The World's #1 Russian, Ukrainian & Eastern European Discussion & Information Forum - RUA!

This Is the Premier Discussion Forum on the Net for Information and Discussion about Russia, Ukraine, Eastern Europe and the Former Soviet Union. Discuss Culture, Politics, Travelling, Language, International Relationships and More. Chat with Travellers, Locals, Residents and Expats. Ask and Answer Questions about Travel, Culture, Relationships, Applying for Visas, Translators, Interpreters, and More. Give Advice, Read Trip Reports, Share Experiences and Make Friends.

Author Topic: Trip report - Mila  (Read 1571 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

Online Steveboy

  • Commercial Member
  • Member
  • *
  • Posts: 4967
  • Country: ru
  • Gender: Male
  • Status: In The Business
  • Trips: Resident
Re: Trip report - Mila
« Reply #25 on: February 12, 2020, 05:33:04 AM »
You appear happy enough so tell me how its done. I dont use this place much compared to others

It is done as easy as 1-2-3 !!!

And takes 2/3 years on average..

Your obviously doing every possible thing wrong.. (Of course if you happen to look like the hunch back of Notre dame even in his case he would of found someone within 13 years)

From lots of experience any guy still hanging about on dating sites/tours or anything else will never ever find anyone.. you have gone past the point of ever succeeding that is for sure!! Best give up..

And also from lots of experience 99.9% of guys still searching after 10 years it always comes down to the same things..

1. Looking for a girl 30/40 years younger than them selves who must be a super model or at least very close to it..


So from what you have said about yourself

Late 40's  really = late 60's

Looking for a girl 38/early 40's  = girl 28/30

It is the only possible reason you can still be here..

There are two other smaller reasons don't take it personally if they apply to you, Im just saying and being truthful..

1. You look like the hunch back of Notre dame

2. Your just a complete idiot that no women wants in your own country let alone from Eastern Europe..

It is as simple as that..


I support no government anywhere, ever, never. No institution, No religion!!

Offline andrewfi

  • Supporting Member
  • Member
  • *
  • Posts: 19321
  • Country: gb
  • Gender: Male
    • Articles About Almost Anything!
Re: Trip report - Mila
« Reply #26 on: February 12, 2020, 06:01:11 AM »
While I might not phrase it as Steve did, the underlying truth is this: if you can't find a woman in your own country its because your 'offer' is not strong enough.

If your offer in your own country isn't strong enough then, outside of the truly desperate (in which case you'd have been sorted years ago) it certainly will not be good enough for a woman from pretty much any country.

If you are importing a wife then you are going to need an even stronger offer in order to provide her with the security and reassurance that she is going to need in order to justify leaving everything she has to be with one bloke in a new country.

To look at it in a slightly more prosaic manner: If a person were to be persuaded by an employer to leave their home country to live and work in some other country, then the employer would (unless the employee were truly desperate to move) be asking for a higher wage to compensate for the risks, inconvenience and extra costs involved. It'd be a mug who'd make such a move without making sure that the package compensated for the overseas posting.

It is the same for women moving to another country to marry some foreign bloke.
...everything ends always well; if it’s still bad, then it’s not the end!

Offline 2tallbill

  • Member
  • *
  • Posts: 14914
  • Country: us
  • Gender: Male
  • Spouses Country: Russia
  • Status: Married
  • Trips: 10-20
Re: Trip report - Mila
« Reply #27 on: February 12, 2020, 07:18:45 AM »
You appear happy enough so tell me how its done. I dont use this place much compared to others

It sounds like you've gotten off on the wrong foot.

There is a book which you can find here
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0955687403/?tag=r0be2e-20

It was written a few years back, the agency section is a little outdated.
It's been years since I was in the hunt so my knowledge on the best
places to find girls is outdated as well.

I put together a how to thread here. (It's a bit out dated as well)
http://ruadventures.com/forum/index.php/topic,4390.msg56897/highlight,rw+fever.html#msg56897

You've been at this for while, so I would recommend that you do
some research and figure out where you've gotten off in the wrong
direction. I've posted some threads below that will get you started.

As you do your research you will have questions, come back here
to this thread and ask them. When you ask questions you will get
all sorts of advice, some of it will be good and some of it will be
more dubious.

Your job is to sift through the advice that best fits you, your
personality, goals and situation. Whatever you do don't lose your
temper. It's free advice and worth exactly what you are paying for it.


Some links

Here is my trip report to Odessa (my first trip)
http://ruadventures.com/forum/index.php?topic=16057.0

Here is my trip report to St Pete (my fifth trip)
http://ruadventures.com/forum/index.php?topic=467.0

My trip report to Dnepropetrovsk (my sixth trip)
http://ruadventures.com/forum/index.php?topic=5560.0

My trip report to Tblisi Georgia (my seventh trip)
http://ruadventures.com/forum/index.php?topic=14013.0

My trip to meet a girl who had a tourist visa
http://ruadventures.com/forum/index.php?topic=18168.0

My trip report Rushing around Russia
(my eighth, ninth, tenth, eleventh and her two trips to visit me)
http://ruadventures.com/forum/index.php?topic=18537.msg302755
FSUW are not for entry level daters. FSUW don't do vague FSUW like a man of action so be a man of action  If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane. There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.
Get an apartment not a hotel. DON'T recycle girls


Offline andrew99

  • Member
  • Posts: 204
  • Country: au
  • Gender: Male
  • Trips: 1-5
Re: Trip report - Mila
« Reply #28 on: February 12, 2020, 10:42:37 AM »
You appear happy enough so tell me how its done. I dont use this place much compared to others

It sounds like you've gotten off on the wrong foot.

There is a book which you can find here
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0955687403/?tag=r0be2e-20

It was written a few years back, the agency section is a little outdated.
It's been years since I was in the hunt so my knowledge on the best
places to find girls is outdated as well.

I put together a how to thread here. (It's a bit out dated as well)
http://ruadventures.com/forum/index.php/topic,4390.msg56897/highlight,rw+fever.html#msg56897

You've been at this for while, so I would recommend that you do
some research and figure out where you've gotten off in the wrong
direction. I've posted some threads below that will get you started.

As you do your research you will have questions, come back here
to this thread and ask them. When you ask questions you will get
all sorts of advice, some of it will be good and some of it will be
more dubious.

Your job is to sift through the advice that best fits you, your
personality, goals and situation. Whatever you do don't lose your
temper. It's free advice and worth exactly what you are paying for it.


Some links

Here is my trip report to Odessa (my first trip)
http://ruadventures.com/forum/index.php?topic=16057.0

Here is my trip report to St Pete (my fifth trip)
http://ruadventures.com/forum/index.php?topic=467.0

My trip report to Dnepropetrovsk (my sixth trip)
http://ruadventures.com/forum/index.php?topic=5560.0

My trip report to Tblisi Georgia (my seventh trip)
http://ruadventures.com/forum/index.php?topic=14013.0

My trip to meet a girl who had a tourist visa
http://ruadventures.com/forum/index.php?topic=18168.0

My trip report Rushing around Russia
(my eighth, ninth, tenth, eleventh and her two trips to visit me)
http://ruadventures.com/forum/index.php?topic=18537.msg302755

Thanks for that. Just get some unfriendly replies sometimes.

Offline 2tallbill

  • Member
  • *
  • Posts: 14914
  • Country: us
  • Gender: Male
  • Spouses Country: Russia
  • Status: Married
  • Trips: 10-20
Re: Trip report - Mila
« Reply #29 on: March 22, 2020, 10:32:55 AM »
Thanks for that. Just get some unfriendly replies sometimes.

Screw em! To find an excellent woman you have to sift through a lot of
so-so women. To get good advice (for free) you have to sift through a lot
of dubious crap as well.

Use the best stuff, ignore the rest.
FSUW are not for entry level daters. FSUW don't do vague FSUW like a man of action so be a man of action  If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane. There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.
Get an apartment not a hotel. DON'T recycle girls

Offline Twinky

  • Member
  • Posts: 53
  • Country: ru
  • Gender: Female
  • Trips: Resident
Re: Trip report - Mila
« Reply #30 on: March 24, 2020, 12:19:07 PM »

Use the best stuff, ignore the rest.

Awful! All wants the best stuff :king:, but do not know what is the best :nod: so it all, as usual, go to ignore  :'( :popcorn:

Offline 2tallbill

  • Member
  • *
  • Posts: 14914
  • Country: us
  • Gender: Male
  • Spouses Country: Russia
  • Status: Married
  • Trips: 10-20
Trip report - Mila
« Reply #31 on: March 24, 2020, 02:05:43 PM »

Use the best stuff, ignore the rest.

Awful! All wants the best stuff :king:, but do not know what is the best :nod: so it all, as usual, go to ignore  :'( :popcorn:

It's true that some men don't know the difference from good advice
from bad advice. In my opinion those men won't be very successful
pursuing a woman from the FSU (Former Soviet Union).

In order to find a good girl you must be able to tell which ones are good 
Otherwise, idiots will just pick whichever is the hottest OR the first to take
off her knickers.

FSUW are not for entry level daters. FSUW don't do vague FSUW like a man of action so be a man of action  If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane. There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.
Get an apartment not a hotel. DON'T recycle girls


 

 

Registration