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Title: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Men2016 on October 28, 2016, 06:44:08 AM
Hello, my name is Olesya. I am Russian, my husband is Spanish and I live in Spain. I have a small dating site RusDarling.com  is completely free. You can write all the girls and ask them to contact completely free of charge. All the girls I check and try to block the scammers, but sometimes they are difficult to see. I will be glad to see all the men on my site. If you have questions, I will answer them. I hope that my message does not appear as spam, I'm a real person.
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: msmoby on October 28, 2016, 08:11:05 AM
Hello, my name is Olesya. I am Russian, my husband is Spanish and I live in Spain.


Olyesa, good luck with the site.

How do you find living in Spain?
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: dcguyusa on October 28, 2016, 04:36:33 PM
I have communicated with several FSU ladies who have visited the Spain area (like Barcelona).

Not making any opinion of your site, but many of the free dating sites that I have come across are full of suspect profiles.  :'(
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Markje on October 29, 2016, 01:32:22 AM
At least the girls look more real to me , not like the love.me site.

Good luck with your business.
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Men2016 on October 29, 2016, 05:23:38 AM
Thanks friends. I live in Spain for 13 years. I met my husband in St. Petersburg and moved to Spain. In Spain, I opened a small marriage agency, it was 9 years ago. I worked only with men Spaniards. But I always wanted to make a great site, it was technically difficult to do.
 About girls. Every day I find one or two girls scammers. Many scammers I can see at once, but sometimes they are difficult to see. Sometimes men tell me that this girl has a scammers. But the site has a lot of good women who want a real relationship.  Usual  they have normal photos, and not as a photo model. And we need to look at the age, real girl does not want to have a husband 40 years older )
But I have a male scammers, it is also a problem.
Sorry for my English, I use a translator. In Spanish I speak better)
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: msmoby on October 30, 2016, 03:26:14 AM
Olyesa

Thanks for the response

I have an observation that applies to most sites and about ladies and men - it is not something a wite site owner manager can control.

WHY do so many folks looking for partners post photos that are clearly FIVE years or more old in a profile ?

I recognise some ladies from your site from three years ( OR MORE)  ago - when I was looking.

If one cannot be honest about how one looks - it's hardly going to be a good start.

I know several Russian people living in Barcelona who would never consider living anywhere else - even though they have not stayed with their partners.




Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Men2016 on November 04, 2016, 04:20:09 AM
msmoby

1. Photo is a big problem. Men and women are putting their old photos. The problem is that I cant verify this. Physically, this is not possible. The women say that men
understate their age, some men complain about women photos. My advice is, the photo should be only a guide, we all others in life. Photos do not move, do not smell, do not say ... you can get a letter from a woman who you do not like in the picture, but after talking in real life, you can fall into it. I had such a case.


2. There are many Russian women living in Spain. Men Spaniards prefer to get acquainted with the Russian women, who live nearby. But there is a problem that these women are not in a hurry to get married, they have a requirement for men is much higher than that of Russian women from Russia and Ukraine.

I hope you understand my English.
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: msmoby on November 04, 2016, 04:31:09 AM
msmoby

1. Photo is a big problem. Men and women are putting their old photos. The problem is that I cant verify this. Physically, this is not possible. The women say that men
understate their age, some men complain about women photos. My advice is, the photo should be only a guide, we all others in life. Photos do not move, do not smell, do not say ... you can get a letter from a woman who you do not like in the picture, but after talking in real life, you can fall into it. I had such a case.


2. There are many Russian women living in Spain. Men Spaniards prefer to get acquainted with the Russian women, who live nearby. But there is a problem that these women are not in a hurry to get married, they have a requirement for men is much higher than that of Russian women from Russia and Ukraine.

I hope you understand my English.

Thanks for your response and  well-explained answers.

I was particularly impressed / interested in your point that UA/RU women's requirements are higher.

 
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Men2016 on November 04, 2016, 05:05:11 AM
In Russia, there are more women, so the requirement is for a man falling. And when there is a lot of men, a woman is not afraid to be alone, she may long to meet with men and to choose. In Russia after 30 years, a woman has little choice, and sometimes none at all (
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Steveboy on November 04, 2016, 06:22:08 AM
In Russia, there are more women, so the requirement is for a man falling. And when there is a lot of men, a woman is not afraid to be alone, she may long to meet with men and to choose. In Russia after 30 years, a woman has little choice, and sometimes none at all (

Does that mean any women over 30 years old is finished and past her "Sell by date" In Russia? I never realised the situation was so bad!
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Contrarian on November 04, 2016, 07:46:11 AM
In Russia, there are more women, so the requirement is for a man falling. And when there is a lot of men, a woman is not afraid to be alone, she may long to meet with men and to choose. In Russia after 30 years, a woman has little choice, and sometimes none at all (

Does that mean any women over 30 years old is finished and past her "Sell by date" In Russia? I never realised the situation was so bad!

So in Russia there is a bar code on a woman with an expiration date?  Very interesting.  ;D
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Gipsy on November 04, 2016, 08:00:15 AM
In Russia, there are more women, so the requirement is for a man falling. And when there is a lot of men, a woman is not afraid to be alone, she may long to meet with men and to choose. In Russia after 30 years, a woman has little choice, and sometimes none at all (

Does that mean any women over 30 years old is finished and past her "Sell by date" In Russia? I never realised the situation was so bad!

So in Russia there is a bar code on a woman with an expiration date?  Very interesting.  ;D

Wonder where its situated??   :biggrin:
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Dogsoldier on November 04, 2016, 08:48:37 AM
In Russia, there are more women, so the requirement is for a man falling. And when there is a lot of men, a woman is not afraid to be alone, she may long to meet with men and to choose. In Russia after 30 years, a woman has little choice, and sometimes none at all (

Does that mean any women over 30 years old is finished and past her "Sell by date" In Russia? I never realised the situation was so bad!

So in Russia there is a bar code on a woman with an expiration date?  Very interesting.  ;D

Wonder where its situated??   :biggrin:
The bar codes can be, errmm, shaved as such.
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Dogsoldier on November 04, 2016, 08:50:22 AM
Moby, do you need new glasses? Its Olesya, not Olyesa.
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: msmoby on November 04, 2016, 10:14:52 AM
Moby, do you need new glasses? Its Olesya, not Olyesa.

Yes

Sorry, Olesya

Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Men2016 on November 04, 2016, 10:26:33 AM
In big cities easier, there are more men because there are male emigrants. And in small towns woman after 30 it is very difficult to find a man. Many women who make a career, and do not think about marriage after 30 can not find a decent man. Therefore, in Russia marry early, most women under 30 years old. But now there is a slight tendency for young people to get married later.
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: dcguyusa on November 04, 2016, 03:54:03 PM
In Russia, there are more women, so the requirement is for a man falling. And when there is a lot of men, a woman is not afraid to be alone, she may long to meet with men and to choose. In Russia after 30 years, a woman has little choice, and sometimes none at all (

Does that mean any women over 30 years old is finished and past her "Sell by date" In Russia? I never realised the situation was so bad!

From a biological standpoint, the female of the species has an "internal clock" that limits the child bearing years.  Most the germ cells in the ovaries never reach maturation stage.  This is why fertility clinics work a lot with women past 30.  If a man's intent is on raising children, then marrying  50+ year old woman will be very difficult to achieve that goal unless you hire a surrogate or you harvest the eggs previously.   Fertility takes a big decline after 30 (for both men and women).   :Zzzzsleep:
The problem applies to all women across the continents.  But, in the FSU region, the decrease in the male life expectancy makes it harder to find a man.  Somewhat the reverse in China where too many male children has resulted in fewer women in the country.
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Manny on November 04, 2016, 05:03:52 PM
But, in the FSU region, the decrease in the male life expectancy makes it harder to find a man. 

Umm, if you want a guy over 60 maybe, but Russian blokes are not dropping off the twig in their 30s/40s on the whole.

Somewhat the reverse in China where too many male children has resulted in fewer women in the country.

Funny thing that statistic, when you actually go to China (as I have 3 times) you are falling over single girls everywhere you look. Not sure where all the men are. In the provinces working? Playing computer games?
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: andrewfi on November 04, 2016, 06:19:13 PM
Manny, yes they are. In the countryside and stuff. Kinda like Nottingham in the UK. Walk around the centre and it is hoaching with young attractive totty. Many used to say there more women than men. Not true. The men worked in 'invisible' jobs around the county. The city centre had loads of jobs primarily done by young women - retail, office administration, service jobs. It created a  very visible imbalance. But it was an illusion.

Urban china is similar, at least where you were likely to be!
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: msmoby on November 05, 2016, 04:24:26 AM
  But, in the FSU region, the decrease in the male life expectancy makes it harder to find a man.  Somewhat the reverse in China where too many male children has resulted in fewer women in the country.

?

What decrease ?

A quick google of 'Life expectancy in males Russia' / 'Life expectancy in males Ukraine'  renders that 'factoid' as nonsense

It has been rising ..
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: msmoby on November 05, 2016, 04:28:24 AM


Funny thing that statistic, when you actually go to China (as I have 3 times) you are falling over single girls everywhere you look. Not sure where all the men are. In the provinces working? Playing computer games?

Funny thing with our Manny - it's not a secret  when you ask him how many times he's been to Ukraine - or even Russia  ( it's none of my business ) but it is 'ok' to use personal experiences of visits to China to validate ....  hmmm


Just saying - not that we can possibly let the readers know   :coffeeread:
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Manny on November 05, 2016, 04:06:28 PM
Manny, yes they are. In the countryside and stuff. Kinda like Nottingham in the UK. Walk around the centre and it is hoaching with young attractive totty. Many used to say there more women than men. Not true. The men worked in 'invisible' jobs around the county. The city centre had loads of jobs primarily done by young women - retail, office administration, service jobs. It created a  very visible imbalance. But it was an illusion.

Urban china is similar, at least where you were likely to be!

Dongguan and Guangzhou is Nottingham!  :chuckle:

They are, to use your phrase, "hoaching with young attractive totty", and for similar reasons as you say, but in other reports we read that women are so few and far between men there import them from Vietnam.

I did ask a few Chinese women about it in conversation, and they all said Chinese guys prefer computer games to women.  :rolleye0009:



Funny thing that statistic, when you actually go to China (as I have 3 times) you are falling over single girls everywhere you look. Not sure where all the men are. In the provinces working? Playing computer games?

Funny thing with our Manny - it's not a secret  when you ask him how many times he's been to Ukraine - or even Russia  ( it's none of my business ) but it is 'ok' to use personal experiences of visits to China to validate ....  hmmm

Just saying - not that we can possibly let the readers know   :coffeeread:

You are correct that with normal folk I may discuss my travels as and when they are relevant in the discussion, but for your specific queries, you are correct that it's none of your business and my travels are not open for your dissection as I am unaware of your exact motives behind the general trolling. I suspect you are a paid poster across the internet with your constant anti-Russian rhetoric; why you are on a leash here to keep your leftist, propagandistic burblings to a minimum.  tiphat
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: dcguyusa on November 05, 2016, 04:19:18 PM
  But, in the FSU region, the decrease in the male life expectancy makes it harder to find a man.  Somewhat the reverse in China where too many male children has resulted in fewer women in the country.

?

What decrease ?

A quick google of 'Life expectancy in males Russia' / 'Life expectancy in males Ukraine'  renders that 'factoid' as nonsense

It has been rising ..

I guess decrease may not be the correct word to use.  Better to say not as high as other numbers in other countries.  The reported number for that region is in the mid-60s.  Just in time to retire and die.   :GRAVE:
If it's rising then good to hear that.  Maybe the use of alcohol is dropping?
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Gipsy on November 06, 2016, 08:41:47 AM
  But, in the FSU region, the decrease in the male life expectancy makes it harder to find a man.  Somewhat the reverse in China where too many male children has resulted in fewer women in the country.

?

What decrease ?

A quick google of 'Life expectancy in males Russia' / 'Life expectancy in males Ukraine'  renders that 'factoid' as nonsense

It has been rising ..

I guess decrease may not be the correct word to use.  Better to say not as high as other numbers in other countries.  The reported number for that region is in the mid-60s.  Just in time to retire and die.   :GRAVE:
If it's rising then good to hear that.  Maybe the use of alcohol is dropping?

 :ROFL: :ROFL: :ROFL:
Dream on sunshine....
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: dcguyusa on November 07, 2016, 06:33:12 PM
  But, in the FSU region, the decrease in the male life expectancy makes it harder to find a man.  Somewhat the reverse in China where too many male children has resulted in fewer women in the country.

?

What decrease ?

A quick google of 'Life expectancy in males Russia' / 'Life expectancy in males Ukraine'  renders that 'factoid' as nonsense

It has been rising ..

I guess decrease may not be the correct word to use.  Better to say not as high as other numbers in other countries.  The reported number for that region is in the mid-60s.  Just in time to retire and die.   :GRAVE:
If it's rising then good to hear that.  Maybe the use of alcohol is dropping?

 :ROFL: :ROFL: :ROFL:
Dream on sunshine....

FSU region needs to pass a Prohibition law (note that there is a Prohibition party in the USA that promotes banning alcohol).   :P

Alcohol is from fermentation process of microorganisms.  Who wants to drink waste products created by bacteria?   (:)
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Men2016 on November 08, 2016, 02:19:24 AM
Аlcohol consumption decreases and increases life expectancy. More boys are born than girls, but after age 30, women become more. This is the problem of women after 30 years.
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: andrewfi on November 08, 2016, 02:48:51 AM
Аlcohol consumption decreases and increases life expectancy. More boys are born than girls, but after age 30, women become more. This is the problem of women after 30 years.

Hmmm, care to read a Russian census and get back to us with updated information on that claim?

One starts to wonder if your knowledge is recycled from that which you picked up from other, probably defunct, mail order bride sites. ;)
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: andrewfi on November 08, 2016, 03:08:54 AM
Manny, among urban dwellers there is a gender imbalance baked in to society from the One Child policy however in the rural areas this policy was very much less enforced. The problem of One Child in this regard was a cultural preference for boys which led to some rather disturbing unintended consequences and a slight shortage (in percentage terms) of girls.

Urban migration has tended to distort matters as well. For example, many industries in the areas you visited vastly prefer to employ women for their supposed dexterity and attention to detail.
There's a concept in China of The Twelve Things (I think it is 12, it used to be fewer). These are the material goods that couples expect to have when they marry. The list, a few years ago, included stuff like TV, electric fans, bike. As standards of living improved rapidly the list altered and grew. Anyway, what it means is that women don't want to marry guys who can't provide these items and the guys want to get these items. Playing computer games is about the cheapest form of entertainment and provides a break from loneliness.  I'd also suggest that, just as used to happen in Russia, the women you meet who speak good English and are more than averagely attractive (the reasons why they got their jobs) are also significantly more materially oriented than most of their peers (the reason that they sought out the jobs they have!)

That means that even though the women you talk to might be honest and describe their situation as they see it, that the reality 'on the ground' is actually somewhat different to the impression that was transferred. Just as it was in Russia.

Are Vietnamese women being imported to China? Absolutely, but for sure the numbers, in terms of the population, will be tiny - just as the same is true of 'Russian' women being exported in marriage to USAians and Britons. And, just as in the USA the women are imported to match up with guys who are unable to attract local women.

I'd bet a pound to a penny that the women who wrote off their peer men as sad computer game players are busy chasing the elusive rich Chinese or would even settle (as she gets a little older and more desperate) for a gwai lo or laowai (similar terms for white foreigners one cantonese the other mandarin).
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Steveboy on November 09, 2016, 02:38:40 AM
In Russia, there are more women, so the requirement is for a man falling. And when there is a lot of men, a woman is not afraid to be alone, she may long to meet with men and to choose. In Russia after 30 years, a woman has little choice, and sometimes none at all (

Does that mean any women over 30 years old is finished and past her "Sell by date" In Russia? I never realised the situation was so bad!

So in Russia there is a bar code on a woman with an expiration date?  Very interesting.  ;D

Its a kind of barcode.. but an imaginary one that has been placed there by the Western media again..or at least over exaggerated..
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Steveboy on November 09, 2016, 02:42:59 AM
Maybe Im wrong , Im just a simple person from a small farming community in Dorset ... :)

But the way I see it is younger Russian women ARE not looking to marry young anymore and are more interested in their careers , earning money, travelling, having fun, lots of sex and pretty well the same as Western women?

What young women in the 21st century wants to be shacked up with kids at 25 years old?
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: andrewfi on November 09, 2016, 02:51:07 AM
The age at which women in Russia first marry has been rising for years. I last had reason to look half a decade ago and it was already pushing toward 30.

That'll shift the average age of first childbirth back also,  just as it does everywhere else.

I get the impression that travelers tales,  in general, tend to be around a decade or so out of date.

File this old grandad's tale with the 'more women than men' and 'all Russian men are alcoholics' memes.
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Cobaka on November 28, 2016, 12:17:06 PM
Maybe Im wrong , Im just a simple person from a small farming community in Dorset ... :)

But the way I see it is younger Russian women ARE not looking to marry young anymore and are more interested in their careers , earning money, travelling, having fun, lots of sex and pretty well the same as Western women?

What young women in the 21st century wants to be shacked up with kids at 25 years old?

second.

unless you are an under 30 man that for whatever reason, has no interest in the women of your home country and absolutely wants to marry and fsu woman, visit often and perhaps even move to the fsu; you really should start at 30, 29 at the lowest imo so that the women you are finding are looking to have a family and have usually chosen their careers by then.
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: dcguyusa on March 03, 2017, 11:58:14 PM
This dating site made a recent change.  You must be a paying Platinum member in order to write to ladies who are more than 10 years younger than you are.  It seems if you want to waste your time chasing a young woman, you are going to have to pay for it.  So it no longer is totally free as previously claimed.   :D

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You can write all the girls and ask them to contact completely free of charge.
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: Men2016 on April 06, 2017, 03:14:08 AM

Yes, it's true, I recently made these changes. During the year the site was completely free, but I began to get a lot of complaints from men. They said that they do not like the site, because the girls do not respond to letters. I analyzed these complaints of men and complaints of girls.

For example.
A man of 48 years, his profile says that he is looking for a girl 32-38 years old
But in fact he writes to girls 24-26 years old. When I started talking to men, they took offense at me.
In the end, I did make this restriction. And a miracle happened!
The number of positive answers between users has increased very much.

The price for platinum users who want to get acquainted with young girls, if you buy for half a year 3,99 euros a month. I think that this price is low and it can be paid by every man who is truly interested in a girl.

In truth, this affects only men after 50 years old who are looking for young women. 99% of users use the site for free.
Title: Re: Free Russian dating site- www.RusDarling.com
Post by: andrewfi on April 06, 2017, 03:49:33 AM
Seems to be a decent idea.