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Helping a woman during the crisis
« on: April 06, 2020, 10:05:48 PM »
I personally don't like to send money to women.  Most of the time the women are dishonest.  There was one I dated in Moscow that asked me for money and then she was traveling to Turkey on holiday.  So its not out of hardship.  Although  must say I find Russian and Belarusian women more honest than those of other former satellite states without saying anything else.  I do however take a gift for the woman when I travel and one for the child if she is a mother.  But even though there are so many dishonest women on the dating sites, currently the world is in an economic crisis and many women are short on cash.  So what are you guys doing regarding all this? 

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Re: Helping a woman during the crisis
« Reply #1 on: April 06, 2020, 11:14:08 PM »
Why are you even asking? use some common sense. or just give them all your money and see what happens  :ROFL: :ROFL:

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Re: Helping a woman during the crisis
« Reply #2 on: April 06, 2020, 11:48:50 PM »
many women are short on cash.  So what are you guys doing regarding all this?


I take care of my family. If they aren't in my family, I don't take care of them.
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Re: Helping a woman during the crisis
« Reply #3 on: April 07, 2020, 02:29:02 AM »
many women are short on cash.  So what are you guys doing regarding all this?


I take care of my family. If they aren't in my family, I don't take care of them.

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Only fools send any money to any women!! But most importantly IF any women even mentions financial assistance and she is NOT your girlfriend or fiancee you are a total mug sending any form of money..you should dump her there and then.

Despite what many brainwashed men think the vast majority of women including SINGLE Russian women with a child have NO need for you to send her money! Despite many guys thinking that maybe a single mother in Russia is eating a carrot every day and the child is walking around in rags that is very far from the truth for the majority ..

And any guy thinking if they search for a single women with a child it will be easier to catch her and marry her.. you are also way off track.. maybe 15 years ago.. now? No it makes little difference..sending $50.00 to help her out will not help , she probably spends that on a night out..

And lastly and most important any genuine women will never ask any man for money , NEVER EVER!

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Re: Helping a woman during the crisis
« Reply #4 on: April 07, 2020, 06:45:22 AM »
I wouldn't send any money for generic costs that she would incurr without dating.

- Fix a broken appliance
- Medical bills
- Go out shopping/clubbing.

But I would for specific things she would not have to pay if she wasn't dating.

- Internet costs (although now cheap, back when I was dating it was a small fortune in Crimea).
- English classes.
- etc.
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Re: Helping a woman during the crisis
« Reply #5 on: April 08, 2020, 11:39:43 AM »
I personally don't like to send money to women.  Most of the time the women are dishonest.
Seems you try to choose so much women for date that you cant digest. :nod:

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Re: Helping a woman during the crisis
« Reply #6 on: April 08, 2020, 11:40:37 AM »
I personally don't like to send money to women.  Most of the time the women are dishonest.
Seems you try to choose so much women for date that cant digest. :nod:

One might think that given his posting history.
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Re: Helping a woman during the crisis
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Re: Helping a woman during the crisis
« Reply #8 on: May 01, 2020, 12:02:45 PM »
many women are short on cash.  So what are you guys doing regarding all this?


I take care of my family. If they aren't in my family, I don't take care of them.
I have a relative who constantly is asking for money.  Has two kids and divorced her spouse with no child support.  Kept asking for help all of the time, the other relatives finally gave up on her. :Zzzzsleep: :dh:

There are many women in third world countries that need help.  Sorry I am not the Salvation Army nor a 501(c)(3) organization.   :biggrin:
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Re: Helping a woman during the crisis
« Reply #9 on: May 01, 2020, 01:46:42 PM »
My wife wanted some new louis Vuitton boots this week.. I said noooo we got a crisis sign up to a dating site (Not ours) and plead poverty see if some geezer will send you some cash.. tell him you got a crisis.. :laugh:
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Re: Helping a woman during the crisis
« Reply #10 on: May 01, 2020, 09:56:15 PM »
There are legitimate women that have lost their jobs due to the virus

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Re: Helping a woman during the crisis
« Reply #11 on: May 01, 2020, 11:23:40 PM »
There are legitimate women that have lost their jobs due to the virus

Plenty of those in America too.
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Re: Helping a woman during the crisis
« Reply #12 on: May 02, 2020, 12:03:14 AM »
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Re: Helping a woman during the crisis
« Reply #13 on: May 02, 2020, 02:22:06 AM »
There are legitimate women that have lost their jobs due to the virus

But most are getting paid.. and most have some savings even if its just a few $$$ None need any help from any foreigners and the ones that do need foreigners to send them money are just scammers..

The ones that have no money and are genuine would never ask a foreigner for money it would be disrespectful.. what you do not get is money or sending money is not the way to get any brownie points with any women..and certainly will not buy you love..

And how much money do you think you can send to help exactly ? Wife has a few friends with mortgages in Moscow not a huge amount about 30,000 roubles a month so some of them got money from the parents to help them out for 3 months ..and hopefully they can get a 3 month holiday on payments soon..

 

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