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Offline missAmeno

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seeeking advice uadreams
« on: January 26, 2012, 08:22:36 AM »
Hi, i just registered here and hoping for some advice
One friend of mine (British citizen) started communicate with a ukranian girl from uadreams website. I can see that he has high hopes and afraid that dating site just a scam. After brief look on net i found lot of info that emails received from girls on that site could be written not by the girls them self but by interpreter. I would appreciate any comments/advice from anyone with more knowledge/experience with uadreams
Hypocrisy is the state of pretending to have beliefs, opinions, virtues, ideals, thoughts, feelings, qualities, or standards that one does not actually have. Hypocrisy involves the deception of others and is thus a kind of lie.

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Re: seeeking advice uadreams
« Reply #1 on: January 26, 2012, 08:24:42 AM »
I hope you are not talking about upsylon.

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Re: seeeking advice uadreams
« Reply #2 on: January 26, 2012, 08:40:27 AM »
upsylon? not sure what u mean
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Re: seeeking advice uadreams
« Reply #3 on: January 26, 2012, 08:44:19 AM »
upsylon has been ranting about uadreams for months. Hell, he's been ranting about Russian women for months. Wait, that's not true. He's been ranting about women for months.

Fine, so what makes you think your friend is being scammed? If he is sending money to her smack him silly and tell him to give you the money instead. I'm serious. That should open his eyes if he is sending money.

So, let's hear you. What seems to be the problem. :smokin:

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Re: seeeking advice uadreams
« Reply #4 on: January 26, 2012, 09:09:50 AM »
no, he said he never sent any money and he very happy that he found her. Its me who is concerned  .... and cut story short i am from ukraine originally so know well culture, life, mentality there. All i did googled uadreams spam and there is lots of references that men pay for emails to girls, translation, video chats and so on and that many man raise a question they dont believe those girls written those emails but by company did by itself or that they just been played with.  Thats why i am here asking advice
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Re: seeeking advice uadreams
« Reply #5 on: January 26, 2012, 09:16:52 AM »
If the girl is real, she should be willing to give her direct contact information such as cell number, Skype contact info or email address.  If not real, then she won't, as it is really someone writing at the agency who is pretending to be the person.

If you speak Russian and / or Ukrainian, you could offer to help translate once or twice, a scammer will not want to talk to someone who is fluent, while a serious girl would be OK with it.
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Re: seeeking advice uadreams
« Reply #6 on: January 26, 2012, 09:29:16 AM »
no, he said he never sent any money and he very happy that he found her. Its me who is concerned  .... and cut story short i am from ukraine originally so know well culture, life, mentality there. All i did googled uadreams spam and there is lots of references that men pay for emails to girls, translation, video chats and so on and that many man raise a question they dont believe those girls written those emails but by company did by itself or that they just been played with.  Thats why i am here asking advice

Is your friend talking on the phone or skype to this lady? if not why not? not many scammers want to talk for long.

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Re: seeeking advice uadreams
« Reply #7 on: January 26, 2012, 10:04:20 AM »
all communication on that site most be tough them paying for every message, girls not allowed to give personal email, phone, skype and so on
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Re: seeeking advice uadreams
« Reply #8 on: January 26, 2012, 10:14:24 AM »
My suggestion would be for him not to get his hopes up too much about the chances of her being real, knowing who he is and being interested in a relationship with him.   If he wishes to continue communications with her that is his choice.  It may do more to boost his ego than to help him find a wife but there is always a chance she is real.

My other suggestion would be to join a different site where he has a better chance of encountering real women.

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Re: seeeking advice uadreams
« Reply #9 on: January 26, 2012, 10:16:39 AM »
thank you
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Re: seeeking advice uadreams
« Reply #10 on: January 26, 2012, 10:35:21 AM »
all communication on that site most be trough them paying for every message, girls not allowed to give personal email, phone, skype and so on

I would try and help him find the woman on a free Russian site: vkontakte, odnoklassniki, singles.ru, etc... If she is real, and he contacts her directly, she should be more than happy to talk with him directly. If she doesn't even know he exists, then he is being taken for a ride...
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Re: seeeking advice uadreams
« Reply #11 on: January 26, 2012, 11:18:33 AM »
missAmeno: Unless your friend is communicating with an average looking middle aged lady he needs to stop wasting his money on uadreams and other such sites.

If you look at most profiles of young and hot ladies on that site you will see that most don't care what age their potential husband is. Translated into English that means 'scam'.

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Re: seeeking advice uadreams
« Reply #12 on: January 26, 2012, 11:40:43 AM »
thank you for all responses, i appreciate

and yes, she is much younger then him

my common sense screams that is scam but its hard to tell to friend when you see he genuinely wants it to be true
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Re: seeeking advice uadreams
« Reply #13 on: January 26, 2012, 11:48:59 AM »

my common sense screams that is scam but its hard to tell to friend when you see he genuinely wants it to be true

That is the universal rule that allows people to be scammed for millions of dollars.  Everyone wants to believe in the fantacy.

The real rule to follow is that if it seems too good be be true, it probalby isn't true.

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Re: seeeking advice uadreams
« Reply #14 on: January 27, 2012, 12:09:25 AM »
Hi, i just registered here and hoping for some advice

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