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Fighting the Scammers and safe Dating Tips..
« on: August 21, 2018, 02:06:20 PM »
Just thought I would write a little about fighting the scammers , web site moderation and safe dating tips..

Our web sites have absolutely zero scammers it is impossible for any scammers to operate in any way or form..our moderation is the best in the industry.

The average rate for fake profiles is about 1 in 10 so every ten registrations one will be a fake for sure , 95% of the time they are from Ukraine and 95% of the time they are are under 30 years old..Remember beautiful young women do not need old western men.. If you remember that point your on your way to a safe dating experience immediately.

Here are a few tips:

1. Never trust a women using either hotmail/live/outlook or Yahoo 95% of the time she/he will be a fake. Of course there are a few women who will use one of these mails but the amount is tiny.. look at it this way how many US guys use Mail.ru ?

Typical examples..







2. Never trust a women who wants to immediately communicate by e-mail .. email communication is now the most outdated form of communication.. No one uses e mail today not even my grandmother.. she uses Whats app.. Unfortunately to many guys seer to many beautiful young women requesting e mails and just cannot resist the urge to hand over personal information..

Remember beautiful young women do not need old western men

Here are some examples ...



Some will even try to fool our software by writing in another language ..



As I said again ...

Remember beautiful young women do not need old western men

We recently finished our own custom security software making it impossible for scammers to chat or even mention any scammer grammar key words.. what ever they do they get caught out.. 24 hours is usually the max any scammer can ever survive on our web sites..



We have many other ways .. for example a young girl communicates with a guy over a set age group and and she is auto flagged up to moderate..

With many years in the dating industry we created the best security system on the net ...

Poor Quality moderation = High user churn and no user retention

Quality moderation = No member churn and high retention. No need for high numbers..

You can out a little more :



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Re: Fighting the Scammers and safe Dating Tips..
« Reply #1 on: August 21, 2018, 02:56:46 PM »
You forgot to mention condoms.
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Re: Fighting the Scammers and safe Dating Tips..
« Reply #2 on: August 21, 2018, 03:02:18 PM »
You forgot to mention condoms.

Most don't get as far as even using a condom so no point mentioning them really? .. :laugh:
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Re: Fighting the Scammers and safe Dating Tips..
« Reply #3 on: August 21, 2018, 03:07:27 PM »
You forgot to mention condoms.

Most don't get as far as even using a condom so no point mentioning them really? .. :laugh:

I understood that those with a passport just plugged in without paying.
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Re: Fighting the Scammers and safe Dating Tips..
« Reply #4 on: August 21, 2018, 05:39:33 PM »
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1. Never trust a women using either hotmail/live/outlook or Yahoo 95% of the time she/he will be a fake. Of course there are a few women who will use one of these mails but the amount is tiny.. look at it this way how many US guys use Mail.ru ?

As of late, I am receiving many spam emails with a Gmail "return address" from "supposed" women from Russia.  All of them begin with Hello Friend.  Only one attached photo of someone.  Letter content virtually the same over and over again.  (:) :Zzzzsleep:
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Re: Fighting the Scammers and safe Dating Tips..
« Reply #5 on: August 22, 2018, 04:56:20 AM »

Here are a few tips:

"Never trust a women using either hotmail/live/outlook or Yahoo 95% of the time she/he will be a fake. Of course there are a few women who will use one of these mails but the amount is tiny.. look at it this way how many US guys use Mail.ru ?
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Bad example:  My ex used(s) yahoo./ hotmail as did many FSUW in the noughties  trying to be 'westernised' and 'trendy' ...  she STILL has and uses one of the very domains you say 'avoid' - as do her friends... 

 *I* have a mail.ru / yandex / rambler email ;)

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Re: Fighting the Scammers and safe Dating Tips..
« Reply #6 on: August 22, 2018, 05:41:26 AM »
Email is very convenient for automated communications and is a very good reason for scammers of all kinds to seek an email address. The target is hooked up to an automated communication series and 'bingo', the job is done. At the moment it is harder to attain the same goals with chat systems, in part because of the immediacy of response that we are accustomed to. That is changing though as the quality of automated bots is improving.

And yes, I hardly ever use email for casual communication these days. My mother, bless her cotton socks, will only use email and I confess, I sometimes miss messages from her because I simply do not look at my email for such communication. We are trying to get her to use some kind of chat app but she doesn't really get it and seems to relish the task of wading through spam emails to the extent of telling us on a regular basis just how many spam messages she has read and deleted.  :'(

The takeaway: if your inamorata insists upon email as a primary communication mode there's a decent chance that you are not in communication with a real person for at least a part of the time.
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Re: Fighting the Scammers and safe Dating Tips..
« Reply #7 on: August 22, 2018, 07:03:51 AM »
Unfortunately most Western men searching for a partner STILL think Russia is full of young beauties desperate to leave , so they will hand over all personal details including their hard earned cash to Natasha a 45 year old women living in a nice apartment with a nice new motor outside..


Its Natasha a young beauty waiting to be whisked away..




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Re: Fighting the Scammers and safe Dating Tips..
« Reply #8 on: August 22, 2018, 10:53:47 AM »

Here are a few tips:

"Never trust a women using either hotmail/live/outlook or Yahoo 95% of the time she/he will be a fake. Of course there are a few women who will use one of these mails but the amount is tiny.. look at it this way how many US guys use Mail.ru ?
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Bad example:  My ex used(s) yahoo./ hotmail as did many FSUW in the noughties  trying to be 'westernised' and 'trendy' ...  she STILL has and uses one of the very domains you say 'avoid' - as do her friends... 

Sure, Natasha from Omsk has an AOL email address.  (:)

As general advice it's quite sound. Most women have mail.ru, inbox.ru or similar and you know it. You are simply trying to be contrary for the sake of it.

*I* have a mail.ru / yandex / rambler email ;)

So do I, but that's not the point is it?
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Re: Fighting the Scammers and safe Dating Tips..
« Reply #9 on: August 22, 2018, 11:01:31 AM »

Its Natasha a young beauty waiting to be whisked away..



I suspect Natasha is in L'viv (Lvov), it was a while back that it was part of Russia.
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Re: Fighting the Scammers and safe Dating Tips..
« Reply #10 on: August 22, 2018, 11:07:03 AM »
Teeth are always a good giveaway...







But I have a funny feeling s Moby's ex had those gleaming white teeth... :laugh:
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« Reply #11 on: August 22, 2018, 11:07:40 AM »
But I could be wrong... :laugh:
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« Reply #12 on: August 22, 2018, 11:14:41 AM »

Its Natasha a young beauty waiting to be whisked away..



I suspect Natasha is in L'viv (Lvov), it was a while back that it was part of Russia.

Not since 7pm tonight did you see the news??
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« Reply #13 on: August 22, 2018, 11:24:10 AM »
Not since 7pm tonight did you see the news??

Lovely Natasha is married?

That Russia is seeking a lost nuclear weapon or there is more airborne radiation from an unknown Russian source?
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« Reply #14 on: August 22, 2018, 11:28:37 AM »
Not since 7pm tonight did you see the news??

Lovely Natasha is married?

That Russia is seeking a lost nuclear weapon or there is more airborne radiation from an unknown Russian source?


I think she looks the domineering type , probably into leather and bondage or even worse..  :laugh:
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« Reply #15 on: August 22, 2018, 11:35:54 AM »
Did you know L'viv is the birthplace of L. Ritter von Sacher-Masoch.

Guess what he is famous for.
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« Reply #16 on: August 22, 2018, 11:36:32 AM »
Did you know L'viv is the birthplace of

Bondage?
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« Reply #17 on: August 22, 2018, 11:40:10 AM »

Its Natasha a young beauty waiting to be whisked away..



I suspect Natasha is in L'viv (Lvov), it was a while back that it was part of Russia.

She's at the NW corner of Rynok Square.  Possibly 36 Rynok Square.

The cafe behind her, in the upper right in the photo, is a great place for breakfast.   Centaur.


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« Reply #18 on: August 22, 2018, 11:41:55 AM »

She's at the NW corner of Rynok Square.  Possibly 36 Rynok Square.

The cafe behind her, in the upper right in the photo, is a great place for breakfast.   Centaur.

I know Centaur well.  tiphat
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« Reply #19 on: August 22, 2018, 11:47:14 AM »
I think I found her fake passport ... they usually have a handful of them.. a little like in the Bourne Ultimatum.. :laugh:

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« Reply #20 on: August 22, 2018, 12:01:16 PM »
I think I found her fake passport ... they usually have a handful of them.. a little like in the Bourne Ultimatum.. :laugh:



A guess the image depicted is of an older internal "Passport". International passport look very different from about 15 years ago.
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« Reply #21 on: August 22, 2018, 12:03:52 PM »
I think I found her fake passport ... they usually have a handful of them.. a little like in the Bourne Ultimatum.. :laugh:



A guess the image depicted is of an older internal "Passport". International passport look very different from about 15 years ago.

They usually use the internal passport as it easier to make a fake one up, paste in a new photo and your nearly done!!

Remember NO women in Ukraine have international passports .. its why they need $200 via Western Union..


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« Reply #22 on: August 22, 2018, 12:13:06 PM »
Here a fake.. this one even had the cheek to ask why she couldn't access her account...



You wouldn't believe what lengths the scammers go to get an account...

We have ZERO fakes FULL STOP..
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« Reply #23 on: August 22, 2018, 12:18:36 PM »
Did you know L'viv is the birthplace of

Bondage?

Assume the position.
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« Reply #24 on: August 22, 2018, 12:29:45 PM »
Did you know L'viv is the birthplace of

Bondage?

Assume the position.

What position? the Gimp position?

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