Supporting Your Dream Women

[NS1]

Do I get this right, people are now saying because
he helps support his Girl, she's a prostitute?
This is ok on this forum now?

What someone chooses to do is great conversation, but really
no one else's business. Because someone does it different than you,
whats the problem?

[msmoby]

I think 'bint' is Arabic for 'girl' and was later absorbed into English originally as a word for 'girlfriend' I think from British Army in the Middle East.


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It's origins aren't in question - it's current usage -is derogatory  - if one cares to check.

It's a bit like the word '*snip*' ... it's meaning is now also derogatory ..

I think most members would agree that insulting member's long term partners is 'off-limits'

[leslied]

MODERATOR COMMENT

Gentlemen,

Insulting members long term partners is off limits.  Period.

This subject can be discussed without referring to individuals.  Please do so.

[msmoby]

 If you look at the funding SC receives versus what you might perceive as the sole the 'benefit' I derive - she is getting a lousy hourly rate..

I like the way you say "Funding" Sound more and more like a business agreement.

It's usage is paying 'homage' to a well known expert on the use of English on here 

[Steveboy]

Do I get this right, people are now saying because
he helps support his Girl, she's a prostitute?
This is ok on this forum now?

What someone chooses to do is great conversation, but really
no one else's business. Because someone does it different than you,
whats the problem?

No body said any particular person was a prostitute? BUT there are thousands of women in the FSU who are NOT looking for a partner for marriage they are just searching for a "Sponsor" And there are many many women who even write in their bio "Searching a sponsor"  which also means pay me money, take me shopping, pay my bills and in return I will give you company and sex if you come to visit me. And of course thats their business if they wish to do that, I don't have a problem with women doing that!

And there are thousands of guys who are happy to "Sponsor" women on this understanding.

So YES if you are sponsoring a women in these circumstances you are technically just paying for sex and company and nothing more.

I would say supporting your women is different to Sponsoring your women..

[msmoby]

No body said any particular person was a prostitute?

BUT there are thousands of women in the FSU who are NOT looking for a partner for marriage they are just searching for a "Sponsor" And there are many many women who even write in their bio "Searching a sponsor"  which also means pay me money, take me shopping, pay my bills and in return I will give you company and sex if you come to visit me. And of course thats their business if they wish to do that, I don't have a problem with women doing that!

And there are thousands of guys who are happy to "Sponsor" women on this understanding.

Utter twaddle... You'll know very well that the situation of being sponsored is 'transient' and being married ultimately offers more long-term security.

I would say supporting your women is different to Sponsoring your women..

I would say I was supporting my intended, but as Manny points out - in Russia I'd be regarded as her 'sponsor'.. the difference in meaning - lost in translation  - should not be lost on you.

[msmoby]

Just looked at the 'advertising link to this thread..


''Why do some men send FSU women regular money when
they managed to live well enough before they knew them?
One man here pays his girlfriend a "salary". Find out why....''

I wonder why you might want to mislead visitors 

[andrewfi]

I think 'bint' is Arabic for 'girl' and was later absorbed into English originally as a word for 'girlfriend' I think from British Army in the Middle East.


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Where I come from 'bint' is generic for a girl. It usually applies to young women not old trout.

It seems to me that we have people here happy, willing, enthusiastic to feel 'slight' on behalf of others.
Bear in mind that I know my native language well enough to know how and when to use words. If I wanted to call somebody a harlot, trull, or whore, for example, then I'd do so. If I wanted to refer to someone as a slapper, hussy or tramp then I'd do so. In pretty much all those cases a negative emotional weight would be attached to those words.

Of course, in the case above where I used 'bint' it did not even refer to any particular person. It couldn't have been referring to moby's target because, well, she's waaaay too old to be a bint. So, moby, if YOU want to think I was referring to the current target of your affections then you can understand it as a compliment because from what we can see she'd be better described as a well preserved woman of middle years; a merry widow perhaps, but too old to be a milf and you are too old for her to be a cougar.

[Manny]

Just looked at the 'advertising link to this thread..


''Why do some men send FSU women regular money when
they managed to live well enough before they knew them?
One man here pays his girlfriend a "salary". Find out why....''

I wonder why you might want to mislead visitors 

It is an interesting subject. Do you disagree with the wording?

[NS1]

Do I get this right, people are now saying because
he helps support his Girl, she's a prostitute?
This is ok on this forum now?

What someone chooses to do is great conversation, but really
no one else's business. Because someone does it different than you,
whats the problem?

No body said any particular person was a prostitute? BUT there are thousands of women in the FSU who are NOT looking for a partner for marriage they are just searching for a "Sponsor" And there are many many women who even write in their bio "Searching a sponsor"  which also means pay me money, take me shopping, pay my bills and in return I will give you company and sex if you come to visit me. And of course thats their business if they wish to do that, I don't have a problem with women doing that!

And there are thousands of guys who are happy to "Sponsor" women on this understanding.

So YES if you are sponsoring a women in these circumstances you are technically just paying for sex and company and nothing more.

I would say supporting your women is different to Sponsoring your women..

Steve, I fully understand the difference between the two different terms.
But when I member has a long time girlfriend and is giving her money,
unless he states otherwise, I think it is fair we presume he is supporting,
not sponsoring. To even infer anything different is not needed here.
Even if you don't like someone, leave his women out of it.
Even Manny knows this, I think.

[msmoby]

Where I come from 'bint' is generic for a girl. It usually applies to young women not old trout.

 when in a hole, stop digging andrewfi - so now you are 'paying' SC a back handed compliment

As so often with your insults- when you are called - you try to tell us the word meant something else 

It seems to me that we have people here happy, willing, enthusiastic to feel 'slight' on behalf of others.

 

Bear in mind that I know my native language well enough to know how and when to use words.

Kindly look up the meaning for 'bint' - if you continue in your stance, you demonstrate a serious LACK of knowledge and are seriously out of touch 

[msmoby]

Just looked at the 'advertising link to this thread..


''Why do some men send FSU women regular money when
they managed to live well enough before they knew them?
One man here pays his girlfriend a "salary". Find out why....''

I wonder why you might want to mislead visitors 

It is an interesting subject. Do you disagree with the wording?

Once you get the hang of English, you'd recognise the words that adequately described our diverged opinion 

[Steveboy]

Do I get this right, people are now saying because
he helps support his Girl, she's a prostitute?
This is ok on this forum now?

What someone chooses to do is great conversation, but really
no one else's business. Because someone does it different than you,
whats the problem?

No body said any particular person was a prostitute? BUT there are thousands of women in the FSU who are NOT looking for a partner for marriage they are just searching for a "Sponsor" And there are many many women who even write in their bio "Searching a sponsor"  which also means pay me money, take me shopping, pay my bills and in return I will give you company and sex if you come to visit me. And of course thats their business if they wish to do that, I don't have a problem with women doing that!

And there are thousands of guys who are happy to "Sponsor" women on this understanding.

So YES if you are sponsoring a women in these circumstances you are technically just paying for sex and company and nothing more.

I would say supporting your women is different to Sponsoring your women..

Steve, I fully understand the difference between the two different terms.
But when I member has a long time girlfriend and is giving her money,
unless he states otherwise, I think it is fair we presume he is supporting,
not sponsoring. To even infer anything different is not needed here.
Even if you don't like someone, leave his women out of it.
Even Manny knows this, I think.

Who said any thing about I don't like someone??

Im just pointing out the difference between Sponsoring and Supporting and so I should, its what the forum is for isn't it?
As I said there are plenty of women just wanting a sponsor and nothing more, and plenty of guys who misunderstand the meaning but hope if they keep sending her money one day she will come to love him!

Its for those guys some information that may help them:)

[Anteros]

Don't hold back!  Love them all the way!  :-)

[Markje]

Kindly look up the meaning for 'bint' - if you continue in your stance, you demonstrate a serious LACK of knowledge and are seriously out of touch 

Bint: Slang for woman, comparable with nigger to black people.

Right, did that for Andrewfi but it doesn't invalidate his words.

[andrewfi]

Kindly look up the meaning for 'bint' - if you continue in your stance, you demonstrate a serious LACK of knowledge and are seriously out of touch 

Bint: Slang for woman, comparable with nigger to black people.

Right, did that for Andrewfi but it doesn't invalidate his words.

Maybe in Belgian but not in English.
Please remember,  for those who do not understand. Words have many meanings and shades. Those who know what words are and how to use them tend to be aware of the shade they choose.  Moreover,  taking offensive is a positive choice on the part of the reader,  or listener. The writer can not be responsible for the shortcomings of his audience.

Moby is trolling,  once again, by dishonestly claiming to feel offence on behalf of a group of people unidentified and unknown. Some of you are,  as often is the case,  falling for his dishonesty - that is your choice and not under this writer's control.

[leslied]

Bint: Slang for woman, comparable with nigger to black people.

Your knowledge of English slang is deficient. The analogous term for nigger would be slag.

[Markje]

Bint: Slang for woman, comparable with nigger to black people.

Your knowledge of English slang is deficient. The analogous term for nigger would be slag.

the knowledge of the thesaurus I used is then severely lacking, as I myself never heard of the term bint.

[Ste]

Bint: Slang for woman, comparable with nigger to black people.

Your knowledge of English slang is deficient. The analogous term for nigger would be slag.

the knowledge of the thesaurus I used is then severely lacking, as I myself never heard of the term bint.

"If I went round, saying I was an Emperor just because some moistened bint lobbed a scimitar at me they'd put me away!"

Monty Python's Holy Grail.

"Supreme executive power derives from a mandate from the masses not some farcical aquatic ceremony"

Indeed, "Mandate from the Masses" was the name of my first band, back in 1976....

[andrewfi]

If you used a thesaurus with but one synonym then the thesaurus was sadly lacking. Notwithstanding the inaccuracy of the information presented.

[Steveboy]

Bint: Slang for woman, comparable with nigger to black people.

Your knowledge of English slang is deficient. The analogous term for nigger would be slag.

Slag is a commonly used word in the UK but it usually goes something like "You old slaaaaaaaaaaag" 

[NS1]

I have never heard the word bint.

[Justmd]

After a few visits with my now wife and seeing how she struggled just to make ends meet with her young son (yes she was fully employed) I decided to send her money each month which she at first refused...a few years later and now raising our 6 month old baby and her son from Kazakhstan, all is very good.

Steveboy...Prostitute? Sponsoring? what the hell is wrong with you man.

[Justmd]

Kindly look up the meaning for 'bint' - if you continue in your stance, you demonstrate a serious LACK of knowledge and are seriously out of touch 

Bint: Slang for woman, comparable with nigger to black people.

Right, did that for Andrewfi but it doesn't invalidate his words.

Maybe in Belgian but not in English.
Please remember,  for those who do not understand. Words have many meanings and shades. Those who know what words are and how to use them tend to be aware of the shade they choose.  Moreover,  taking offensive is a positive choice on the part of the reader,  or listener. The writer can not be responsible for the shortcomings of his audience.

Moby is trolling,  once again, by dishonestly claiming to feel offence on behalf of a group of people unidentified and unknown. Some of you are,  as often is the case,  falling for his dishonesty - that is your choice and not under this writer's control.

Andy...are you currently in a relationship?

[Justmd]

Not a word from either men...interesting.