The World's #1 Russian, Ukrainian & Eastern European Discussion & Information Forum - RUA!

This Is the Premier Discussion Forum on the Net for Information and Discussion about Russia, Ukraine, Eastern Europe and the Former Soviet Union. Discuss Culture, Politics, Travelling, Language, International Relationships and More. Chat with Travellers, Locals, Residents and Expats. Ask and Answer Questions about Travel, Culture, Relationships, Applying for Visas, Translators, Interpreters, and More. Give Advice, Read Trip Reports, Share Experiences and Make Friends.

Author Topic: my lurid trip to Russia  (Read 1372 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

Online Guile

  • Member
  • *
  • Posts: 1178
  • Country: us
  • Gender: Male
my lurid trip to Russia
« on: July 05, 2019, 04:07:46 PM »
So I've been gone awhile doing a job for another oligarch. The cities shall remain nameless.

Even though this was a work trip I managed to meet several ladies and had a blast.  I had a few intimate encounters but will spare the lurid details like a gentleman.

One girl approached me on the street and asked where I was from? She was surprised at my good English and she gave me her #, I called her the next day and somehow ended up at her place  ;D

Another was demonstrating a product in the store front.  She got all embarrassed and blushed when I spoke English...I asked for her Whatsapp and got it. Yet another was a server at a restaurant and I said I was very impressed with her fluent English.  She asked for my contact and we connected...

How did I meet these women?  Through face to face social interactions.  Not a single dating app was used nor any online websites... Just good old fashioned flirting.  These are all women in their 20's and 30's. Striking up conversations, asking if they speak English. Using charm and wit. It does help that I speak Russian albeit still not fluently.  Good enough to start talking and bad enough to not get the entire meaning.

Lots of attractive ladies in summer fashion.

Really, Russian is like any other country. If you got game back home then you will do well abroad.  If not then you will strike out.  They are curious about foreigners but aren't awed.

These girls I talked to aren't models but are attractive and their most enchanting feature is that they have that feminine innocence.  They aren't repulsed if you try to converse with them unless many in western "developed" countries.

I have alot more stories from this trip but they will have to remain a secret for now... ;D


Offline Manny

  • Moderator
  • Member
  • *
  • Posts: 16461
  • Country: gb
  • Gender: Male
  • Spouses Country: Russia
  • Status: Married
  • Trips: 20+
Re: my lurid trip to Russia
« Reply #1 on: July 08, 2019, 07:18:55 AM »
Quote
They aren't repulsed if you try to converse with them

I always found FSU women very approachable too.

Offline Confederate

  • Member
  • *
  • Posts: 7356
  • Country: us
  • Gender: Male
  • Status: Dating
  • Trips: 1-5
Re: my lurid trip to Russia
« Reply #2 on: July 08, 2019, 01:07:48 PM »
So I've been gone awhile doing a job for another oligarch. The cities shall remain nameless.

Even though this was a work trip I managed to meet several ladies and had a blast.  I had a few intimate encounters but will spare the lurid details like a gentleman.

One girl approached me on the street and asked where I was from? She was surprised at my good English and she gave me her #, I called her the next day and somehow ended up at her place  ;D

Another was demonstrating a product in the store front.  She got all embarrassed and blushed when I spoke English...I asked for her Whatsapp and got it. Yet another was a server at a restaurant and I said I was very impressed with her fluent English.  She asked for my contact and we connected...

How did I meet these women?  Through face to face social interactions.  Not a single dating app was used nor any online websites... Just good old fashioned flirting.  These are all women in their 20's and 30's. Striking up conversations, asking if they speak English. Using charm and wit. It does help that I speak Russian albeit still not fluently.  Good enough to start talking and bad enough to not get the entire meaning.

Lots of attractive ladies in summer fashion.

Really, Russian is like any other country. If you got game back home then you will do well abroad.  If not then you will strike out.  They are curious about foreigners but aren't awed.

These girls I talked to aren't models but are attractive and their most enchanting feature is that they have that feminine innocence.  They aren't repulsed if you try to converse with them unless unlike many in western "developed" countries.

I have alot more stories from this trip but they will have to remain a secret for now... ;D

Yay! Our Asian-American stud is back!  :chuckle:

Tell us more, tell us more! And congratulations!
Giving money and power to government is like giving whiskey and car keys to teenage boys. P. J. O'Rourke


Online Guile

  • Member
  • *
  • Posts: 1178
  • Country: us
  • Gender: Male
Re: my lurid trip to Russia
« Reply #3 on: July 09, 2019, 12:53:22 AM »
hey dude!  Ain't no stud man just know how to speak half decently to a lady, seems to go over well in Russia ;D

Basically my outer appearance belies my true origins, therefore people are rather surprised at my background. Works to my advantage especially when they hear my English accent. 

If I feel some connection I'll ask for the girl's number, Whatsapp or Facebook. or they will ask me and I'll give it.  Then I follow up, go grab a coffee and see what happens.

Not too different from dating back home to be honest. except I can play the foreigner card and when I start speaking Russian they seem to take quite the interest.  It shows that I've been in the country longer than a tourist and trying to learn their language.

When you off on a trip man?!  The fruit is ripe and sweeeeeet....


Online Steveboy

  • Commercial Member
  • Member
  • *
  • Posts: 3847
  • Country: ru
  • Gender: Male
  • Status: In The Business
  • Trips: Resident
Re: my lurid trip to Russia
« Reply #4 on: July 11, 2019, 06:42:24 AM »
hey dude!  Ain't no stud man just know how to speak half decently to a lady, seems to go over well in Russia ;D

Basically my outer appearance belies my true origins, therefore people are rather surprised at my background. Works to my advantage especially when they hear my English accent. 

If I feel some connection I'll ask for the girl's number, Whatsapp or Facebook. or they will ask me and I'll give it.  Then I follow up, go grab a coffee and see what happens.

Not too different from dating back home to be honest. except I can play the foreigner card and when I start speaking Russian they seem to take quite the interest.  It shows that I've been in the country longer than a tourist and trying to learn their language.

When you off on a trip man?!  The fruit is ripe and sweeeeeet....

Try taking one back home with you , not going to be so easy :)
I support no government anywhere, ever, never. No institution, No religion!!

Online Guile

  • Member
  • *
  • Posts: 1178
  • Country: us
  • Gender: Male
Re: my lurid trip to Russia
« Reply #5 on: July 11, 2019, 04:44:31 PM »


Try taking one back home with you , not going to be so easy :)

Who says we won't be staying in Russia?!  :chuckle: :chuckle:


Online andrewfi

  • Supporting Member
  • Member
  • *
  • Posts: 17694
  • Country: gb
  • Gender: Male
    • Articles About Almost Anything!
Re: my lurid trip to Russia
« Reply #6 on: July 30, 2019, 11:47:54 AM »
Are you still in Russia?
...everything ends always well; if it’s still bad, then it’s not the end!

Online Guile

  • Member
  • *
  • Posts: 1178
  • Country: us
  • Gender: Male
Re: my lurid trip to Russia
« Reply #7 on: July 30, 2019, 01:59:01 PM »
Are you still in Russia?

Not for the moment.

Offline justadude

  • Member
  • Posts: 333
  • Country: us
  • Gender: Male
  • Trips: 1-5
Re: my lurid trip to Russia
« Reply #8 on: August 25, 2019, 05:41:19 PM »
So I've been gone awhile doing a job for another oligarch. The cities shall remain nameless.

Even though this was a work trip I managed to meet several ladies and had a blast.  I had a few intimate encounters but will spare the lurid details like a gentleman.

One girl approached me on the street and asked where I was from? She was surprised at my good English and she gave me her #, I called her the next day and somehow ended up at her place  ;D

Another was demonstrating a product in the store front.  She got all embarrassed and blushed when I spoke English...I asked for her Whatsapp and got it. Yet another was a server at a restaurant and I said I was very impressed with her fluent English.  She asked for my contact and we connected...

How did I meet these women?  Through face to face social interactions.  Not a single dating app was used nor any online websites... Just good old fashioned flirting.  These are all women in their 20's and 30's. Striking up conversations, asking if they speak English. Using charm and wit. It does help that I speak Russian albeit still not fluently.  Good enough to start talking and bad enough to not get the entire meaning.

Lots of attractive ladies in summer fashion.

Really, Russian is like any other country. If you got game back home then you will do well abroad.  If not then you will strike out.  They are curious about foreigners but aren't awed.

These girls I talked to aren't models but are attractive and their most enchanting feature is that they have that feminine innocence.  They aren't repulsed if you try to converse with them unless many in western "developed" countries.

I have alot more stories from this trip but they will have to remain a secret for now... ;D

Guilie I'm jealous of you. I get the impression that you are way more successful than I ever was or will be at this. I did take to heart, however, that you speak some Russian. The next time I travel abroad I should focus ahead of time on learning the language. Nevertheless, I'll bet you have an ease and confidence that you can't bottle and sell. Kudos to you.

Online Guile

  • Member
  • *
  • Posts: 1178
  • Country: us
  • Gender: Male
Re: my lurid trip to Russia
« Reply #9 on: August 25, 2019, 07:29:01 PM »

Guilie I'm jealous of you. I get the impression that you are way more successful than I ever was or will be at this. I did take to heart, however, that you speak some Russian. The next time I travel abroad I should focus ahead of time on learning the language. Nevertheless, I'll bet you have an ease and confidence that you can't bottle and sell. Kudos to you.

hey justadude, thanks for the kind words!  I used to be quite shy back in the day. And I didn't know a lick of Russian until a few years ago. I had to learn like anyone.  It will help tremendously to be able to speak some but if you go to Moscow there are many who can speak decent English. 

There's lots of cases where I talk to someone and it goes nowhere. or we meet up and they aren't interested romantically. it's just like dating anywhere. But it's much easier in Russia, women are open to talking.

So any plans to go back somewhere?

Offline justadude

  • Member
  • Posts: 333
  • Country: us
  • Gender: Male
  • Trips: 1-5
Re: my lurid trip to Russia
« Reply #10 on: August 28, 2019, 03:27:40 PM »

Guilie I'm jealous of you. I get the impression that you are way more successful than I ever was or will be at this. I did take to heart, however, that you speak some Russian. The next time I travel abroad I should focus ahead of time on learning the language. Nevertheless, I'll bet you have an ease and confidence that you can't bottle and sell. Kudos to you.

hey justadude, thanks for the kind words!  I used to be quite shy back in the day. And I didn't know a lick of Russian until a few years ago. I had to learn like anyone.  It will help tremendously to be able to speak some but if you go to Moscow there are many who can speak decent English. 

There's lots of cases where I talk to someone and it goes nowhere. or we meet up and they aren't interested romantically. it's just like dating anywhere. But it's much easier in Russia, women are open to talking.

So any plans to go back somewhere?
I tried to send you a PM but I got an error message that said you cannot receive private messages. Is there another way I can contact you?

Online Guile

  • Member
  • *
  • Posts: 1178
  • Country: us
  • Gender: Male
Re: my lurid trip to Russia
« Reply #11 on: August 28, 2019, 09:29:35 PM »

I tried to send you a PM but I got an error message that said you cannot receive private messages. Is there another way I can contact you?

yeah they put me on a "watched list" on the forum cause I was ranting on Moby too much ahha. took away my PM.  just write here or put your e-mail contact here.  but a burner one, not your normal one and I can message you there.

I don't know when i'm back in Russia though. dependent on work.

Offline Manny

  • Moderator
  • Member
  • *
  • Posts: 16461
  • Country: gb
  • Gender: Male
  • Spouses Country: Russia
  • Status: Married
  • Trips: 20+
Re: my lurid trip to Russia
« Reply #12 on: August 29, 2019, 06:57:29 AM »
JAD, send me the email address and I will get it to Guile.