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Re: Report from Penza Russia.
« Reply #75 on: May 09, 2009, 08:52:42 PM »
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Remember the most powerful tool a man can develop is a "Next" button in his mind and know how and when to use it.

Remember Rule Number 1 - A difficult (or: spoiled, inconsiderate, disrespectful, selfish etc...) woman ALWAYS remains difficult and NEVER changes - so hit "NEXT" :rolleye0009: :-\ :rolleye0009: :-\ :rolleye0009: :-\ :rolleye0009:

One thing we know there are millions of fish in the sea  :travel:

So sooner you hit NEXT the sooner you move on to the one who is respectful, considerate and perfect for you.

Great advice Cufflinks.  :bow:
I live by this rule. Only once did I make an exception and it was a big mistake.

Thanks Divad - I am now wise not because I started that way I can assure you - I have had my share of adventures along the way - I could go into a long litany of bad dates and the stunts the Boston breed of AW have pulled - one of my favorites was the Italian movie star who's Dad  - a famous plastic surgeon from Italy with a thriving practice in Texas.  LOL - she would ask me to meet at the 4 Seasons in Boston for Breakfast or Lunch etc and always had a girlfriend (also smoking hot) with her.  A friend who knew the manager said oh yes they are on the 4 Seasons points system - the more men they get to come in and spend money and buy meals - they would earn points good for the hotel, spa or restaurant - I enjoy the service there so it never really bothered me but the real deal breaker was when we went to a great little Italian North End restaurant which made a particularly succulent Osso Bucco that I ordered and she ordered her meal and when it came she then ambushed me with that PETA crap "Do you know how they treat veal?"

At first I was thinking WTF but I quickly checked my self and I said if you had a problem with veal you should have said something before I ordered - but since you decided instead to ambush me now that my meal is here I plan to enjoy it and I took a $20 from my pocket knowing the taxi back to Daddy's condo was less than $10 and said you have three choices be pleasant while I enjoy my meal and enjoy yours - take the $20 and go home now and I will pay for your meal and take it home in a doggie bag or  take the $20 and the doggie bag and never ever call me or email me again.  Being as it was a free meal and against a "points girl's" nature to pass up a free 4 star Italian meal she chose plan 1 and I then "nexted" her never to look back even though she called a few times.

Honestly was not easy because her dad and I got along and she was a solid 9.9 - of course her mother wound up divorcing her Dad for a NBD (Next Bigger Deal) so it was not a stretch to think like mother like daughter.

There is a reason why I have never had to pay alimony or child support - that next button in your mind's eye can be a real life saver!

Suffice to say wisdom comes from experiences both bad and good :smokin: