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I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« on: October 18, 2009, 05:29:15 PM »
i just got back from Odessa where i was to meet a woman i have been talking to for over a year..
the last night she told me she wanted me to come back and we would keep in touch over emails..
I have been home over a month now and still havent heard from her..

i have to admit...im pretty broken up over this..

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #1 on: October 18, 2009, 05:46:16 PM »
i just got back from Odessa where i was to meet a woman i have been talking to for over a year..
the last night she told me she wanted me to come back and we would keep in touch over emails..
I have been home over a month now and still havent heard from her..

i have to admit...im pretty broken up over this..

i guess i put this in the wrong spot.
why dont i see the "train wreck room" on the front page?

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #2 on: October 18, 2009, 05:50:42 PM »
Could be for many reasons ..... can you not call her?

I think you have to make 3(?) posts to see all the site menu's.


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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #3 on: October 18, 2009, 05:52:17 PM »
Welcome to our forum. Perhaps if you told us some of your story we might be able to provide some 'speculation-insight' for you to consider.

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #4 on: October 18, 2009, 05:52:58 PM »
i cant call her because i didnt ask for her phone #

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #5 on: October 18, 2009, 05:54:11 PM »
Welcome to the forum  :)

If this should be in the other area the Moderators can move it.

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #6 on: October 18, 2009, 06:02:25 PM »
Welcome to our forum. Perhaps if you told us some of your story we might be able to provide some 'speculation-insight' for you to consider.

OK, I'll do that..

I went looking through Anastasia's website and i came a cross a few girls and started talking to them..
then out of nowhere i see a woman that i couldnt get my eyes off of..so i sent her a mail and we started talking and talked for 4 months......i lost my job and had to move so money was tight and i didnt talk to her again for about 3 months but when i could i sent her a mail and she said she was still single.
so we talked for another 4 months and i made plans to go see her..
we talked over the phone through the Anastasia's phone service and i got her interpreters phone number.
so..i went to Odessa to meet this woman and we did meet...we had a really good time.
at the end of our last night she told me she wanted to wait until her schooling was over and that she wanted me to wait another year for her to finish...i agreed.
so she said she wanted to see me again and gave me her email...
its been over a month and i still havnt heard from her yet..

Now..i did pay for everything..which i knew i would..,,like dinners and such..
but i asked her if she wanted me to buy her things like a new jacket and/or a new pillow and she always said she didnt want it.

Now..its been over a MONTH.....i paid the translator $20 US Dollars a hour...i have heard that they should only charge about $10 an hour..
so..now i feel that they split the 20 an hour money and they each made 10 an hour.
at this point i have no idea what to think...but i do know she has her own laptop but no internet at her house..
i am just so lost.  

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #7 on: October 18, 2009, 06:12:50 PM »
Yep, you’ve been scammed.

Suggest you spend a much time as possible reading everything you can here before you do anything else related to FSU women.

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #8 on: October 18, 2009, 06:14:08 PM »
Yep, you’ve been scammed.

Suggest you spend a much time as possible reading everything you can here before you do anything else related to FSU women.

Ok, thanks, but scammed in what way?

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #9 on: October 18, 2009, 06:46:39 PM »
At a guess your lady was probably getting a cut from:

All communications via Anastasia
Your apartment
Taxis
Interpreter

If you weren’t scammed then you have to wise up to the fact that she isn’t interested in taking your relationship further. If she wanted to contact you then she would do so.

With regards her not wanting a new jacket and/or a new pillow then maybe she would have found it difficult to explain such items to her boyfriend/husband.

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #10 on: October 18, 2009, 06:57:03 PM »
well....i understand that....thanks alot..
but what i dont understand is this..
Her name is NAME REMOVED BY REQUEST 
she was EVENT REMOVED BY REQUEST
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she is a well known model.
she makes better money being a model then she could have gotten doing this as a scam.
i am just so damn lost...all i know is that everything i have been planning on and dreaming about for the last year is now gone....
i dont think i will ever do this again.

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #11 on: October 18, 2009, 07:01:54 PM »
How old are you?

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #12 on: October 18, 2009, 07:04:58 PM »
Not sure why that matters...but i am 39
here is her and i.

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #13 on: October 18, 2009, 07:14:17 PM »
Not sure why that matters...but i am 39
here is her and i.

An off topic question, do you guys (Anglo- Saxon and FSU gals) consider this girl to be "white" based on her photos?

My guess is the answer is "no" but I prefer to ask.

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #14 on: October 18, 2009, 07:16:16 PM »
Not sure why that matters...but i am 39
here is her and i.

An off topic question, do you guys (Anglo- Saxon and FSU gals) consider this girl to be "white" based on her photos?

My guess is the answer is "no" but I prefer to ask.

what does that have to do with ANYTHING?

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #15 on: October 18, 2009, 07:20:31 PM »
Not sure why that matters...but i am 39
here is her and i.

An off topic question, do you guys (Anglo- Saxon and FSU gals) consider this girl to be "white" based on her photos?

My guess is the answer is "no" but I prefer to ask.

what does that have to do with ANYTHING?

Nothing, that's why I wrote it was an off topic question, just I needed an outsider point of view after watching some videos about hate crimes in Russia related to racism. And the girl has the perfect physical characteristics to confirm what I suspect.

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #16 on: October 18, 2009, 07:21:42 PM »
ok...
she is a descendant from India.

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #17 on: October 18, 2009, 07:23:38 PM »
ok...
she is a descendant from India.

Ok thank you, non white then.

P.S. Sorry for temporarily hijacking your topic.

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #18 on: October 18, 2009, 07:25:08 PM »
Ok..so what im hearing is that she did this to make a few hundred bucks?

that doesnt even sound right. :'(

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #19 on: October 18, 2009, 07:25:39 PM »
P.S. Sorry for temporarily hijacking your topic.

its ok...sorry im in such a rotten mood.

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #20 on: October 18, 2009, 07:32:31 PM »
i cant call her because i didnt ask for her phone #
you've talked to her for over a year and don't have her number??? :scared0005:

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #21 on: October 18, 2009, 07:35:49 PM »
whats the point?
i cant speak russian.. :coffeeread:

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #22 on: October 18, 2009, 07:37:10 PM »
Did you have sex with her?

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #23 on: October 18, 2009, 07:38:24 PM »
No

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #24 on: October 18, 2009, 07:43:43 PM »
I ask because I fail to see any other reason why you would want to date her.

As I wrote before, you need to do some reading. I’d ignore the age gape warnings as IMO 19 years is no big deal …. provided she is at least 25/26.

Your age is relevant because if you were say 24 then I would be more sympathetic to your current confused plight. ‘Date’ some 20 year old models (or average looking waitresses) back home and you will be equally confused … it’s what kids do, they are good at it.

Play, fire, burnt etc.


 

 

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