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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #15 on: October 18, 2009, 07:20:31 PM »
Not sure why that matters...but i am 39
here is her and i.

An off topic question, do you guys (Anglo- Saxon and FSU gals) consider this girl to be "white" based on her photos?

My guess is the answer is "no" but I prefer to ask.

what does that have to do with ANYTHING?

Nothing, that's why I wrote it was an off topic question, just I needed an outsider point of view after watching some videos about hate crimes in Russia related to racism. And the girl has the perfect physical characteristics to confirm what I suspect.

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #16 on: October 18, 2009, 07:21:42 PM »
ok...
she is a descendant from India.

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #17 on: October 18, 2009, 07:23:38 PM »
ok...
she is a descendant from India.

Ok thank you, non white then.

P.S. Sorry for temporarily hijacking your topic.


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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #18 on: October 18, 2009, 07:25:08 PM »
Ok..so what im hearing is that she did this to make a few hundred bucks?

that doesnt even sound right. :'(

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #19 on: October 18, 2009, 07:25:39 PM »
P.S. Sorry for temporarily hijacking your topic.

its ok...sorry im in such a rotten mood.

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #20 on: October 18, 2009, 07:32:31 PM »
i cant call her because i didnt ask for her phone #
you've talked to her for over a year and don't have her number??? :scared0005:

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #21 on: October 18, 2009, 07:35:49 PM »
whats the point?
i cant speak russian.. :coffeeread:

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #22 on: October 18, 2009, 07:37:10 PM »
Did you have sex with her?

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« Reply #23 on: October 18, 2009, 07:38:24 PM »
No

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #24 on: October 18, 2009, 07:43:43 PM »
I ask because I fail to see any other reason why you would want to date her.

As I wrote before, you need to do some reading. I’d ignore the age gape warnings as IMO 19 years is no big deal …. provided she is at least 25/26.

Your age is relevant because if you were say 24 then I would be more sympathetic to your current confused plight. ‘Date’ some 20 year old models (or average looking waitresses) back home and you will be equally confused … it’s what kids do, they are good at it.

Play, fire, burnt etc.

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #25 on: October 18, 2009, 07:45:34 PM »
Ok..so what im hearing is that she did this to make a few hundred bucks?

that doesnt even sound right. :'(

It's actually amazing how low some women can be for a few hundred bucks, before jumping into the FSU pool again I would recommend to educate yourself as much as you can (read the forums, books, and first hand experience from other posters). Although you no longer need a visa to enter Ukraine, remember the same applies to other western men from other countries, so the "mail order bride" industry there has a strong presence, as the place must filled with Yanks, Canucks, western Europeans, and other delicateses (wealthy guys from emerging economies,... ie.. Mexicans, Brazilians, South Africans.. etc, etc) chasing and spoiling local girls. I am not saying is impossible to find an honest and decent girl in Ukraine, there are still good women, (some posters here are married to sincere, honest good women from Ukraine), but it is definitive to be more difficult for the reasons mentioned above, specially for a rookie.

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #26 on: October 18, 2009, 07:47:03 PM »

Your age is relevant because if you were say 24 then I would be more sympathetic to your current confused plight. ‘Date’ some 20 year old models (or average looking waitresses) back home and you will be equally confused … it’s what kids do, they are good at it.

Play, fire, burnt etc.


LOL, my age  :)

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« Reply #27 on: October 18, 2009, 07:48:43 PM »
I ask because I fail to see any other reason why you would want to date her.

As I wrote before, you need to do some reading. I’d ignore the age gape warnings as IMO 19 years is no big deal …. provided she is at least 25/26.

Your age is relevant because if you were say 24 then I would be more sympathetic to your current confused plight. ‘Date’ some 20 year old models (or average looking waitresses) back home and you will be equally confused … it’s what kids do, they are good at it.

Play, fire, burnt etc.


Ok..so your saying that if she isnt giving me any sex then she isnt worth dating?
and if i was say....a 66 year old man then you wouldnt care at all?

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #28 on: October 18, 2009, 07:56:11 PM »
Not sure why that matters...but i am 39
here is her and i.

An off topic question, do you guys (Anglo- Saxon and FSU gals) consider this girl to be "white" based on her photos?

My guess is the answer is "no" but I prefer to ask.

what does that have to do with ANYTHING?

Nothing, that's why I wrote it was an off topic question, just I needed an outsider point of view after watching some videos about hate crimes in Russia related to racism. And the girl has the perfect physical characteristics to confirm what I suspect.
not sure what you are referring to, Link? What do you suspect?

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Re: I'm Pretty Sure I Was Scammed For a Good Time!
« Reply #29 on: October 18, 2009, 08:01:55 PM »
Ok..so what im hearing is that she did this to make a few hundred bucks?

that doesnt even sound right. :'(

In my experience of dating models (it’s not vast but everyone gets lucky sometimes) then most of them are poorly paid with just a few at the top earning the big bucks. I would have thought that the competition in Ukraine is very intense with only the really striking ones making a decent living from it.

Ok..so your saying that if she isnt giving me any sex then she isnt worth dating?
and if i was say....a 66 year old man then you wouldnt care at all?

I can only give you my perspective. If I was dating a 20 year model then the relationship wouldn’t last long if we didn’t end up in bed together. The reason I say that is because I would be viewing the relationship nothing more than a bit of fun (just like she would be) and, rightly or wrongly, there’s only so much fun I can have wining, dining and sightseeing.

You’ve lost me on the 66 year old comment. Was her Granddad there too? :)