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Offline basilik

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top best websites about Russian Ukrainian women
« on: August 02, 2010, 03:17:26 AM »
bringing real knowledge!

Of course...RUadventures!!!

I suggest this one: http://russianwomenspeak.wordpress.com/
All is in the title...the other side of the mirror...


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Re: top best websites about Russian Ukrainian women
« Reply #1 on: August 02, 2010, 07:09:40 AM »

I suggest this one: http://russianwomenspeak.wordpress.com/
All is in the title...the other side of the mirror...



?? This site is just a blogger who appears to hope to earn revenue from google click thru's

Follow a lot of the links and get Error 404's

If I want to look a pictures of pretty FSU W may be ...  :chuckle:



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Re: top best websites about Russian Ukrainian women
« Reply #2 on: August 02, 2010, 08:43:13 AM »

I suggest this one: http://russianwomenspeak.wordpress.com/
All is in the title...the other side of the mirror...



?? This site is just a blogger who appears to hope to earn revenue from google click thru's

Follow a lot of the links and get Error 404's

????????????????????
A good blog indeed written by un ukrainian woman in Kiev with experience of dating agency
try again the link, you should type wrong...where are the photos?
Anyway a good blogger to write this:

Finding a Russian (Ukrainian) Wife: Travels, not Agency or Online Dating? Advantages & Disadvantages, Mistakes & Success Tips

Suppose you’ve stuck your index into the map, arranged a secure stay and hopped on a plane. Where are you going to meet the girls – and how?


Street
Here it’s not regarded as a seemly place for introductions. Who knows what these strangers turn out to be (both parties having their own reasons to beware of criminals or just spare their time from blind dates which prove blind alleys; especially that “interesting” folks of both sexes spend most their time otherwise than hitting the streets or drinking in parks). Well, YOU have got an advantageous excuse for getting in contact – as a foreigner in need of some help. Just mind courtesy formulae.

A dream plot: While she is fulfilling that famous Slavic hospitality (assuming you’ve invented a lengthy yet intriguing and not burdensome quest, and she has time to guide you along), you can develop a casual talk which is likely to involve personal issues as both of you would be eager to explore a foreign culture in each other’s person,.. and this interest evolves.

Main setback: what’s the chance of meeting an English-speaking AND single AND dateless AND decent girl, NOT opposed to a foreign relationship and relocation, JUST having some free time to follow your scheme straight ahead? Scarce it is!

Leisure & Holiday
Russian women tend to go out with company. As for vacations, young girls travel with their parents or stay with their relatives, till they are handed over to boyfriends / husbands. Alternatively, for a time off (be it recreation, pastime or amusement) women of all ages flock together or tandem with friends. For making an acquaintance, such an environment appears more secure for the girl, yet makes her less approachable: you were not waited for, she can’t abandon the companions, and for both of you the context doesn’t allow enough concentration for significant communication. (Well, nevertheless, local young girls and young men practice meeting out as they are going two by two – and even dating so – purportedly to reduce anxiety, or, since the method rather raises it, at least to have some party time.)

Still, with the social ways modernized, there comes a growing number of singles (and couples) spending time independently: “Why miss life’s entertainments for the only reason there’s no company available?” So when you see an unchaperoned lady enjoying her free time, this may be (a) just a nice single, unexpectful of or set out for romance – who-knows-how-serious-it-goes-but-family-ideals-kept-in-mind; (b) an engaged one, occasionally or temporarily going by herself; (c) a hunter by lifestyle, whatever it implies.

Main eye-opener: “International fit” and accessible Russian singles, be they serious women seeking foreign marriage, or sex touring girls, or ladies thinking pure refreshment and health improvement, careless if any dating occurs (still, prepared for giving it a try), – go on holidays abroad! Time is the first issue: holiday seasons are the first decade of May, then June – September (peak in August), and late December to mid-February. And there is a certain range of countries where Russian (Ukrainian) tourists concentrate.

Turkey, Bulgaria and Egypt are top three, as they offer better service at lower price than Former Soviet Union national resorts. The former two are especially favored by divorced mothers; Croatia appeals to party girls; Egypt, Cyprus, UAE, Tunisia attract more hookers.

Europe is magnetic to romantic girls and ladies of culture, with all its movie settings for their dreams of meeting the love of their lifetime. They are likely to be found in Italy, France, Spain, Britain, Greece (sightseeing & museums and/or beach destinations) in the warm season. Winter favorites are Czech, Slovakia, Hungary, Slovenia, Poland, France, Austria, Germany (excursions and/or skiing).

Peculiar are famous resorts fashioned by the Russian “new rich” (who have been crowding the Mediterranean, Alpine and Island regions for so long that the “glam vanguard” now head off to places where no Russian language is yet heard). Among the womenfolk, there are many “professional” golddiggers and few decent marriage-minded “elite”. Russian well-paid employees, managers and professionals are more like honestly looking for a worthy match. Rich daughters, business-ladies (often owing their shops and parlors to turnkey sponsorship), showbiz & media “stars” and starlets, “new Russian” ex-wives and girlfriends fall into both categories, in expectable proportion).

Of course you can find any motivation anywhere, the choice of place depending on the lady’s material standing, and her morals depending on the origin of this standing. E.g., London is reported quartered by a seasoned legion of “new Russian’s” girlfriends, nonchalant and bold, armoured in killing fashion clothes, threatening the native wives and brides. I’ll post more guidelines on behavior evaluation.

Public facilities
With all aforesaid considerations to remember, you can improve the stakes a little bit: the context of the place may offer more time and ground for conversation, and somewhat specify the “target audience” (whose social background and occupation correlate considerably with education, culture, language and communication skills… with peculiarities still to be discussed). What would that be: an original foreign film show or a cultural event? a queue at a bank or a postal / Internet / call-center? a fitness club? a café in the office district?

Or why not try distract the friendly and attractive employees of foreigner-servicing tour agencies or medical facilities, as these are destined launching pads for getting married to a foreign man? ;) Imagine Plan A with the guide / interpretor which HAS to walk and talk with you all day round! (The only nuisance is that both of you are not the ones who choose each other…)

Night clubs
From year one and throughout the Soviet era, dance grounds have been the Russian young people’s prime rendezvous, where everybody could express oneself and assess each other’s physical compatibility through dancing. Modern clubs have largely lost this primeval matching meaning, as most serious and cultured people, men or women, would avoid the atmosphere filled with smoke, spirit, loud music of two notes, and crowds of primitively-minded people often drunk or doped. Still, there is quite a number of good-taste houses and discos featuring oldies, rock, pop or ethnic music regularly, and it would be incorrect to label all the nightclubs as nests of vice. You can meet there students or white collars of all ages celebrating and unwinding, and girls of different backgrounds in the old-fashioned search of boyfriends worth becoming husbands, – each having her own face and manner distinguishable from the detached demonstrative style of hookers squirming near.

Main inconvenience of dancing houses: impossibility of communication through the music, making speech sound too primitive by form and essense even for initial acquaintance (if heard and understood at all). So, choose the club that has quieter bar / restaurant premises where you can offer your new dancing partner a refreshment pause, because suggesting a chill-out outdoors can be perceived as a dangerous and objectionable lead to premature intimacy.

To stand out, offer her not just “some drink”. Add juice, water, tea and coffee to the usual offer list of cocktail / wine / martini. No quiter halls? Ask if there is a cafe or restaurant nearby “to sit and talk”. You’ll show that you just care for her needs and take interest in her personality, rather than press on the pickup rituals. In turn, she would feel grateful and relaxed for not having to guess if you consider her obliged in case she accepts your offer and whatever she chooses. How she reacts and how the dance-floor acquaintances develop is a topic for a separate post…

To make the off-hand live-search venture pay its way, you need vast brackets of acceptance, extraordinary luck (or search at singles’ personals website to appoint dates where you go), true intuition and tremendous psychology skills (well, as anyway).

Then the brave enjoy the following advantages:

(1) You are a body ahead all online daters: you’re already here!

“Real life” acquaintance feels more binding than a “virtual” romance, where both parties are victims to the “Tamagochi Syndrome” (i.e. the correspondent always second to the calls of the day, and kept convenient in the digital cage).

(2) You two can use all of your senses to immediately learn each other.

DANGER! Researches have proven that the sight of beautiful women compromises men’s use of their intelligence. ;) And when there’s also voice, perfume and touch (I’ve heard that Russian accent is considered extremely sexy!) – reason is too often discarded. This is blatantly exploited by “bad girls”.

Safety guidance: Overhear the lust, and try to listen to your body for the sense of trust – that’s what you need this overall perception for. Well straightly speaking, need I remark that a marriage-ready man should be good at managing his way amidst female charms? (I didn’t mean the technique that might occur first!)

Luckily enough, you can take your time exploring each other’s inner world through emails, phone talks [skills permitting], and instant messenger chats as you come back home.

(Any reliance on SMS? Well it’s a good device for arrangements and romantic greetings, but too cumbersome for a substantial talk.)

Web-paved way
Advertising your trip in a personal profile and/or communication should be put delicately. There are such common mistakes as bragging of the visit in the introduction (which suggests a “Mr Arrogant” or “Sex Tourist” image) and hasteful blunt demand to take some steps (same conclusion). The latter falls into two remarkable approaches.

(1) “Wanna-meet”: to answer this question, you must learn a bit about each other, so you both can guess if getting together is going to be interesting. It takes at least 15 minutes chatting, or a dozen lines of email / profile telling what the sudden friend you are.

(No haste with telephone - all information, and maybe even either party’s wits, could be lost in the unfamiliar speech! Besides, many important issues are what Russians may at their own discretion qualify as “non-phone talk”, or feel more comfortable to write than speak on with strangers. Ask what mode of communication she is more convenient with).

If not timely notified on the Distinguished Guest’s Exigent Visit, she might have set her own plans for these days… (Oh this “cute” habit of Monday-Thursday trips! If anybody didn’t know: these are work days here! Remember the vacation seasons as well – she may be leaving.) So, “best impromptus occur at the prepared stage”.

Joseph confirms: A month of corresponding before the visit is ideal to hold a woman’s attention.

(2) “Help-me-around”: caution should be taken not to cast an impression of some lazy exploiter not smart enough to type “Hotels” “[city]” in the search engine box. Apropos an ordinary Russian girl is not expected to be familiar with local hotels, unless her job presumes accommodating guests or she has helped your predecessors already (which suspicion usually mars impressions).

Natalia’s Advise
The spontaneous mode of acquaintance between the foreign men visiting “Russia” (the Former Soviet Union) and the local women reduces both parties’ chances of meeting a decent partner. Why? Because the chance of making it a lasting relationship are fleeting, as the man is soon coming back West, to his own life. “How can a transient contact miles away compete with fellow-country men and women, how can people know each other enough to decide that one should cross her/his habitual life and start it all anew, in strange conditions?” – the girl reckons from her point of view. She has an option, to let guy go or to dead-set at him. The needy and the slutty would close in. The honest rather keeps aloof, presuming that the talk and fun underway are, at best, an unimportant pastime, or, at worst, “sex tourism to the savage land” (and so she thinks and acts to ward off “bad” men and prove “good” herself).

Sure you can find gems in dirt, wolves in lamb’s clothing, and innocent intentions in vigorous manner, – managing it all is still another topic. What is prerequisite, is

(1) some hasteless time – so that you both perceive each other clearly,

(2) a non-familiarizing manner – so that to look serious enough to get and hold a serious woman’s interest,

(3) balanced honesty in presentation to make her understand – that, why, and how, you are going to maintain communication,

and above all a sober mind and body to discern if you should.

Find your right way!

Sincerely,







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Re: top best websites about Russian Ukrainian women
« Reply #3 on: August 02, 2010, 09:10:01 AM »
Her blog has loads of google ad links and "from theory to action" - the 'smartest site I know' ... THAT leads to :

A dating site - www.verifiedrussiangirls.com/ - or is it www.datingandmatchmaking.com [ click on prices down at the bottom and you'll end up at the second site]  with which she is no doubt affiliated ...

other links:

http://russianwomentruth.com/ are riddled with 404's


HOW you could compare this site as a useful resource eludes me - sorry







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Re: top best websites about Russian Ukrainian women
« Reply #4 on: August 02, 2010, 09:40:45 AM »
Interseting articles are in the middle of the page...:)
Of course if you are looking only on ads...

have a look the same way at
http://ruadventures.com/forum/index.php

you will find

http://russianbrideguide.org/
http://www.elenasmodels.com/index.php?ap=2703980&goto=ladagirl

what's wrong?
Where is the google pay click when you follow my link?
The articles are well written and are good summaries. I recognize they are sometimes a little sarcastic about foreigners but i will be happy to find more posts of this quality on ruadventures...

to be positive could you suggest a good link about russian Ukrainian?

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« Reply #5 on: August 02, 2010, 11:23:43 AM »
Hi Basilik

I thought I was being positive

One site is a messy blog - fronting links to other blogs ( lots of missing links)  and a defo pushing one dating site

Another site has a forum format - with lots of independent posters - without any affiliations - and ads for lots of dating sites - lots of good info to be found in ask a Russian lady ( http://ruadventures.com/forum/index.php?board=43.0)


I recommend YOU decide which is which  :coffeeread:

If you really seek 'Russian' Ukrainians then Eastern Ukraine, Crimea or Odessa are the places to start - personally speaking, I like olive skinned brunettes, but I found my version of 'heaven' in Siberia ;)

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Re: top best websites about Russian Ukrainian women
« Reply #6 on: August 02, 2010, 11:36:56 AM »
Her blog has loads of google ad links and "from theory to action" - the 'smartest site I know' ... THAT leads to :

A dating site - www.verifiedrussiangirls.com/ - or is it www.datingandmatchmaking.com [ click on prices down at the bottom and you'll end up at the second site]  with which she is no doubt affiliated ...

other links:

http://russianwomentruth.com/ are riddled with 404's


HOW you could compare this site as a useful resource eludes me - sorry


Moby, are we looking at the same site???

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« Reply #7 on: August 02, 2010, 01:04:59 PM »
I don't know.. I can remotely control your browser and demonstrate if you like ;) 




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Re: top best websites about Russian Ukrainian women
« Reply #8 on: August 02, 2010, 01:30:05 PM »
I don't know.. I can remotely control your browser and demonstrate if you like ;) 

You wish.  :8)

I think you are refering to the link on the upper left hand corner.  :evilgrin0002: Less conspicuous than the Elena's Models, et.al. that appear at the bottom of each page here. Also, the "loads of google ads" didn't show up on my computer.

However I saw was a bunch of topics that are discussed here. For example, there's this topic discussing dating in situ, by free personals, and agencies. I should add that I didn't get a 404 Error message once. I think this is what Basilik was refering to.
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« Reply #9 on: August 02, 2010, 02:03:32 PM »
I don't know.. I can remotely control your browser and demonstrate if you like ;) 

You wish.  :8)

only with your permission, of course...! ;)


I think you are refering to the link on the upper left hand corner.  :evilgrin0002: Less conspicuous than the Elena's Models, et.al. that appear at the bottom of each page here. Also, the "loads of google ads" didn't show up on my computer.

1/ Yes, that would be the link - I posted it in msg 3

2/ Google ads ? - As I also said in msg three - this is a BLOG site - not a forum - you get one persons ideas - they start the threads .. if you click on the 'comrades' link you'll see links to sites with lots of error 404's and google ads .. I even posted the link: http://russianwomentruth.com/

You were right - I didn't need to remotely control your PC - I just hoped folk might actually READ my responses :P ;)  

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« Reply #10 on: August 02, 2010, 02:57:20 PM »
I don't know.. I can remotely control your browser and demonstrate if you like ;) 

You wish.  :8)

only with your permission, of course...! ;)

Of course.

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You were right - I didn't need to remotely control your PC - I just hoped folk might actually READ my responses :P ;)  



Moby, not to  :dh: I went back to the site. A small link on the upper right hand corner and one section of "Comrades" which has "All singles Russian Girls" agency and two blogs with "godaddy" ads each, also on one corner. Are these the loads of google ads? Either your servers in Eng are mandated by law not to allow more than one ad per site or we here really practice freedom of speech that I don't see these "loads." One more time, I clicked on a LOT of links, from Comrades and "the smartest side I know" and not one 404. Sorry. And to think that I complained our government is regulating the net too much. :laugh:

Look, I'm not doubting what you are reading in your computer, I just don't see it here. I was making reference to the topics that are on the blog Basilik posted. I DO find a lot of good information there. Maybe I didn't "see" the loads of ads because I was NOT looking for agencies.

Also, what is wrong if this blog sends you to two agencies? Am I missing something?
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Re: top best websites about Russian Ukrainian women
« Reply #11 on: August 02, 2010, 03:55:20 PM »
Google ads UK has been having some problems here today. Our Google ads showed up as "page not found" a few times this evening.
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