Two good people make good things happen.

[Steveboy]

Have you never had a date or a girlfriend where you do all the leg work and go above and beyond, yet still cant win their love? A woman isn't a job, that you just need to put hours into.

A marriage isn't a date. A wife isn't a girlfriend. Love was earned and established before marriage. Maintaining it and making it grow takes work. Of course many men pursuing international women marry them before love is established.

The heart wants what the heart wants and I'm starting to wonder if this is something you're scared of. Will your wife be the same person in 20 years?

Some people know my history of dating. I will always be surrounded by quality women or at a minimum, beautiful women. Women in my life, including my wife, are free leave me if they wish. I don't control them but I can control myself and I will always be happy with as much female attention as I want.

So your the Hugh Hefner of the FSU women dating niche? Is that what your saying?

[andrewfi]

No, what he is really saying is that he went through years of rejection. To his credit he was as persistent as a puppy that humps your leg and eventually found a woman with a young daughter she needed to get fixed up. The rest is history.

[rosco]

Have you never had a date or a girlfriend where you do all the leg work and go above and beyond, yet still cant win their love? A woman isn't a job, that you just need to put hours into.

A marriage isn't a date. A wife isn't a girlfriend. Love was earned and established before marriage. Maintaining it and making it grow takes work. Of course many men pursuing international women marry them before love is established.

The heart wants what the heart wants and I'm starting to wonder if this is something you're scared of. Will your wife be the same person in 20 years?

Some people know my history of dating. I will always be surrounded by quality women or at a minimum, beautiful women. Women in my life, including my wife, are free leave me if they wish. I don't control them but I can control myself and I will always be happy with as much female attention as I want.

Have you heard that some people live out 'married' lives without actually being married? Do you need to have a socially/ritually/legally recognised union before Billy can accept love existing? Is this another Billyism?

Anyway, you have an answer for everything and choose to ignore (possibly deliberately) the facts of the discussion. This is pointless Billy.

[BillyB]

Have you heard that some people live out 'married' lives without actually being married? Do you need to have a socially/ritually/legally recognised union before Billy can accept love existing? Is this another Billyism?

Anyway, you have an answer for everything and choose to ignore (possibly deliberately) the facts of the discussion. This is pointless Billy.

Your first post talks about marriage and divorce and now you talk about not being married. Later we talk about wives and you bring in girlfriends. Pick one category and stick with it.

Like the title says, "Two good people make good things happen". If you think two good people make bad things happen, you're not making a very good case.

[msmoby]

Some people know my history of dating. I will always be surrounded by quality women or at a minimum, beautiful women. Women in my life, including my wife, are free leave me if they wish. I don't control them but I can control myself and I will always be happy with as much female attention as I want.

This is total CRAP.. Silly BillyB speaks of love and if his wife leaves him- 'there'll be another along' - ..WHO can truly love someone and believe him ? 

[Steveboy]

No, what he is really saying is that he went through years of rejection. To his credit he was as persistent as a puppy that humps your leg and eventually found a woman with a young daughter she needed to get fixed up. The rest is history.

I bet she has to leave the keys and cards on the table after an argument.. 

[rosco]

Have you heard that some people live out 'married' lives without actually being married? Do you need to have a socially/ritually/legally recognised union before Billy can accept love existing? Is this another Billyism?

Anyway, you have an answer for everything and choose to ignore (possibly deliberately) the facts of the discussion. This is pointless Billy.

Your first post talks about marriage and divorce and now you talk about not being married. Later we talk about wives and you bring in girlfriends. Pick one category and stick with it.

Like the title says, "Two good people make good things happen". If you think two good people make bad things happen, you're not making a very good case.

I make no apology for you being confused and it only confirms what sort of bloke, I had you pegged for.

I’m at a loss as to how we’re supposed to converse, when you can’t get out of first gear.

[msmoby]

No, what he is really saying is that he went through years of rejection. To his credit he was as persistent as a puppy that humps your leg and eventually found a woman with a young daughter she needed to get fixed up. The rest is history.

Once again, our perennially single 'expert' in relationships is passing comment on those of others and cannot see how amusing / ironic it is ...

[Contrarian]

No, what he is really saying is that he went through years of rejection. To his credit he was as persistent as a puppy that humps your leg and eventually found a woman with a young daughter she needed to get fixed up. The rest is history.

What? So he found a middle aged woman but dated her young daughter instead?

  

[BillyB]

I make no apology for you being confused and it only confirms what sort of bloke, I had you pegged for.

I’m at a loss as to how we’re supposed to converse, when you can’t get out of first gear.

I'll make it simple for you. Ask your wife if divorce is bad or good. She will educate you that divorce is bad.

So when you say two good people can divorce, you are saying two good people can do bad things. That is wrong.

The divorce couple you say had 23 years of marriage are two good people although you don't know anything about their marriage.

Divorce isn't good but divorce may be the best thing for two people who let their marriage deteriorate and/or refuse to get along.

[msmoby]

I'll make it simple for you. Ask your wife if divorce is bad or good. She will educate you that divorce is bad.

So when you say two good people can divorce, you are saying two good people can do bad things. That is wrong.

The divorce couple you say had 23 years of marriage are two good people although you don't know anything about their marriage.

Divorce isn't good but divorce may be the best thing for two people who let their marriage deteriorate and/or refuse to get along.

Silly, Silly, BillyB

Don't forget to tell Rosco that IF / When your wife leaves you - that - like a bus - other Wife be be along ... that you won't be 'bovvered'

Your own 'advice' conflicts... 

One minute you're suggesting folks should 'fight' to save a marriage and the next you're suggesting you'll shrug your shoulders , sigh and say, "NEXT" ...

[Contrarian]

I make no apology for you being confused and it only confirms what sort of bloke, I had you pegged for.

I’m at a loss as to how we’re supposed to converse, when you can’t get out of first gear.

I'll make it simple for you. Ask your wife if divorce is bad or good. She will educate you that divorce is bad.

So when you say two good people can divorce, you are saying two good people can do bad things. That is wrong.

The divorce couple you say had 23 years of marriage are two good people although you don't know anything about their marriage.

Divorce isn't good but divorce may be the best thing for two people who let their marriage deteriorate and/or refuse to get along.

I have a simple prediction here: Billy’s marriage won’t last 23 years.

[rosco]

So when you say two good people can divorce, you are saying two good people can do bad things. That is wrong.

Christ almighty.......what's wrong with you Billy? I think even my dog understands that, which you cannot.

You've got the mind of a child. This interviews over.

 

[Steveboy]

I make no apology for you being confused and it only confirms what sort of bloke, I had you pegged for.

I’m at a loss as to how we’re supposed to converse, when you can’t get out of first gear.

I'll make it simple for you. Ask your wife if divorce is bad or good. She will educate you that divorce is bad.

So when you say two good people can divorce, you are saying two good people can do bad things. That is wrong.

The divorce couple you say had 23 years of marriage are two good people although you don't know anything about their marriage.

Divorce isn't good but divorce may be the best thing for two people who let their marriage deteriorate and/or refuse to get along.

or refuse to get along.. Is it possible to explain what this means exactly?

[AvHdB]

I bet she has to leave the keys and cards on the table after an argument.. 

We will hope all weapons have trigger locks attached.    

[BillyB]

or refuse to get along.. Is it possible to explain what this means exactly?

Refusing to get along means refusing to get along. One person wants to work on the marriage and the other doesn't. Maybe both people don't care about working on the marriage.

Christ almighty.......what's wrong with you Billy? I think even my dog understands that, which you cannot.

You've got the mind of a child. This interviews over.

 

You're sounding like Moby. Disagree on everything. Get all emotional. Insult. Can anybody here debate like a mature person or does many shout and pout when they don't like what their hearing?

[Steveboy]

or refuse to get along.. Is it possible to explain what this means exactly?

Refusing to get along means refusing to get along. One person wants to work on the marriage and the other doesn't. Maybe both people don't care about working on the marriage.

Christ almighty.......what's wrong with you Billy? I think even my dog understands that, which you cannot.

You've got the mind of a child. This interviews over.

 

You're sounding like Moby. Disagree on everything. Get all emotional. Insult. Can anybody here debate like a mature person or does many shout and pout when they don't like what their hearing?

or refuse to get along  But maybe your wife Doesn't want to get on.. maybe she's sick and tired of an ass hole husband..you think she should still try to get along? Or maybe sent to a therapist to be brainwashed into thinking she MUST get along..

[Contrarian]

or refuse to get along.. Is it possible to explain what this means exactly?

Refusing to get along means refusing to get along. One person wants to work on the marriage and the other doesn't. Maybe both people don't care about working on the marriage.

Christ almighty.......what's wrong with you Billy? I think even my dog understands that, which you cannot.

You've got the mind of a child. This interviews over.

 

You're sounding like Moby. Disagree on everything. Get all emotional. Insult. Can anybody here debate like a mature person or does many shout and pout when they don't like what their hearing?

or refuse to get along  But maybe your wife Doesn't want to get on.. maybe she's sick and tired of an ass hole husband..you think she should still try to get along? Or maybe sent to a therapist to be brainwashed into thinking she MUST get along..

She’ll get along all right. She’ll find some young stud closer to her age with a real sword not some dufus who’s never taken fencing holding something so heavy that by the time he got it in position his opponent would have sliced him to pieces. 

[Steveboy]

or refuse to get along.. Is it possible to explain what this means exactly?

Refusing to get along means refusing to get along. One person wants to work on the marriage and the other doesn't. Maybe both people don't care about working on the marriage.

Christ almighty.......what's wrong with you Billy? I think even my dog understands that, which you cannot.

You've got the mind of a child. This interviews over.

 

You're sounding like Moby. Disagree on everything. Get all emotional. Insult. Can anybody here debate like a mature person or does many shout and pout when they don't like what their hearing?

or refuse to get along  But maybe your wife Doesn't want to get on.. maybe she's sick and tired of an ass hole husband..you think she should still try to get along? Or maybe sent to a therapist to be brainwashed into thinking she MUST get along..

She’ll get along all right. She’ll find some young stud closer to her age with a real sword not some dufus who’s never taken fencing holding something so heavy that by the time he got it in position his opponent would have sliced him to pieces. 

 

[AvHdB]

Just a guess, but I suspect BillyB can keep his wife happy, both vertically and horizontally.

[Steveboy]

Just a guess, but I suspect BillyB can keep his wife happy, both vertically and horizontally.

Probably got her tied up down in the basement..

[AvHdB]

This is becoming tasteless.

[Mr strange]

Sorry agree but the whole quality and value is going in that direction.

[Chickenbrah]

or refuse to get along.. Is it possible to explain what this means exactly?

Refusing to get along means refusing to get along. One person wants to work on the marriage and the other doesn't. Maybe both people don't care about working on the marriage.

Christ almighty.......what's wrong with you Billy? I think even my dog understands that, which you cannot.

You've got the mind of a child. This interviews over.

 

You're sounding like Moby. Disagree on everything. Get all emotional. Insult. Can anybody here debate like a mature person or does many shout and pout when they don't like what their hearing?

or refuse to get along  But maybe your wife Doesn't want to get on.. maybe she's sick and tired of an ass hole husband..you think she should still try to get along? Or maybe sent to a therapist to be brainwashed into thinking she MUST get along..

She’ll get along all right. She’ll find some young stud closer to her age with a real sword not some dufus who’s never taken fencing holding something so heavy that by the time he got it in position his opponent would have sliced him to pieces. 

This in a nutshell....... Billy's wife is in her young 20's, and tells him she does not like sex, but does it as it is her duty as a wife. As a guy who dates women her age in FSU and the west (multiple countries), LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL at her response. Obviously something is very wrong, she clearly is not attracted to the fellow. Once she is established in life, billy will be on the hunt for a new FSU woman.

[AvHdB]

While we may have opinions and thoughts of partners and relationships as a sort of unwritten 'rule' of RUA we do not go there.