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Offline McYoda

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Marriage Agency in Sumy - Heart-Desires.com - Information Please?
« on: September 02, 2009, 09:05:47 PM »
Has anybody heard of this agency named heart-desires.com ?

The agency is based in Sumy and there are ton of professional photo but little information about the owner

Has anybody had experience with this agency?

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Re: Marriage Agency in Sumy
« Reply #1 on: September 03, 2009, 05:55:49 PM »
The boobs are too big and the teeth are too perfect to be legit..... :laugh:

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Re: Marriage Agency in Sumy - Heart-Desires.com - Information Please?
« Reply #2 on: September 04, 2009, 01:22:21 AM »
The domain registrant name sounds familiar......

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Domain Name: HEART-DESIRES.COM

Registrant:
    N/A
    Andriy Deynichenko        (sumytranslations@mail.ru)
    ul. Gor'kogo 5-5
    Summy
    Sumy Oblast,40000
    UA
    Tel. +38.0506195169

Creation Date: 07-Jul-2005
Expiration Date: 07-Jul-2010

Domain servers in listed order:
    ns2.obama3.in.ua
    ns1.obama3.in.ua

The server names made me chuckle.
please tell me where I'm being / have been 'dishonest'? 
Yes, he said that.........


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Re: Marriage Agency in Sumy - Heart-Desires.com - Information Please?
« Reply #3 on: September 04, 2009, 03:24:18 AM »
http://jimslists.com/agencies/heart-desires.html

Sometimes you are judged by the company you keep.....

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Re: Marriage Agency in Sumy - Heart-Desires.com - Information Please?
« Reply #4 on: March 21, 2010, 05:14:07 AM »
Hello,

I also would be curious to hear of expierences with Heart's Desires.

The owner though slow to answer mails has done what he says - I made a short list of ten women from his site and he came back with a clear reply as to waht sort of women they are (his opinion).

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Re: Marriage Agency in Sumy - Heart-Desires.com - Information Please?
« Reply #5 on: March 21, 2010, 03:14:44 PM »
Hello,

I also would be curious to hear of expierences with Heart's Desires.

The owner though slow to answer mails has done what he says - I made a short list of ten women from his site and he came back with a clear reply as to waht sort of women they are (his opinion).

AvHdB

Hello AvHdB, welcome to RUA.

Have you talked to any of these girls on Skype/phone?

Or gone to meet them?

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Re: Marriage Agency in Sumy - Heart-Desires.com - Information Please?
« Reply #6 on: March 22, 2010, 04:50:03 AM »
No to both questions

I have only written to them, Will wait until I have meet them in person than I talk on Skype.

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Re: Marriage Agency in Sumy - Heart-Desires.com - Information Please?
« Reply #7 on: July 03, 2012, 09:19:59 AM »
I'm interested in finding out more about this.

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Re: Marriage Agency in Sumy - Heart-Desires.com - Information Please?
« Reply #8 on: July 03, 2012, 09:25:22 AM »
I'm interested in finding out more about this.

I have a thread about this some where. The owner if you meet him is honest and direct.

His charges three years ago for apartment and taxi from Kiev were fair. The women some were nice and some hopeless. It is (was) in fact a side business for him.
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Re: Marriage Agency in Sumy - Heart-Desires.com - Information Please?
« Reply #9 on: July 03, 2012, 12:50:36 PM »
I'm interested in finding out more about this.

I have a thread about this some where. The owner if you meet him is honest and direct.

His charges three years ago for apartment and taxi from Kiev were fair. The women some were nice and some hopeless. It is (was) in fact a side business for him.

What do you mean some were "hopeless"?

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Re: Marriage Agency in Sumy - Heart-Desires.com - Information Please?
« Reply #10 on: July 03, 2012, 02:53:43 PM »
I'm interested in finding out more about this.

I have a thread about this some where. The owner if you meet him is honest and direct.

His charges three years ago for apartment and taxi from Kiev were fair. The women some were nice and some hopeless. It is (was) in fact a side business for him.

What do you mean some were "hopeless"?

Hopeless was to harsh but my impression some of the women while well intentioned would not survive a move to a different culture. But these women are spread across the former Soviet Union.
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Re: Marriage Agency in Sumy - Heart-Desires.com - Information Please?
« Reply #11 on: June 12, 2014, 04:18:54 PM »
Has ANYONE contacted these girls by phone, skype or in person?


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Re: Marriage Agency in Sumy - Heart-Desires.com - Information Please?
« Reply #12 on: June 12, 2014, 04:25:21 PM »
Has ANYONE contacted these girls by phone, skype or in person?

My understanding was that Avhdb had met some of these girls in person.
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Re: Marriage Agency in Sumy - Heart-Desires.com - Information Please?
« Reply #13 on: June 12, 2014, 04:53:40 PM »
OK Ill PM him

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Re: Marriage Agency in Sumy - Heart-Desires.com - Information Please?
« Reply #14 on: June 13, 2014, 07:32:27 PM »
For what it is worth, I have a strong dislike of PM's.

As for Hearts Desires, Andriy the owner does what he promises, his charge for a taxi from Boriyspol was fair as well as the cost for housing. It is best to describe your self to the owner and send a list of the women that interest you together with some current foto's of your self. He or his staff will ask the women if they want to meet you. The first meeting is usually in the dumpy office and from there you see if there is a chemistry and you can take it from there.

There is a problem that when you move beyond say Kiev, Moscow or Odessa the women tend to have very limited view of the world.
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Re: Marriage Agency in Sumy - Heart-Desires.com - Information Please?
« Reply #15 on: June 13, 2014, 08:44:36 PM »
There is a problem that when you move beyond say Kiev, Moscow or Odessa the women tend to have very limited view of the world.

Could you expand on this a little? Thanks. BTW, why the dislike for PMs?

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« Reply #16 on: June 14, 2014, 08:49:37 AM »
There is a problem that when you move beyond say Kiev, Moscow or Odessa the women tend to have very limited view of the world.

Could you expand on this a little? Thanks. BTW, why the dislike for PMs?

I have noticed women in smaller cities and towns have a very simplistic view of the world. Most likely they have never heard of things that we consider normal. While Sumy is a city, both Vinny and I wrote of the city I met more than one woman who did not use the internet and whose circle of friends was in fact family. There are nice women there and you might have success. But I would have a back up plan.

My dislike for PM's is that often members share information that would help the larger "community" but it remains private or I understand it is used to plan strategies to attack specific members who do not agree with another member. It reminds me of a bunch of teenage school girls gossipping.
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« Reply #17 on: June 14, 2014, 09:20:10 AM »
There is a problem that when you move beyond say Kiev, Moscow or Odessa the women tend to have very limited view of the world.

Could you expand on this a little? Thanks. BTW, why the dislike for PMs?

I have noticed women in smaller cities and towns have a very simplistic view of the world. Most likely they have never heard of things that we consider normal. While Sumy is a city, both Vinny and I wrote of the city I met more than one woman who did not use the internet and whose circle of friends was in fact family. There are nice women there and you might have success. But I would have a back up plan.

My dislike for PM's is that often members share information that would help the larger "community" but it remains private or I understand it is used to plan strategies to attack specific members who do not agree with another member. It reminds me of a bunch of teenage school girls gossipping.

So, it is like a small-town USA mentality , or a "village" mentality? Are they "clannish"?
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« Reply #18 on: June 14, 2014, 09:26:09 AM »
So, it is like a small-town USA mentality , or a "village" mentality? Are they "clannish"?

Some women even in the smallest villages are quite wise - but a larger percentage are very simple. As an example they often first wanted to know how much of drugs I used and were all the women prostitutes in Amsterdam.
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« Reply #19 on: June 14, 2014, 09:32:11 AM »
So, it is like a small-town USA mentality , or a "village" mentality? Are they "clannish"?

Some women even in the smallest villages are quite wise - but a larger percentage are very simple. As an example they often first wanted to know how much of drugs I used and were all the women prostitutes in Amsterdam.

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« Reply #20 on: June 14, 2014, 11:20:24 AM »
That small town mentality can be something. The worst is their suspicion of outsiders and their desire to drive them off. Xenophobia.

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Re: Marriage Agency in Sumy - Heart-Desires.com - Information Please?
« Reply #21 on: June 14, 2014, 12:45:13 PM »
I found the people in Sumy to be quite friendly after they were engaged in conversation.  The older generation, as in many FSU cities, want nothing to do with you however.  The city is rather small, poor and unimpressive...more or less an industrial city with very little to do. 

There is a small university there that does teach English so you can find many young college students that want to practice English which can be fun, but they were all too young for me.  McDonalds and a club called Dialog seem to be the main attractions there.

Like Av stated, they are generally oblivious to the outside world and the extent of their travel may be to Kharkov or Kiev for other work or to let their teenagers do a little shopping.

The girl I met was very well educated and also well traveled (Europe) but that is rare among anyone in Sumy.
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