Do you have one of those hand held shower massage devices?
Are those not better suited for couples where the man has a problem?
I heard a few stories where fsuw tend to have a hunk on a side, or some guys have walked into their wives cheating. It is discussed a lot and even women give advice to each other on how to hide their hunks from their husbands on fsuw forums.
Do you have one of those hand held shower massage devices?
Are those not better suited for couples where the man has a problem?
For couples where the man lasts over 30minutes in bed, gives a good stimulation while you use your sausage also. Pair of handcuffs,and a blindfold wouldn't do a miss also ;) Do your bit in bed, otherwise you will do you bit in a costly divorce. I heard a few stories where fsuw tend to have a hunk on a side, or some guys have walked into their wives cheating. It is discussed a lot and even women give advice to each other on how to hide their hunks from their husbands on fsuw forums.
Yip you've nailed it there Chicken man, spot on.
The FSU animal only recognises the hot beef injection as a sign of love and respect, therefor without daily maintenance, the species tends to migrate to another willing bloke before they die of sexual inactivity. They're also extremely good at keeping this as stealthy as possible unlike their more western sisters. You should hang around here with this invaluable insight into Russian ladies.
People think they are exceptions to the rules, they don't want to hear the truth.
I'll bet the OP is 'really glad' he asked :coffeeread:
People think they are exceptions to the rules, they don't want to hear the truth.
:ROFL:
BS alert
1/ I am not hung like a donkey
2/ I am not an Oligarch
3/ I am not an 'alpha male'
4/ I am not Adonis
I haven't screwed around during a monogamous relationship - ( listening first wife ? ) and I'm pretty sure I've not been cheated on
OMG, I left SC in Thailand without a chastity belt ...
Reminds me of Smooth Operator, anyone else remember him?
Banged on about SRM's (Second Rate Mutha's), hitting the gym daily etc; turned out he was a Chinese-american with massive Deirdre Barlow glasses....
Reminds me of Smooth Operator, anyone else remember him?
Banged on about SRM's (Second Rate Mutha's), hitting the gym daily etc; turned out he was a Chinese-american with massive Deirdre Barlow glasses....
Reminds me of Smooth Operator, anyone else remember him?
Banged on about SRM's (Second Rate Mutha's), hitting the gym daily etc; turned out he was a Chinese-american with massive Deirdre Barlow glasses....
SRM and ATM posts all in one day. That's some good boil medicine you are on, Ste...:-)))))
Somebody much more sensible than I once wrote something like this: 'money may not be able to buy happiness but is certainly buys all the things that make you happy!'
Most people do not fall in love with another person for just one reason. Most people do not, in my opinion, 'fall in love' anyway. Most people make choices, compromises, have hopes and dreams but romantic love is a recent invention and is not an option for most adults making long term relationships. Love certainly doesn't 'conquer all'.
People choose to be with other people because their 'package' of benefits is attractive. If the value of all the benefits summed up is enough to cross the threshold then 'bingo' we got a winner.
Sometimes, some people, use money to increase the value of their benefits package. Others might emphasise looks, others social status or any of a myriad attributes that create value. To discount money is foolish. To discount ANY attribute is similarly foolish.
Here's a truth: An older bloke chasing a relatively younger, more physically attractive woman is likely to need to be able to lead with a fair amount of wallet action. Most blokes here are engaged in such a pursuit.
What I think does happen though is that many blokes simply do not have any other attributes and there's almost no amount of wallet action can compensate for poor looks, lack of social skills and old age. Further, the guy who can seem like a cock of the walk on a two week vaykay in Odessa does not look quite so good when he returns with his bride to the Home of the Poor and 11 months of paying down the credit card bills before his next appearance on the shores of the Black Sea.
Reminds me of Smooth Operator, anyone else remember him?
Banged on about SRM's (Second Rate Mutha's), hitting the gym daily etc; turned out he was a Chinese-american with massive Deirdre Barlow glasses....
Do you remember the name or maybe Manny, of the old chap from Essex..... who was on about his conquests too.
Do you remember the name or maybe Manny, of the old chap from Essex..... who was on about his conquests too.
You wasn't it?
The OP, I think, is referring to so many American old braggers, with no personality and experience in relationships
I think perhaps Wiz is thinking of Vinny, famous for his strenuous denials of being a sex tourist while behaving like the commonly held vision of one at every opportunity.
well put, no money = big problems. It is hard to categorise all fsuw, and what they want. I thought my ex-wanted to escape Russia, in the end she wanted me to live there with her. First mistake i made was assumptions. Assume nothing, every individual will differ.
Reminds me of Smooth Operator, anyone else remember him?
Banged on about SRM's (Second Rate Mutha's), hitting the gym daily etc; turned out he was a Chinese-american with massive Deirdre Barlow glasses....
Do you remember the name or maybe Manny, of the old chap from Essex..... who was on about his conquests too.
You wasn't it?
Somebody much more sensible than I once wrote something like this: 'money may not be able to buy happiness but is certainly buys all the things that make you happy!'
Somebody much more sensible than I once wrote something like this: 'money may not be able to buy happiness but is certainly buys all the things that make you happy!'
Most people do not fall in love with another person for just one reason. Most people do not, in my opinion, 'fall in love' anyway. Most people make choices, compromises, have hopes and dreams but romantic love is a recent invention and is not an option for most adults making long term relationships. Love certainly doesn't 'conquer all'.
People choose to be with other people because their 'package' of benefits is attractive. If the value of all the benefits summed up is enough to cross the threshold then 'bingo' we got a winner.
Sometimes, some people, use money to increase the value of their benefits package. Others might emphasise looks, others social status or any of a myriad attributes that create value. To discount money is foolish. To discount ANY attribute is similarly foolish.
Here's a truth: An older bloke chasing a relatively younger, more physically attractive woman is likely to need to be able to lead with a fair amount of wallet action. Most blokes here are engaged in such a pursuit.
What I think does happen though is that many blokes simply do not have any other attributes and there's almost no amount of wallet action can compensate for poor looks, lack of social skills and old age. Further, the guy who can seem like a cock of the walk on a two week vaykay in Odessa does not look quite so good when he returns with his bride to the Home of the Poor and 11 months of paying down the credit card bills before his next appearance on the shores of the Black Sea.
Not everybody is gagging to marry. The chances of the women you lust after not having a lover, or lovers, is slim.
More than a few women cleave to the view that a woman needs three men. One for sex, one for intellect and one for support.
Some men have a similar perspective, albeit with different criteria.
Not everybody is gagging to marry. The chances of the women you lust after not having a lover, or lovers, is slim.
More than a few women cleave to the view that a woman needs three men. One for sex, one for intellect and one for support.
Some men have a similar perspective, albeit with different criteria.
You mean one to cook, one to clean & the other for sex? :hidechair:
As I recall, in Islamic tradition a man may have several (3?) wives as long as he can support them.
The support issue is important.
In addition, marriages can be very short term, as short as one night.
What I think does happen though is that many blokes simply do not have any other attributes and there's almost no amount of wallet action can compensate for poor looks, lack of social skills and old age. Further, the guy who can seem like a cock of the walk on a two week vaykay in Odessa does not look quite so good when he returns with his bride to the Home of the Poor and 11 months of paying down the credit card bills before his next appearance on the shores of the Black Sea.
A guy who doesn't quite make $60K a year but owns his house and has zero
debt, has great social skills and can spend a lot of time with his boots on the
ground and willing to put in a good effort could have some success as well.
Not everybody is gagging to marry. The chances of the women you lust after not having a lover, or lovers, is slim.
Money can't buy happiness, but poverty can't buy anything.
Money is an illusion to give sad guys motivation that they can buy love, so some eventually go to russia as that is their only attribute.
Money is an illusion to give sad guys motivation that they can buy love, so some eventually go to russia as that is their only attribute.
Some guys with no money AND no attributes will go, they will fail just like
the guys with ONLY money. Guys with ONLY money can rent but not buy.
I learned from my father 'alimony is the screwing you get for the screwing you had'
I learned from my father 'alimony is the screwing you get for the screwing you had'
A friend of mine said something similar about girl friends
Make sure the f#cking you are getting is worth
the f#cking you are getting.
I learned from my father 'alimony is the screwing you get for the screwing you had'
A friend of mine said something similar about girl friends
Make sure the f#cking you are getting is worth
the f#cking you are getting.
FFFF springs to mind... :hidechair:
Safest option.. :coffeeread:
FFFF springs to mind... :hidechair:
Safest option.. :coffeeread:
Money is an illusion to give sad guys motivation that they can buy love, so some eventually go to russia as that is their only attribute.
Some guys with no money AND no attributes will go, they will fail just like
the guys with ONLY money. Guys with ONLY money can rent but not buy.
FFFF springs to mind... :hidechair:
Safest option.. :coffeeread:
FFFF = Find them, feel them, F*** them, forget them.....
Rinse and repeat.
This one doesn't strike me as very good wife material.
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Looks good to me, she's a tryer, wants her man.
Someone who lives in the land of bountiful lays but is alone and bitter about a man and a woman getting together in a romantic comedy. :popcorn: :ROFL:
What is she guilty of?
Wants to look as good as she can, to match with her man and his needs, to escape a life that she does not like - yet she still loves and respects her mum.
I'd be happy to wake up next to her.
Someone who lives in the land of bountiful lays but is alone and bitter about a man and a woman getting together in a romantic comedy. :popcorn: :ROFL:
You remind me of one of Biff Tannan's toadie friends in "Back to the Future" :chuckle: You love being around trouble. Probably the real reason why you are attracted to Trump.
I remember one time asking Anteros how old he was. He never answered.
This one doesn't strike me as very good wife material.
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Only if you're completely blind to a woman's charms. :chuckle:
(why did it get 102 MILLION hits if the woman isn't good wife material?)
This one doesn't strike me as very good wife material.
Only if you're completely blind to a woman's charms. :chuckle:
(why did it get 102 MILLION hits if the woman isn't good wife material?)
The woman in the clip is a complete gold-digger. The actress however, I suspect would make very good wife-material. And she's already rich so you can take her to mac-donalds :ROFL:
What is she guilty of?
Wants to look as good as she can, to match with her man and his needs, to escape a life that she does not like - yet she still loves and respects her mum.
I'd be happy to wake up next to her.
I wonder how many of the married guys here would still be single if they drove the fork lift at Home Depot. I'm not saying the wives don't love you but I guarantee there was some mental box checking before you got to experience paradise :-)))) Wake the F**K up...:-)))
I wonder how many of the married guys here would still be single if they drove the fork lift at Home Depot. I'm not saying the wives don't love you but I guarantee there was some mental box checking before you got to experience paradise :-)))) Wake the F**K up...:-)))
In my case, I dont think it would matter if I drove a forklift at Home Depot. As long as there was enough food in the fridge and the roof wasn't leaking, more important I am a decent sort of bloke with shared values.
I get Boris' point entirely, but I think it over-simplistic. Among Home Depot drivers, one will save his money a little, budget properly, have a half-decent and clean home, not be in debt, and be a generally stand up guy his buddies can rely on in times of trouble. Another might be a deadbeat whose salary is gone on debts, wine, women and song 48 hours after he is paid. He spends the rest of the month bumming off his pals to make ends meet. Two very different guys; one would make a decent husband and one not.
Of course, affluent guys will always have more choice; same at home. It's the way of the world (see Donald and Melania for details). But poorer, decent blokes who have their stuff together can do OK too.
Where Home Depot guy falls off the cliff - in the US at least - is his measly two weeks holiday a year. That isnt enough to build a relationship abroad. Every bloke I know in a sound marriage is either self-employed or in a job with enough flexibility it allows one to take time off to chase dreams.......
Someone who lives in the land of bountiful lays but is alone and bitter about a man and a woman getting together in a romantic comedy. :popcorn: :ROFL:
You remind me of one of Biff Tannan's toadie friends in "Back to the Future" :chuckle: You love being around trouble. Probably the real reason why you are attracted to Trump.
I remember one time asking Anteros how old he was. He never answered.
And you remind me of this song and a character in the film. :laugh:
I wonder how many of the married guys here would still be single if they drove the fork lift at Home Depot. I'm not saying the wives don't love you but I guarantee there was some mental box checking before you got to experience paradise :-)))) Wake the F**K up...:-)))
In my case, I dont think it would matter if I drove a forklift at Home Depot. As long as there was enough food in the fridge and the roof wasn't leaking, more important I am a decent sort of bloke with shared values.
I get Boris' point entirely, but I think it over-simplistic. Among Home Depot drivers, one will save his money a little, budget properly, have a half-decent and clean home, not be in debt, and be a generally stand up guy his buddies can rely on in times of trouble. Another might be a deadbeat whose salary is gone on debts, wine, women and song 48 hours after he is paid. He spends the rest of the month bumming off his pals to make ends meet. Two very different guys; one would make a decent husband and one not.
Of course, affluent guys will always have more choice; same at home. It's the way of the world (see Donald and Melania for details). But poorer, decent blokes who have their stuff together can do OK too.
Where Home Depot guy falls off the cliff - in the US at least - is his measly two weeks holiday a year. That isnt enough to build a relationship abroad. Every bloke I know in a sound marriage is either self-employed or in a job with enough flexibility it allows one to take time off to chase dreams.......
I agree, Manny. I was just trying to make a quick point. Where the Home Depot guy really has problems is in his razor thin margin of error. Even the the best of guys with only a limited or moderate income can't afford to make many unsuccessful trips. Those of us who have done this have suffered through trips that have failed for a number of reasons. Even though both parties had good intentions. Human relationships can just be plain difficult. Limited money plus limited free time usually ends in disappointment. We have seen it many times here...
Someone who lives in the land of bountiful lays but is alone and bitter about a man and a woman getting together in a romantic comedy. :popcorn: :ROFL:
You remind me of one of Biff Tannan's toadie friends in "Back to the Future" :chuckle: You love being around trouble. Probably the real reason why you are attracted to Trump.
I remember one time asking Anteros how old he was. He never answered.
And you remind me of this song and a character in the film. :laugh:
I am not a one-trip wonder like you are Anteros. Did you ever find a job?
I know a young pretty girl, who lives in Switzerland, migrated from st petersburg. Hooked up with a young ex soldier. THey broke up, as he was indifferent. She now wants to return to russia as she does not like life in Switzerland, she says people don't live good. She has a bit of money, flat in st peters, money in the bank, blah blah blah. She wants me to join her in st peters. It is true, a lot of these women are shocked with the reality of west. Me and my ex actually discussed openly regarding life in the UK, i gave her the truth, gave her the worse of it. She then told me she didn't want to live in the UK, preferred being in russia, she had her own flat, mum was a bank manager, they had a house, flat in moscow also, soon to buy a hotel. If i did bring her back to the UK, she would have been shocked. We talked about her expectations and really it was basic, she wanted a holiday once a year, spend a bit on stuff like $20 dress once a month, and have kids without worrying about stuff. some men think you need to earn $100k a year to keep these women happy. I actually think it is not far from the truth, but i have no idea, at the same time the girl above stayed with her guy despite the financial difficulties. These girls have good lives in russia, so i think their expectations would differ from a girl struggling to make ends meet in russia who would be happy to just be in the west.
I know another girl, with a young bloke, she told me if she migrates to his country, she will sell her flat, and pay for her tuition, and share of rent. The bf is close to 30 i think, he hasn't got much money, she wants to add value to his life, and have kids with him. I know a few guys and girls like this, i have no clue if long term it will work out with them. But the way these women talk and act speaks volumes of their feelings for their man.
My daughter in Minneapolis Minnesota makes $30K a year and is as poor as a church mouse. The West isn't always better. Often times comparing the West with the East is like comparing apples and oranges. When the imported women see certain realities of living in the West they often yearn for back home.
My daughter in Minneapolis Minnesota makes $30K a year and is as poor as a church mouse. The West isn't always better. Often times comparing the West with the East is like comparing apples and oranges. When the imported women see certain realities of living in the West they often yearn for back home.
Switzerland girl told me people earning 80k euros a year live good. So for her, that was the figure she saw was good enough to live in capital of Switzerland. If i did meet anyone that i really liked, i think i will just end up living in their country. These days it is way too risky to get married, especially when you import a wife. My ex liked the idea of getting a small house in a farm land in russia, after hearing how demanding some women can be on forums like this, part of me regrets that i broke up with her ;D
Up to a point, yes. A minimum income level is a must, decency notwithstanding. If you don't meet that standard, no point contemplating this venture.I wonder how many of the married guys here would still be single if they drove the fork lift at Home Depot. I'm not saying the wives don't love you but I guarantee there was some mental box checking before you got to experience paradise :-)))) Wake the F**K up...:-)))Of course, affluent guys will always have more choice; same at home. It's the way of the world (see Donald and Melania for details). But poorer, decent blokes who have their stuff together can do OK too.
My daughter in Minneapolis Minnesota makes $30K a year and is as poor as a church mouse. The West isn't always better. Often times comparing the West with the East is like comparing apples and oranges. When the imported women see certain realities of living in the West they often yearn for back home.
Switzerland girl told me people earning 80k euros a year live good. So for her, that was the figure she saw was good enough to live in capital of Switzerland. If i did meet anyone that i really liked, i think i will just end up living in their country. These days it is way too risky to get married, especially when you import a wife. My ex liked the idea of getting a small house in a farm land in russia, after hearing how demanding some women can be on forums like this, part of me regrets that i broke up with her ;D
I wonder how many of the married guys here would still be single if they drove the fork lift at Home Depot. I'm not saying the wives don't love you but I guarantee there was some mental box checking before you got to experience paradise :-)))) Wake the F**K up...:-)))
In my case, I dont think it would matter if I drove a forklift at Home Depot. As long as there was enough food in the fridge and the roof wasn't leaking, more important I am a decent sort of bloke with shared values.
I get Boris' point entirely, but I think it over-simplistic. Among Home Depot drivers, one will save his money a little, budget properly, have a half-decent and clean home, not be in debt, and be a generally stand up guy his buddies can rely on in times of trouble. Another might be a deadbeat whose salary is gone on debts, wine, women and song 48 hours after he is paid. He spends the rest of the month bumming off his pals to make ends meet. Two very different guys; one would make a decent husband and one not.
Of course, affluent guys will always have more choice; same at home. It's the way of the world (see Donald and Melania for details). But poorer, decent blokes who have their stuff together can do OK too.
Where Home Depot guy falls off the cliff - in the US at least - is his measly two weeks holiday a year. That isnt enough to build a relationship abroad. Every bloke I know in a sound marriage is either self-employed or in a job with enough flexibility it allows one to take time off to chase dreams.......
I agree, Manny. I was just trying to make a quick point. Where the Home Depot guy really has problems is in his razor thin margin of error. Even the the best of guys with only a limited or moderate income can't afford to make many unsuccessful trips. Those of us who have done this have suffered through trips that have failed for a number of reasons. Even though both parties had good intentions. Human relationships can just be plain difficult. Limited money plus limited free time usually ends in disappointment. We have seen it many times here...
And the environment you live in. How much things cost just to provide the basics of life. There is also the legal structure you live under. The immigration rules and the pressure they place on a newly arrived immigrant spouse. Then there is the cost of failure. How punishing divorce is. Under these conditions it would be foolish to hook up with a shallow materialistic gold digger who wants to look good for you but knows that is but a means to an end. The money and most important the location to hook up with a bigger, better deal. The next poor sap that is dazzled by her looks whose got more shekels than you the mule she rode in on.
My daughter in Minneapolis Minnesota makes $30K a year and is as poor as a church mouse. The West isn't always better. Often times comparing the West with the East is like comparing apples and oranges. When the imported women see certain realities of living in the West they often yearn for back home.
Switzerland girl told me people earning 80k euros a year live good. So for her, that was the figure she saw was good enough to live in capital of Switzerland. If i did meet anyone that i really liked, i think i will just end up living in their country. These days it is way too risky to get married, especially when you import a wife. My ex liked the idea of getting a small house in a farm land in russia, after hearing how demanding some women can be on forums like this, part of me regrets that i broke up with her ;D
I've done a six-monther in Zurich and you need a lot to live anything other than a hermits life. Think £30 for a takeaway pizza, £8 a pint, £5 for a small cup of tea...
I still have a photo of my £18 jacket potato. £23 for the worst fish and chips I ever had though to be fair I was warned by the proprietor it's not cod or haddock but some weird Swiss fish and it was in Zurich Altstadt, tourist prices...
The capital is no cheaper BTW, but a very pleasant city, possibly my favourite city, Zurich is a bit concrete-y and grey, not to say extremely boring.
I was working for myself but most of the perm guys were on about 120-150k CHF.....
Some of the guys here are mad because she is out of their league. Girls like that are common in fsu, not impossible to find someone that beautiful, but goes back to the original point, if you are ugly as :censored: , i got some bad news for you..... Plus the guy in the video is not bad looking, he gives off the calm alpha vibe, and is successful. If it was a 45-year-old with a beer belly, you guys would maybe be talking about his so called game, and intelligence. Most here are married to gold diggers, only difference is, they are not so hot gold diggers.
Or if the guy is a twit who owns his own business making 6 figures but marries out of his league, he will be getting divorced and his ex wife will cause him constant problems no matter where he goes to.
Some of the guys here are mad because she is out of their league. Girls like that are common in fsu, not impossible to find someone that beautiful, but goes back to the original point, if you are ugly as :censored: , i got some bad news for you..... Plus the guy in the video is not bad looking, he gives off the calm alpha vibe, and is successful. If it was a 45-year-old with a beer belly, you guys would maybe be talking about his so called game, and intelligence. Most here are married to gold diggers, only difference is, they are not so hot gold diggers.
I'm 55 with a small beer belly & my GF is 38. She has her own job her own place and pays her own bills. I don't believe inslaverymarriage and neither does she.
She says she's leaving town next week and leaving me to go shack up with a wealthy Chinese guy, high-roller type in the big city. I told her go right ahead and have a good time. Told her make sure he buys her some new outfits and especially some new lingerie. He'll kick her to the curb 4 or 5 weeks for next flavor of the month and she'll come groveling back to me. At least she'll have some new outfits to wear. :laugh:
Of course she wants me to give her a good bye :censored: before she leaves. Whatever. :smokin:
Some of the guys here are mad because she is out of their league. Girls like that are common in fsu, not impossible to find someone that beautiful, but goes back to the original point, if you are ugly as :censored: , i got some bad news for you..... Plus the guy in the video is not bad looking, he gives off the calm alpha vibe, and is successful. If it was a 45-year-old with a beer belly, you guys would maybe be talking about his so called game, and intelligence. Most here are married to gold diggers, only difference is, they are not so hot gold diggers.
I'm 55 with a small beer belly & my GF is 38. She has her own job her own place and pays her own bills. I don't believe inslaverymarriage and neither does she.
She says she's leaving town next week and leaving me to go shack up with a wealthy Chinese guy, high-roller type in the big city. I told her go right ahead and have a good time. Told her make sure he buys her some new outfits and especially some new lingerie. He'll kick her to the curb 4 or 5 weeks for next flavor of the month and she'll come groveling back to me. At least she'll have some new outfits to wear. :laugh:
Of course she wants me to give her a good bye :censored: before she leaves. Whatever. :smokin:
I dated a girl who traveled from south of russia to moscow to see me. When we met, she brought me shopping, refused to take money. ANy gifts i bought her was thrown with "don't waste your money on me, only when we are married". We conversated online, she told me she was not talking to anybody, i didn't believe her. Well turned out to be true, i logged onto her profile, whole list of unopened messages. SHe was 5'11, in her early 20's, worked in a bank, previous she wanted to be a model, but her dad did not let her go to moscow, so instead she appeared in fashion shows
SHe was sexually inexperienced, never been with another guy. I won't go into too much detail, but it was the worse sex but at the same time the best sex i ever had. We tried out different things, each time her eyes popped when i showed her something new, she would say "omg", but after wouldn't be able to decide what position she liked the best, and just say "i like it all".
When we met i was MGTOW, told her after that i never wanted to get married. It did get to her a bit, but she moved on. My feelings changed when i met her family, grandparents, spent some time with her, but by then the damage was done. She couldn't forgive the fact that i previously didn't ever want to get married. We spoke a lot, went for walks, talked late in the night about everything, about life the uk, russia. She took very good care of me whilst i was in russia, made sure i was having fun, each weekend she would push her parents and friends to take me out with her, hot springs, mountains, quad biking, BBQ.
She was pretty cold, didn't show affections unless she had to, which i found a bit odd. I was used to russian women message me weird crap, excited to see my messages, and here i have a girl who is doing all the right things, but not saying what i expected. There was a lot of friction in the end, i broke up with her a few times, she repaired it, or we just talked and resolved it. Day prior to me leaving, i told her i had enough, she said fine, but i am taking you to the airport, i told her i could make my own way, but she resisted, said i was a guest in her city so she was responsible for taking me, we got to the airport, and i tried to resolve things once again on the day i was leaving. She accepted, but kept calling me an idiot, angry, she took me to the airport, and was still pissed. I made her a hand written love letter, after we parted in the airport, i told her to look in her bag. She went crazy, told me how sorry she was, how much she loved me, regretted how she behaved (it was my fault honestly). Whilst i was in the UK we just talked about me moving down to russia and living with her, but she acted a bit weird, i asked her jokingly will you wait up for me? she laughed and said no. My heart dropped, she said she wanted to test my reaction, but i just ended it, she rang me a few times, trying to patch things up, saying how she loved me blah blah blah, i accepted, but i just couldn't get over it, we were back to square one and i decided it was just not going to work.
Anyways, that is my russian romance story. I am going back in july, i haven't been searching for last couple of months, but i got a few contacts. As i am getting older, i am just getting better looking, things around me are changing also. Not sure if i am ready to get married just yet, life seems too fun, and the possibilities seem endless. I am more interested in having a good relationship, than i am of marrying someone.
Some of the guys here are mad because she is out of their league. Girls like that are common in fsu, not impossible to find someone that beautiful, but goes back to the original point, if you are ugly as :censored: , i got some bad news for you..... Plus the guy in the video is not bad looking, he gives off the calm alpha vibe, and is successful. If it was a 45-year-old with a beer belly, you guys would maybe be talking about his so called game, and intelligence. Most here are married to gold diggers, only difference is, they are not so hot gold diggers.
I'm 55 with a small beer belly & my GF is 38. She has her own job her own place and pays her own bills. I don't believe inslaverymarriage and neither does she.
She says she's leaving town next week and leaving me to go shack up with a wealthy Chinese guy, high-roller type in the big city. I told her go right ahead and have a good time. Told her make sure he buys her some new outfits and especially some new lingerie. He'll kick her to the curb 4 or 5 weeks for next flavor of the month and she'll come groveling back to me. At least she'll have some new outfits to wear. :laugh:
Of course she wants me to give her a good bye :censored: before she leaves. Whatever. :smokin:
Some of the guys here are mad because she is out of their league. Girls like that are common in fsu, not impossible to find someone that beautiful, but goes back to the original point, if you are ugly as :censored: , i got some bad news for you..... Plus the guy in the video is not bad looking, he gives off the calm alpha vibe, and is successful. If it was a 45-year-old with a beer belly, you guys would maybe be talking about his so called game, and intelligence. Most here are married to gold diggers, only difference is, they are not so hot gold diggers.
I'm 55 with a small beer belly & my GF is 38. She has her own job her own place and pays her own bills. I don't believe inslaverymarriage and neither does she.
She says she's leaving town next week and leaving me to go shack up with a wealthy Chinese guy, high-roller type in the big city. I told her go right ahead and have a good time. Told her make sure he buys her some new outfits and especially some new lingerie. He'll kick her to the curb 4 or 5 weeks for next flavor of the month and she'll come groveling back to me. At least she'll have some new outfits to wear. :laugh:
Of course she wants me to give her a good bye :censored: before she leaves. Whatever. :smokin:
That helps me understand you a lot and about your view of what is "good marriage material." Thank you. Although I might be only 8 years your senior we seem to be from a completely different generation and value system. When the disco era of the 70s came I being a young man seen it as something shallow mindless sheep followed. I will confess I like Alicia Bridges "I Like The Nightlife" (1978) a lot. Just not enough to go buy a silk disco shirt or white Travolta outfit and snort cocaine at Studio 54.
Are you somewhere around 25 years old? When lightning strikes you must seize the opportunity. No back and forth, no confusion. She was it, but too late now. Next time, if you get a next time (a sizzling hot one like that) you'll be ready.
Dragonkid?Are you somewhere around 25 years old? When lightning strikes you must seize the opportunity. No back and forth, no confusion. She was it, but too late now. Next time, if you get a next time (a sizzling hot one like that) you'll be ready.
Took a while for guys from other forum to figure out who I am. I will Just say, guys here seem to be less full of shit in their senior years. Short answer is yes.
I think me and my ex met at the wrong time. Beautiful women? I rejected one girl who screamed of natural beauty so I could meet up with my ex just recently she forgave me and back in contact, but it is weak. I have another girl in Moscow who is very independent, and Very very beautiful, both of who I would say are prettier. But I doubt I will meet someone like my ex, she was elegant, self assured, confident, cook ,and would of made the best housewife. I am looking for a relationship and just that, possibly move to Russia if I like them. I am more like you, In the sense of I don't want to be with them because I must, but because we both want to.
Some of the guys here are mad because she is out of their league. Girls like that are common in fsu, not impossible to find someone that beautiful, but goes back to the original point, if you are ugly as :censored: , i got some bad news for you..... Plus the guy in the video is not bad looking, he gives off the calm alpha vibe, and is successful. If it was a 45-year-old with a beer belly, you guys would maybe be talking about his so called game, and intelligence. Most here are married to gold diggers, only difference is, they are not so hot gold diggers.
I'm 55 with a small beer belly & my GF is 38. She has her own job her own place and pays her own bills. I don't believe inslaverymarriage and neither does she.
She says she's leaving town next week and leaving me to go shack up with a wealthy Chinese guy, high-roller type in the big city. I told her go right ahead and have a good time. Told her make sure he buys her some new outfits and especially some new lingerie. He'll kick her to the curb 4 or 5 weeks for next flavor of the month and she'll come groveling back to me. At least she'll have some new outfits to wear. :laugh:
Of course she wants me to give her a good bye :censored: before she leaves. Whatever. :smokin:
That helps me understand you a lot and about your view of what is "good marriage material." Thank you. Although I might be only 8 years your senior we seem to be from a completely different generation and value system. When the disco era of the 70s came I being a young man seen it as something shallow mindless sheep followed. I will confess I like Alicia Bridges "I Like The Nightlife" (1978) a lot. Just not enough to go buy a silk disco shirt or white Travolta outfit and snort cocaine at Studio 54.
You made a comment about me being alone in a "land of easy lays :smokin:." First off Georgia is not a "land of easy lays." If you read 2TallBill's trip report "Georgia Peaches" you will see how guarded Georgian women are. In Bill's case even meeting with him with a friend to have tea at a corner cafe wasnearimpossible. On expat forums here in Georgia I've read from expats and contributing Georgians that very few Georgian/Western marriages have been observed. Georgians are hospitable but just not much into intermarriage with those outside their culture and religion. I posted this not in my defense but in the defense of Georgian women.
Are you somewhere around 25 years old? When lightning strikes you must seize the opportunity. No back and forth, no confusion. She was it, but too late now. Next time, if you get a next time (a sizzling hot one like that) you'll be ready.
Took a while for guys from other forum to figure out who I am. I will Just say, guys here seem to be less full of shit in their senior years. Short answer is yes.
I think me and my ex met at the wrong time. Beautiful women? I rejected one girl who screamed of natural beauty so I could meet up with my ex just recently she forgave me and back in contact, but it is weak. I have another girl in Moscow who is very independent, and Very very beautiful, both of who I would say are prettier. But I doubt I will meet someone like my ex, she was elegant, self assured, confident, cook ,and would of made the best housewife. I am looking for a relationship and just that, possibly move to Russia if I like them. I am more like you, In the sense of I don't want to be with them because I must, but because we both want to.
Yes, I think that Maxx has a somewhat jaundiced view of the world in this regard. After all, if he were right then the population of the place would be falling at a rapid rate due to lack of intercourse (social and sexual) going on.
Yes, I think that Maxx has a somewhat jaundiced view of the world in this regard. After all, if he were right then the population of the place would be falling at a rapid rate due to lack of intercourse (social and sexual) going on.
he said the woman in the video was a "gold digger" and would not even give her a slight chance with that attitude.
not that she would give him a slight chance either 'cause he's probably too tight to enjoy some company.
could be that the attitude going in has somethin' to do with the results coming out. can't really know absent an open mind and willingness to practice some social courtesy. and then when in practice with the one; you meet the other who is who you is really meant to be with. But sour grapes stay home and rot. :coffeeread:
Yes, I think that Maxx has a somewhat jaundiced view of the world in this regard. After all, if he were right then the population of the place would be falling at a rapid rate due to lack of intercourse (social and sexual) going on.
Yes, I think that Maxx has a somewhat jaundiced view of the world in this regard. After all, if he were right then the population of the place would be falling at a rapid rate due to lack of intercourse (social and sexual) going on.
he said the woman in the video was a "gold digger" and would not even give her a slight chance with that attitude.
not that she would give him a slight chance either 'cause he's probably too tight to enjoy some company.
could be that the attitude going in has somethin' to do with the results coming out. can't really know absent an open mind and willingness to practice some social courtesy. and then when in practice with the one; you meet the other who is who you is really meant to be with. But sour grapes stay home and rot. :coffeeread:
Pure idiot. Doomed to failure.
Yes, I think that Maxx has a somewhat jaundiced view of the world in this regard. After all, if he were right then the population of the place would be falling at a rapid rate due to lack of intercourse (social and sexual) going on.
he said the woman in the video was a "gold digger" and would not even give her a slight chance with that attitude.
not that she would give him a slight chance either 'cause he's probably too tight to enjoy some company.
could be that the attitude going in has somethin' to do with the results coming out. can't really know absent an open mind and willingness to practice some social courtesy. and then when in practice with the one; you meet the other who is who you is really meant to be with. But sour grapes stay home and rot. :coffeeread:
Pure idiot. Doomed to failure.
You is some kind of special malfunction, ain't ya. Spent several pages complaining bout your ex wife and how she'd never change in the other section. Malfunctions like you ne'er do take good look in the mirror.
Belly ached that yer feelins was hurt so I would stay outta "your thread". Come over here with more belly achin' en it turns out you is twice divorced.
A sad sack twice failed and who knows what them gals would say about you if they had a chance here. I have no failures with women cause I never bite off more that I can chew 'en if one leaves there's always more waiting.
You iz a waitin' to die you're such a sad sack with bad health but come here meantime to complain about all the mess's you got yourself into. Stay in 'yer other section mr. sad sack this one is for winners. your car was rekt but it could be fixed or replaced. Can't fix stupid, lazy an' who me I dind to nuthin wrong -- it's all her/their fault. :sick0012:
I never bite off more that I can chew 'en if one leaves there's always more waiting.
I never bite off more that I can chew 'en if one leaves there's always more waiting.
Is that in the sheep fold, pig sty or down in the pasture?
Pretty uncalled for that.
Maxx has been around these forums for years of course he's made mistakes but at least he'll stick around and share his trials and tribulations instead of posting endless unfunny 'political' cartoons.
I never bite off more that I can chew 'en if one leaves there's always more waiting.
Is that in the sheep fold, pig sty or down in the pasture?
tiphat
In this town you'd be hard pressed to tell the difference at times but be patient and a looker comes a long. Others ain't cocky enough but if you is you get the pleasure.
I never bite off more that I can chew 'en if one leaves there's always more waiting.
Is that in the sheep fold, pig sty or down in the pasture?
tiphat
In this town you'd be hard pressed to tell the difference at times but be patient and a looker comes a long. Others ain't cocky enough but if you is you get the pleasure.
Confederate, tiphat I must say as a compliment that is a very measured response ~ You earned brownie points.
But please stay away from any brownies.
That's the only way to be. :thumbsup: You're at a great age to have some fun but don't let a good one who respects and wants you as much as you do her slip by.
I never bite off more that I can chew 'en if one leaves there's always more waiting.
Is that in the sheep fold, pig sty or down in the pasture?
tiphat
In this town you'd be hard pressed to tell the difference at times but be patient and a looker comes a long. Others ain't cocky enough but if you is you get the pleasure.
Confederate, tiphat I must say as a compliment that is a very measured response ~ You earned brownie points.
But please stay away from any brownies.
what if they have some mary jane in 'em? :laugh:
That's the only way to be. :thumbsup: You're at a great age to have some fun but don't let a good one who respects and wants you as much as you do her slip by.
My ex i regret, i would be lying if i didn't, not because of beauty, in all honesty, women like that are plentiful in Russia, but because i knew she had the values i respected. I did talk to her after, and she told me her friend found her an acting role in a tv show, she was telling me she met this guy who is interested in her, but she is not stupid enough to think he wants her. He has plenty of women after him.The short story is, the two of them ended up getting together, and now are to get married. I saw his photo on her whatsapp, really good looking guy, not your typical russian dude. She found someone she believed was better than her. I used to run a youtube channel, stand up comical vlogging, managed to get 10k subscribers in 6 months, simply switching on a camera, talking, then upload. No edits. People at my university found me randomly, when i quit, i had a random girl approach me and tell me she loved my videos, and to continue. I am naturally a ballsy person, when i am with a girl i can make them laugh. My focus now is to just hit the gym, make more money, everything else follows. There will always be beautiful women in russia, even more when i am in better condition.I am not your typical 65 year old that talks about the size of his cock. I think a lot of guys who do get married abroad, are financially successful and hit a physical limit in their life. For me however, everything is changing rapidly, i am not way close to being at that stage of my life where i feel, "this is it,nowhere else to go but down". I want to continue dating Russians, who knows i might meet someone i really like and adore, but my standards are pretty high.
I stayed outta his other thread as a courtesy and he followed over here.
And what is this about your claim of never having a failure with women? Isn't your girlfriend about to throw you over to go shack up with some rich Chinese guy?
And what is this about your claim of never having a failure with women? Isn't your girlfriend about to throw you over to go shack up with some rich Chinese guy?
read the whole post. she's flustered because I won't play her game. she can leave, she can have fun & it doesn't bother me.
it's not a failure because I'm not financially obligated to her. she knows I have other options and she knows a wealthy guy in a big city is only going to be interested in her a short time.
I would only ever marry a woman who made as much or more than myself. I would not marry a foreign gal and bring her to the usa.
I wear the pants and my motto is easy come easy go; next! :chuckle:
And what is this about your claim of never having a failure with women? Isn't your girlfriend about to throw you over to go shack up with some rich Chinese guy?
read the whole post. she's flustered because I won't play her game. she can leave, she can have fun & it doesn't bother me.
it's not a failure because I'm not financially obligated to her. she knows I have other options and she knows a wealthy guy in a big city is only going to be interested in her a short time.
I would only ever marry a woman who made as much or more than myself. I would not marry a foreign gal and bring her to the usa.
I wear the pants and my motto is easy come easy go; next! :chuckle:
You make sense. Peace.
You have a lot going on for yourself and that's great. Good outlook on life and willing to roll with the punches. Probably she wasn't "the one" but she was close and it gave you a great idea about things you hope for.
you seem on your way to being able to provide and meet her expectations. if it's mutual and timing is right you'll both know it. when it happens take her off the market.
There is an issue that is often forgotten in discussions like this, the future. We have a tendency to think only of the 'here and now.' The reality that is often forgotten is the clock is ticking. Someday we all will be in the state that Andrewfi so accurately described years ago, "An advanced state of decrepitude."
But wouldn't be wise to consider finding a woman and family that will honor the marriage vows of "till death do we part"?
You made a comment about me being alone in a "land of easy lays :smokin:." First off Georgia is not a "land of easy lays." If you read 2TallBill's trip report "Georgia Peaches" you will see how guarded Georgian women are. In Bill's case even meeting with him with a friend to have tea at a corner cafe wasnearimpossible.
Chickenbrah, you ain't far off I reckon.
A while back I wrote about how, for older blokes in backwater places things can be a little tough. Nothing 'cultural' as such, but rather practical. Georgian blokes can expect to live, on average to 70 years of age, about 6.5 years less than even the USA. A woman there in her fifties will be accustomed to her male colleagues, family and former schoolmates dropping off their twigs for a long time.
A bloke of Maxx's age is simply not a good bet for a woman seeking a life other than as a carer and unpaid nurse.
The thing is, of course that even in Georgia a bloke who lasts to 65 is likely to last until he is 78/79 and a USAian of the same age is good for another five years after that, but the Georgian woman won't know that. Maxx, of course, has health issues and is thus waving a big red flag around every time he speaks to a woman. Overcoming those obstacles means that the other elements of the marketing mix have to be VERY strong. That means a bloke needs to be very dependable, personable with a great attitude and a decent amount of wallet action is, pretty much, a given.
The thing is that every Georgian woman is looking at Maxx (and other foreign blokes) through the lens of experience and expectations. She does not know that a USAian has a good decade or so of life ahead of him, as compared to the local bloke. She is not accustomed to seeing 'burly fellows' with a clear history of pie eating living a long life. In addition, she has the expectation of the 'rich foreigner' and is going to expect something more than local standards of wealth and spending.
Take all that, factor in language issues, religion and cultural stuff and it gets much harder.
Fortunately, most of us are not Maxx. But I reckon that with some attitude adjustment, continued work on the health stuff and some intensive language learning that there's some 60ish year old woman with Maxx's name tattooed on her heart!
Practical thought number two for the day:
If you only have five years left to live don't plan as if you have 30!
When you get old you can afford to figure that if you can put up with each other for five or six years then that's all you really need.
Fortunately, most of us are not Maxx. But I reckon that with some attitude adjustment, continued work on the health stuff and some intensive language learning that there's some 60ish year old woman with Maxx's name tattooed on her heart!
Aim high. Jennifer Lawrence is single. I met her in London three months back at a Cisco Firewall conference, she's a right laugh and knows a lot about Cisco iOS and stateful packet analysis. And she gave me her number.
Think I input it into my iPhone wrong though or misheard, '4' doesn't seem to be enough digits for a proper number. I keep calling it but it doesn't work.
Oh man, you guys are tough. :chuckle: And 2Tall never gave me that impression. He strikes me as and all round good guy and I think doing quite well with his beautiful Misses "Angel Eyes." Nice little family there.
just because he is married and has a nice family, does not mean his method worked well. His method is just as i described. That is why it never worked in Georgia, or any woman who has standards. When i was with my ex, she pushed me to go visit other girls. How do you think that would have worked out? Dumped me the very minute. If you want something GOOD, you will need to go the extra mile, which is not something 2tallbill comprehends. Some women have standards. Though the man is a nice guy, and for his age looks great, which is why he succeeded never the less.
Maxx, when you are selling something it always helps to look at the sale through the eyes of the buyer.
For example, YOU know that you can expect to last into your 80's. Your 'buyer' sees a bloke who has maybe 7 or 8 years to go - that's because, in her world that's what happens. If you use a walking stick to get about then that goes double because disabled folks don't last long where you are and a stick is used by old folks to help them to knock on Death's door!
For most people where you are, the only USAians they will ever have come across will be pretty well off. They will only have heard tell of a friend's 'rich' American boyfriend or employer. You simply can not fit into that set of expectations. You see, whilst you look about and think that you are twice as well off as the average Georgian the reality is that you are only able to afford to live as the average Georgian lives. To the folks around you, you are NOT well off. No matter what you might think.
Your 'buyers' do not see the product - you, in the same way that you see the product. There's things you can do about that though but right now you are sending out mixed messages to me and your potential buyers. Here's a helper for you: you have told us how hard it is to meet and make relationships with women in Georgia; given that, how come your target for relationships is women in their 40's? What makes you think that you have a desirable package for such young women?
Now, as it happens, I think that you are right(ish) - make your target women in their 50's and up; when you polish up your package you might be able to do something. Think about what your package is though. What can you offer to make a woman give up her normal life to be with you, even if it is in Georgia.
"She is not accustomed to seeing 'burly fellows' with a clear history of pie eating living a long life."
Andrew...you talk to me like you know me...:-))))
And she gave me her number.
Think I input it into my iPhone wrong though or misheard, '4' doesn't seem to be enough digits for a proper number. I keep calling it but it doesn't work.
And she gave me her number.
Think I input it into my iPhone wrong though or misheard, '4' doesn't seem to be enough digits for a proper number. I keep calling it but it doesn't work.
Poor girl, couldn't concentrate enough (your handsome self distracted her)
to keep her number straight.
One thing that FSUW do is keep themselves clean down under. It used to a
reason of great conflict in the USA until Lysol got the Western girls sorted out.
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..."An advanced state of decrepitude." A state I most recently seen with my dying mother and at the nursing home where I stayed for my physical rehabilitation and I personally felt unable to walk or go to the bathroom without help. I noticed at the nursing home that those people without wives and husbands by their side suffered the most. I know this is a subject that most people push to the back of their minds. Probably more so by men who are in pursuit of younger women. But wouldn't be wise to consider finding a woman and family that will honor the marriage vows of "till death do we part"?
Those are idealist fantasies of naive teenagers. One would think at your age and after two outs you wouldn't be going for a third one so close to the bottom of the 9th inning.
Your best option might be some paid company. You pay either way, it's just in that this case both parties can be very specific about what they want prior to money being spent. Take this scene for example. Is she a real nurse? Does it matter?
So was she supposed to douch with Lysol?
Unlike most of you guys I don't have any debts, monthly obligations in my home country to finance and I get a steady tax free money every month. AND I have savings for emergencies. I don't have expensive tastes or needs. No smoking habit to fund.
I remember those Midol commercials on TV.QuoteUnlike most of you guys I don't have any debts, monthly obligations in my home country to finance and I get a steady tax free money every month. AND I have savings for emergencies. I don't have expensive tastes or needs. No smoking habit to fund.
Same here, except my steady money is not tax free. :money:
An acquaintance of mine in Estonia, just a little older than I, was always to be seen in the company of much younger, very hot girls. He was pretty well off with one of the nicest apartments in the city. I accidentally found it was his home when I turned up to view the place with a view to renting it. It was gorgeous.
Anyway, I met up with him one night in a club. He was on his own. I asked where his girlfriend was. He was not happy. She had left him. I do not know the exact circumstances, none of my business. He did say something interesting though. He told me that after this girl had left him that his strategy was going to change. Henceforth he would not seek out long(ish) term relationships but rather he'd go for rentals - specifically sponsorship. I asked him about what he might do when he got older and needed care as much as companionship. He told me that he well enough off that he could always afford to hire nurses to supplement his needs.
At first I recoiled from is suggestion. Now, a few years later and I can see his point much better and see some benefits to such a mode of life.
..."An advanced state of decrepitude." A state I most recently seen with my dying mother and at the nursing home where I stayed for my physical rehabilitation and I personally felt unable to walk or go to the bathroom without help. I noticed at the nursing home that those people without wives and husbands by their side suffered the most. I know this is a subject that most people push to the back of their minds. Probably more so by men who are in pursuit of younger women. But wouldn't be wise to consider finding a woman and family that will honor the marriage vows of "till death do we part"?
Those are idealist fantasies of naive teenagers. One would think at your age and after two outs you wouldn't be going for a third one so close to the bottom of the 9th inning.
Your best option might be some paid company. You pay either way, it's just in that this case both parties can be very specific about what they want prior to money being spent. Take this scene for example. Is she a real nurse? Does it matter?
I'm younger than you think. I posted higher cause I wanted to fit in with you old farts. Keep dreaming about the rest of your nonsense, if it makes you feel better as you walk around babeland with your cane. :ROFL: