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Online 2tallbill

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Is there still hope for a man to find a wife in the FSU?
« Reply #50 on: March 17, 2013, 01:47:29 PM »
I would recommend keeping a positive attitude that you are going to find not
just a hot FSUW but your soulmate.

It's a numbers game. You have to contact a very large number of girls to find
one who is exactly right for you. Put together an intro letter, send it to Ladagirl
for translation and advice. If you never listen to anyone listen to her. She's an
RW with degrees in psychology and she previously managed an introduction
service.

Once you get the bugs worked out of your letter put together a profile on
Mamba and VK.com. Have Ladagirl review your profile and make suggestions. 

Pick a city in Russia, and send your letter to every single girl you think is
attractive enough to potentially be the future Mrs "Your Name Here"
Note I said Russia because they have 147 million Russians and over half
of them are female. You can do this in another FSU country as well.

Ruthlessly weed out any girl who doesn't meet your criteria or who displays any
dishonesty. Now you have to decide if you are a meet one or meet many type of
guy.

If you are a meet one type of guy you keep thinning the heard until one girl is clearly
head and shoulders above the others. Call and skype every single day and get on a plane
as soon as possible. You have written many girls in her city so you have a backup plan if
things don't work out.

If you are a meet many type of guy then you just show up and meet them for coffee or tea.
Ruthlessly weed any girl who doesn't meet your criteria or is dishonest. You will find one
girl who is clearly better than the rest. Focus the rest of your time on her. Plan your next
trip back with her, then go out and win her heart.

There are a dozen other ways to do this and be successful.

Udachi !

Bill
FSUW are not for entry level daters. FSUW don't do vague FSUW like a man of action so be a man of action  If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane. There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.
Get an apartment not a hotel. DON'T recycle girls

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Re: Is there still hope for a man to find a wife in the FSU?
« Reply #51 on: March 17, 2013, 07:40:03 PM »
I would recommend keeping a positive attitude that you are going to find not
just a hot FSUW but your soulmate.

It's a numbers game. You have to contact a very large number of girls to find
one who is exactly right for you. Put together an intro letter, send it to Ladagirl
for translation and advice. If you never listen to anyone listen to her. She's an
RW with degrees in psychology and she previously managed an introduction
service.

Once you get the bugs worked out of your letter put together a profile on
Mamba and VK.com. Have Ladagirl review your profile and make suggestions. 

Pick a city in Russia, and send your letter to every single girl you think is
attractive enough to potentially be the future Mrs "Your Name Here"
Note I said Russia because they have 147 million Russians and over half
of them are female. You can do this in another FSU country as well.

Ruthlessly weed out any girl who doesn't meet your criteria or who displays any
dishonesty. Now you have to decide if you are a meet one or meet many type of
guy.

If you are a meet one type of guy you keep thinning the heard until one girl is clearly
head and shoulders above the others. Call and skype every single day and get on a plane
as soon as possible. You have written many girls in her city so you have a backup plan if
things don't work out.

If you are a meet many type of guy then you just show up and meet them for coffee or tea.
Ruthlessly weed any girl who doesn't meet your criteria or is dishonest. You will find one
girl who is clearly better than the rest. Focus the rest of your time on her. Plan your next
trip back with her, then go out and win her heart.

There are a dozen other ways to do this and be successful.

Udachi !

Bill

This is a lot of good advice and information. Well done Bill.