in poverty.  She had plenty of younger guys approaching her in real and internet life, and could choose from many men. She didn't need me, but she wanted me.

Do you think he could do this today?? 99.9% No for sure.


I don't know the guy so I can't judge him but I do know myself and I can do this over and over and over again. Why? Because I know I'm better than the average guy in many areas than just money.

If you was in the same situation today 40 years old looking for a 19 year old wife , you would be looking for a very very very long time and probably still looking in 5 years time and the same applies for most in the forum who found their wife 10/15 years ago..


While looking for a wife I dated a LOT of women. Told my story elsewhere and it is the most read FSU related thread on the internet. Some people thought I was a man whore. I was having a lot of fun. With or without marriage, I'll always have a lot of fun and I will never be lonely.

Still!! You would be in a different situation now and you can say all you want.. that was 10 years ago.. I dont see many guys marring girls 20 years old any more..



Money and green card isn't the only thing a guy has to attract women. Take away their poverty, if a guy has exceptional traits, an FSU woman will still consider him. A older, mature winner, is still better than a young immature loser.

My wife wasn't living in the FSU when I first wrote her. She was living in Libya. Her mom was a doctor there. Her mom had more cash in her bank than I had in mine. She wasn't living in poverty.  She had plenty of younger guys approaching her in real and internet life, and could choose from many men. She didn't need me, but she wanted me.


Yeah that is correct I agree 100% My wife divorced a wealthy guy and left with nothing.. I am probably 100% the poorest guy who ever was on this forum yet met his wife, married her and moved to Russia.. I had nothing not even $20.00 in my pocket when I left the UK went to live with my wife in Moldova for two years at here place.. no fairy god mother , no parents sending me cash, no home in the UK to rent out and give me some cash.. NOTHING absolutely nothing other than a laptop and a half finished web site.. no savings.. zilch zilch .. I never needed to bullshit to anyone in my life especially to any women or my wife.. so for me I already know my wife doesn't need the money or money is important.. she just wants me .. ;D
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: BillyB on May 28, 2019, 10:39:03 PM

Yeah that is correct I agree 100% My wife divorced a wealthy guy and left with nothing..


Wealthy men asked my wife's mother if they could marry her. One guy was a millionaire. He was also Muslim. My wife wanted a Christian and is fine with a house, white picket fence and 2.5 kids kind of life.

You're probably right many women are less likely to marry a foreigner as the economy gets better. Easier to choose a local boy who is financially secure and live a decent life than having to quickly decide to marry a stranger overseas for that better life.

I look down on gold diggers but I don't look down on women that want a better life. Don't we all?
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Steveboy on May 29, 2019, 02:44:32 AM

Yeah that is correct I agree 100% My wife divorced a wealthy guy and left with nothing..


Wealthy men asked my wife's mother if they could marry her. One guy was a millionaire. He was also Muslim. My wife wanted a Christian and is fine with a house, white picket fence and 2.5 kids kind of life.

You're probably right many women are less likely to marry a foreigner as the economy gets better. Easier to choose a local boy who is financially secure and live a decent life than having to quickly decide to marry a stranger overseas for that better life.

I look down on gold diggers but I don't look down on women that want a better life. Don't we all?


I look down on gold diggers but I don't look down on women that want a better life. Don't we all?  Gold diggers are every where Us is full of them and so is the UK.. if someone marries a Gold digger that's their problem... Im not interested in hearing the sob story.. I have two friends in the UK both married 3 times  :laugh: Each time it cost them a house and lots of cash.. some times they tell me they could kill the ex.. I don't listen.. count yourself luck you have plenty of cash to give away.. tough!!


I always live by the motto.. "You make your own bed in life, dont complain"  ;D
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Guile on July 22, 2019, 05:37:10 PM

Quelle surprise...

I'd believe steveboy over your ( and my  experience,  anyday...

Idiot Moby... 2 women have left you and a 3rd will soon.

I personally know 10+ marriages of Russian women to foreign guys in Moscow alone.  Shut your piehole you dunce   >:( :whist11:
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Guile on July 22, 2019, 05:40:56 PM

1) Don't have the money/free time to date internationally
2) Don't want to commit to a specific person (too young)
3) Satisfied with local dating
4) Don't want to deal with immigration hassles
5) Still have a lot of time to "sow my wild oats".


Young men 35 and under wouldn't even think of doing this.  Most I know go overseas to work and end up dating the local women.  Could be Russia, Asia, anywhere..  There's so many dating apps now to hookup that they aren't gonna pay for a dating site membership.
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: msmoby on July 24, 2019, 02:33:20 AM


Quelle surprise...

I'd believe steveboy over your ( and my  experience,  anyday...


Idiot Moby... 2 women have left you and a 3rd will soon.

I personally know 10+ marriages of Russian women to foreign guys in Moscow alone.  Shut your piehole you dunce   >:( :whist11:

I am 'sorry; to have to advise you that

1/ I left and divorced wife no.1

2/ no.3 and I and are doing fine

Why is is when you post utter bollox and are busted your get so personal?



I personally know 10+ marriages of Russian women to foreign guys in Moscow alone.  Shut your piehole you dunce   >:( :whist11:

ONLY 10,..  ?

Frankly, given your being busted for posting about places you:ve never been I even doubt you know any of 'em...  You are a serial Googler for 'imfo'..

Dating Apps like Tinder seem to be used by the very people who are more addicted to serial dating, than settling down..

Steveboy sees both sides and hence I respect his viewpoint over an unstable serial dreamer

Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: andrewfi on July 25, 2019, 05:10:44 AM
Steveboy, you had some advantages though. :)

I have, for decades now, said this: a relationship and the choices to enter into it are based upon a package of things that make a man, or woman attractive.
You were local, and planning to stay there. You were not old. You looked a little better than a monkey. You had other attributes that we probably do not know about. Your wife understood that you had potential and, over time, you fulfilled that potential. Had you not fulfilled that potential I bet that your relationship would have turned out differently! That latter might be what torpedoes moby's relationship!

In a younger bloke, appearance is likely to be a more significant part of the blend of attraction factors, so too is potential as a provider and father to kids.
An older man is expected to have fulfiled his potential, hence wealth becomes more significant. If a 50-year-old bloke is still poor as a church mouse then he is unlikely to suddenly become wealthy, that's not how the world works.

There's an old saying that goes something like 'wealth and experience beat youth and looks' and that's true. One can see it in action every day.

One can be an interesting and worthwhile life companion for a much younger woman as long as one has the necessary attributes and, absolutely certainly wealth and the willingness to apply it for the good of the family (and partner!) is key. There's nothing wrong with that. The problem comes when the old guy is only able to wave around a social security cheque as evidence of his wealth.
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Steveboy on August 05, 2019, 11:03:44 PM
wave around a social security cheque as evidence of his wealth.    There are lots doing that , they even think they can offer the world..well Im not saying money is every thing, you do not need to be wealthy to find a good women and some times its probably better NOT to be wealthy otherwise you will never be sure if she married you or your wallet..

Another thing that is really strange is that so many guys will upload photos of themselves sat in their sitting room.. well that is ok! But for christ sake!! If your sitting room looks like a bomb hit it, there are fag burns in the sofa and carpet and last weeks dinner plate still on the bloody table, use your brain ..

And brush your hair and have a bloody shave!!! Never understand these guys who are happy to upload a image of them selves looking like a homeless tramp!! When I was homeless living in a tent by the river I always made a point of using some good photos and certainly never included any of my sitting room..(Tent)     :laugh:



Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Steveboy on August 05, 2019, 11:09:34 PM

attributes that we probably do not know about.  No one will ever know this.. only myself.. I cannot discuss it here or any where.. ;D



wave around a social security cheque as evidence of his wealth.    There are lots doing that , they even think they can offer the world..well Im not saying money is every thing, you do not need to be wealthy to find a good women and some times its probably better NOT to be wealthy otherwise you will never be sure if she married you or your wallet..

Another thing that is really strange is that so many guys will upload photos of themselves sat in their sitting room.. well that is ok! But for christ sake!! If your sitting room looks like a bomb hit it, there are fag burns in the sofa and carpet and last weeks dinner plate still on the bloody table, use your brain ..

And brush your hair and have a bloody shave!!! Never understand these guys who are happy to upload a image of them selves looking like a homeless tramp!! When I was homeless living in a tent by the river I always made a point of using some good photos and certainly never included any of my sitting room..(Tent)     :laugh:
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Steveboy on August 05, 2019, 11:47:48 PM

1) Don't have the money/free time to date internationally
2) Don't want to commit to a specific person (too young)
3) Satisfied with local dating
4) Don't want to deal with immigration hassles
5) Still have a lot of time to "sow my wild oats".


Young men 35 and under wouldn't even think of doing this.  Most I know go overseas to work and end up dating the local women.  Could be Russia, Asia, anywhere..  There's so many dating apps now to hookup that they aren't gonna pay for a dating site membership.

Yes lots of young guys do think of doing this, unfortunately  it is not so easy today for the younger guy I'm talking about under 30/35 ..

Of course if your living in say Russia who needs a Russian brides dating site? No one!! You can use Tinder or some thing like that much easier..a few hours on there and you can find yourself a whole pile of dates and with young women!  But those dating apps are for local dating, of course you can meet some nice women and date them , there are plenty of women looking to DATE a foreigner (Maybe marry later) But any mention of them marrying you and making a visa application to live in the US and you will probably be history!!

You will find 99.9% of young Russian women on tinder have no interest in leaving Russia , probably the  same in any other countries. But they will be happy to date you if your living in their country.

So if your young, looking for a beautiful young Russian women my advise would be to move to the Motherland  :) At least for a few years ..


Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: Guile on August 06, 2019, 12:25:57 AM

You will find 99.9% of young Russian women on tinder have no interest in leaving Russia , probably the  same in any other countries. But they will be happy to date you if your living in their country.

So if your young, looking for a beautiful young Russian women my advise would be to move to the Motherland 


I don't know if it's that high.  But you're right the vast majority of Russian women don't want to leave Russia.  Although I personally know several who went to America for work or study or to immigrate.  The funny thing is most had a Russian husband already and they both went over together!

I also know a few who married Europeans and moved to the man's country.
Title: Re: Ukrainian women under 35 looking for marriage FORGET IT ..
Post by: msmoby on August 06, 2019, 02:40:26 AM

the vast majority of Russian women don't want to leave Russia. 


I'm not sure that either of you are right .. Those on international dating sites ..  Are they hoping their man will settle uin their home country ?