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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #15 on: August 11, 2012, 05:46:22 PM »
Anybody bother to Google translate your espanol before you post - just saying:

You probably think you want to play the course as Molly says. You are young, attractive, and you have a picture like that like to party a lot. Tomato another photo dress well it seems that you are more serious hunt you down and you will have more luck. I think you can achieve better than those girls too brother ...

Sometimes there can be too much to Appear of a good thing.

I'll give you some advice.

For starters, the 28 girls safest believe these holidays. At 28 I did not have any hurry to get married and what I wanted was a holiday. So you have to understand why girls do not respond.

The other. Most of the girls below 24 for what they want is the party. I am referring to those living in big cities. So it will be difficult to find one that is serious.

Council. Talk to an agent who lives in Russia or Ukraina and make an appointment to visit any city and it suggests that certain girls. After all, that's their job. Here are two or three people doing this work and come with very beunas recommendations.

Regarding the other "tips" from other members, do not take it amiss. Is that they are a little older and therefore more conservative. Do not make them much attention.

Good luck and do not be discouraged.
Good luck.

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Here's some advice.

For starters, at 28 most girls think you are into partying and nothing else. I had no rush of getting married when I was 28 and all I wanted to do was to party. Maybe that's one reason most of these girls are not responsive.

Next, the majority of girls under 24 are not really that serious. This is a generalization for girls in big cities. Needless to say, it will be very difficult to find a serious girl of this age in the big cities.

Here's my advice. Talk to people in the business that live in Russia or Ukraine and set up a meeting in any city she/he recommends , most probably she/he knows some serious girls. After all, that's their job. There are a few in this forum that are highly recommended.

Regarding the "advise" from the other guys, don't take it the wrong way. They are a little bit older than you and therefore more conservative on their approach. So don't pay that much attention (to what you may think are put downs.)

Good luck and don't be discouraged.


A little bit better.

Mushie - despite our political differences when you do a good job and give decent advice I have to say well done  - though I am still trying to figure out what the other poster meant by:

Tomato another photo dress well it seems that you are more serious hunt you down and you will have more luck

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #16 on: August 11, 2012, 05:53:08 PM »
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h I am still trying to figure out what the other poster meant by:

Tomato another photo dress well it seems that you are more serious hunt you down and you will have more luck

I believe Sasha is urging the OP to have another photo taken, in more dressy clothes. :chuckle:

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #17 on: August 11, 2012, 06:07:16 PM »
Anybody bother to Google translate your espanol before you post - just saying:

Google translate is garbage when you are fluent  :)

Tomate = take of yourself. The tilde is missing, but I am sure the OP understands.

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #18 on: August 12, 2012, 01:21:01 AM »
Maybe you have an attitude problem?

Actually, he does.  First, Guillermo actually *is* a handsome guy.  Sometimes such men do not handle rejection from ladies well, because they are not accustomed to it--in situ, women dig them.  If Guille was in country (whether US, or FSU) he'd be getting more @ss than a toilet seat.  He's not, so the sale is more difficult to make. 

As Sasha points out, Guillermo needs to project a more serious attitude.  Instead of looking like a frat boy on spring break in New Orleans (I echo Chris' "lose the beads" sentiment), he should have a couple of photos in a suit/tie, and another in a more "sporty casual" look than "Dewd I got soooooooooooooo drunk last night.  Bourbon Street is the bomb!!!" 

Are men's profiles at EM usually this, um, spartan?  I mean, as I read that profile, he could have actually rounded it out more by adding "smokin' weed and getting laid" at the end.  And yes, I am having a bit of sport, here, but really, it could use some work.  He is probably best served by picking up some Russian and spending some time in Rus/Ukr/wherever.

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #19 on: August 12, 2012, 02:48:24 AM »
Guille tell your audience more about yourself and add 5 or 6 more photos. Perhaps a photo in a nice business suit and one in slightly less formal attire.  Your profile isn't telling women much about yourself.  As others have said you live in Spain a short hop to Moscow take a week off and do some sightseeing in Russia. 

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #20 on: August 12, 2012, 10:47:01 AM »
Maybe you have an attitude problem?

Actually, he does.  First, Guillermo actually *is* a handsome guy.  Sometimes such men do not handle rejection from ladies well, because they are not accustomed to it--in situ, women dig them.  If Guille was in country (whether US, or FSU) he'd be getting more @ss than a toilet seat.  He's not, so the sale is more difficult to make. 

As Sasha points out, Guillermo needs to project a more serious attitude.  Instead of looking like a frat boy on spring break in New Orleans (I echo Chris' "lose the beads" sentiment), he should have a couple of photos in a suit/tie, and another in a more "sporty casual" look than "Dewd I got soooooooooooooo drunk last night.  Bourbon Street is the bomb!!!" 

Are men's profiles at EM usually this, um, spartan?  I mean, as I read that profile, he could have actually rounded it out more by adding "smokin' weed and getting laid" at the end.  And yes, I am having a bit of sport, here, but really, it could use some work.  He is probably best served by picking up some Russian and spending some time in Rus/Ukr/wherever.

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+1. I'm going to add there my even be some skepticism from the female clients towards his profile pic itself. Young men with G's attributes are few and far between on the MOB circuit so they may be asking themselves if there's something wrong (not a true likeness or false profile).

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #21 on: August 13, 2012, 08:49:26 AM »
+1. I'm going to add there my even be some skepticism from the female clients towards his profile pic itself. Young men with G's attributes are few and far between on the MOB circuit so they may be asking themselves if there's something wrong (not a true likeness or false profile).

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+1. They may be asking themselves if a young and handsome guy (guapo) doesn't find what he is looking for at home - girls don't want him(?) - there must be something wrong with him (I'm not sure they are not right :-\).

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #22 on: August 13, 2012, 09:08:30 AM »
Anybody bother to Google translate your espanol before you post - just saying:

Google translate is garbage when you are fluent  :)

Tomate = take of yourself. The tilde is missing, but I am sure the OP understands.

I figured that much. This is an esdrujula word which always have the tilde (accent) on the next to next to last syllable. The Tomato (Tomate) would be a llana word and would never have a tilde.

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@ BB, that was excellent advice.
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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #23 on: August 13, 2012, 04:55:30 PM »
hey guys, long time reader first time poster.  I think im dealing with something relative to this post.  Granted ill go about it in a much more humble fashion seeking advice i suppose.  http://elenasmodels.com/index.php?ap=3970465 is my pro

im certainly not model status like the OP seems to be but ive done quite well for myself on vacations when i wasnt looking for something more permanent, and i dont want to fall into that stereotype of just sex tourist because that is no longer my focus.  Basically got cheated on.  twice in two seperate relationships while ive been deployed.  so im basically at the point of saying screw american women right now, and trying this. 

I think ive kept the profile brainfarts to a minimum too, did travel photos at London, Australia, Lake Como.  Ive gotten some some reasonable EOIs back

http://elenasmodels.com/index.php?ap=6601590
http://elenasmodels.com/index.php?ap=9483937

but any time ive tried for the "confirmed profiles" (that security is a big deal and less of a chance) of the ones that look professionally done, ive been hit with 4 rejections on (all from Kiev, not sure if that makes a difference).  I was kinda surprised by that reaction, and i guess im askin for help to see if ive made any rookie mistakes. 

One thing that i instantly realized could have been a red flag was being in the military and deployed (my last year, done after this year), i killed that from my profile completely.  any other recommendations would be appreciated.  tiphat

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #24 on: August 13, 2012, 05:48:07 PM »
It seems my turn to open the thread "Stupid blokes from Elenas models"  ;D
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they get too many letters from 20-25 y old girls whos partners age can be expanded to 80 or they never look in mirror since they passed 25  ;D
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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #25 on: August 13, 2012, 06:38:10 PM »
hey guys, long time reader first time poster.  I think im dealing with something relative to this post.  Granted ill go about it in a much more humble fashion seeking advice i suppose.  http://elenasmodels.com/index.php?ap=3970465 is my pro

im certainly not model status like the OP seems to be but ive done quite well for myself on vacations when i wasnt looking for something more permanent, and i dont want to fall into that stereotype of just sex tourist because that is no longer my focus.  Basically got cheated on.  twice in two seperate relationships while ive been deployed.  so im basically at the point of saying screw american women right now, and trying this. 

I think ive kept the profile brainfarts to a minimum too, did travel photos at London, Australia, Lake Como.  Ive gotten some some reasonable EOIs back

http://elenasmodels.com/index.php?ap=6601590
http://elenasmodels.com/index.php?ap=9483937

but any time ive tried for the "confirmed profiles" (that security is a big deal and less of a chance) of the ones that look professionally done, ive been hit with 4 rejections on (all from Kiev, not sure if that makes a difference).  I was kinda surprised by that reaction, and i guess im askin for help to see if ive made any rookie mistakes. 

One thing that i instantly realized could have been a red flag was being in the military and deployed (my last year, done after this year), i killed that from my profile completely.  any other recommendations would be appreciated.  tiphat

Change your primary picture - it's fine, but not IMO as a primary (in the water, headshot only, wet hair).
Consider if you spoke a different language how this paragraph may translate and come across:
Quote from: OP EM profile
My job takes alot out of me and i like to escape that and relax on my time off.

i am trying this site out hearing good things about eastern european women and their loyalty and desire for companionship, love, and family. American women cant seem to provide that for me, so hope im lucky finding you and we can live together in my home; California.
Capitalization, a lot(two words), slamming AW, and it doesn't say all that much in a positive light.  Changing military for "government" - no idea how that one may come across.

How about:
I work hard but enjoy my time away, whether pursuing sports or simply relaxing.
There is a lot to do in my home state of California, but I enjoy traveling to other countries as well as within the US.

I am looking for a committed relationship with marriage potential, with an intelligent woman who values family and doing things together as much as I do. 

It's still generic, but reads a bit different than what you wrote, and doesn't call out your lack of success with AW.

This part is better, but with some slight changes:
Quote from: OP profile
Travelling is my passion. I have traveled the world; have been to four continents and twenty five countries. I have had wonderful times travelling with friends, but it doesnt seem nearly as fulfilling an experience without someone you love accompanying you, and hopefully you can help me with that.
Traveling is my passion. I have traveled the world, having been to twenty five countries on four continents.
I have had wonderful times traveling with friends, but it's not nearly as fulfilling an experience without someone I love accompanying me. 
Maybe you can help with that?

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #26 on: August 13, 2012, 06:51:36 PM »
It seems my turn to open the thread "Stupid blokes from Elenas models"  ;D
My outbox looks such way...
I have 2 versions...
they get too many letters from 20-25 y old girls whos partners age can be expanded to 80 or they never look in mirror since they passed 25  ;D

Oops, I thought it was your Inbox, and was going to ask what's wrong with at least a few of those guys (going off small pics alone), as I thought you had deleted them without reading.

It's tough to say without seeing your profile.  You may be right; they may all be chasing girls half their age, or getting a lot of mail, in which case you may want to choose your profile picture carefully, or review your profile contents.  It does seem like around half of them could do better on their own profile pics. ;)

It's better to not worry about why some specific person hasn't responded, as much as what you can do to make your own profile more appealing, IMO.

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« Reply #27 on: August 13, 2012, 07:56:45 PM »
@ BB, that was excellent advice.

Every so often, I get one right.  :)

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #28 on: August 13, 2012, 08:04:36 PM »
hey guys, long time reader first time poster. 

The Padrushkas on the board are free to correct me, but....

1.  What RG said.  Slamming AW (no matter how much they deserve it) comes across as a huge whine.  Hint: When AM say "American women...", R/UW hear "women..."

2.  If you want to attract a lady, then present yourself as a gentleman

3.  Don't worry if every R/UW digs you; it only takes one and you want it to be the RIGHT one.

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Re: Stupid girls from Elenas models
« Reply #29 on: August 13, 2012, 09:07:42 PM »
It's better to not worry about why some specific person hasn't responded, as much as what you can do to make your own profile more appealing, IMO.

I'm not worry at all ,,, if it will be SOME  ;D but u see - they even not read letters  :'(
no problemo with that also, just wondering reading mens complains on women attitude  :biggrin:
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