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As the title says, how would you feel if a woman (I assume) tried to secretly get  Viagra into you?

Set aside practical aspects and assuming that you discovered the subterfuge; would you be OK with her action?
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Re: How Angry Would You Be If A Woman Secretly Fed You Viagra?
« Reply #1 on: June 01, 2022, 03:30:38 PM »
Yeah why not...

I think if you find a women like that you hit the jackpot.. cos I presume she will be wanting lots of rodgering all day and night.. I cant see anyone complaining about that.. :smokin: :laugh:
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Re: How Angry Would You Be If A Woman Secretly Fed You Viagra?
« Reply #2 on: June 01, 2022, 04:50:29 PM »
As the title says, how would you feel if a woman (I assume) tried to secretly get  Viagra into you?

Set aside practical aspects and assuming that you discovered the subterfuge; would you be OK with her action?

Definately not ok, consent to drugs is the only way.
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Re: How Angry Would You Be If A Woman Secretly Fed You Viagra?
« Reply #3 on: June 02, 2022, 12:15:00 AM »
The couple in this case are getting married in a couple of weeks. With the best will in the world she is pretty horny.
So it's clear that he's not performing at the required level.

So, to Stefan's point, I get it. And she is a very sexy woman that it would be my pleasure to be pleasuring at all times. But I think that if she needs more than he is giving then it bodes ill for the future. Based on past performance disappointment will lead to alternate sources of satisfaction.

My feeling is much as Mark's. If somebody tried that out on me, I'd be very, very unhappy. This is for me a trust issue. Also, from a practical perspective, Viagra has common side effects that would, at the least, be disconcerting if they happened unexpectedly. What would you think if everything you saw now had changed colour and looked blue? Probably that you were about to have a stroke!
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Re: How Angry Would You Be If A Woman Secretly Fed You Viagra?
« Reply #4 on: June 02, 2022, 01:00:07 AM »
yeah but you got to look at the funny side of it..

What would the women think if she came home and the guy had brought a box full of sex toys waiting on the bed..

She obviously wants lots of sex , maybe he does not or maybe he cant ..probably better they just spoke about it..
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Re: How Angry Would You Be If A Woman Secretly Fed You Viagra?
« Reply #5 on: June 02, 2022, 01:11:21 AM »
Also, from a practical perspective, Viagra has common side effects that would, at the least, be disconcerting if they happened unexpectedly. What would you think if everything you saw now had changed colour and looked blue? Probably that you were about to have a stroke!
I remember a case where a healthy young man without performance problems took Viagra, he had a painful erection for more than a week and had to get doctors involved to get rid of it. Happened in Spain I think. so definately side-effects.

Some googling around found me an even worse case, although it is a trash-tabloid:
https://metro.co.uk/2019/10/08/viagra-user-26-says-month-long-erection-left-impotent-10885367/

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Re: How Angry Would You Be If A Woman Secretly Fed You Viagra?
« Reply #6 on: June 02, 2022, 02:20:16 AM »
Steve, yeah. A mutual friend asked if I had some viagra that I might give to the woman.

I suggested that she got her man to chat with his doctor. Apparently he is shy.

Mark, yeah. If one gets a hard on that last for more than 4 hours after using sildenafil then a visit to the hospital is suggested. That's my biggest concern. Its rare, but I don't want any part   in a gangrene caused penis amputation tragedy!

Outcome of the request was a refusal from me.
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« Reply #7 on: June 02, 2022, 05:01:04 AM »
Steve, yeah. A mutual friend asked if I had some viagra that I might give to the woman.

I suggested that she got her man to chat with his doctor. Apparently he is shy.

Mark, yeah. If one gets a hard on that last for more than 4 hours after using sildenafil then a visit to the hospital is suggested. That's my biggest concern. Its rare, but I don't want any part   in a gangrene caused penis amputation tragedy!

Outcome of the request was a refusal from me.

Hes just going to have to tell her to be disgustingly dirty with him maybe bring a few of her friends along some whips and bondage stuff..lol He will probably not need it then..
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« Reply #8 on: June 02, 2022, 07:06:17 AM »
Steve, yeah. A mutual friend asked if I had some viagra that I might give to the woman.

I suggested that she got her man to chat with his doctor. Apparently he is shy.

Mark, yeah. If one gets a hard on that last for more than 4 hours after using sildenafil then a visit to the hospital is suggested. That's my biggest concern. Its rare, but I don't want any part   in a gangrene caused penis amputation tragedy!

Outcome of the request was a refusal from me.

Hes just going to have to tell her to be disgustingly dirty with him maybe bring a few of her friends along some whips and bondage stuff..lol He will probably not need it then..

Knowing the lady in question, she has the arousal side sorted. It is the performance that is sub-par.
You know how three are some women who make a man horny just by seeing her? She's one of those women. Not the most gorgeous, but she must have more than her fair share of pheromones! If so, she is why some women just can't get a man worked up! She stole their pheromones!
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Re: How Angry Would You Be If A Woman Secretly Fed You Viagra?
« Reply #9 on: June 02, 2022, 08:41:42 AM »
Knowing the lady in question, she has the arousal side sorted. It is the performance that is sub-par.

I guess the performance that is sub – par is on his side, luck of experience, practice make good.

I think they should follow the Marathon runners routine…..First day they run the 1 mile, next day 2 etc then take a rest and when they are back at home they take a breath and then continue the training and relaxation routine. If he has a mouth tell him to start using it…..

You say that she has sorted the arousal site, I guess she is good playing the clarinet for him, in which case he has to reciprocate it is up to him to learn to play the game and make sure that she is aroused too and after that continue kissing all parts of the tree until she start calling help from her mother or somebody else.

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Re: How Angry Would You Be If A Woman Secretly Fed You Viagra?
« Reply #10 on: June 02, 2022, 09:14:00 AM »
To the original basic question -

Absolutely a huge no go.
The level of trust this violates would likely end the relationship.
If not immediately then it would take a lot of time to repair the broken trust which is the foundation of any relationship.

Nothing to do with sex at all,everything to do with it being  done secretly, and a drug, regardless if its considered safe,mild etc.
If it was a caffeine tab ,done secretly,  it's still ridiculous.

Steveboy,  i dont think this would compare to him.having sex toys when she came home.
Those would be readily known and the individual can make a choice to use them.or not.
A fair comparison is if she had put the pill on the table for him.telling him what it was? Where he can  then decide.
That's a completely different discussion?

 As far as what you disclosed later,seems she needs to have a long talk with her intended ,onto the doctor with him,or whatever it takes to work it out openly between them.


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Re: How Angry Would You Be If A Woman Secretly Fed You Viagra?
« Reply #11 on: June 02, 2022, 09:25:21 AM »
When you meet someone or get to know them over the internet its always best to be 100% open and discuss everything in the first place .. some women like sex non stop or lots of it .. some men do not .. Do you like this, do you like that, are you hot in the bedroom and so on it should all be spoken about before you have a relationship..

Same comes to finances .. maybe the women wants shopping non stop..likes expensive things and so on you mayn't find that out until later.

I cannot think of anything I never covered with my wife before we met I already knew here 100% and she did me before we even met.. she already knew I liked to be whipped 4 times a day exactly after midnight and so on.. :laugh:

If its just a matter of not being able to perform with what you have below.. well you have a tongue?? Use that better  :chuckle:
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Re: How Angry Would You Be If A Woman Secretly Fed You Viagra?
« Reply #12 on: June 02, 2022, 09:40:08 AM »
Well certainly it's open communication that's key.

In this case the entire premise is violating that.


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« Reply #13 on: June 02, 2022, 11:17:37 AM »
Well certainly it's open communication that's key.

In this case the entire premise is violating that.

Yeah, that was my concern. It was why I refused to act as 'pharmacist'. If she had wanted the tablets for herself (unlikely given her nature!) I'd have said yes. There's little risk of harm to women and, for some women, the effect can be kinda magical!

By the way, no need total of techniques or whatever. This is a woman who can wake up a statue merely by her presence. They have been living together for a while so it ain't as though they are strangers. I kinda think she wanted 'something special' for her wedding night. To turn her man from Clark Kent into Superman.
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« Reply #14 on: June 02, 2022, 01:36:21 PM »
Yeah, that was my concern. It was why I refused to act as 'pharmacist'. If she had wanted the tablets for herself (unlikely given her nature!) I'd have said yes. There's little risk of harm to women and, for some women, the effect can be kinda magical!

By the way, no need total of techniques or whatever. This is a woman who can wake up a statue merely by her presence. They have been living together for a while so it ain't as though they are strangers. I kinda think she wanted 'something special' for her wedding night. To turn her man from Clark Kent into Superman.

Sorry but I cannot understand your comments in the first paragraph.

Taking into consideration your second comment that I highlighted I think there should be no problem.......... "because if her sheer presence can make a statue to stand to attention then if she can achieve that with little or no effort the answer is simple.

Tell him to lie in his back, think about England or any other nice place and  and let her ride until she cannot take anymore.....and if she want more he can move his ass and start using his mouth..I remember many years a go I read in a site the reply of a doctor ref to the man using his mouth:  :nod:

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« Reply #15 on: June 02, 2022, 05:21:44 PM »
Wiz, I think you may misunderstand how this stuff works. Viagra is not an aphrodisiac. Viagra is for guys who for physical reasons are unable to have or maintain an erection firm enough for sexual intercourse.

It is perfectly possible for a guy to be horny as hell but not have an erection. In such a case, viagra and similar drugs may (but not certainly) enable him to have an erection.

At the same time, no matter how much viagra a guy takes, if he is not turned on then no erection will ensue.

So, no matter how sexy his woman is, if he can't get a stiffy then he will not be performing.

Conversely, for some, but not all, women, viagra can act similarly to an aphrodisiac because of the way a woman's body works. But, again, there's no way I'd ever give a woman a dose without her agreement. But it can certainly enhance her pleasure, if the drug is effective in her case.
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Re: How Angry Would You Be If A Woman Secretly Fed You Viagra?
« Reply #16 on: June 02, 2022, 05:46:39 PM »
As the title says, how would you feel if a woman (I assume) tried to secretly get  Viagra into you?

Set aside practical aspects and assuming that you discovered the subterfuge; would you be OK with her action?

Better if she said, “I’d like a really good night tonight, why not pop half of one of these to give you the edge?” - I could get along with that.

But sneaking it in? You’d have to know more about why and her motives. Does the blokes equipment not work?
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« Reply #17 on: June 02, 2022, 06:47:28 PM »
Wiz, I think you may misunderstand how this stuff works. Viagra is not an aphrodisiac. Viagra is for guys who for physical reasons are unable to have or maintain an erection firm enough for sexual intercourse.

It is perfectly possible for a guy to be horny as hell but not have an erection. In such a case, viagra and similar drugs may (but not certainly) enable him to have an erection.

At the same time, no matter how much viagra a guy takes, if he is not turned on then no erection will ensue.

So, no matter how sexy his woman is, if he can't get a stiffy then he will not be performing.

Conversely, for some, but not all, women, viagra can act similarly to an aphrodisiac because of the way a woman's body works. But, again, there's no way I'd ever give a woman a dose without her agreement. But it can certainly enhance her pleasure, if the drug is effective in her case.

Andrew in your previous post  you did nor mention physical problems and I replied accordinn to your comments.

You post gives a very different reason about the woman's effect on any man.....i"This is a woman who can wake up a statue merely by her presence." so not all women can have similar effect due to their different personality and the the pill maybe will not work as you describe.

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Re: How Angry Would You Be If A Woman Secretly Fed You Viagra?
« Reply #18 on: June 02, 2022, 07:27:15 PM »
This is a woman who can wake up a statue merely by her presence. They have been living together for a while so it ain't as though they are strangers. I kinda think she wanted 'something special' for her wedding night. To turn her man from Clark Kent into Superman.

Worth noting sculpture (statues) are generally hard.
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« Reply #19 on: June 02, 2022, 07:49:11 PM »
Please note my words avhdb. Words have meanings.
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« Reply #20 on: June 02, 2022, 07:53:03 PM »
Wiz, your lack of knowledge was indicated by your assumption that his equipment was working and that he lie back and think of England.

If your understanding was not faulty you could not have written those words because as a sensible man you'd understand the impossibility of him doing so if he couldn't muster an erection.
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« Reply #21 on: June 02, 2022, 08:02:43 PM »
Please note my words avhdb. Words have meanings.

Andrew, there are grave yards that have more humour than what you exhibit and comprehend.
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« Reply #22 on: June 02, 2022, 10:30:10 PM »
Trust.... is a biggie for me also.

From the medical side, Viagra and Cialis, as most of you know were developed after side effects from "new" cardiac drugs were noticed. Pleasant side effects :-) But as vaso-dilators you need to be aware that "opening the pipes" with the same blood volume can lead to not only the warned Headaches and Flushed appearance, but also very low blood pressure.
All Paramedics and Hospital ED's ask about Viagra/Cialis use before giving further vaso-dilating drugs to Chest Pain clients, and monitor their BP closely.

On the story side; I had a young man as a patient once who, while NOT having an erection problem, had wanted to impress a new woman with the "performance" of her life. He somehow convinced one of those dodgy tv erectile disfunction Dr's to let him try the injectable drugs into his penis that were previously used.
He was able to sneak off to the toilet and self inject via some sort of "EpiPen" type setup without her noticing. He then did indeed give her the sex of her life for 1 hour, multiple times in fact, but she noticed that he was not going down after each (after the 2nd now pretend) ejaculations. Got suspicious that this was not "natural", argued, and left.
After 2 hours he was in extreme pain with his still engorged and now discoloured member, and called for assistance.
It turned out the solution in this case was (after discussing the case with a Specialist) as simple as taking an Anti-Histamine.
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« Reply #23 on: June 03, 2022, 03:05:14 AM »
Please note my words avhdb. Words have meanings.

Andrew, there are grave yards that have more humour than what you exhibit and comprehend.

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« Reply #24 on: June 03, 2022, 03:19:04 AM »
Do you think Tex takes viagra when he's looking for looking for stories on Russian losses? (take it easy Tex its just fun )
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