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I met a girl on the street today and I think we will be meeting for a drink. She speaks very little English and I speak little Russian or Ukrainian. What are some ideas for having a fun date in spite of the language barrier?

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Re: Ideas for a first date with a woman who speaks little English?
« Reply #1 on: June 26, 2017, 02:11:56 PM »
Take an English/Russian phrasebook, go to a restaurant, try to converse using the phrasebook. Hopefully she will have one of her own so you can have a two way conversation.

After the meal and took much to drink take her back to your place and have sex.

Rinse/repeat until you get fed up with food and fukking as a substitute for life and building a relationship.

Some people get married in this way. I reckon it makes for a good weekend every now and again.

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Re: Ideas for a first date with a woman who speaks little English?
« Reply #2 on: June 26, 2017, 02:17:14 PM »
I would get a translator for a couple of hours. You can find one on the internet. The last one I hired was 500 uah  per hour. After two hours lose her and do what ever the two of you decided while you had translator. That would be around 40 dollars.

Also you can do an internet search of the city your in and see what comes up. Many actives in the Ukraine are on the internet now.


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Re: Ideas for a first date with a woman who speaks little English?
« Reply #3 on: June 26, 2017, 03:25:38 PM »
Pretend its not there and improvise.

I did that and it was fun. Then buy her english tutor if you like her a lot
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Re: Ideas for a first date with a woman who speaks little English?
« Reply #4 on: June 26, 2017, 03:51:00 PM »
Pretend its not there and improvise.

I did that and it was fun. Then buy her english tutor if you like her a lot

+1

I think that's the best.
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Re: Ideas for a first date with a woman who speaks little English?
« Reply #5 on: June 26, 2017, 04:07:38 PM »
No need to buy her English tutor. In most places one can pay them by the hour.

I am not sure but isn't owning a person the same as slavery?

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Re: Ideas for a first date with a woman who speaks little English?
« Reply #6 on: June 26, 2017, 04:44:20 PM »
At dinner, if menu is in English, make sure she can distinguish tomatoes from potatoes, and knows that "hot" means spicy.
It's just in case, to keep her happy.  :)
After dinner, it is the best to go to listen to the music and dance.
Ask her for a food tour to know the taste of Russia.
For example, you can have amazingly delicious ice-cream on boat, excellent cake before you go to watch ballet, and, finally, great local wine before you go to bed.
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Re: Ideas for a first date with a woman who speaks little English?
« Reply #7 on: June 26, 2017, 04:53:07 PM »
No need to buy her English tutor. In most places one can pay them by the hour.

I am not sure but isn't owning a person the same as slavery?
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Re: Ideas for a first date with a woman who speaks little English?
« Reply #8 on: June 26, 2017, 05:11:10 PM »
I can talk English into my cell and it translates it and talks Russian back only with a female's voice. It really is amazing.

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Re: Ideas for a first date with a woman who speaks little English?
« Reply #9 on: June 27, 2017, 06:14:48 PM »
I can talk English into my cell and it translates it and talks Russian back only with a female's voice. It really is amazing.

I would recommend getting an audio translator device.  Alternatively, hiring a translator guide would be my second choice, but of course, it makes for a "third wheel" on the date.

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Re: Ideas for a first date with a woman who speaks little English?
« Reply #10 on: June 27, 2017, 06:46:15 PM »
I can talk English into my cell and it translates it and talks Russian back only with a female's voice. It really is amazing.

I would recommend getting an audio translator device.  Alternatively, hiring a translator guide would be my second choice, but of course, it makes for a "third wheel" on the date.

If you need a translator my first reaction is that the woman is not an appropriate choice.
What is worse than not being able to get what you don't even want?

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Re: Ideas for a first date with a woman who speaks little English?
« Reply #11 on: June 27, 2017, 10:48:36 PM »
I can talk English into my cell and it translates it and talks Russian back only with a female's voice. It really is amazing.

I would recommend getting an audio translator device.  Alternatively, hiring a translator guide would be my second choice, but of course, it makes for a "third wheel" on the date.

If you need a translator my first reaction is that the woman is not an appropriate choice.

I dispute that. My wife had poor English, 11 years later her sales position here is let's say, kicking goals.


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Re: Ideas for a first date with a woman who speaks little English?
« Reply #12 on: June 28, 2017, 02:57:01 AM »
The lack of a shared language is workable but I suspect success comes down to intelligence, education and both parties being extremely eager. There's possibly more but in my opinion those three are the holy grail.

My wife spoke very little english on our first date and I ended up staying with her for 5 days. Of course it was frustrating at times because you couldn't really have a deep meaningful conversation but for a first meeting, I think its just as important to have a connection and fun. I recall all sorts of written notes, pictures, hand signs and improvisation going on and we had a ball.

If you don't like each other it'll probably be your worst date ever.

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Re: Ideas for a first date with a woman who speaks little English?
« Reply #13 on: June 28, 2017, 06:15:58 AM »
Don't forget to have her parents into the picture. My wife's parents have made the  journey senveral times from Tomsk.


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Re: Ideas for a first date with a woman who speaks little English?
« Reply #14 on: June 28, 2017, 06:29:02 AM »
I can talk English into my cell and it translates it and talks Russian back only with a female's voice. It really is amazing.

I would recommend getting an audio translator device.  Alternatively, hiring a translator guide would be my second choice, but of course, it makes for a "third wheel" on the date.

If you need a translator my first reaction is that the woman is not an appropriate choice.

I dispute that. My wife had poor English, 11 years later her sales position here is let's say, kicking goals.

Dispute all you want, this is my opinion
What is worse than not being able to get what you don't even want?