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Title: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Eduard on January 17, 2016, 01:41:08 PM
As you all know I work with Western men helping them find suitable prospects for marriage in the FSU. I've always searched for RW on free local Russian sites like Mamba and sometimes used sites like fdating as well. Lately I'm finding that pretty much every profile featuring a very attractive young woman listed in Ukraine is fake! It wasn't this way until recently, but believe me, now not only you need to watch out for being scammed by agencies, but you can be almost certain that if you contact a very beautiful woman from Ukraine even on sites like Mamba the profile is a fake.

Just do this before you waste a lot of time on some one. After you have made a few initial message exchanges, suggest to do a video chat on Skype (or whatever other video chat app you prefer). Most likely you will have a similar experience to mine: "I don't have Skype!" (you write: download it free here www.skype.com). "My connection is too slow!" and a ton of other excuses which are all BS.

Now if you are looking for a girl with more average looks it's still very doable. But guys who are looking for 9s and 10s in Ukraine are wasting their time in my experience.   
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Omega1982 on January 17, 2016, 07:01:30 PM
Exactly.  This was my problem when I was lining up dates prior to my last trip in November. 

Yet there is a member here that claims you can line up 30 dates in Ukraine prior to a trip. 

There are also many real profiles that I am simply not interested in. 

Edward your observation concurs 100% with Steve's statement that he must delete 95% of the profiles on his site. 
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Steveboy on January 18, 2016, 04:48:44 AM
As you all know I work with Western men helping them find suitable prospects for marriage in the FSU. I've always searched for RW on free local Russian sites like Mamba and sometimes used sites like fdating as well. Lately I'm finding that pretty much every profile featuring a very attractive young woman listed in Ukraine is fake! It wasn't this way until recently, but believe me, now not only you need to watch out for being scammed by agencies, but you can be almost certain that if you contact a very beautiful woman from Ukraine even on sites like Mamba the profile is a fake.

Just do this before you waste a lot of time on some one. After you have made a few initial message exchanges, suggest to do a video chat on Skype (or whatever other video chat app you prefer). Most likely you will have a similar experience to mine: "I don't have Skype!" (you write: download it free here www.skype.com). "My connection is too slow!" and a ton of other excuses which are all BS.

Now if you are looking for a girl with more average looks it's still very doable. But guys who are looking for 9s and 10s in Ukraine are wasting their time in my experience.

I have been telling people here for a long time! 95% of ALL young Ukrainian women who are pretty are FAKE!

People just do not get it! Anyway within 4 weeks I will have this problem totally resolved and offer the one and ONLY genuine place to meet real women from Ukraine , thats if your mad enough to try :)
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: AKA Luke on January 18, 2016, 05:22:33 AM
Exactly.  This was my problem when I was lining up dates prior to my last trip in November. 

Yet there is a member here that claims you can line up 30 dates in Ukraine prior to a trip. 

There are also many real profiles that I am simply not interested in. 

Edward your observation concurs 100% with Steve's statement that he must delete 95% of the profiles on his site.

How many countries did you visit in your trip?

Was this problem just in Ukraine or in Russia too and elsewhere you visited?

What about the Tajik girl? She was in Ukraine?

Like LFTS you are most likely the problem with your way of thinking and can't be done attitude.

Having a pop at Leslied when he's been married over a decade is a smart move and will definitely aid your success.

The world isn't perfect, if you only search for problems that is all you'll find.

If I was looking (which I'm currently not) I am confident I could line up 20 or 30 dates in Ukraine with just a 2 month lead time and a couple of weeks on the ground. It's really not hard if 1 is realistic and half presentable. So many sites to line up dates in advance then tinder and badoo when you hit the ground.




Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Eduard on January 18, 2016, 12:42:02 PM
Exactly.  This was my problem when I was lining up dates prior to my last trip in November. 

Yet there is a member here that claims you can line up 30 dates in Ukraine prior to a trip. 

There are also many real profiles that I am simply not interested in. 

Edward your observation concurs 100% with Steve's statement that he must delete 95% of the profiles on his site.

How many countries did you visit in your trip?

Was this problem just in Ukraine or in Russia too and elsewhere you visited?

What about the Tajik girl? She was in Ukraine?

Like LFTS you are most likely the problem with your way of thinking and can't be done attitude.

Having a pop at Leslied when he's been married over a decade is a smart move and will definitely aid your success.

The world isn't perfect, if you only search for problems that is all you'll find.

If I was looking (which I'm currently not) I am confident I could line up 20 or 30 dates in Ukraine with just a 2 month lead time and a couple of weeks on the ground. It's really not hard if 1 is realistic and half presentable. So many sites to line up dates in advance then tinder and badoo when you hit the ground.
you could do that with average looking girls, nothing above 7.

8s are hard but still doable in Ukraine (not 20 or 30 dates though). However 9 and 10 profiles are all fake in my experience.
Luke, you know that I've been doing this for a long time since 2004 I think. And things changed, a lot!!! You are being very optimistic...
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: AKA Luke on January 18, 2016, 12:54:20 PM
Exactly.  This was my problem when I was lining up dates prior to my last trip in November. 

Yet there is a member here that claims you can line up 30 dates in Ukraine prior to a trip. 

There are also many real profiles that I am simply not interested in. 

Edward your observation concurs 100% with Steve's statement that he must delete 95% of the profiles on his site.

How many countries did you visit in your trip?

Was this problem just in Ukraine or in Russia too and elsewhere you visited?

What about the Tajik girl? She was in Ukraine?

Like LFTS you are most likely the problem with your way of thinking and can't be done attitude.

Having a pop at Leslied when he's been married over a decade is a smart move and will definitely aid your success.

The world isn't perfect, if you only search for problems that is all you'll find.

If I was looking (which I'm currently not) I am confident I could line up 20 or 30 dates in Ukraine with just a 2 month lead time and a couple of weeks on the ground. It's really not hard if 1 is realistic and half presentable. So many sites to line up dates in advance then tinder and badoo when you hit the ground.
you could do that with average looking girls, nothing above 7.

8s are hard but still doable in Ukraine (not 20 or 30 dates though). However 9 and 10 profiles are all fake in my experience.
Luke, you know that I've been doing this for a long time since 2004 I think. And things changed, a lot!!! You are being very optimistic...

Nonsense. One guys 7 is another guys 9 so that's not valid at all. Being realistic Ed, how many guys who have to pay another man to find them a wife and chat her up for him are going to be landing themselves a "9" back home or abroad?

20 or 30 dates in a country of 23 million women is piss easy even for the elephant man. If you don't agree with me I think you need to take a good hard look at your clients expectations and what he brings to the table.

It's not hard to get dates if youre mildly attractive and have some personal skills.... or are you telling me it is?

I don't have problem finding women back home (which is why I'm dating domestically) so going abroad and being exotic/different just makes it easier.

Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Eduard on January 18, 2016, 01:27:05 PM
Exactly.  This was my problem when I was lining up dates prior to my last trip in November. 

Yet there is a member here that claims you can line up 30 dates in Ukraine prior to a trip. 

There are also many real profiles that I am simply not interested in. 

Edward your observation concurs 100% with Steve's statement that he must delete 95% of the profiles on his site.

How many countries did you visit in your trip?

Was this problem just in Ukraine or in Russia too and elsewhere you visited?

What about the Tajik girl? She was in Ukraine?

Like LFTS you are most likely the problem with your way of thinking and can't be done attitude.

Having a pop at Leslied when he's been married over a decade is a smart move and will definitely aid your success.

The world isn't perfect, if you only search for problems that is all you'll find.

If I was looking (which I'm currently not) I am confident I could line up 20 or 30 dates in Ukraine with just a 2 month lead time and a couple of weeks on the ground. It's really not hard if 1 is realistic and half presentable. So many sites to line up dates in advance then tinder and badoo when you hit the ground.
you could do that with average looking girls, nothing above 7.

8s are hard but still doable in Ukraine (not 20 or 30 dates though). However 9 and 10 profiles are all fake in my experience.
Luke, you know that I've been doing this for a long time since 2004 I think. And things changed, a lot!!! You are being very optimistic...

Nonsense. One guys 7 is another guys 9 so that's not valid at all.
I think that the law of attraction is pretty universal and IMO and IME most guys would agree on a 7 being a 7 and a 9 being a 9 plus/minus half a point or a point.
However if you personally can perceive a 7 as being a 9 then you win this argument.
Also you seem to be buying into the misconception that my clients are broke social misfits which couldn't be further from the truth...   
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Gipsy on January 18, 2016, 01:52:21 PM
Some years back, there was a site called Kiss.com, where ladies, not only from the FSU, would hang their "cv".
The site was free, and allowed DM, and video links.
Some of the "cv" owners were probably scammers, but the wheat from the chaff was quickly sortable.
Kiss.com was sold to match.com I think, and downhill was the way forward after that unfortunately.
Has anyone here heard of the site, or even used it back then?
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: leslied on January 18, 2016, 02:13:46 PM
Since I started "the set up 30 dates before a trip" In another current thread. I will expand on that comment.

I have actually executed more than one trip using the visit many strategy so I know it could be done back when I was searching.  The argument is whether the situation is different now.

I have always advised everyone to stay clear of 9 or 10 women.  I am well aware that on ANY site the top 5% of women get 90% of the attention.  That has ALWAYS been true.  I would not dream of searching in that cat fish pond!

Additionally you might be able to pull a 9 or 10 but can you keep her after you have brought her home???

Remember this song ?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jif8WbqLXd4 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jif8WbqLXd4)

One of the key success factors in this scene is setting reasonable expectations.  Search the good looking girls (7 or 8s).

Now given this baseline I could set up 30 dates for a visit many trip in the current scene.  My strategy would be to move to a Skype chat after 2-3 message exchanges.  I don't play internet spooky.  Waste of time and effort.  If the woman is not interested enough to Skype, then next!

Like any very experienced guy I can spot Yuri very quickly.  I wrote the original "Tablets of Stone" article Ed. So for me Yuri is just a time waster...

I am not saying "everyone" could do this.  You need self confidence and experience in the dating scene. It may well be impossible for some guys but that is down to THEIR shortcomings, not the current state of the scene.  ;D
 
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Steveboy on January 18, 2016, 02:34:41 PM
Exactly.  This was my problem when I was lining up dates prior to my last trip in November. 

Yet there is a member here that claims you can line up 30 dates in Ukraine prior to a trip. 

There are also many real profiles that I am simply not interested in. 

Edward your observation concurs 100% with Steve's statement that he must delete 95% of the profiles on his site.

How many countries did you visit in your trip?

Was this problem just in Ukraine or in Russia too and elsewhere you visited?

What about the Tajik girl? She was in Ukraine?

Like LFTS you are most likely the problem with your way of thinking and can't be done attitude.

Having a pop at Leslied when he's been married over a decade is a smart move and will definitely aid your success.

The world isn't perfect, if you only search for problems that is all you'll find.

If I was looking (which I'm currently not) I am confident I could line up 20 or 30 dates in Ukraine with just a 2 month lead time and a couple of weeks on the ground. It's really not hard if 1 is realistic and half presentable. So many sites to line up dates in advance then tinder and badoo when you hit the ground.
you could do that with average looking girls, nothing above 7.

8s are hard but still doable in Ukraine (not 20 or 30 dates though). However 9 and 10 profiles are all fake in my experience.
Luke, you know that I've been doing this for a long time since 2004 I think. And things changed, a lot!!! You are being very optimistic...

Nonsense. One guys 7 is another guys 9 so that's not valid at all. Being realistic Ed, how many guys who have to pay another man to find them a wife and chat her up for him are going to be landing themselves a "9" back home or abroad?

20 or 30 dates in a country of 23 million women is piss easy even for the elephant man. If you don't agree with me I think you need to take a good hard look at your clients expectations and what he brings to the table.

It's not hard to get dates if youre mildly attractive and have some personal skills.... or are you telling me it is?

I don't have problem finding women back home (which is why I'm dating domestically) so going abroad and being exotic/different just makes it easier.

Your 100% correct there.

Its very easy to set up multiple dates I don't dispute that! If I was single again I could very easy set up a string of dates every day I was away. I have done it before many many times, some times I had to many to meet in an evening and it was a nightmare :ROFL:
If I was arriving in St Petersburg tomorrow I would have piles of pretty women lined up, can't say they would all want to marry but I can say they would all be real and genuine and I wouldn't get ripped off,I would also have a good time :)

The problem is if you do not have realist expectations you have no chance, on top of that many guys lack skills to chat up women. I see this in my own site! For example a gold member who has unlimited communication with as many women as he wishes? he should be sending multiple copy paste mails out non stop like a train to get some attention, not just sitting there waiting for the sun to come out.
There are many reasons but some times you either have it or you haven't .. its that simple.

As for scammers if your using common sense and have realistic expectations you will never even have to think about them))
Unfortunately most let the thing between their legs rule over the brain, and thats usually costly.

But for sure the sites today are packed full of fake young women ;D
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Eduard on January 18, 2016, 03:46:28 PM
This is what I am saying - the more realistic your expectations are the easier it will be to line up a few suitable prospects. There is also a difference between just setting up a date the following evening for a cup of coffee (providing you are already in the country) versus actually getting to know a woman on line really well before you decide to visit. As you pointed out, you haven't done this for a while versus me working with guys all the time.
Right now working with a British guys, early 40s, makes around a million annually, business owner, very good looking, smart and social. Still it's not easy even though he is communicating with the women in Russian with my help (granted he is looking for women from 8.5 to 10). 
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: cufflinks on January 18, 2016, 04:13:26 PM
As you all know I work with Western men helping them find suitable prospects for marriage in the FSU. I've always searched for RW on free local Russian sites like Mamba and sometimes used sites like fdating as well. Lately I'm finding that pretty much every profile featuring a very attractive young woman listed in Ukraine is fake! It wasn't this way until recently, but believe me, now not only you need to watch out for being scammed by agencies, but you can be almost certain that if you contact a very beautiful woman from Ukraine even on sites like Mamba the profile is a fake.

Just do this before you waste a lot of time on some one. After you have made a few initial message exchanges, suggest to do a video chat on Skype (or whatever other video chat app you prefer). Most likely you will have a similar experience to mine: "I don't have Skype!" (you write: download it free here www.skype.com). "My connection is too slow!" and a ton of other excuses which are all BS.

Now if you are looking for a girl with more average looks it's still very doable. But guys who are looking for 9s and 10s in Ukraine are wasting their time in my experience.

I have been telling people here for a long time! 95% of ALL young Ukrainian women who are pretty are FAKE!

People just do not get it! Anyway within 4 weeks I will have this problem totally resolved and offer the one and ONLY genuine place to meet real women from Ukraine , thats if your mad enough to try :)

This post is useless without pics and links!

Guys who have visited UA recently on the ground have indicated that there are still attractive women there but they are hostile towards anyone who reeks of being a sex tourist - however if you are looking for a wife most of the more attractive women have no illusions about UA now being a completely failed state and are looking for a meal ticket and way out - problem he said is where to take them to and how to avoid the repercussions of their naturally manipulative Slavic female tendencies - a.k.a. how to avoid becoming a GCG mule ...  as big a problem as ever - they also said even Russian women more interested in relocating than before...

I personally am waiting to see how bad the 2016 market corrections (crash) is before I make any permanent decisions.

Maxx seems to have the best idea - travel the FSU and see where his retirement $$ goes the farthest.
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: cufflinks on January 18, 2016, 04:15:57 PM
This is what I am saying - the more realistic your expectations are the easier it will be to line up a few suitable prospects. There is also a difference between just setting up a date the following evening for a cup of coffee (providing you are already in the country) versus actually getting to know a woman on line really well before you decide to visit. As you pointed out, you haven't done this for a while versus me working with guys all the time.
Right now working with a British guys, early 40s, makes around a million annually, business owner, very good looking, smart and social. Still it's not easy even though he is communicating with the women in Russian with my help (granted he is looking for women from 8.5 to 10).

LOL Can you blame him if he is making a Million GBP per year he needs a sharp intelligent stunning wife who looks the part.
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: cufflinks on January 18, 2016, 04:20:20 PM
ED LOL Thanks for the topic - I just got an email for a discount renewal offer to Lucky Lovers and was surprised at how stunning the ladies are in RU and UA many Victoria's Secret or Vogue model quality 8/9/10s...

So I will take your advice and snap myself out of it - my fantasy that is - too bad I thought my luck was starting to change as I won the huge recent powerball for $4.00 - paid for my two PB tickets any way ;-)
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: B.B. on January 18, 2016, 07:16:42 PM
Since I started "the set up 30 dates before a trip" In another current thread. I will expand on that comment.

What time period were you doing the "30 dates" over?  IIRC, you actually spent a fair amount of time 'in-country', rather than the typical "One Week Wonder".

I have always advised everyone to stay clear of 9 or 10 women.

Well that's no fun.  ;D

I am well aware that on ANY site the top 5% of women get 90% of the attention.  That has ALWAYS been true.  I would not dream of searching in that cat fish pond!

Yeah, but what % of men actually get on a plane?  The numbers are still in the man's favor in that respect.


Additionally you might be able to pull a 9 or 10 but can you keep her after you have brought her home???

Remember this song ?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jif8WbqLXd4 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jif8WbqLXd4)

One of the key success factors in this scene is setting reasonable expectations.  Search the good looking girls (7 or 8s).

See, that's the thing.  No disrespect to Dr. Hook, but she has to understand that YOU are the trophy, not the other way around.  I sometimes put it this way to women "I don't worry about other men.  I let other men worry about ME!"  Women respect the hell out of you for it, and it also sets the right tone in the relationship.


Now given this baseline I could set up 30 dates for a visit many trip in the current scene.  My strategy would be to move to a Skype chat after 2-3 message exchanges.  I don't play internet spooky.  Waste of time and effort.  If the woman is not interested enough to Skype, then next!

Boom!  This is why I tell guys to "think horizontally, not vertically".  It seems to me that to many guys treat interactions with women as if she will be The Last Woman He Ever Talks To.  Thus, they overinvest in a marginal prospect who is going to smell their desperation for miles.

The best thing to do is to be merciless at cutting off prospects that aren't going anywhere.

I am not saying "everyone" could do this.  You need self confidence and experience in the dating scene. It may well be impossible for some guys but that is down to THEIR shortcomings, not the current state of the scene.  ;D

That thought, expressed in a different way (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EwcYwax4Oo).  :chuckle:


B/B
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Eduard on January 18, 2016, 08:52:13 PM
ED LOL Thanks for the topic - I just got an email for a discount renewal offer to Lucky Lovers and was surprised at how stunning the ladies are in RU and UA many Victoria's Secret or Vogue model quality 8/9/10s...

So I will take your advice and snap myself out of it - my fantasy that is - too bad I thought my luck was starting to change as I won the huge recent powerball for $4.00 - paid for my two PB tickets any way ;-)
I won $4 as well! Guessed the "10"! YOU ARE RIGHT TO BE SCEPTICAL. Most of the "stunning one's profiles are fake on all sites.
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Eduard on January 18, 2016, 08:55:51 PM
Some years back, there was a site called Kiss.com, where ladies, not only from the FSU, would hang their "cv".
The site was free, and allowed DM, and video links.
Some of the "cv" owners were probably scammers, but the wheat from the chaff was quickly sortable.
Kiss.com was sold to match.com I think, and downhill was the way forward after that unfortunately.
Has anyone here heard of the site, or even used it back then?
Yes, I used kiss.ru when I was single and actually met a girl from that site back in 2002 it was probably a different site?
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Gipsy on January 18, 2016, 09:06:23 PM
Some years back, there was a site called Kiss.com, where ladies, not only from the FSU, would hang their "cv".
The site was free, and allowed DM, and video links.
Some of the "cv" owners were probably scammers, but the wheat from the chaff was quickly sortable.
Kiss.com was sold to match.com I think, and downhill was the way forward after that unfortunately.
Has anyone here heard of the site, or even used it back then?
Yes, I used kiss.ru when I was single and actually met a girl from that site back in 2002 it was probably a different site?
I used the site in 2000, met a woman, haven't managed to get rid of her yet.. :ROFL:
Personally though, I thought the site was much better than the dating agencies which were around at that time.
Sorry for taking the thread of topic slightly, carry on guys.. :bow:
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Steveboy on January 19, 2016, 02:50:36 AM
This is what I am saying - the more realistic your expectations are the easier it will be to line up a few suitable prospects. There is also a difference between just setting up a date the following evening for a cup of coffee (providing you are already in the country) versus actually getting to know a woman on line really well before you decide to visit. As you pointed out, you haven't done this for a while versus me working with guys all the time.
Right now working with a British guys, early 40s, makes around a million annually, business owner, very good looking, smart and social. Still it's not easy even though he is communicating with the women in Russian with my help (granted he is looking for women from 8.5 to 10).

LOL Can you blame him if he is making a Million GBP per year he needs a sharp intelligent stunning wife who looks the part.

Money doesn't buy love! It just buys a cheap slut  :)
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: andrewfi on January 19, 2016, 02:52:09 AM

Money doesn't buy love! It just buys a cheap slut  :)
Or an expensive one.
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Steveboy on January 19, 2016, 03:10:05 AM

Money doesn't buy love! It just buys a cheap slut  :)
Or an expensive one.

Yes :chuckle: 
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Eduard on January 19, 2016, 07:49:22 AM

Money doesn't buy love! It just buys a cheap slut  :)
Or an expensive one.
For once I agree with you, Andy.
However when a guy is young, good looking, very intelligent with great sense of humor it's not hard for a woman (even if she is a 9 or a 10) to fall in love with. The ability to offer a luxury lifestyle to a woman doesn't hurt either. All women (and men for that matter) will choose a very comfortable lifestyle versus poor or average middle class lifestyle all things being equal. Wouldn't you agree?
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Steveboy on January 19, 2016, 09:50:06 AM

Money doesn't buy love! It just buys a cheap slut  :)
Or an expensive one.
For once I agree with you, Andy.
However when a guy is young, good looking, very intelligent with great sense of humor it's not hard for a woman (even if she is a 9 or a 10) to fall in love with. The ability to offer a luxury lifestyle to a woman doesn't hurt either. All women (and men for that matter) will choose a very comfortable lifestyle versus poor or average middle class lifestyle all things being equal. Wouldn't you agree?

I would say that guy has some either mental problem or some physiological problems some where! I know about these things :)

1.If a guy has so much to offer and so much cash why on earth would he want to travel to Russia to meet a women?

2. Ok he wants a Russian women for some reason, thats his choice. He cannot find in his home country?? Even with such a lavish life style?

But if you are very wealthy and looking for a young beauty queen you certainly do not need to travel to Russia to meet a women for marriage, London is absolutely full of beautiful young women from Russia and all over the  globe?
If I was very wealthy and living in London I think 2/3 days I could pick up some beauty ( Im lucky I can do without being wealthy :laugh: )

So what is the problem there, why has such a good catch not been taken?

There is usually some problem. For example maybe he doesn't want a women in the UK JUST incase she tries to rip him off, so naturally he thinks go to Russia pick up a women who doesn't know about these thing :laugh:

There is always some problem with these types of guys and that problem is why they cannot find a women.

I would like to interview a few guys like this it would be very interesting to see what makes them tick when it comes to dating. Probably would find out most are complete nutters!!
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Eduard on January 19, 2016, 10:53:26 AM

Money doesn't buy love! It just buys a cheap slut  :)
Or an expensive one.
For once I agree with you, Andy.
However when a guy is young, good looking, very intelligent with great sense of humor it's not hard for a woman (even if she is a 9 or a 10) to fall in love with. The ability to offer a luxury lifestyle to a woman doesn't hurt either. All women (and men for that matter) will choose a very comfortable lifestyle versus poor or average middle class lifestyle all things being equal. Wouldn't you agree?

I would say that guy has some either mental problem or some physiological problems some where! I know about these things :)


perhaps you do  :)
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Steveboy on January 19, 2016, 10:58:45 AM

Money doesn't buy love! It just buys a cheap slut  :)
Or an expensive one.
For once I agree with you, Andy.
However when a guy is young, good looking, very intelligent with great sense of humor it's not hard for a woman (even if she is a 9 or a 10) to fall in love with. The ability to offer a luxury lifestyle to a woman doesn't hurt either. All women (and men for that matter) will choose a very comfortable lifestyle versus poor or average middle class lifestyle all things being equal. Wouldn't you agree?

I would say that guy has some either mental problem or some physiological problems some where! I know about these things :)


perhaps you do  :)

Yes I have but I have learnt to live with it.. I think I fell on my head as a baby :chuckle:
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Eduard on January 19, 2016, 10:59:03 AM

Money doesn't buy love! It just buys a cheap slut  :)
Or an expensive one.
For once I agree with you, Andy.
However when a guy is young, good looking, very intelligent with great sense of humor it's not hard for a woman (even if she is a 9 or a 10) to fall in love with. The ability to offer a luxury lifestyle to a woman doesn't hurt either. All women (and men for that matter) will choose a very comfortable lifestyle versus poor or average middle class lifestyle all things being equal. Wouldn't you agree?

I would say that guy has some either mental problem or some physiological problems some where! I know about these things :)

1.If a guy has so much to offer and so much cash why on earth would he want to travel to Russia to meet a women?

2. Ok he wants a Russian women for some reason, thats his choice. He cannot find in his home country?? Even with such a lavish life style?

But if you are very wealthy and looking for a young beauty queen you certainly do not need to travel to Russia to meet a women for marriage, London is absolutely full of beautiful young women from Russia and all over the  globe?
If I was very wealthy and living in London I think 2/3 days I could pick up some beauty ( Im lucky I can do without being wealthy :laugh: )

So what is the problem there, why has such a good catch not been taken?

There is usually some problem. For example maybe he doesn't want a women in the UK JUST incase she tries to rip him off, so naturally he thinks go to Russia pick up a women who doesn't know about these thing :laugh:

There is always some problem with these types of guys and that problem is why they cannot find a women.

I would like to interview a few guys like this it would be very interesting to see what makes them tick when it comes to dating. Probably would find out most are complete nutters!!
Why do some people like to assume? What makes you think that he is not dating locally? Well, he is. Have you considered that his standards might differ from yours and he is just looking for the best in terms of looks, personality, education? Why do you always have to judge some one without even knowing a person? I got to know the guy and have a lot of respect for him. He is looking for a complete package which is not easy to find and he is not looking to settle. I will help him find her.
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Gipsy on January 19, 2016, 11:08:05 AM

Money doesn't buy love! It just buys a cheap slut  :)
Or an expensive one.
For once I agree with you, Andy.
However when a guy is young, good looking, very intelligent with great sense of humor it's not hard for a woman (even if she is a 9 or a 10) to fall in love with. The ability to offer a luxury lifestyle to a woman doesn't hurt either. All women (and men for that matter) will choose a very comfortable lifestyle versus poor or average middle class lifestyle all things being equal. Wouldn't you agree?

I would say that guy has some either mental problem or some physiological problems some where! I know about these things :)

1.If a guy has so much to offer and so much cash why on earth would he want to travel to Russia to meet a women?

2. Ok he wants a Russian women for some reason, thats his choice. He cannot find in his home country?? Even with such a lavish life style?

But if you are very wealthy and looking for a young beauty queen you certainly do not need to travel to Russia to meet a women for marriage, London is absolutely full of beautiful young women from Russia and all over the  globe?
If I was very wealthy and living in London I think 2/3 days I could pick up some beauty ( Im lucky I can do without being wealthy :laugh: )

So what is the problem there, why has such a good catch not been taken?

There is usually some problem. For example maybe he doesn't want a women in the UK JUST incase she tries to rip him off, so naturally he thinks go to Russia pick up a women who doesn't know about these thing :laugh:

There is always some problem with these types of guys and that problem is why they cannot find a women.

I would like to interview a few guys like this it would be very interesting to see what makes them tick when it comes to dating. Probably would find out most are complete nutters!!
Why do some people like to assume? What makes you think that he is not dating locally? Well, he is. Have you considered that his standards might differ from yours and he is just looking for the best in terms of looks, personality, education? Why do you always have to judge some one without even knowing a person? I got to know the guy and have a lot of respect for him. He is looking for a complete package which is not easy to find and he is not looking to settle. I will help him find her.

I wish you the every success.
Your client will unfortunately have to make do with second best, because he's not getting my lady.
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Steveboy on January 19, 2016, 11:11:00 AM

Money doesn't buy love! It just buys a cheap slut  :)
Or an expensive one.
For once I agree with you, Andy.
However when a guy is young, good looking, very intelligent with great sense of humor it's not hard for a woman (even if she is a 9 or a 10) to fall in love with. The ability to offer a luxury lifestyle to a woman doesn't hurt either. All women (and men for that matter) will choose a very comfortable lifestyle versus poor or average middle class lifestyle all things being equal. Wouldn't you agree?

I would say that guy has some either mental problem or some physiological problems some where! I know about these things :)

1.If a guy has so much to offer and so much cash why on earth would he want to travel to Russia to meet a women?

2. Ok he wants a Russian women for some reason, thats his choice. He cannot find in his home country?? Even with such a lavish life style?

But if you are very wealthy and looking for a young beauty queen you certainly do not need to travel to Russia to meet a women for marriage, London is absolutely full of beautiful young women from Russia and all over the  globe?
If I was very wealthy and living in London I think 2/3 days I could pick up some beauty ( Im lucky I can do without being wealthy :laugh: )

So what is the problem there, why has such a good catch not been taken?

There is usually some problem. For example maybe he doesn't want a women in the UK JUST incase she tries to rip him off, so naturally he thinks go to Russia pick up a women who doesn't know about these thing :laugh:

There is always some problem with these types of guys and that problem is why they cannot find a women.

I would like to interview a few guys like this it would be very interesting to see what makes them tick when it comes to dating. Probably would find out most are complete nutters!!
Why do some people like to assume? What makes you think that he is not dating locally? Well, he is. Have you considered that his standards might differ from yours and he is just looking for the best in terms of looks, personality, education? Why do you always have to judge some one without even knowing a person? I got to know the guy and have a lot of respect for him. He is looking for a complete package which is not easy to find and he is not looking to settle. I will help him find her.

I wish you the every success.
Your client will unfortunately have to make do with second best, because he's not getting my lady.

Yes he's not having mine either so looks like third best  :chuckle:
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: AKA Luke on January 19, 2016, 12:05:55 PM
I will help him find her.

If the money's right why wouldn't you?
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Steveboy on January 19, 2016, 12:15:00 PM

Looks like everyone is being scammed some $10,000 at a time!  :'(

http://www.onlinepersonalswatch.com/news/2016/01/sextortion-and-scams.html
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Eduard on January 19, 2016, 12:17:51 PM

Looks like everyone is being scammed some $10,000 at a time!  :'(

http://www.onlinepersonalswatch.com/news/2016/01/sextortion-and-scams.html
This has been going on for a couple of decades now, why is this News?
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Eduard on January 19, 2016, 12:19:29 PM

Money doesn't buy love! It just buys a cheap slut  :)
Or an expensive one.
For once I agree with you, Andy.
However when a guy is young, good looking, very intelligent with great sense of humor it's not hard for a woman (even if she is a 9 or a 10) to fall in love with. The ability to offer a luxury lifestyle to a woman doesn't hurt either. All women (and men for that matter) will choose a very comfortable lifestyle versus poor or average middle class lifestyle all things being equal. Wouldn't you agree?

I would say that guy has some either mental problem or some physiological problems some where! I know about these things :)

1.If a guy has so much to offer and so much cash why on earth would he want to travel to Russia to meet a women?

2. Ok he wants a Russian women for some reason, thats his choice. He cannot find in his home country?? Even with such a lavish life style?

But if you are very wealthy and looking for a young beauty queen you certainly do not need to travel to Russia to meet a women for marriage, London is absolutely full of beautiful young women from Russia and all over the  globe?
If I was very wealthy and living in London I think 2/3 days I could pick up some beauty ( Im lucky I can do without being wealthy :laugh: )

So what is the problem there, why has such a good catch not been taken?

There is usually some problem. For example maybe he doesn't want a women in the UK JUST incase she tries to rip him off, so naturally he thinks go to Russia pick up a women who doesn't know about these thing :laugh:

There is always some problem with these types of guys and that problem is why they cannot find a women.

I would like to interview a few guys like this it would be very interesting to see what makes them tick when it comes to dating. Probably would find out most are complete nutters!!
Why do some people like to assume? What makes you think that he is not dating locally? Well, he is. Have you considered that his standards might differ from yours and he is just looking for the best in terms of looks, personality, education? Why do you always have to judge some one without even knowing a person? I got to know the guy and have a lot of respect for him. He is looking for a complete package which is not easy to find and he is not looking to settle. I will help him find her.

I wish you the every success.
Your client will unfortunately have to make do with second best, because he's not getting my lady.

Yes he's not having mine either so looks like third best  :chuckle:
are you saying that yours is second best??? LOL  :chuckle:
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Gipsy on January 19, 2016, 12:31:37 PM

Money doesn't buy love! It just buys a cheap slut  :)
Or an expensive one.
For once I agree with you, Andy.
However when a guy is young, good looking, very intelligent with great sense of humor it's not hard for a woman (even if she is a 9 or a 10) to fall in love with. The ability to offer a luxury lifestyle to a woman doesn't hurt either. All women (and men for that matter) will choose a very comfortable lifestyle versus poor or average middle class lifestyle all things being equal. Wouldn't you agree?

I would say that guy has some either mental problem or some physiological problems some where! I know about these things :)

1.If a guy has so much to offer and so much cash why on earth would he want to travel to Russia to meet a women?

2. Ok he wants a Russian women for some reason, thats his choice. He cannot find in his home country?? Even with such a lavish life style?

But if you are very wealthy and looking for a young beauty queen you certainly do not need to travel to Russia to meet a women for marriage, London is absolutely full of beautiful young women from Russia and all over the  globe?
If I was very wealthy and living in London I think 2/3 days I could pick up some beauty ( Im lucky I can do without being wealthy :laugh: )

So what is the problem there, why has such a good catch not been taken?

There is usually some problem. For example maybe he doesn't want a women in the UK JUST incase she tries to rip him off, so naturally he thinks go to Russia pick up a women who doesn't know about these thing :laugh:

There is always some problem with these types of guys and that problem is why they cannot find a women.

I would like to interview a few guys like this it would be very interesting to see what makes them tick when it comes to dating. Probably would find out most are complete nutters!!
Why do some people like to assume? What makes you think that he is not dating locally? Well, he is. Have you considered that his standards might differ from yours and he is just looking for the best in terms of looks, personality, education? Why do you always have to judge some one without even knowing a person? I got to know the guy and have a lot of respect for him. He is looking for a complete package which is not easy to find and he is not looking to settle. I will help him find her.

I wish you the every success.
Your client will unfortunately have to make do with second best, because he's not getting my lady.

Yes he's not having mine either so looks like third best  :chuckle:
are you saying that yours is second best??? LOL  :chuckle:

 :ROFL:
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: msmoby on January 19, 2016, 06:19:07 PM
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1.If a guy has so much to offer and so much cash why on earth would he want to travel to Russia to meet a women?

2. Ok he wants a Russian women for some reason, thats his choice. He cannot find in his home country?? Even with such a lavish life style?

But if you are very wealthy and looking for a young beauty queen you certainly do not need to travel to Russia to meet a women for marriage, London is absolutely full of beautiful young women from Russia and all over the  globe?
If I was very wealthy and living in London I think 2/3 days I could pick up some beauty ( Im lucky I can do without being wealthy :laugh: )

So what is the problem there, why has such a good catch not been taken?

There is usually some problem. For example maybe he doesn't want a women in the UK JUST incase she tries to rip him off, so naturally he thinks go to Russia pick up a women who doesn't know about these thing :laugh:

There is always some problem with these types of guys and that problem is why they cannot find a women.

I would like to interview a few guys like this it would be very interesting to see what makes them tick when it comes to dating. Probably would find out most are complete nutters!!


Steveboy,

Why did you go to another nation to find your wife  ?..

I only ask - as so much of your opinion seems to be applicable to yourself and other members who have travelled to the FSU searching for 'the one' ... incl. me 

Even Ed, a Russian by birth knew where to look...:coffeeread:
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Omega1982 on January 19, 2016, 09:30:17 PM

Money doesn't buy love! It just buys a cheap slut  :)
Or an expensive one.
For once I agree with you, Andy.
However when a guy is young, good looking, very intelligent with great sense of humor it's not hard for a woman (even if she is a 9 or a 10) to fall in love with. The ability to offer a luxury lifestyle to a woman doesn't hurt either. All women (and men for that matter) will choose a very comfortable lifestyle versus poor or average middle class lifestyle all things being equal. Wouldn't you agree?

I would say that guy has some either mental problem or some physiological problems some where! I know about these things :)

1.If a guy has so much to offer and so much cash why on earth would he want to travel to Russia to meet a women?

2. Ok he wants a Russian women for some reason, thats his choice. He cannot find in his home country?? Even with such a lavish life style?

But if you are very wealthy and looking for a young beauty queen you certainly do not need to travel to Russia to meet a women for marriage, London is absolutely full of beautiful young women from Russia and all over the  globe?
If I was very wealthy and living in London I think 2/3 days I could pick up some beauty ( Im lucky I can do without being wealthy :laugh: )

So what is the problem there, why has such a good catch not been taken?

There is usually some problem. For example maybe he doesn't want a women in the UK JUST incase she tries to rip him off, so naturally he thinks go to Russia pick up a women who doesn't know about these thing :laugh:

There is always some problem with these types of guys and that problem is why they cannot find a women.

I would like to interview a few guys like this it would be very interesting to see what makes them tick when it comes to dating. Probably would find out most are complete nutters!!
Why do some people like to assume? What makes you think that he is not dating locally? Well, he is. Have you considered that his standards might differ from yours and he is just looking for the best in terms of looks, personality, education? Why do you always have to judge some one without even knowing a person? I got to know the guy and have a lot of respect for him. He is looking for a complete package which is not easy to find and he is not looking to settle. I will help him find her.


Some members here such as Leslied like to judge me without knowing me either. 
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: redroo on January 19, 2016, 11:05:29 PM
so......just interested to find out how my points giving compares then, since we are all within 5% according to some.
I rated her a 9.5 (looks, education 2 degrees, languages 3 fluent)
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: redroo on January 19, 2016, 11:21:27 PM
Just to add, this woman is a real person, a dear long term friend (who I will not name, or identify her city),
but has had her photos stolen and used on dating sites without her knowledge and approval. If anyone here is communicating with "her"....you are being scammed 100% but not by her. She is not available. If "they" are using this photo...it is 6 years old. I know ;-)
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: leslied on January 19, 2016, 11:38:10 PM
Some members here such as Leslied like to judge me without knowing me either.

Actually, Omega that is not true.  I have not scorned you. 

I have simply pointed out that it is perfectly possible to succeed in today's scene  :thumbsup:

When I started out I made many stupid mistakes but I tried to learn from them; to recognize where I was going wrong;  to change my approach; to adopt strategies which worked for me.

I encourage you to do the same.  I genuinely wish you luck in your search.

Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Steveboy on January 20, 2016, 12:14:17 AM
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1.If a guy has so much to offer and so much cash why on earth would he want to travel to Russia to meet a women?

2. Ok he wants a Russian women for some reason, thats his choice. He cannot find in his home country?? Even with such a lavish life style?

But if you are very wealthy and looking for a young beauty queen you certainly do not need to travel to Russia to meet a women for marriage, London is absolutely full of beautiful young women from Russia and all over the  globe?
If I was very wealthy and living in London I think 2/3 days I could pick up some beauty ( Im lucky I can do without being wealthy :laugh: )

So what is the problem there, why has such a good catch not been taken?

There is usually some problem. For example maybe he doesn't want a women in the UK JUST incase she tries to rip him off, so naturally he thinks go to Russia pick up a women who doesn't know about these thing :laugh:

There is always some problem with these types of guys and that problem is why they cannot find a women.

I would like to interview a few guys like this it would be very interesting to see what makes them tick when it comes to dating. Probably would find out most are complete nutters!!


Steveboy,

Why did you go to another nation to find your wife  ?..

I only ask - as so much of your opinion seems to be applicable to yourself and other members who have travelled to the FSU searching for 'the one' ... incl. me 

Even Ed, a Russian by birth knew where to look...:coffeeread:

I never intended to even visit Russia or meet a Russian women!

In short a long time back one of my friends found out his wife was seeing other guys and was secretly registered at a dating site, it was a long time back , something like Match.com in the UK. We made a fake profile to catch her out and chatted to her for a week or so :ROFL: Of course they divorced after, but anyway whilst on this site (I had never been on any dating site before) there was one girl from Moldova she was the only foreign girl there all the rest were local and UK. So I got chatting, I was only recently divorced myself, three weeks later I was in Moldova!! Never been to Eastern Europe. Loved it! So the journey began.. :8)

One month before this I would never of dreamed of travelling to another country to meet a women I thought that sort of thing was for nutters! It was just by pure coincidence it happened to me ;D
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: msmoby on January 20, 2016, 12:19:57 AM


I never intended to even visit Russia or meet a Russian women!

In short a long time back one of my friends found out his wife was seeing other guys and was secretly registered at a dating site, it was a long time back , something like Match.com in the UK. We made a fake profile to catch her out and chatted to her for a week or so :ROFL: Of course they divorced after, but anyway whilst on this site (I had never been on any dating site before) there was one girl from Moldova she was the only foreign girl there all the rest were local and UK. So I got chatting, I was only recently divorced myself, three weeks later I was in Moldova!! Never been to Eastern Europe. Loved it! So the journey began.. :8)

One month before this I would never of dreamed of travelling to another country to meet a women I thought that sort of thing was for nutters! It was just by pure coincidence it happened to me ;D

Was that your 'excuse' ... ?

Now, you run a dating site for guys to find real women from the FSU and many of us have wives / partners haven CHOSEN - deliberately - to look to the FSU.

So, must of us are your  'nutters'... :coffeeread:


Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: redroo on January 20, 2016, 12:30:51 AM
I also didn't go to Russia to meet a girl. I went to cross the country on the Trans Siberian Express...something I had wanted to do since I learnt of it as a child enthralled with travel. Met my first girlfriend there on the train  :biggrin:
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Omega1982 on January 20, 2016, 01:29:00 AM
I also didn't go to Russia to meet a girl. I went to cross the country on the Trans Siberian Express...something I had wanted to do since I learnt of it as a child enthralled with travel. Met my first girlfriend there on the train  :biggrin:

I did the Transsiberian last March.  I made it all the way to Vladivostok. 

I want to make it to Kamchatka and Yakutsk before my Russian visa expires. 
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Steveboy on January 20, 2016, 02:56:38 AM

Money doesn't buy love! It just buys a cheap slut  :)
Or an expensive one.
For once I agree with you, Andy.
However when a guy is young, good looking, very intelligent with great sense of humor it's not hard for a woman (even if she is a 9 or a 10) to fall in love with. The ability to offer a luxury lifestyle to a woman doesn't hurt either. All women (and men for that matter) will choose a very comfortable lifestyle versus poor or average middle class lifestyle all things being equal. Wouldn't you agree?

I would say that guy has some either mental problem or some physiological problems some where! I know about these things :)

1.If a guy has so much to offer and so much cash why on earth would he want to travel to Russia to meet a women?

2. Ok he wants a Russian women for some reason, thats his choice. He cannot find in his home country?? Even with such a lavish life style?

But if you are very wealthy and looking for a young beauty queen you certainly do not need to travel to Russia to meet a women for marriage, London is absolutely full of beautiful young women from Russia and all over the  globe?
If I was very wealthy and living in London I think 2/3 days I could pick up some beauty ( Im lucky I can do without being wealthy :laugh: )

So what is the problem there, why has such a good catch not been taken?

There is usually some problem. For example maybe he doesn't want a women in the UK JUST incase she tries to rip him off, so naturally he thinks go to Russia pick up a women who doesn't know about these thing :laugh:

There is always some problem with these types of guys and that problem is why they cannot find a women.

I would like to interview a few guys like this it would be very interesting to see what makes them tick when it comes to dating. Probably would find out most are complete nutters!!
Why do some people like to assume? What makes you think that he is not dating locally? Well, he is. Have you considered that his standards might differ from yours and he is just looking for the best in terms of looks, personality, education? Why do you always have to judge some one without even knowing a person? I got to know the guy and have a lot of respect for him. He is looking for a complete package which is not easy to find and he is not looking to settle. I will help him find her.

I wish you the every success.
Your client will unfortunately have to make do with second best, because he's not getting my lady.

Yes he's not having mine either so looks like third best  :chuckle:
are you saying that yours is second best??? LOL  :chuckle:

Noooo!!   :laugh:  I have my perfect young beauty queen, took me a long time to find her..
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: D.Pernauld on April 23, 2016, 04:17:57 PM
May I ask which is Steve's site?

I am well aware that on ANY site the top 5% of women get 90% of the attention.  That has ALWAYS been true.  I would not dream of searching in that cat fish pond!

Yeah, but what % of men actually get on a plane?  The numbers are still in the man's favor in that respect.
This sounds interesting. For me it's fairly easy to travel, I'm self employed, I live near Vienna Airport which has good connections with Eastern Europe, and I make enough money to afford travelling. When I write to women, what would you recommend I do to make them realize I'm not a keyboard Romeo and therefore a person worth pursuing?
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: TomT on April 23, 2016, 09:30:13 PM
^ Telling women that you are serious will not set you apart; they hear this from all guys, both domestic and foreign. The best course of action is to maintain daily, thoughtful communication and to visit within weeks, not months. They have to understand for themselves that you have value... without any prompting. 
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: D.Pernauld on April 24, 2016, 03:37:16 AM
By the way Ed, how did it go with the London guy? And how often do you update your website?
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: AvHdB on April 24, 2016, 06:34:55 AM
^ Telling women that you are serious will not set you apart; they hear this from all guys, both domestic and foreign. The best course of action is to maintain daily, thoughtful communication and to visit within weeks, not months. They have to understand for themselves that you have value... without any prompting.

Knowing the culture and history will help in your search. Understand that you are dealing with the element Woman, rather difficult to pin down it has qualities like Mercury and gold but also oxygen and hydrogen. Get polished and groomed.

Would not recommend discussing politics better to do that on RUA, there are enough present who have an opinion or two.

Good luck.
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Eduard on April 28, 2016, 11:20:30 AM
By the way Ed, how did it go with the London guy? And how often do you update your website?
I found several excellent prospects for him and he met 3 of them on his own. However he didn't feel that they were up to his standard. After I had worked for him for 4 months he basically told me that he is not interested in ordinary women. The women who would interest him would have to come from the "high class" background, daughters of wealthy businessmen who "know how to act in the high society circles" and of course have to have model looks. He is now using an exclusive matchmaking agency who according to him have women like that. I'm interested to know how that works out for him. We are still communicating on a regular basis and he asks for my opinion here and there. By all measures his standards are extremely high, but he is very successful, good looking and still relatively young so he may find what he is looking for eventually. Who knows if it will last but hey, that's life.

On the other hand my other European client who is seriously disabled went to Ukraine to visit the girl I found for him. The trip went extremely well and now he is working on her visiting him in Europe. They are very serious.

When we first started talking with her she seemed very genuine to me. When the subject of possible relationship came up she was very open and honest and told him that she really likes him as a person and would love to remain friends but just can't envision herself being in a romantic relationship with a man with this kind of disability. He was very upset and discouraged, but I told him that this response from her was actually a good thing. It meant that she was genuine and wasn't trying to use him. I suggested to him that he continues talking to her while we keep on contacting and chatting with other girls. I told him: "Look, she obviously likes your intellect and your personality. What you need to do is just be a good friend to her, always be there for her to the point where she is "addicted" to talking to you and always have you there for her. Because she is so genuine it is very likely that you can make a move from the "Friends only" zone because she can't envision herself being with a disabled man to "Romantic love" zone because she can't envision herself being without YOU.

It worked exactly as I thought it would. At some point when he was busy with work or communicating with other girls and wouldn't have the time to write to her for a day or two she would start getting jealous!!!   Long story short, she really wanted to meet him and see how it goes. They met and things couldn't be better.
It is too early to celebrate but I have a feeling that they may become a very happy couple.

I'm really happy that I was able to help this man. Sometimes I was very discouraged by the lack of interest in him by the FSU women, which wasn't unexpected but still not easy to deal with. Right now we are looking forward to her visiting him.       
Title: Re: Things are a changing... rapidly!
Post by: Gipsy on April 28, 2016, 01:06:48 PM
By the way Ed, how did it go with the London guy? And how often do you update your website?
I found several excellent prospects for him and he met 3 of them on his own. However he didn't feel that they were up to his standard. After I had worked for him for 4 months he basically told me that he is not interested in ordinary women. The women who would interest him would have to come from the "high class" background, daughters of wealthy businessmen who "know how to act in the high society circles" and of course have to have model looks. He is now using an exclusive matchmaking agency who according to him have women like that. I'm interested to know how that works out for him. We are still communicating on a regular basis and he asks for my opinion here and there. By all measures his standards are extremely high, but he is very successful, good looking and still relatively young so he may find what he is looking for eventually. Who knows if it will last but hey, that's life.

On the other hand my other European client who is seriously disabled went to Ukraine to visit the girl I found for him. The trip went extremely well and now he is working on her visiting him in Europe. They are very serious.

When we first started talking with her she seemed very genuine to me. When the subject of possible relationship came up she was very open and honest and told him that she really likes him as a person and would love to remain friends but just can't envision herself being in a romantic relationship with a man with this kind of disability. He was very upset and discouraged, but I told him that this response from her was actually a good thing. It meant that she was genuine and wasn't trying to use him. I suggested to him that he continues talking to her while we keep on contacting and chatting with other girls. I told him: "Look, she obviously likes your intellect and your personality. What you need to do is just be a good friend to her, always be there for her to the point where she is "addicted" to talking to you and always have you there for her. Because she is so genuine it is very likely that you can make a move from the "Friends only" zone because she can't envision herself being with a disabled man to "Romantic love" zone because she can't envision herself being without YOU.

It worked exactly as I thought it would. At some point when he was busy with work or communicating with other girls and wouldn't have the time to write to her for a day or two she would start getting jealous!!!   Long story short, she really wanted to meet him and see how it goes. They met and things couldn't be better.
It is too early to celebrate but I have a feeling that they may become a very happy couple.

I'm really happy that I was able to help this man. Sometimes I was very discouraged by the lack of interest in him by the FSU women, which wasn't unexpected but still not easy to deal with. Right now we are looking forward to her visiting him.     

Fair play to the pair of them, wish them every luck.. :thumbsup: