Dating & Marriage With Women From Russia, Ukraine, Belarus & FSU > Ask a Russian Speaking Lady - Спроси у русской леди
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Brasscasing:
Ladies,
I'd like to compile a list of cultural and etiquette Do's and Don'ts based on regional or country doctrine for the first meeting and possible next day get together for a suitor at his first meeting/date/get together, however you want to phrase it.
Now, there can be numerous variables and scenarios; translators, no translators, family/friends present, agency involvement, etc. So I'm asking for, all the variables aside, exactly what it is you are looking for.
Keeping all the above in mind, the first time you see the gentlemen traveler come thru the door:
Should it be at a coffee meeting, lunch or dinner date, walk in the park or visit at the local museum, etc?
How should he be dressed?
Should the initial greeting be a handshake, hug, kiss on the cheeks, verbal or something else?
What should the date consist of; lunch and a walk, dinner and a dance club, etc?
Discussion topics?
If the meeting/date is successful what the second meeting/date should consist of, formality, etc?
Basically what you would want to see, hear, do and what you would not want to see, hear or do.
There are no wrong answers here, my intention is to list the suggestions into a generic Do and Don't format and post it on the Begins Board.
Spasibo in advance for your input. :)
Brass
pup zemly:
jus be yourself, do not do things, which are not ntural for you.
as my ex said "listen to your nature" :)
mirror:
Too many questions in one place.maybe slowly one after one?
mirror:
First question is about how you talk about when and where are you going to meet.
The most important -a man must be an initiator of a meeting. He must suggest woman to meet. If you both like each other she will wait your invitation to make first move for a meeting.
Another question WHERE. You can suggest few places (variations) where and ask her opinion.I think it would be a show of respect to her (anywhay I would take it like that).
If you both decided to meet in her place -OK.
She can meet you in airport (it depends how far she lives from airport). I think she will make all efforts to meet you there and it is a good mark.
When you will arrive you will be tired but she will be tired also! Anyway don't forget to kiss her! even if she will be shy (who knows ...it is posible ;D)
After arrival you will be HER MAN with whom she must be proud!
mirror:
About translator...hmmm...I never thought that a meeting could be possible without a language. But I can not imagine a meeting with a translator.
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