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What do the ladies think of this situation?
HeartInTheEast:
I am 28 she is 24.
Met a girl in Kiev at a club, took her and her friend for breakfast then parted ways afterwards.
We did not have time to meet up again before I left. The day I left I smsd her: I have to go now, I really like you do you like me?
She replied Of course)
I emailed her and made it clear I want to come back, she hadnt replied to that email for over a month and I pretty much decided to leave it at that, but just afew days ago she replied explaining she just got back from Greece, I replied to that email and its been a few days and I havent received a response.
Being an optimist I think its good we dont wear out the chit chat before meeting except that my next time in Kiev might be a lot sooner than expected.
I am wondering about these mixed signals: long reply time, her email was a bit brief for the time she took to reply as though she was multitasking. Then again I havent really given her much attention to expect anymore than this back. By the way she does not know yet I might be going to Kiev again this month.
To me her interest level is uncertain, so I am unsure of how to aproach, maybe not contact her until I am about to leave, or maybe write her a long email. Then when I am there where to meet her, restaurant feels like too much maybe a bar? What if she insists on a place herself?
Ste:
You need some bollocks...
http://www.sosuave.com
HeartInTheEast:
I have read those things a long time ago and by those rules so far so good, I am just trying to bridge some of the culture gap and distance complications.
Krassie:
You receive what you give... When you were in Kiev you didn't spend much time with her, she didn't get much of your attention... What do you expect to get in return???
You still stayed there, why didn't you call her and tell her that you were busy?
When a woman feels lack of attention she usually backs up. If she doesn't get enough attention when dating, and if she is wise enough, she will not go further... You will not spend your time with her even being married...
Don't blame anybody for your mistakes, only yourself!
If you didn't have time to call her being there, you, probably were "multitasking" there too...
When you go to Kiev and want to meet this girl again, be wise enough to apologize. Lack of attention to us is ignorance...
Muzh_1:
Krassie, he is only 28. He is still learning. Right, HeartInTheEast?
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