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Author Topic: Looking to have a private conversation with a guy 20+ years older than his wife  (Read 775 times)

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Online justadude

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I have some questions I'd like to ask a guy who is 20+ years older than his wife. Preferably a guy in his mid 50's or older. I don't want to ask them publicly, so please PM me if you are willing to communicate.
 

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Im 21 years older than mine and im 56. 15 or 16 years later still a couple though we never married.

Not sure about in private tho, isnt the forum to share experiences?


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Im 21 years older than mine and im 56. 15 or 16 years later still a couple though we never married.

Not sure about in private tho, isnt the forum to share experiences?


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Not if the conversation borders on topics that can heap embarrassment on you based on how you reply.   :-[ :pointlaugh:


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Not if the conversation borders on topics that can heap embarrassment on you based on how you reply.   :-[ :pointlaugh:

With Ste I would say it's not very likely that somebody will be able to
do that. He's been with an RW so long as to have skin thick enough
to repel small caliber bullets.


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Not if the conversation borders on topics that can heap embarrassment on you based on how you reply.   :-[ :pointlaugh:

Oh man, I can only imagine what these questions might be! You all might be interested to check out my latest article in 'Elderly Living,' "How To Sneak Adult Diapers Through The Check-Out Line."  :ROFL: 
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I briefly - dated a Russian lass 20 years younger - happy to answer questions here.

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The best one to ask..... is TURBO........

only 37 years difference!

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I prefer to keep my private life largely private...
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Not if the conversation borders on topics that can heap embarrassment on you based on how you reply.   :-[ :pointlaugh:

Oh man, I can only imagine what these questions might be! You all might be interested to check out my latest article in 'Elderly Living,' "How To Sneak Adult Diapers Through The Check-Out Line."  :ROFL:
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I prefer to keep my private life largely private...

Does that include your "privates"?   :chuckle:

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Not sure what is so delicate you want to do it by PM, but of course we have been there and done it already.  This year will also mark 16 years since our first meeting and 15 years of marriage later in the year.  So will see where you go from here.  Good luck whatever you decide.

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Just thought of something in line with the OP interest and though I would pass it along for interest to him and others.  Over the holiday season we caught up via Skype with a couple in Western Canada we have known since we first met.  We even visited the wife's Grandmother twice in Crimea before she died a number of years ago.

He is older than I am and his wife is younger than Lora.  So likely perhaps a 25 year or so age gap.  They have a family of 6 children ranging in age from 17 years to 4 years.  Live in a small town in the countryside between Calgary and Edmonton in Alberta.  The children are all home schooled and do well with family that has made this experience work for themselves.  This is just one more family that works well given a wide age gap between husband and wife. 

So you see this can and does work.  It all depends on the couple and their feelings of family.  In life anything is possible.  Its all up to you to  make it happen together.

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If your already worried about it then there is no hope anyway!

My wife is 20 years younger than me, but I'm a different case as I consider myself Peter Pan in any case.. :laugh:
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