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Offline martincop

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Question for ladies - personality
« on: September 05, 2018, 09:56:24 AM »
Generally speaking - do you prefer a very considerate man who asks what you like and prefer or someone who takes charge and not as thoughtful?

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Re: Question for ladies - personality
« Reply #1 on: September 05, 2018, 01:28:42 PM »
not a russian woman but just a general comment here. obviously this is a question about personality type. perhaps a better question is to ask yourself what personality type you prefer and go looking.

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Re: Question for ladies - personality
« Reply #2 on: September 06, 2018, 12:26:40 AM »
Also not a RU woman - best to get an opinion from someone who does share a life with one ... 


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Re: Question for ladies - personality
« Reply #3 on: October 09, 2018, 02:58:51 PM »
Generally speaking - do you prefer a very considerate man who asks what you like and prefer or someone who takes charge and not as thoughtful?

Generally speaking - it depends.
Men are like Bluetooth: he is connected to you when you are nearby, but searches for other devices when you are away.
Women are like Wi-Fi: she sees all available devices, but connects to the strongest one.

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Re: Question for ladies - personality
« Reply #4 on: October 09, 2018, 03:06:50 PM »
Generally speaking - do you prefer a very considerate man who asks what you like and prefer or someone who takes charge and not as thoughtful?

Generally speaking - it depends.

How is your WiFi connection going?  :chuckle:
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Re: Question for ladies - personality
« Reply #5 on: October 09, 2018, 04:35:36 PM »
If you know what you want, then go look for it, it does exist.
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Re: Question for ladies - personality
« Reply #6 on: October 09, 2018, 05:11:59 PM »
Generally speaking - do you prefer a very considerate man who asks what you like and prefer or someone who takes charge and not as thoughtful?

Generally speaking - it depends.

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Re: Question for ladies - personality
« Reply #7 on: October 09, 2018, 08:43:42 PM »
Generally speaking - do you prefer a very considerate man who asks what you like and prefer or someone who takes charge and not as thoughtful?

There are times you can be considerate and there are times you're expected to be a MAN and know your woman and what she likes. Figure out when the best times are either or and you'll make your woman happy. Also, don't be afraid to say "No". Yes men are turn offs.

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Re: Question for ladies - personality
« Reply #8 on: October 09, 2018, 08:51:51 PM »
Generally speaking - do you prefer a very considerate man who asks what you like and prefer or someone who takes charge and not as thoughtful?

There are times you can be considerate and there are times you're expected to be a MAN and know your woman and what she likes. Figure out when the best times are either or and you'll make your woman happy. Also, don't be afraid to say "No". Yes men are turn offs.

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I actually think this is more or less a Universal truth with women, even with the American or Western European variety. At least with the more “normal” of the two groups. Avoid the “screaming banshees”, you should know what I mean.  :chuckle:
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Re: Question for ladies - personality
« Reply #9 on: October 10, 2018, 02:08:06 AM »
Generally speaking - do you prefer a very considerate man who asks what you like and prefer or someone who takes charge and not as thoughtful?

Generally speaking - it depends.

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Re: Question for ladies - personality
« Reply #10 on: October 21, 2018, 06:16:14 AM »
Most of you guys are attempting to understand Russian women although you try they are an enigma. I teach English here in Russia plus a discussion group every Saturday and also being married to a Tatar woman (19 years) plus I've gained a lot of insight into their traditions, family life, and desires. Pravda: Wishy-washy men stay away or they will eat you alive. They want you to take control and make critical decisions when needed WITH THEIR INPUT. They will make the home but you have to buy it. Cleanliness is paramount with them and you MUST OBEY to that rule! They want to baby you and will try to create a new you in the image they imagine and they are tough about it and will hit you every minute of the day with it! You get in a fight? She will be there tooth and nail and will do her best to kill your opponent while not caring for her own well being. That's it in a nutshell and I dare anyone to refute what I've written. Feel free to ask me anything more about these wonderful and beautiful ladies. I'm no expert but I do have some insight.

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Re: Question for ladies - personality
« Reply #11 on: October 21, 2018, 07:42:55 AM »
Most of you guys are attempting to understand Russian women although you try they are an enigma. I teach English here in Russia plus a discussion group every Saturday and also being married to a Tatar woman (19 years) plus I've gained a lot of insight into their traditions, family life, and desires. Pravda: Wishy-washy men stay away or they will eat you alive. They want you to take control and make critical decisions when needed WITH THEIR INPUT. They will make the home but you have to buy it. Cleanliness is paramount with them and you MUST OBEY to that rule! They want to baby you and will try to create a new you in the image they imagine and they are tough about it and will hit you every minute of the day with it! You get in a fight? She will be there tooth and nail and will do her best to kill your opponent while not caring for her own well being. That's it in a nutshell and I dare anyone to refute what I've written. Feel free to ask me anything more about these wonderful and beautiful ladies. I'm no expert but I do have some insight.

I 'DARE' to repute your opinion....  but then RU women I've encountered were near the end of their baby-making days /  knew I was incapable of making babies and was not like-mined to reverse the situation  - perhaps that is why ? ;)


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Re: Question for ladies - personality
« Reply #12 on: October 21, 2018, 07:51:17 PM »
Moldy get the heck outta here with youre DARE. All you do is post dissenting info, da fudge outta here you irish spud

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Re: Question for ladies - personality
« Reply #13 on: October 22, 2018, 09:20:22 AM »
Most of you guys are attempting to understand Russian women although you try they are an enigma. I teach English here in Russia plus a discussion group every Saturday and also being married to a Tatar woman (19 years) plus I've gained a lot of insight into their traditions, family life, and desires. Pravda: Wishy-washy men stay away or they will eat you alive. They want you to take control and make critical decisions when needed WITH THEIR INPUT. They will make the home but you have to buy it. Cleanliness is paramount with them and you MUST OBEY to that rule! They want to baby you and will try to create a new you in the image they imagine and they are tough about it and will hit you every minute of the day with it! You get in a fight? She will be there tooth and nail and will do her best to kill your opponent while not caring for her own well being. That's it in a nutshell and I dare anyone to refute what I've written. Feel free to ask me anything more about these wonderful and beautiful ladies. I'm no expert but I do have some insight.



For your observations regarding Tatar women...... I am married to one too..... so I know what you stated is correct!

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Re: Question for ladies - personality
« Reply #14 on: January 08, 2019, 02:27:38 AM »
Generally speaking - do you prefer a very considerate man who asks what you like and prefer or someone who takes charge and not as thoughtful?
Communication is the key. I personally expect a man to discuss with me any important \ live changing moves, instead of "taking charge" based on his own interest and assumptions solely.
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Re: Question for ladies - personality
« Reply #15 on: January 08, 2019, 07:08:11 AM »
Generally speaking - do you prefer a very considerate man who asks what you like and prefer or someone who takes charge and not as thoughtful?
Communication is the key. I personally expect a man to discuss with me any important \ live changing moves, instead of "taking charge" based on his own interest and assumptions solely.

S Novin Godom Olga

Nice to see you around after all those years.......and the board is in need of a woman with common sense.

Good communication and common decisions is the perfect combination but what a man suppose to do when the woman "IS OFFERING HER INPUT" and wants to put her nose into subjects she has not been trained or have not a clue, e.g making electricity repairs or similar problems?

Well my Russian wife, after 10 years, has learned to stay out of subjects she has no experience or was not trained. 

Of course Mrs Perfect ....... cannot resist the opportunity not to give me her advise!

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