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How many Russian friends do you have?
« on: October 22, 2018, 10:50:50 PM »
hey for those who have a Russian partner, do you have Russian friends in your social circle?  Or do you mainly hang out with English speaking or your native language friends?

I worked in Moscow and a few other places so I have friends in all those cities.  Most are woman, some I never considered dating but just good friends.  Some are actually looking for international men but are probably too young for most of the guys here, who I reckon are 40 and up.

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Re: How many Russian friends do you have?
« Reply #1 on: October 24, 2018, 02:56:23 AM »
We have very few Russian friends in our UK social circle. One or two women who we don't see that often as they are spread out a bit.

In Estonia we know a few folks, some of whom I knew from before I met my wife, but we are not so close now as we don't go to Estonia like we did.

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I have friends in all those cities.  Most are women, some I never considered dating but just good friends.  Some are actually looking for international men but are probably too young for most of the guys here, who I reckon are 40 and up.

Similar to me in China I think (where I do some business). I've gotten to know quite a few women who help me out in various capacities. Some of whom are quite easy on the eye, openly and vociferously husband-hunting and open to age gaps it seems. But I too have no desire to play Cupid. I think you'd have to plug yourself into the culture in China much more than you need to do in Russia. The learning curve would be much larger I suspect.
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Re: How many Russian friends do you have?
« Reply #2 on: October 24, 2018, 07:16:51 AM »
hey Manny, I remember you mentioned about doing business in China.  I am actually Chinese but born overseas.  My folks are from Guangdong and HK.

So I do speak Cantonese and Mandarin.  Plugging into the culture would be easy, I have lived in China but this was years ago.  However I don't like Asian women! they just don't do it for me physically and are too docile.

And I'm too westernized for their tastes.  There is a strange gap between the Chinese diaspora annd those in China. Heck there is a huge cultural gap between HK, Taiwan, and mainland.

I'll always love the food but never the women haha. How often do you go for business?


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Re: How many Russian friends do you have?
« Reply #3 on: October 24, 2018, 01:47:39 PM »
We have a couple of friends we see from time to time socially.  Now both the other ladies are widowed from their first husbands.  One came west as a couple with a young child over 30 years ago.  She has met new partners and moved on in life.  The second found a western husband, but remains a widow.

Other than that we have friends from various cultures due to work, professional activities and neighbours etc.  Basically race and background is not a major factor in making friends for her or us here.

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Re: How many Russian friends do you have?
« Reply #4 on: October 24, 2018, 05:21:14 PM »
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However I don't like Asian women! they just don't do it for me physically and are too docile.

I guess the Asian body structure does not have many women who are "well endowed", although I have seen some exceptions.   :evilgrin0002:   Too docile?  You must be meeting the wrong types.  I have come across Asian women who are demanding and aloof.   :chuckle:   :knit:

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Re: How many Russian friends do you have?
« Reply #5 on: October 24, 2018, 11:07:21 PM »
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However I don't like Asian women! they just don't do it for me physically and are too docile.

I guess the Asian body structure does not have many women who are "well endowed", although I have seen some exceptions.   :evilgrin0002:   Too docile?  You must be meeting the wrong types.  I have come across Asian women who are demanding and aloof.   :chuckle:   :knit:

yeah Asian women in general have thin toothpick figures, none of the curves or hips of white girls.  although some Russians have slim figures.

The ones you met are probably over 40! haha.  Aloof, cold, docile could be synomyms..In Asian culture individual expression is not encouraged.
So it could be supressed until they go beserk one day! at least with Russian women they won't hold back and you'll know immediately.  :laugh:

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Re: How many Russian friends do you have?
« Reply #6 on: October 25, 2018, 01:26:49 AM »
hey Manny, I remember you mentioned about doing business in China.  I am actually Chinese but born overseas.  My folks are from Guangdong and HK.

So I do speak Cantonese and Mandarin.  Plugging into the culture would be easy, I have lived in China but this was years ago.  However I don't like Asian women! they just don't do it for me physically and are too docile.

And I'm too westernized for their tastes.  There is a strange gap between the Chinese diaspora annd those in China. Heck there is a huge cultural gap between HK, Taiwan, and mainland.

I'll always love the food but never the women haha. How often do you go for business?

I'm in Dongguan now actually, I'm heading back via HK at the weekend. Small world. I get here once or twice a year.

As you'll know, a lot if the women get their eyes done which improves their appearance. There is an old and long topic on the subject of Chinese women >here< which you seem very qualified to comment on.
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Re: How many Russian friends do you have?
« Reply #7 on: October 25, 2018, 01:44:49 AM »


yeah Asian women in general have thin toothpick figures, none of the curves or hips of white girls.  although some Russians have slim figures.

MANY Russians have slim figures  ....  and high check bones from their time under the rule of the Golden Horde - it is this very exotic mix of all the invaders that makes them appealing to many of us .... :whistle:

As for the subject title - depends on your definition of 'friends'    ..some of us collect them and have so many they don't know who they are if they get a msg from one ...

Most of my Russian friends are people I'm in regular contact with and I'd be sad to lose their acquaintance

 




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Re: How many Russian friends do you have?
« Reply #8 on: October 25, 2018, 02:48:50 AM »
I only have a couple of Foreign friends in Russia a couple of guys from the UK and one from the US , we meet up some times. Have a fair few Russian friends a couple I have known for many years and some of the wives friends friends or husbands.. We have a friend who is a special investigator for the FSB here in St Petersburg , who always has interesting policing stories..he spent 2 weeks in hospital recently with fractured skull after a fight whilst making arrests.. ;D the list goes on..
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Re: How many Russian friends do you have?
« Reply #9 on: October 25, 2018, 03:02:37 AM »

I'm in Dongguan now actually, I'm heading back via HK at the weekend. Small world. I get here once or twice a year.

As you'll know, a lot if the women get their eyes done which improves their appearance. There is an old and long topic on the subject of Chinese women >here< which you seem very qualified to comment on.

Cool...I haven't been back in over 2 decades. things have probably changed ALOT.  Shenzen is supposed to be the Silicon Valley of China now.

I remember that thread.  The Chinese that I come into contact here are a little different than in China.  They date outside their race easily.  There are so many interracial relationships and marriages.  A very high level white politican was dating a well known Chinese singer here, he was 20 years older than her.

There is a popular Chinese dating show that matches foreigners with Chinese girls.  It's all the rage apparently.

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Re: How many Russian friends do you have?
« Reply #10 on: October 25, 2018, 03:05:53 AM »

As for the subject title - depends on your definition of 'friends'    ..some of us collect them and have so many they don't know who they are if they get a msg from one ...


Seems like you've backstabbed a few "friends" on here.  I recall one member saying that you betrayed him and broke his trust. Par for the course for you.

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Re: How many Russian friends do you have?
« Reply #11 on: October 25, 2018, 03:18:31 AM »


Seems like you've backstabbed a few "friends" on here.  I recall one member saying that you betrayed him and broke his trust. Par for the course for you.

You should tell us who that is and if that person still feels the same way...   How did I 'backstab'' them ?  :chuckle:

This thread is about Russian 'friends '


Are you going to make this another 'let's make stuff up about Moby' - with no basis in fact thread ?

Perhaps, something I've posted here 'upset' you ?   Could it be my definition of friends is different to yours ?




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Re: How many Russian friends do you have?
« Reply #12 on: October 25, 2018, 07:06:35 AM »

As for the subject title - depends on your definition of 'friends'    ..some of us collect them and have so many they don't know who they are if they get a msg from one ...


Seems like you've backstabbed a few "friends" on here.  I recall one member saying that you betrayed him and broke his trust. Par for the course for you.

Guile, It is tiring reading all these posts directed against Moby. Yes, you do not care for him. & no he is not a friend of mine but I suspect a beer with him would be doable at a pub. For what is is worth in the years that I have been present there is only one member who I would avoid meeting.

Lets not forget why you were banned elsewhere; if I am not mistaken it was for threat of bodily harm to Moby. Worth noting I suspect something along those lines on RUA will also result in you being banned here. Just chill! If you want to poke a hole in the balloon of Moby hot air go ahead. We all do it.
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Re: How many Russian friends do you have?
« Reply #13 on: October 25, 2018, 08:54:58 AM »


You should tell us who that is and if that person still feels the same way...   How did I 'backstab'' them ?  :chuckle:

Perhaps, something I've posted here 'upset' you ?   Could it be my definition of friends is different to yours ?

I recall Jerash saying something about helping you out and then not being able to trust you no more.  I don't know what it was you did but he didn't seem too happy.

you upset me?! haha....I created this thread if you didn't notice.  My defintion of friends is what most normal people think, people I know in real life.  Yours seems to include fantasies and fairy tales.

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Re: How many Russian friends do you have?
« Reply #14 on: October 25, 2018, 09:08:24 AM »
AvHdB,  I'll try to lay off the old Mobers but he's the one replying to all my posts here first.  Why don't you tell him to stop too.