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Nadezda Lyakhova, Russian 'Pro Dater'
« on: October 12, 2009, 06:59:58 AM »
Nadezda Lyakhova Russian 'Pro Dater'

I am Marcel (30) from The Netherlands. I had a relationship from almost 4 mounths with a woman from Moscow Russia. The Holland Embassy in Moscow advised me to report this woman to all russian scam websites and all russian blacklist websites.

My goal is to warn other men for this woman. Not only men, ..everybody who is dealing with her..

The phonecalls from the Embassy is evidence enough to get her listed as a Scammer /  Pro Dater..

This is my story ..and use your own judgenent!!


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Name: Nadezda Lyakhova
blonda@mail.ru


I met Nadezda Lyakhova in Egypt where I was for a holliday with a friend from me. Nadezda was there also for a holliday and she was with her son from 12 and her half-sister Olga and Olga's daughter. We go out eat all together and later I go with the two sisters to the local disco in Egypt. We drink a little and have a good time.

And the strange thing is that we had sex the first night, and un-safe, and next to her own son ..tis woman is almost 33 years old, and she have sex with a strange men, in a strange country, next to her own son and un-safe! I think this is not normal ..I was thinking she must have a plan! Her own son has seen us three times when we making love together ..one time in Egypt and two times in Moscow ..and the kid is almost 13! ..And I know I was wrong to, and I had must saying that we need a some privacy because of your son ..but, it's hapend and I can change anything about that..

But we had a very very good time in Egypt, she was so wonderful and caring!!!

After two weeks in Holland I was going for the first time to Moscow! And I land at Sheremetyevo 2 in Moscow. After 30 minutes arrived Olga and Nadezda in a light blue car. Finally they are there and we were so happy to see eachother back! We go in the car and we had a drive from 30 minutes to the flat from Nadezda. We dropped my stuff in her flat and we go out eat at the Japanese restaurant at first floor from her flat.

I live many weeks together with Nadezda and her son in her flat in Moscow. We also lived for one week in St. Petersburg. In Egypt she was paying a lot for me, and have sex with me whenever I want. So, I was thinking ..she wants something from me ..I was sure! I allway's must pay in Pieter and in Moscow, the appartment in Pieter (also I was paying the appartment for her sister and her husband, they came 3 day's later to Pieter), I can buy parfums, shoes, make up and what I get back?? Not one coffee she paid for me!

Important is what Nadezda do to me and where I wanna warn other men for is:

- The appartment in St. Petersburg I was paying it all by myself, also for her sister and her husband (they were coming 3 day's later). And Nadezda was saying to me that we paid all together for it.

- Nadezda stole money from me in St. Petersburg. I had pin 7.000 roubles, but I don't had good pockets so Nadezda was keeping it with her in her handbag. Later I make, in her eyes, a stupid comment. Nadezda and her sister wanna go out shoping together and I said something like this; O, you have my money so go shopping if you want. And she was very mad!!!! She come back later and give me my money back ..500 roubles! After I had pin money we go out eat and I had paid 1.300 roubles for it and I get 500 back?? ..there is missing a few thousand roubles! ..but I was saying nothing about it and let it go!

- When we arrived back in Moscow, some day at an evening she gets a phonecall from somebody. I thing it was 19.30 hour or something. After the phonecall she said that was my work, and I must go for two weeks to Vladivostok. So you must leave next monday! And the next day we arrange a ticket for me back to Amsterdam!

Nadezda send me a kopie of her passport because she wanna visit Holland so I must arrange a invatation. And I arrange that, no problem. But the strange thing is that the IP address comes out in Moscow ..and she said she was in Vladivostok, I get many sms from Nadezda and she write; I am landed, and it's cold and raining here, I am alone here, etc etc ..and many sms more! Her IP from her flat in Moscow is: 91.78.22.124 and she send a kopie of her passport (fromout Vladivostok she said) with this IP: 85.140.245.68 ..and both IP's comes out in Mosow! So she never was in Vladivostok ..why I must leave Moscow???????

- At my second trip to Moscow I leave from Shiphol Airport in Holland and I pin 250 euro, 5 papers from 50 euro's. I am not sure about this but I think she has stole one paper from 50 euro's out of my wallet. (we go some day to a money exchange office where she give the woman behind the desk a paper from 50 euro's ..is this strange or not????)

- Nadezda told me that she was pregnant, it was 5-6 weeks she said. I was in Holland when she said this! And a few day's later her sister Olga send me sms and she said; 'do you know that Nadezda is in hospital right now, she doing abortation'? And later that day Nadezda send me sms and she write that she lost the baby! And that she was very un-happy! So I buy a new ticket and I fly back to Moscow. When I arrived it was 6 day's after the operation ..but at night she wants sex! And I said, hey we must wait because you had a operation right? ..But she whispered in my left ear ..I need it!!! So she did abortion and after 6 day's you can have sex ..hmmm, I think thats not possible.

So she lie about pregnancy! In front of her flat there is a hospital, and there she was and did the operation. But the strange thing is that nobody in that hospital was knowing her!!!!

And her daddy was calling one day and he said that I must pay for the abortion, I must pay her 500 euro's back, but I didn't pay off course, I was asking her for a dokters report but she don't have ..very strange also!

- In the month august 2009 she whats a holliday ..10 day's Greece and later 7 day's Amsterdam ..only at 20 august she must work she said! And who can pay for everything, the tickets and the hotels ..yes me ..but I didn't and she very very angry!!

In Egypt she was paying some things for me ..but in Moscow and St. Petersburg ..not one coffee!!! (And I want pay al for a woman no prblem ..but it must come from both sides right..)

- When we were eating in the Japanese restaurant at the first floor below her flat she said to me; can I have your mobile phone for a moment? I said yes and give her my phone. I was eating and eating and I saw her busy with my phone. The batterie goes out etc etc.. But I said nothing, I wanna know her plan! When I get my phone back he dosn't work anymore ..in the screen I read sim-card locked or something. I say to her ..hmm whats wrong with my phone? She anwsered, I don't know, your phone is garbage. And I was knowing that she stole and change my sim-card, but I don't say nothing! When we finished eat we go to her flat. I was lie at the bed and she was busy at her computer. I saw that she was downloading something, and I was thinking she downloaded the info from my sim-card to her computer. So I sit up and ask her what she is doing, ..the screen where she was working on goes down with the - button ..she said, O I chat a little.

But the next day I ask her again, can you look to my phone. And she said 'yes give him to me' and she goes to an other room. A few minutes later she comes back with my phone. I switsh my phone on, type my pincode and ...and my phone works ..all my friends and numbers, messages ..it was all still there!!!!!! Sow now I was 100% sure she had stole my sim-card out off my phone and downloaded all information to her computer!!!!!!!! ..But she was very un-lucky because I had a pre paid card!

- In Egypt she was saying that she was a police officer. In Moscow she said no I am not a police officer, I am a lawyer. But believe me, I lived many weeks together with her ..and she is not a lawyer!!!

- But the wurst from all was this. On thursday 4 september 2009 she had an intervieuw at the Holland Embassy in Moscow for a visa to Holland. She wants to have a holliday in Holland with me, she wants to meet my parents and she wants to see how I live ..with other words, she wants to see how rich I am! After my holliday in Holland she said I will decide if we go furder with our relationship yes or no.

She was at the Holland Embassy and she lie to the woman who had intervieuwed her! The woman from the Embassy has called me 3 times in 20 minutes, and I must awnser many questions. And I was happy to help Nadezda with her visa so I answered all the questions. But what I didn't know was that Nadezda was lie to the woman from Embassy!!!! She was telling a compleet other story then me.. And why she lie???? ..I still don't know why!

The woman from Embassy asked Nadezda; ..'do you know Marcel from Holland'? Nadezda anwsered: No I don't know him!! We had a meet in Egypt and after Egypt we had contact with icq.

(And I was missing my flight back to Amsterdam because she leaved 5 day's later then me, I booked 4 nights more ..we lived together and sleep 8 nights together in Egypt!! When I was in Moscow we lived 4 weeks together, together in her flat in Moscow!! And 6 day's we lived together in a flat in St. Petersburg. ..And she answered I don't know him?? And why she lie?? ..I don't know!)

The next question was; ..'Marcel visits 3 times Moscow, where he live, was he live together with you at your flat?? Nadezda anwserded: No Marcel didn't live at my place, we live not together in my flat!! Where he was, I don't know..

Nadezda don't get the visa for Holland!!!!! The reason was that she was lie to Embassy!!!!! She don't get her passport back and the penalty she get is; she can't travel for one year to or in Europe!

So, our relation ended because I was telling the truth to the Embassy, she lie ..and she said it's all my fauld!

And the Embassy said to me, she lie all the time but you can't see it ..she don't sweat, flushing or get a red face ..a great actor the woman from Embassy said!!

- Nadezda don't get a visa for Holland. So thats why I was going back to her in Moscow. I give her all flight details and I was hoping she wait me at the airport. But she was very mad ..that she didn't get visa and she was mad at me because I was telling the truth to the Embassy. But I fly and I wil see, I was hoping to see her at the airport but she wasn't there!! I wait a little, drink a coffee and after I take a taxi to her home. When I was there I ring the bell, but she didn't open the door, I call and sms her but no anwsers. And I wait and wait ..but nothing, no Nadezda. So I go to a hotel with a taxi. And when I arrive I get a sms from Nadezda, and this is what she write to me: Where are you? At witsh hotel? I need to talk with you. So I go back to her house with a taxi ..and when I arrive I ring the bell, but again nothing!! Her flat is at floor three, so after a few minutes wait I look out off the window and I see two men police! I waved and the men waved back, so I go downstairs where a fat police men say's ..papers! And I give my passport ..and he looks and his eyes where bigger, he say ..from Hollandya?? ..I say yes, from Amsterdam! And suddenly they where very friendly to me!!

- They don't make a report;
- They don't write my name;
- They don't send me back or say that I must leave;
- They don't talk with Nadezda because why she called the police?
- We talk a little about Holland and 10 minutes later they said goodbye and good luck!

This woman is a scam gentlemen! She only loves herself, her son and furder no body, she will lie to you ..she lie to every body, to the goverment ..you can't trust her! ..she wants only a men that pay's everything for her! ..but when you meet her ..yust use her, and she is so good in the bed, making love with her is fantastic!!!!!!!

Do you know her, are you her ex ..or you want more info? Please let me know and send me a pm..

Note: Personal details removed pending notification of Nadezda - Voyager

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Re: Nadezda Lyakhova, Russian 'Pro Dater'
« Reply #1 on: October 12, 2009, 07:01:16 AM »
Photo's from Nadezda coming soon..

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Re: Nadezda Lyakhova, Russian 'Pro Dater'
« Reply #2 on: October 12, 2009, 07:14:11 AM »
I find it hard to believe that any consular official from the 'Holland Embassy' (sic) would advise spreading unproven accusations and private contact data in any public forum.

You may be a sick sad loser who was let down by a woman who knew well enough to leave you alone but your actions suggest that any fault is more likely with you than with she.

Oh, when you accuse her of being somehow immoral for having sex in the same room as her son, do not forget that YOU were the other participant. Apart from a hypocrite, what does that make you?
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Re: Nadezda Lyakhova, Russian 'Pro Dater'
« Reply #3 on: October 12, 2009, 07:14:36 AM »
You were so appalled by her behaviour that you went ahead and had unprotected sex with her next to her son. And you think she is the one with the problem? Hmm.

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« Reply #4 on: October 12, 2009, 07:25:00 AM »
Marcel,

What, specifically, did Nadezda lie to the embassy about?

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Re: Nadezda Lyakhova, Russian 'Pro Dater'
« Reply #5 on: October 12, 2009, 07:29:22 AM »
I find it hard to believe that any consular official from the 'Holland Embassy' (sic) would advise spreading unproven accusations and private contact data in any public forum.

You may be a sick sad loser who was let down by a woman who knew well enough to leave you alone but your actions suggest that any fault is more likely with you than with she.

Oh, when you accuse her of being somehow immoral for having sex in the same room as her son, do not forget that YOU were the other participant. Apart from a hypocrite, what does that make you?

It's not hard to believe ..I have a mail from the Embassy ..they sended me also two web site links! And I know I was wrong to the first night ..it was not good!


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Re: Nadezda Lyakhova, Russian 'Pro Dater'
« Reply #6 on: October 12, 2009, 07:33:37 AM »
Marcel,

What, specifically, did Nadezda lie to the embassy about?



Hello,

hmm ..do you have read my story??

She lie about that she not knowing me, not knowing me good she said. She said we had met eachother in Egypt and after we talk with icq (chat)

Another question was ..Marcel visit Moscow 3 times, where he was staying. She said not at my apartment, I don't know where he was.

Emassy called me three times in 20 minutes and I must anwser many questions. Nadezda had a intervieuw from over the one hour! And I never forget the words from the woman who has called me ..'she lie all to me and she is so cool, no red face, no sweating ..she is a great great actor'!!!

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Re: Nadezda Lyakhova, Russian 'Pro Dater'
« Reply #7 on: October 12, 2009, 07:40:53 AM »
Marcel,

What, specifically, did Nadezda lie to the embassy about?



Hello,

hmm ..do you have read my story??

She lie about that she not knowing me, not knowing me good she said. She said we had met eachother in Egypt and after we talk with icq (chat)

Another question was ..Marcel visit Moscow 3 times, where he was staying. She said not at my apartment, I don't know where he was.

Emassy called me three times in 20 minutes and I must anwser many questions. Nadezda had a intervieuw from over the one hour! And I never forget the words from the woman who has called me ..'she lie all to me and she is so cool, no red face, no sweating ..she is a great great actor'!!!

Yes, I read your story; my question was as deliberate as your answer was implausible. Your story about a visa beneficiary denying that she knows her sponsor beggars belief.
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Re: Nadezda Lyakhova, Russian 'Pro Dater'
« Reply #8 on: October 12, 2009, 07:42:03 AM »

Marcel I see you have been doing the rounds and have posted this story on a number of internet forums and it is also listed on Agency Scams http://agencyscams.com/Girls/NadezdaLyakhova.html

I cannot see how the Dutch Embassy would advise you to post this all over the internet, not the sort of advice I would have thought they hand out, but it does seem like you have run into a scammer here.

To be sure however, please tell us more about the Embassy visit and anything else that is relevant.


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Re: Nadezda Lyakhova, Russian 'Pro Dater'
« Reply #9 on: October 12, 2009, 07:42:50 AM »
Marcel,

What, specifically, did Nadezda lie to the embassy about?



Hello,

hmm ..do you have read my story??

She lie about that she not knowing me, not knowing me good she said. She said we had met eachother in Egypt and after we talk with icq (chat)

Another question was ..Marcel visit Moscow 3 times, where he was staying. She said not at my apartment, I don't know where he was.

Emassy called me three times in 20 minutes and I must anwser many questions. Nadezda had a intervieuw from over the one hour! And I never forget the words from the woman who has called me ..'she lie all to me and she is so cool, no red face, no sweating ..she is a great great actor'!!!

Yes, I read your story; my question was as deliberate as your answer was implausible.

Sorry, I don't understant those words, I am not English ha..

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Re: Nadezda Lyakhova, Russian 'Pro Dater'
« Reply #10 on: October 12, 2009, 07:44:42 AM »
Chris,

Marcel is the only one who has blacklisted this "big time" scammer and his original post is nothing but a paste job.
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Re: Nadezda Lyakhova, Russian 'Pro Dater'
« Reply #11 on: October 12, 2009, 07:47:41 AM »
Chris,

Marcel is the only one who has blacklisted this "big time" scammer.

Yes I see that, but I am assuming Jim has also checked her out before listing her, if it turns out she is not what he says then we will remove this thread. I don't see it will do any harm for a short while until we can check things out as she is already on the net in various places.

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« Reply #12 on: October 12, 2009, 07:49:52 AM »
Jim doesn't have time to personally corroborate every detail.
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Re: Nadezda Lyakhova, Russian 'Pro Dater'
« Reply #13 on: October 12, 2009, 07:51:14 AM »
All these email addresses are listed on Agency Scams            blueyesibiria@msn.com, blonda@inbox.ru and blonda@mail.ru

This so called work email primconsult@mail.ru is also listed, the work website is dead however, so we will leave them for now, however Marcel I see you have been doing the rounds and have posted this story on a number of internet forums and it is also listed on Agency Scams http://agencyscams.com/Girls/NadezdaLyakhova.html

I cannot see how the Dutch Embassy would advise you to post this all over the internet, not the sort of advice I would have thought they hand out, but it does seem like you have run into a big time scammer here.

To be sure however, please tell us more about the Embassy visit and anything else that is relevant.



Hellooo,

To put her at websites like this was the only thing I can do they said, yust warn others..

She still don't have her passport back. And the visits at Embassy. I was in Holland and she has a intervieuw at the Dutch Embassy in Moscow. Because she was lying she dosn't get visa and has a peanalty from one year, she can't travel in or to Europe for one year! But you can read this also in my story..

But what do you wanna know, please ask.. (English write is not so good but..)

I visit St. Petersburg, Moscow for 5 times, and I have over the 6000 pictures!

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Re: Nadezda Lyakhova, Russian 'Pro Dater'
« Reply #14 on: October 12, 2009, 07:51:22 AM »
Jim doesn't have time to personally corroborate every detail.

Maybe not, but in any event he has had her on his list since September this year, we need to do some more checking here.


 

 

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