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What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband

Handsome appearance ....он красив
5 (4%)
Nice Body ....он имеет хорошие физические данные
1 (0.8%)
Honesty .... он честный
9 (7.1%)
Must be taller than me ....  Должен быть выше меня
4 (3.2%)
Language skills..... он может говорить на моем языке
0 (0%)
Education...... он образованный
8 (6.3%)
Must help with house work / kids он должен помогать мне в работе по дому / с детьми
0 (0%)
Financially Secure он материально обеспечен
8 (6.3%)
Must be R-I-C-H !! !!! он богат
3 (2.4%)
Must understand me Он понимает меня
5 (4%)
A real (true) man  реальный мужчина
4 (3.2%)
Makes me laugh sense of humor он должен иметь чувство юмора
12 (9.5%)
He should have no previous kids у него не должно быть детей от предыдущих браков
1 (0.8%)
He must love my kids Он должен любить моих детей
1 (0.8%)
He should not want more kids Он должен не хотеть больше детей
0 (0%)
He should want more kids Он должен хотеть больше детей
1 (0.8%)
He must be Great Sexually or at least good (need help translating)
4 (3.2%)
He must NOT snore Он не должен храпеть
0 (0%)
He must be neat and not a slob Он должен быть аккуратным, не быть неряхой
1 (0.8%)
He should not be a fat он не толстый
1 (0.8%)
He should not be bald он не лысый
0 (0%)
He must love me он любит меня
9 (7.1%)
My parents must like him мои родители любят его
0 (0%)
He should make me feel like a princess Я его принцесса
3 (2.4%)
He should have things in common like interests and hobbies
2 (1.6%)
We should have the same or similar religious views (or the same lack of them) у нас иметь одинаковые или схожие взгляды на религию
1 (0.8%)
We should feel comfortable together нам должно быть уютно вместе
4 (3.2%)
He should be cultured он культурный человек
1 (0.8%)
He should have good manners он имеет хорошие манеры
1 (0.8%)
He should be attentive он внимателен
2 (1.6%)
He should be understanding он понимающий
1 (0.8%)
He should be patient терпеливый
1 (0.8%)
He should not lose his mind just because I do sometimes не теряет голову, просто потому, что я иногда делаю это
1 (0.8%)
He should ask my advice он советуется со мной
0 (0%)
He should be able to make decisions
4 (3.2%)
He must trust me
0 (0%)
I must trust him
1 (0.8%)
He ...................I will explain
0 (0%)
Something else ............Please explain
0 (0%)
Something else ............Please explain 2
0 (0%)
Something else ............Please explain 3
0 (0%)
He should be Bill or just like Bill !!! он Билл или похож на него
0 (0%)
Bill is an idiot and he should not be anything like him !!! Билл- идиот и он не похож на него
2 (1.6%)
Men? it doesn't matter they are all the same мужчины? какая разница, они все одинаковы  
0 (0%)
He must live in Europe Он живет в Европе
1 (0.8%)
He must live in USA Он живет в USA
0 (0%)
He must NOT live in USA
1 (0.8%)
He must live .........I will explain
0 (0%)
He Must NOT Smoke
0 (0%)
He must NOT drink Он не пьет алкоголь
0 (0%)
He must NOT .........I will explain
0 (0%)
He must ...........I will explain
0 (0%)
We should have similar tastes in Music, Art, etc Мы должны иметь что-то общее, интересы или хобби например
1 (0.8%)
He should be close to my age мы близки по возрасту
1 (0.8%)
He should not be more than 5 years older than me он старше меня не более чем на 5 лет
1 (0.8%)
He should not be more than 10 years older than me он старше меня не более чем на 10 лет
0 (0%)
He should not be more than 15 years older than me он старше меня не более чем на 15 лет
0 (0%)
He should not be more than _____ years older than me I will explain он старше меня не более чем на __лет (я объясню, почему)
0 (0%)
I don't care about age возраст меня не волнует
4 (3.2%)
He must win my Heart он должен завоевать мое сердце
2 (1.6%)
I must LOVE him я доложна любить его
10 (7.9%)
HE must keep his promises он должен держать слово
4 (3.2%)
He must not have bad habits (drinking, drugs, gambling) У него не должно быть вредных привычек (наркотики, пьянство, азартные игры)
0 (0%)
He must not be LAZY Он не должен быть ленивым
0 (0%)

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #50 on: January 28, 2012, 11:24:04 AM »
So far in the poll the top vote is

Makes me laugh sense of humor, followed closely by love and be loved.

FSUW are not for entry level daters. FSUW don't do vague FSUW like a man of action so be a man of action  If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane. There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #51 on: January 28, 2012, 11:31:32 AM »
Nothing spoils a romance so much as a sense of humor in the woman - or the lack of it in the man  :popcorn:
Hypocrisy is the state of pretending to have beliefs, opinions, virtues, ideals, thoughts, feelings, qualities, or standards that one does not actually have. Hypocrisy involves the deception of others and is thus a kind of lie.

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #52 on: January 29, 2012, 11:46:11 AM »
A real man is with money ... others are machos  :king: how to translate самцы to english properly?)

A "stud".
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #53 on: January 29, 2012, 01:43:13 PM »
A real man is with money ... others are machos  :king: how to translate самцы to english properly?)

A "stud".

LOL - Now there you go Halo unteaching our dear Milla a while back who was relating stories about her "studs" she teaches :o

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #54 on: January 29, 2012, 05:02:48 PM »
A real man is with money ... others are machos  :king: how to translate самцы to english properly?)

A "stud".

LOL - Now there you go Halo unteaching our dear Milla a while back who was relating stories about her "studs" she teaches :o
had doubts to use that - think it corresponds to young persons only ... I mean how to name old ones (who are in most around)?  :biggrin:
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #55 on: January 29, 2012, 06:32:10 PM »
A real man is with money ... others are machos  :king: how to translate самцы to english properly?)

A "stud".

LOL - Now there you go Halo unteaching our dear Milla a while back who was relating stories about her "studs" she teaches :o
had doubts to use that - think it corresponds to young persons only ... I mean how to name old ones (who are in most around)?  :biggrin:
randy old goats?

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #56 on: January 29, 2012, 06:39:43 PM »
LOL, soldier.

A real man is with money ... others are machos  :king: how to translate самцы to english properly?)

A "stud".

LOL - Now there you go Halo unteaching our dear Milla a while back who was relating stories about her "studs" she teaches :o
had doubts to use that - think it corresponds to young persons only ... I mean how to name old ones (who are in most around)?  :biggrin:

No, it can apply to old guys too.  Depends on the context, and in the context you used, it think it applies. ;D
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #57 on: January 30, 2012, 08:59:11 AM »
LOL, soldier.

A real man is with money ... others are machos  :king: how to translate самцы to english properly?)

A "stud".

LOL - Now there you go Halo unteaching our dear Milla a while back who was relating stories about her "studs" she teaches :o
had doubts to use that - think it corresponds to young persons only ... I mean how to name old ones (who are in most around)?  :biggrin:

No, it can apply to old guys too.  Depends on the context, and in the context you used, it think it applies. ;D

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #58 on: January 30, 2012, 10:03:14 AM »
thank you for maybe being a STUD or a Randy old goat  :chuckle:
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #59 on: January 30, 2012, 10:15:20 AM »
thank you for maybe being a STUD or a Randy old goat  :chuckle:

Both Stud or Randy old goat do not represent well the original word самцы that Millaa was seeking to translate. Both of them too soft so I can understand gratitude for either of them   :chuckle:        :hidechair:
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #60 on: January 31, 2012, 01:09:39 PM »
LOL Regarding the men: Studs, Stallions, Golden Fox, Randy Old Goats, Living Levitra Loca - sort of a natural progression forming here :smokin:

Hmmm female versions anyone?

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #61 on: January 31, 2012, 04:19:00 PM »
thank you for maybe being a STUD or a Randy old goat  :chuckle:

Both Stud or Randy old goat do not represent well the original word самцы that Millaa was seeking to translate. Both of them too soft so I can understand gratitude for either of them   :chuckle:        :hidechair:

Can you translate it?
FSUW are not for entry level daters. FSUW don't do vague FSUW like a man of action so be a man of action  If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane. There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #62 on: January 31, 2012, 04:21:45 PM »
thank you for maybe being a STUD or a Randy old goat  :chuckle:

Both Stud or Randy old goat do not represent well the original word самцы that Millaa was seeking to translate. Both of them too soft so I can understand gratitude for either of them   :chuckle:        :hidechair:

Can you translate it?
Bill you want them to translate your a randy old goat? :chuckle:
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #63 on: January 31, 2012, 04:39:39 PM »
thank you for maybe being a STUD or a Randy old goat  :chuckle:

Both Stud or Randy old goat do not represent well the original word самцы that Millaa was seeking to translate. Both of them too soft so I can understand gratitude for either of them   :chuckle:        :hidechair:

Perhaps lecher or ''dirty old man'' or , as the Americans might say, someone with a ''sex addiction''

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #64 on: January 31, 2012, 05:29:33 PM »
thank you for maybe being a STUD or a Randy old goat  :chuckle:

Both Stud or Randy old goat do not represent well the original word самцы that Millaa was seeking to translate. Both of them too soft so I can understand gratitude for either of them   :chuckle:        :hidechair:

Can you translate it?
The straight forward translation is actually "males", but in russian language it can be used with two meaning. I translate definition of  самец (самцы  -- just plural)

Саме́ц — форма живого организма, производящая мелкие, подвижные гаметы — сперматозоиды
Male - a form of living organism, which produces smaller, mobile gametes - sperm.
So the first meaning the way this word could be used in russian language is as to referring to males of certain species - example dog male or elephant male. But as well in russian language it could be used in offensive contexts towards men as existing form of living organism with only purpose of sperm

As well I should point out that самцы is "downgrading" kind of word when its used in that second meaning. Example Stud can be taken in some kind of "upgrading" context (some dictionaries give definition of stud as sexy attractive men), thats not a case with самцы. However russian language is very rich and I am sure in correct circumstances it can be  used as praise with hint of sarcasm. But I would not suggest someone who is just learning russian to try to use this word in that way, as it can go very wrong  :dh:
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #65 on: January 31, 2012, 05:31:51 PM »
thank you for maybe being a STUD or a Randy old goat  :chuckle:

Both Stud or Randy old goat do not represent well the original word самцы that Millaa was seeking to translate. Both of them too soft so I can understand gratitude for either of them   :chuckle:        :hidechair:

Can you translate it?
The straight forward translation is actually "males", but in russian language it can be used with two meaning. I translate definition of  самец (самцы -- just plural)

Саме́ц — форма живого организма, производящая мелкие, подвижные гаметы — сперматозоиды
Male - a form of living organism, which produces smaller, mobile gametes - sperm.
So the first meaning the way this word could be used in russian language is as to referring to males of certain species - example dog male or elephant male. But as well in russian language it could be used in offensive contexts towards men as existing form of living organism with only purpose of sperm

Bill, Apparently your a dog male :ROFL:
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #66 on: January 31, 2012, 07:56:24 PM »
who still remember what was that thread about?  :biggrin:
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #67 on: January 31, 2012, 08:01:06 PM »
Bill, Apparently your a dog male :ROFL:

dont hurt poor animals  :snivel:
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #68 on: July 28, 2013, 10:48:36 AM »
I was inviting FSUW to the forum today and was accused of a number of things.

Such is life, I am inviting them to participate in the poll
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« Reply #69 on: August 04, 2013, 01:20:13 AM »
  • Handsome appearance ....он красив -  not even the most handsome man is handsome if he would take care of yourself.
  • Nice Body ....он имеет хорошие физические данные -  no nice Body  talks about his laziness
  • Honesty .... он честный - it is always desirable.
  • Must be taller than me ....  Должен быть выше меня - Of course for us wildly when the man below
  • Language skills..... он может говорить на моем языке - not sure if there is a desire to know the language of the country where you live
  • Education...... он образованный - a man should support his family so he should be educated that would earn enough.
  • Must help with house work / kids он должен помогать мне в работе по дому / с детьми - for this we are looking for the other half in the other countries. we are so tired of all the pull on me.
  • Financially Secure он материально обеспечен - Well, not necessarily. the most important thing is the wealth and mutual understanding
  • Must be R-I-C-H !! !!! он богат -  this desire for queens and princesses with white hands.
  • Must understand me Он понимает меня - it is always important
  • A real (true) man  реальный мужчина - it is the dream of many
  • Makes me laugh sense of humor он должен иметь чувство юмора - Humor is the peace of mind and well-being.
  • He should have no previous kids у него не должно быть детей от предыдущих браков - Well, yes. let him find a virgin at age 50. (This is a question of selfishness. Everyone has children. And where they disappear?)
  • He must love my kids Он должен любить моих детей - yeah I do not want your children but you must love mine?  ???
  • He should not want more kids Он должен не хотеть больше детей - and this is how it goes. if a woman has no menopause. ;D
  • He should want more kids Он должен хотеть больше детей - again. desires are often different from reality. ;D
  • He must be Great Sexually or at least good (need help translating) перевод- он должен быть половым гигантом в постели.  - Well, it's not for everybody. This also happens
  • He must NOT snore Он не должен храпеть - do not go against nature. sleep in separate rooms
  • He must be neat and not a slob Он должен быть аккуратным, не быть неряхой - of course you want to be near the beautiful manicured man and not a slut. if you care for a passport.
  • He should not be a fat он не толстый - Well, if the woman is 50 kg. and at her bedside in the fall 160 Kg. I think there will be no laughing matter and not to sex  ;D
  • He should not be bald он не лысый - and some like bald. although it is always nice to do what you favorite hairstyle
  • He must love me он любит меня - Well for that we are dreaming about the second half.
  • My parents must like him мои родители любят его - and he will live with their parents or with a woman?
  • He should make me feel like a princess Я его принцесса - Well this image. we are all in true love Princess
  • He should have things in common like interests and hobbies - is the key to success. we love above all to be necessary for others. and forget about ourselves.
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #70 on: August 04, 2013, 04:22:11 AM »
•  We should have the same or similar religious views (or the same lack of them) у нас иметь одинаковые или схожие взгляды на религию – I have never seen two different religions to live happy. Who tolerate other religions?
•   We should feel comfortable together нам должно быть уютно вместе  - but why then look for love if there is no good together?
•   He should be cultured он культурный человек  - cultured in what sense? Trips to the theater and cinema? Or cultured in communication? Both are always a pleasant pastime for two loving hearts.
•   He should have good manners он имеет хорошие манеры – generally the institutions of Noble Ladies and men's high schools are long gone. But it is always nice to see respect for you not only in actions but also in the conversation.
•   He should be attentive он внимателен – And who does not like presents?
•   He should be understanding он понимающий – Of course it is better to share with a loved one than with a stranger. That you will understand and support
•   He should be patient терпеливый – yeah. When we have a bad mood is better not to get a hot hand•   He should not lose his mind just because I do sometimes не теряет голову, просто потому, что я иногда делаю это
•   He should ask my advice он советуется со мной – of course. If you have this common interest. And what else? What do we mean when their work does not work with them?
•   He should be able to make decisions  - Is necessary. And the sooner the better
•   He must trust me  - this is the main condition. Mistrust breeds disease - jealousy
•   I must trust him - this is the main condition. Mistrust breeds disease - jealousy
•   He ...................I will explain  ?
•   Something else ............Please explain ?
•   Something else ............Please explain 2  ?
•   Something else ............Please explain 3
•   He should be Bill or just like Bill !!! он Билл или похож на него – and best of Bill Gate
•   Bill is an idiot and he should not be anything like him !!! Билл- идиот и он не похож на него – Wow. We do not need a circus. In our life and so quite a circus.
•   Men? it doesn't matter they are all the same мужчины? какая разница, они все одинаковы – Well do not tell me. Is it only for procreation. In all other respects the individuality
•   He must live in Europe Он живет в Европе – maybe
•   He must live in USA Он живет в USA - maybe
•   He must NOT live in USA –  it is enough that our policy would be to think about real life.
•   He must live .........I will explain -?
•   He Must NOT Smoke _ is not desirable but possible.
•   He must NOT drink Он не пьет алкоголь – if only the big holiday. And so came the smell when I hear
•   He must NOT .........I will explain  - ?
•   He must ...........I will explain - ?
•   We should have similar tastes in Music, Art, etc Мы должны иметь что-то общее, интересы или хобби например – yes it should be shared as much as possible
•   He should be close to my age мы близки по возрасту - Love knows no age
•   He should not be more than 5 years older than me он старше меня не более чем на 5 лет - Love knows no age
•   He should not be more than 10 years older than me он старше меня не более чем на 10 - Love knows no age 
•   He should not be more than 15 years older than me он старше меня не более чем на 15 лет - Love knows no age
•   He should not be more than _____ years older than me I will explain он старше меня не более чем на __лет (я объясню, почему) - Love knows no age
•   I don't care about age возраст меня не волнует - Love knows no age but not younger than me
•   He must win my Heart он должен завоевать мое сердце – I do not know how else? But mine is a prerequisite.
•   I must LOVE him я доложна любить его – see item above and you will love the full impact
•   HE must keep his promises он должен держать слово – and how different?
•   He must not have bad habits (drinking, drugs, gambling) У него не должно быть вредных привычек (наркотики, пьянство, азартные игры) – with such better not even start communicating.
•   He must not be LAZY Он не должен быть ленивым - yeah. On the couch with your feet up, we are able to lay their
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #71 on: August 04, 2013, 04:31:22 AM »
overall pretty silly questions for Russian mentality. beside each item should be put word - YES. and then there will be a complete ideal. but whether there are in real life? controversial issue.
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #72 on: August 06, 2013, 02:30:12 AM »
Hello to everyone!
The things I've chosen are:

Education - here I would also include intelligence, knowledge and interest in many spheres of life

Makes me laugh/ sense of humour - important for everyday life

He must love me - certainly vital :)

We should feel comfortable together - feeling happy even while sitting together at home on a rainy day :)

He should be able to take decisions- I want to feel support, advice of my man

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #73 on: August 06, 2013, 04:10:31 AM »
Hello to everyone!
The things I've chosen are:

Education - here I would also include intelligence, knowledge and interest in many spheres of life

Makes me laugh/ sense of humour - important for everyday life

He must love me - certainly vital :)

We should feel comfortable together - feeling happy even while sitting together at home on a rainy day :)

He should be able to take decisions- I want to feel support, advice of my man

Welcome to RUA!

There is an introduction thread, perhaps you would like to post there. For those of us that fit ever so slightly your requirements are more likely to read your introduction there.

Please come again to chat and feel free to give your insights into all manner of things on the diverse threads.

Also quite curious how did you find RUA?

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #74 on: April 08, 2014, 11:01:15 AM »
overall pretty silly questions for Russian mentality. beside each item should be put word - YES. and then there will be a complete ideal. but whether there are in real life? controversial issue.

Yes, however only 5 votes are allowed in the poll.

The theory when I put together the poll was that the top items with the
largest number of FSUW would be identified. It appears that humor tops
the list and to love and be loved are next. 

I hope that some of the new girls vote in the poll
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