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Re: Help me pls
« Reply #2880 on: August 12, 2014, 12:55:55 PM »
I'm a 27 year old (European) looking guy. Witch age range should i go for? and are FSU looking for someone with my age or mostly older (sugar daddy  ;D)  guys? I want child's, get married etc. in the future.

Btw, i have one arm with a tattoo slave (all covered arm) and the other arm half covered. Is this a no go'er for FSU girls? in my country it's normal and a little bit of a hype at this moment (due television programs). Some girls like it, Some not, ofcourse. Btw, i do wear most of the time nice stylish blouses or shirts and you don't see it at all then.

I would look around your same age group. That is the norm in the FSU and most are not looking for sugar daddies. They do want a secure man. The sleeve may turn some women off but tats are becoming more trendy so don't let that hold you back.

Women wear blouses, men wear shirts  :)

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Re: Help me pls
« Reply #2881 on: August 12, 2014, 01:14:40 PM »
Btw, i have one arm with a tattoo slave (all covered arm) and the other arm half covered. Is that a turnoff for FSU girls?

http://ruadventures.com/forum/index.php?topic=7082.msg102390#msg102390
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Re: Help me pls
« Reply #2882 on: August 12, 2014, 01:16:46 PM »
Tnx guys!
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Re: Help me pls
« Reply #2883 on: August 13, 2014, 03:32:18 AM »
@ sashathecat
It's shirts indeed. Stupid mistake  :laugh: (Dutch is my native language btw) i'm thinking i'll go for a girl between 22 and 32  :)

@ Manny
What a epic topic. It remembered me when mom said: don't do it, don't do it...but on my 16th birthday i went to a tattoo shop and got my first tattoo. After that...the rest is history. Now i'm done with it and older and wiser  :)
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Re: Help me pls
« Reply #2884 on: August 13, 2014, 08:30:41 AM »
I'm a 27 year old (European) looking guy. Witch age range should i go for? and are FSU looking for someone with my age or mostly older (sugar daddy  ;D)  guys? I want child's, get married etc. in the future.

Btw, i have one arm with a tattoo slave (all covered arm) and the other arm half covered. Is this a no go'er for FSU girls? in my country it's normal and a little bit of a hype at this moment (due television programs). Some girls like it, Some not, ofcourse. Btw, i do wear most of the time nice stylish blouses or shirts and you don't see it at all then.

I would look around your same age group. That is the norm in the FSU and most are not looking for sugar daddies. They do want a secure man. The sleeve may turn some women off but tats are becoming more trendy so don't let that hold you back.

Women wear blouses, men wear shirts  :)

Sasha  makes a good point here. Back in June  I found myself in a conversation on age suitability with a 25 yo Ukrainian girl-- she had 26yo guy in her life and she thought it was time to get married.The guy wanted none of that. When i was asked what I thought--I answered if I was a 26yo Ukrainian guy I would not be getting married either!!Every girl I told this story too--said"what about love"?mm
Now further into discussing her future--she flatly refused to even think of a guy over 30 as marriage material(or any other purpose!!) 
All that aside--to Hans--forget age issue  and look as you would anywhere.At 27 -- all girls are possible if you are ok normal guy.Ukraine girls will prove tougher than you probably think-- so you need to learn and understand personality and cultural quirks to survive it!! Ukrainian girls can be mature at 19 yo-- and they like to have children when young-- so keep that in mind.

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Re: Help me pls
« Reply #2885 on: August 13, 2014, 11:27:24 AM »
@ sashathecat
It's shirts indeed. Stupid mistake  :laugh: (Dutch is my native language btw) i'm thinking i'll go for a girl between 22 and 32  :)

Was just messing with you. :)

I think that is a good age range for you to look and as Jay mentions you will have some advantages if you are ready for marriage.
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Re: Ye Olde Age Difference
« Reply #2886 on: August 13, 2014, 12:11:03 PM »
@ JayH
Last months i had 2 dates with girls in my country aged 20 and 21. And 2 dates with a girl aged 27, but it only went to the sleeping room whit her  ;D
All the girls were very in-mature, in the party mood etc. and talking about they want to have a baby, on the first date...I know not every girl is the same of course, but is good the hear that Ukrain girls are (more) mature at a younger age.

@ sashathecat

Tnx!

I'm first gonna make a sort of strategy plan. I read a lot of topics at this forum, but is overwhelming me a little bit. I was thinking to register me on a site as Alena, chat with some girls, planned some dates and make a trip to Ukrain. At this moment i have other priorities as dating, so it give me also the opportunity tho read some more information. Witch membership should i take for at Elana?

I read a lot of negative stuff about agency's, so i guess i shouldn't waste my money and time to them. Anyway, i'm thinking to go make a trip end of this year/begin next year, but isn't then freaking cold?
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Re: Ye Olde Age Difference
« Reply #2887 on: August 13, 2014, 12:18:11 PM »
I read a lot of negative stuff about agency's, so i guess i shouldn't waste my money and time to them. Anyway, i'm thinking to go make a trip end of this year/begin next year, but isn't then not freaking cold?

I would definitely avoid the agencies. Elena's Models several guys have been successful though including one couple we are friends with locally. At your age I would probably reach out to women on vk or social sites and visit as a vacation while meeting a few. It can be cold depending on time of year and city you are visiting. October and November were not too bad when I visited, just a bit chilly. Avoid going during the holidays until you have found someone I would suggest.

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Re: Ye Olde Age Difference
« Reply #2888 on: August 13, 2014, 12:59:34 PM »
Hansk, - first FSU reaction to ink/tattoo is *prison-ex convict*

so you have that going for you :)

I do not have sleeves , but a couple of tattoos, wasn't any big issue.

Sure initial reaction to it might be there,but you can over come it.
 in my case a bit  easier, as they are not visible if i'm not in beach wear.
she had a hip with bad habits , and a shake that was a bit obscene

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Re: Ye Olde Age Difference
« Reply #2889 on: August 13, 2014, 02:04:45 PM »
Hansk, - first FSU reaction to ink/tattoo is *prison-ex convict*

Also younger girls?
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Re: Ye Olde Age Difference
« Reply #2890 on: August 13, 2014, 03:34:00 PM »
Hansk, - first FSU reaction to ink/tattoo is *prison-ex convict*

Also younger girls?


 its getting to be more accepted, but yes, for the most part
 i believe even younger girls' first thought when seeing a full sleeve tattoo will be *he's been in prison*. :o

That doesnt mean you cant get past that,,and more and more young men and women in the FSU have them,,
 but its not nearly as accepted as elsewhere in the world as a general rule,
and still often has the *very rough crowd* stigma.


she had a hip with bad habits , and a shake that was a bit obscene

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Re: Ye Olde Age Difference
« Reply #2891 on: August 13, 2014, 03:52:23 PM »
Hansk, - first FSU reaction to ink/tattoo is *prison-ex convict*

Also younger girls?


 its getting to be more accepted, but yes, for the most part
 i believe even younger girls' first thought when seeing a full sleeve tattoo will be *he's been in prison*. :o

That doesnt mean you cant get past that,,and more and more young men and women in the FSU have them,,
 but its not nearly as accepted as elsewhere in the world as a general rule,
and still often has the *very rough crowd* stigma.

I agree with AJ, Hans.
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Re: Help me pls
« Reply #2892 on: August 13, 2014, 03:55:17 PM »
Tnx guys!

I think you will see a noticeable positive difference in an FSU girl who is 24 or 25
instead of 22. There are a zillion beautiful girls who are 24-25 so why not search
that age range first and only expand it if necessary?

Just my two kopecks

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