The Myth and The Reality............................
Alot of seekers of Russian Women seem to have the Myth complex which is discussed frequently on this
site.
And also there is the Reality concerning the whole process of finding a Russian Women.
Reality is the state of things as they actually exist, rather than as they may appear or might be imagined
From my 22 years of experience (REALITY) in Issues Concerning Russia from:
0. Had a Top Secret Clearance during Cold War and dealt with Russians (Deception is where they excel)
1. Having lived over in Russia in 1996-1997 (Deception and Corruption is Just Life there)
2. Interviewed over 80 women in Russian and dated over 20 of them from 1996-1997 (Had a Blast!)
2. Met a married a Russian Women there in 1997 (Attractive is an understatement)
3. Married to my wife for over 16 years with two children (Now have problems-seperated to divorce soon)
4. Now know many married men to Russian Women (had many talks with them about seeking and marrying)
5. Have had allmy Russian family members to my house (and Russian friends but still the deception is present)
6. Traveled back there to many times to count. (Had many problems over there with corruption)
5. And I think I understand the many problematic issues of the whole process
of finding a nice RW..................... You have to be very very careful because of the nature of FSU
6. And from my 16 years with my wife and her friends think I know abit about my wife and Russian Women
That said the Myth is that anyone here on this website (that is new to this process) thinks that they can skip over to Russia by themselves and pick up a sweet nice Russian Women is fully into THE MYTH. Yes it happens but it is a crap-shoot. The Alluring Sites have many scams and problems > Just look at Anastasia
and about another 50 others. Think Deception when using these websites showing RW's .................. something I have more than some experience in.
The realty is that even with my experience I would not hazard to dread in the dangerous waters of
All Things Russian in seeking an RW without some real plan.
In conclusion I would make a very simple plan and would execute it with some very experienced people
guiding me both Russian and good solid family members which I have.......................
Myself I am looking and actually maybe already found a women that may work for me and for her. It took
me about 3 months. But then again I knew what to look for and how to execute. I will be going over
in the summer to meet her. We have exchanged over 50 Photos of ourselves, our homes, our parents,
our children, our work and phoned and SYKP-ED. I see her and I like what I see and more importantly I like
what I hear. The same applies for her. She is very excited about me coming over. That said>>>>>
Another MYTH is you have to be HONEST about yourself and play MIRROR MIRROR ON THE WALL - are you the fairest one of them all. If you ARE NOT lower you expectations...........
REGARDLESS>
I hired a investigation agency to confirm her home, work, parents and background. It matches up with
her emails and information she has provided to me. TRUST BUT VERIFY
I am not taking any chances.
And when I go over there to see her first I will still have three backups ready and willing. If I smell a hint
of any dysfunction, disagreeable nature or family problems I am onto the next Russian Women immediately .............. that is just the way this process works..........................
However I am thinking of engaging ED here on this forum to find my 3 backups...........when I do go over this
summer to meet this seemingly very nice women.
However I am confident that my 22 years of experience has paid off..............will just have to see.
SHYCAT
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