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Stupid girls from Elenas models
« on: August 11, 2012, 06:04:00 AM »
I'm young, handsome, sportist, traveller, charming and have high university education and majority of girls answer "not interested" to my EOIs and few leave "read" without answer.

Why???

Pretty girls with "confirmed profile" always or almost always answer "not interested" to me

Girls that contact me are ugly and/or fat or not looking for match

My profile says I'm 28 y.o., tall, athletic, handsome, high university education, similar interests to them... have all to like to girls. then... ¿why not interested?

Girls don't take seriously my profile, they don't consider to me for potential relationship, they invalidate me in spite of my qualities.

Not interested in a profile as this:

www.elenasmodels.com/index.php?ap=2805891

Rejected by girls as these:

www.elenasmodels.com/index.php?ap=8342512

www.elenasmodels.com/index.php?ap=9747370

www.elenasmodels.com/index.php?ap=2704533

www.elenasmodels.com/index.php?ap=2716283

My profile says I have qualities that they're looking for in the guys, many of my interests are similar to them, am young and handsome.

It's unfair. Women treat unfairly to my person.



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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #1 on: August 11, 2012, 06:07:15 AM »
Maybe you have an attitude problem?

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #2 on: August 11, 2012, 06:12:23 AM »
The fact you mention you are handsome over and over tells us a lot and them too no doubt, you might well be, but you don't have to mention it, they will think you are in love with yourself and they won't be able to compete  :chuckle:

Re-write your profile, concentrate on other positive aspects about yourself and your life, tell them about where you live what you enjoy doing in your spare time, and loose the beads,   and you might stand a better chance.

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #3 on: August 11, 2012, 08:03:01 AM »
I'm young, handsome, sportist, traveller, charming and have high university education and majority of girls answer "not interested" to my EOIs and few leave "read" without answer.

Why???

Pretty girls with "confirmed profile" always or almost always answer "not interested" to me

Girls that contact me are ugly and/or fat or not looking for match

My profile says I'm 28 y.o., tall, athletic, handsome, high university education, similar interests to them... have all to like to girls. then... ¿why not interested?

Girls don't take seriously my profile, they don't consider to me for potential relationship, they invalidate me in spite of my qualities.

Not interested in a profile as this:


Rejected by girls as these:



My profile says I have qualities that they're looking for in the guys, many of my interests are similar to them, am young and handsome.

Why/??? :laugh: because you are full of **it! :)Maybe if you added that to the ridiculous view of yourself it might make someone laugh-- but then again you have probably already said it in your description of yourself and girls can work that out without help! :chuckle:

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #4 on: August 11, 2012, 08:49:38 AM »
They aren't stupid at all  ;D
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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #5 on: August 11, 2012, 09:05:06 AM »
I have one more guess: young men from Spain and Italy are considered as not  serious. If you read Russian women forums threads you'd see lots of stories about hot blooded guys giving away love words and promises. You know stereotypes...
I don't say this is the reason but it's quite possible.

By the way, your post here says you do have an issue. Being rejected is not an excuse for calling the girls stupid.  :coffeeread:
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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #6 on: August 11, 2012, 09:17:57 AM »
Just read this thread and also checked out the various profiles provided. 

The OP's profile:
First the OP says almost nothing in his profile about himself and his life.  If I had read such a profile from a FSUW I would likely have said "NEXT" and moved on to someone who had something to say about herself.  Also the main photo in it shows a guy in a T-Shirt, not really classy for someone seeking a serious classy lady!

The ladies profiles:
Some are very young and perhaps sexy, but not yet marriage material.  One is already in the USA and likely can find good prospects there never mind in near bankrupt Spain.  Generally the economy in Spain is not a positive quality for anyone seeking a partner and a potential successful family and future.  Only 1 was mature and perhaps the OP did not meet her standards for whatever reason.  Also the response rates for a couple of the ladies were 95% and 99%, so lots of guys to choose from and the OP just did not meet their grade!

Thoughts:
The OP should provide more content about himself to attract the kind of lady he is seeking.  Obtain some good quality photos to impress the ladies to replace the T-shirt variety as he is seeking a fashionable and stylish FSUW not a local dress down diva afterall.  Perhaps stick to those ladies 25 to 28 who may be more mature than the 19 to 23 year olds he is currently emailing.  After all one should be seeking a quality wife not just a cute face.

These are just some thoughts that come to mind after having read the initial post here.

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #7 on: August 11, 2012, 09:19:18 AM »
Probablemente creen que quieres jugar el campo como dice Molly. Eres joven, atractivo, y tienes una foto como que de gusta la fiesta mucho. Tomate otra foto vestido bien que parece que eres mas serio para cazarte y tendras mas suerte. Creo que puedes alcanzar chicas mejores que esas tambien hermano...

Sometimes there can appear to be too much of a good thing.

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #8 on: August 11, 2012, 10:16:22 AM »
The ladies that I have met on EM are far from stupid. There are many factors that they consider in a potential relationship besides love and harmony.

 
Besides your attitude perhaps you have another problem... as in real estate, location, location,location...

While I think that European men have a major advantage in this pursuit, your location is very unstable at the moment. Madrid is  beautiful to visit. But do seriously think that a lady who is  interested in marriage has not factored in the economic woes that are now engulfing Spain?

Regardless of what the ECB does and what the media portrays things will get worse before they become any better.

Move to Germany or Austria.  :)

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #9 on: August 11, 2012, 10:22:12 AM »
I would say that women look at a lot of factors, including your age, attitude, are you likely to be faithful, what country do you come from, can you provide stability, your attitude etc .... You can put crosses down for being under 30, from Spain (economic & cultural) and perhaps having an attitude problem if your first post here was anything like your introductory post to them.

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #10 on: August 11, 2012, 11:46:36 AM »
Probablemente creen que quieres jugar el campo como dice Molly. Eres joven, atractivo, y tienes una foto como que de gusta la fiesta mucho. Tomate otra foto vestido bien que parece que eres mas serio para cazarte y tendras mas suerte. Creo que puedes alcanzar chicas mejores que esas tambien hermano...

Sometimes there can appear to be too much of a good thing.

Saha, I don't think that is the kind of hunt he is looking for.  :ROFL:

Guillermo

Voy a darte unos consejos.

Para empezar, a los 28 las chicas de lo mas seguro creen que estas de fiesta. A los 28 yo no tenia ninguna prisa en casarme y lo que queria era fiesta. Asi que tienes que entender porque las chicas no te responden.

Lo otro. La mayoria de las chicas de 24 para abajo lo que quieren es la fiesta. Me estoy refiriendo a las que viven en grandes metropolis. Asi que va a ser bien dificil encontrar una que sea seria.

Consejo. Habla con un agente que vive en Rusia o Ukraina y haz una cita para visitar cualquier ciudad y que ella sugiera ciertas chicas. Despues de todo, ese es su trabajo. Aqui hay dos o tres personas que hacen este tipo de trabajo y vienen con muy beunas recomendaciones.

Respecto a los otros "consejos" de los otros miembros, no lo tomes a mal. Es que son un poco mas viejos y por tanto mas conservadores. No les hagas mucho caso.

Suerte y no te desanimes.
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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #11 on: August 11, 2012, 12:25:07 PM »
You are in Spain, in Madrid - just FLY to Kiev or Moscow or other city for a few days.  Before you leave, message girls you are interested in, ask to meet at cafe or other place. Go, meet, talk.

What are you waiting for?  Americans find it so much harder - you have it easy.
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« Reply #12 on: August 11, 2012, 01:04:59 PM »
Guillermo  looking at http://www.elenasmodels.com/index.php?ap=2805891  you are 28 6ft tall have a confident latin man's attitude and warm smile and you make Enrique Iglesias look like an ugly old man - if you have any natural Salsa or Latin ballroom rhythm look for some Russian university language and culture immersion courses and find a few Salsa and or Latin Ball Room dancing clubs in StP, Moscow or Kiev and spend a couple weeks on cultural immersion holiday - then walk around the better shops and university communities or find the safe hot local night clubs and go out and just walk up and ask the ladies that tickle your fancy  if they would like to be your latin ballroom or salsa even tango partner...  Do the same on Elenas Models or LuckLovers (Only about $19 a month...) or Mamba.ru FREE and tell them when you will be there and are an available dance partner and potential partner in life.

Also your EM profile should describe where you live and your lifestyle a bit more - not bragging but how you live and what makes life enjoyable to you. As a journalist - create a mind picture in the RU/UA ladies imagination of how she might live WITH you.  Russian ladies love the Spanish climate and relaxed lifestyle...  you are actually prime husband material if you are sincere in your desire to be a family man.  A few more pictures of you out and about enjoying the sweet life in Madrid both at work and play could do wonders for your response rate.  Let them see what you look like as a journalist on an important story and at play.

If you can ask local lasses in even passable Russian and can wear a Armani style business suit when you take them out to evening cafe or dinner and then change into some simple ballroom appropriate shirt slacks and shoes while they dance arm in arm with you - There is not a stick big enough in all of Russia and Ukraine to beat off all of the incredibly hot young smart sexy ladies who will fall for you when they discover you are not just another Mediterranean sex tourist.

Russian ladies love ballroom and latin dance - love romance and love Spain France Monaco and Italy and love a man who takes ACTION.

Do not tell them what you are SHOW them.  Journalism and PR 101. Ole!


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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #13 on: August 11, 2012, 01:24:08 PM »
Anybody bother to Google translate your espanol before you post - just saying:

You probably think you want to play the course as Molly says. You are young, attractive, and you have a picture like that like to party a lot. Tomato another photo dress well it seems that you are more serious hunt you down and you will have more luck. I think you can achieve better than those girls too brother ...

Sometimes there can be too much to Appear of a good thing.

I'll give you some advice.

For starters, the 28 girls safest believe these holidays. At 28 I did not have any hurry to get married and what I wanted was a holiday. So you have to understand why girls do not respond.

The other. Most of the girls below 24 for what they want is the party. I am referring to those living in big cities. So it will be difficult to find one that is serious.

Council. Talk to an agent who lives in Russia or Ukraina and make an appointment to visit any city and it suggests that certain girls. After all, that's their job. Here are two or three people doing this work and come with very beunas recommendations.

Regarding the other "tips" from other members, do not take it amiss. Is that they are a little older and therefore more conservative. Do not make them much attention.

Good luck and do not be discouraged.
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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #14 on: August 11, 2012, 02:24:12 PM »
Anybody bother to Google translate your espanol before you post - just saying:

You probably think you want to play the course as Molly says. You are young, attractive, and you have a picture like that like to party a lot. Tomato another photo dress well it seems that you are more serious hunt you down and you will have more luck. I think you can achieve better than those girls too brother ...

Sometimes there can be too much to Appear of a good thing.

I'll give you some advice.

For starters, the 28 girls safest believe these holidays. At 28 I did not have any hurry to get married and what I wanted was a holiday. So you have to understand why girls do not respond.

The other. Most of the girls below 24 for what they want is the party. I am referring to those living in big cities. So it will be difficult to find one that is serious.

Council. Talk to an agent who lives in Russia or Ukraina and make an appointment to visit any city and it suggests that certain girls. After all, that's their job. Here are two or three people doing this work and come with very beunas recommendations.

Regarding the other "tips" from other members, do not take it amiss. Is that they are a little older and therefore more conservative. Do not make them much attention.

Good luck and do not be discouraged.
Good luck.

LMGDFAO

Here's some advice.

For starters, at 28 most girls think you are into partying and nothing else. I had no rush of getting married when I was 28 and all I wanted to do was to party. Maybe that's one reason most of these girls are not responsive.

Next, the majority of girls under 24 are not really that serious. This is a generalization for girls in big cities. Needless to say, it will be very difficult to find a serious girl of this age in the big cities.

Here's my advice. Talk to people in the business that live in Russia or Ukraine and set up a meeting in any city she/he recommends , most probably she/he knows some serious girls. After all, that's their job. There are a few in this forum that are highly recommended.

Regarding the "advise" from the other guys, don't take it the wrong way. They are a little bit older than you and therefore more conservative on their approach. So don't pay that much attention (to what you may think are put downs.)

Good luck and don't be discouraged.


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