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Offline martincop

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8 days in Kiev and 4 ladies to see
« on: February 23, 2020, 09:52:16 PM »
How would you maneuver this and not feel like such a cad.

Two days for each one? And since I'm flying all this way for only 2 days for each one - I'm sure they'll figure out there are others.

I'm probably more serious with two of them but I'm curious how the other two may unfold when spending time with them.  Lady #1 would be a 9 out of 10 on interest. Lady #2 8 out of 10. Lady's 3 and 4 - about 6 on interest. Nothing deep there, just casual conversation and mutual interest.

Kind of thinking just see two of them between my time there.

Would love to hear how some of you have delicately ended the trip after 2-3 days when you're up to see the next lady.

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Re: 8 days in Kiev and 4 ladies to see
« Reply #1 on: February 23, 2020, 10:30:04 PM »
How would you maneuver this and not feel like such a cad.


If the lady brings up the question if you're seeing someone else, remind them that you're visiting them just as a friend and maybe more will come from it. Hopefully you didn't talk about marriage prior to visiting.

Would love to hear how some of you have delicately ended the trip after 2-3 days when you're up to see the next lady.


If you don't like the girl after one or more dates, thank her for meeting with you and say need to find someone more compatible for your life. Nothing wrong with being honest. A lot of girls over there will just stop talking to you if they feel you're not the one. Don't be afraid of dumping a woman or getting dumped. It's a normal part of dating and relationships.

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Re: 8 days in Kiev and 4 ladies to see
« Reply #2 on: February 24, 2020, 03:09:10 AM »
How would you maneuver this and not feel like such a cad.

You're a cad and a fool and proof as to why 'Visit Many' is akin to speed dating ;)


Two days for each one? And since I'm flying all this way for only 2 days for each one - I'm sure they'll figure out there are others.

Yup - they will and they will ask you - and honesty will lose you a good 'un in all likelihood ...  I'e worn the t-shit - so I've been that fool, too

I'm probably more serious with two of them but I'm curious how the other two may unfold when spending time with them.  Lady #1 would be a 9 out of 10 on interest. Lady #2 8 out of 10. Lady's 3 and 4 - about 6 on interest. Nothing deep there, just casual conversation and mutual interest.

Hopefully you've lined up meetings with 1 and 2 first ...  will you turn you phone off when with the ladies ? One of them WILL ring / try to make contact ..


Kind of thinking just see two of them between my time there.

Would love to hear how some of you have delicately ended the trip after 2-3 days when you're up to see the next lady.

You can lie and say you're leaving and try to persuade her not to escort you to security as departures ..

You've started off lying - probably - and you'll only end up losing all of them and further enhancing w.guys reputations

Your head will be a mess - meeting so many nice ladies - you will not have head space to chose the best one and you'll be checking the clock and have sweaty palms  :chuckle:


That's the down side ...

You'll see the positives, too and good luck with the balancing act !





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Re: 8 days in Kiev and 4 ladies to see
« Reply #3 on: June 29, 2020, 07:05:22 PM »
How would you maneuver this and not feel like such a cad.

Hey Martin, just curious. Did you make to to Kyiv or got held off by Corna-closures?


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Re: 8 days in Kiev and 4 ladies to see
« Reply #4 on: June 30, 2020, 05:01:49 PM »
I was lucky I didn't get stuck out there.  I decided to wait it out but now it seems like it may be a long wait. Maybe spring of 2021 the way things are looking.

Any plans?


How would you maneuver this and not feel like such a cad.

Hey Martin, just curious. Did you make to to Kyiv or got held off by Corna-closures?


 

 

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