Wedding songs and dancesMy first experience with Russians dancing in public was at an Uzbek wedding. In past years journalists were often carted off to various spots around what is now the former Soviet Union. There we'd be expected to photo, write and record what our guides wanted us to photo, write and record. So via bus, a group of us made the long and dusty ride to Tashkent for the experience.
When it came to dancing, I was astonished. My first dancing lessons back in the USA had come at the hands of a Bulgarian staff at a popular American dance studio franchise that can be seen in strip-shopping centers in most large USA cities. Boy was I in for a big surprise! Men dancing with the men, ladies with the ladies (Tashkent is in Muslim territory you know, we just can't have a man dancing with a woman.)
Well while enjoying that experience, I've come to learn that not everyone who speaks Russian dances like the Uzbeks. So with that in mind let's enjoy some variety of styles and nationalities within the greater Russian culture and group of nationalities.
A gypsy girl dances at a restaurant: Get off the main avenues of Moscow, Petrograd and Kyiv and this is a scene you'll see repeated time after time after time. Russia and Ukaine don't have the same kind of liquor licenses and nightclub licenses as in the West so every restaurant can be a bar and have a dance floor if they wish.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lJd4et9dZRkCommand performance with some of the most beautiful Russian lady dancers in their costumes:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bEAo_QM1rVYLet's talk about wedding dances.
Don't be shocked if some of the dances at your wedding look like this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YyM-rBVtW8kYour wedding dances will have a serious side too. Likely your bride will expect for the two of you to perform a special dance for your guests:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ogBminqgRwOr it maybe this is the two of you!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nFWZPoPZqF0http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VlqwUpAwLj4&A common wedding tradition all across Europe, you can be certain this couple put in some time to practice!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mVSNXXrzowI&mode=related&search=Waltz%20WeddingEvery wedding dance needs a belly dancer! Very common in Russian and Ukrainian weddings.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EXwAtgF3NC4Russian Jewish wedding dance:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ceG2eY_VUToNo matter the occasion, no dance party would be complete without Russian pop music and girls in mini-skirts dancing to the the hit song "Natasha."
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WtDvcIvq8PgFinally, whether it's a silly skit while with friends at the dacha....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ktSIPC5Z4GA.......swing dancing to popular American oldies.....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tVyE510RpsQ....or enacting the traditional styles of their history....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjXkgtMuTFI.....Russians love to dance!
PS....what does an Uzbek wedding look like?
Glad you asked:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sPt-HMhGXaYBelly dancers at an Uzbek wedding? How many would you like?!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TY_ePNjVUl4An American couple dance at a wedding in Tashkent. Notice how people come up and hand them money? I've seen this done in the handful of Uzbek weddings I've attended. Likely these two are seen as guests of honour. More money seems to go to the Belly dancers (duh!) and also to the bride and groom. Uzbeks like to decorate a "money tree" also, a custom shared by many western cultures as well. We all need money!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ggvEyJK1ptASpontanteous singing will be a part of your wedding party. Guests will perform songs or dances. Your wife will likely dance for you! And you and your bride will dance for your guests.
And don't be surprised if the entire wedding party breaks out in song once in a while for a traditional song. As we featured traditional Russian songs on page 3:
"Калинка is often sung at wedding parties. At this imaginary wedding party in Moscow, with the lights of the Kremlin softly accenting the background, famous Belgian singer Helmut Lotti performs a rousing version with the wedding party singing along in true Russian fashion."
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Srk5SpVTsE