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Hello From Scotland
« on: March 22, 2017, 09:08:04 AM »
Hi, just wanted to say I bought the book and am now on the web site to try and find my Soul Mate. I am genuine about finding Russian Love. I am interested in learning the Russian too. If anyone has any tips or help to give me any form of direction I would appreciate it. I was already a victim of a scammer, but I didn't pay any money.

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Re: Hello From Scotland
« Reply #1 on: March 22, 2017, 09:23:28 AM »
Don't waste your time learning Russian. I can speak a bit of Russian, it is a great way to introduce yourself, make a woman laugh, i often nickname myself as Mr ochen khorsho man. But time is better spent at the Gym, dieting down, and earning more money, if you are already doing all of that, then continue learning Russian.

Oh yeah, join some pay monthly sites, and free sites. No pay per letter sites. Make a trip, and don't get stuck with the theory. Dating is dating, not really that hard, the only difficulty is finding a woman that is actually interested in you.

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Re: Hello From Scotland
« Reply #2 on: March 22, 2017, 09:32:42 AM »
Hi, just wanted to say I bought the book and am now on the web site to try and find my Soul Mate. I am genuine about finding Russian Love. I am interested in learning the Russian too. If anyone has any tips or help to give me any form of direction I would appreciate it. I was already a victim of a scammer, but I didn't pay any money.

Pimsleur courses. They are specific, but imho the best.

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Re: Hello From Scotland
« Reply #3 on: March 22, 2017, 09:44:43 AM »
It's odd but my son has picked up a lot of Russian which is odd when we never speak any now at home and never really did that much. Only time we hear it now is when N is on the phone to her mum, then it's all 'Vot, vot, tipo, tipo...' because she's forgotten so many Russian words. She even asks me mid-convo sometimes, what's 'market share' in Russian? And I'm like 'I don't know, Rinok-something?' which is completely wrong...

My lad is in the top 500 in the World in some game (Overwatch) and regularly hurls abuse in Russian to other players online. Ya ne ponimayu - Durak - Poshli na khoey (I taught him that one!) - suka sinom, quite funny really!

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Re: Hello From Scotland
« Reply #4 on: March 22, 2017, 10:10:49 AM »
Hi, just wanted to say I bought the book and am now on the web site to try and find my Soul Mate. I am genuine about finding Russian Love. I am interested in learning the Russian too. If anyone has any tips or help to give me any form of direction I would appreciate it. I was already a victim of a scammer, but I didn't pay any money.
Not sure about learning the Russian but learning basics like the Cyrillic script and a few words to start off will stand you in good stead.
Best thing to do is get on a plane and go see FSU countries for yourself.
Meet some people, experience some of the culture, it's not for everyone.
Oh, and ignore Chickenbrah, he hasn't a clue.
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Re: Hello From Scotland
« Reply #5 on: March 22, 2017, 10:33:38 AM »
Don't waste your time learning Russian.

Ah, so you're an expert at this , now ?  :ROFL:

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Re: Hello From Scotland
« Reply #6 on: March 22, 2017, 11:17:40 AM »
Hi, just wanted to say I bought the book and am now on the web site to try and find my Soul Mate. I am genuine about finding Russian Love. I am interested in learning the Russian too. If anyone has any tips or help to give me any form of direction I would appreciate it. I was already a victim of a scammer, but I didn't pay any money.

Welcome to the forum,

I thought that Russian scammers weren't silly enough to try to get into the
pocket a Scott, did they get all their fingers back? I've read the book as well.
It's pretty good, the agency section is a bit outdated but you've found the
forum here and should be get yourself up to date with a bit of research.

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Re: Hello From Scotland
« Reply #7 on: March 22, 2017, 11:40:27 AM »
Hi, just wanted to say I bought the book and am now on the web site to try and find my Soul Mate. I am genuine about finding Russian Love. I am interested in learning the Russian too. If anyone has any tips or help to give me any form of direction I would appreciate it. I was already a victim of a scammer, but I didn't pay any money.

Welcome to the forum,

I thought that Russian scammers weren't silly enough to try to get into the
pocket a Scott, did they get all their fingers back?


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Re: Hello From Scotland
« Reply #8 on: March 22, 2017, 11:56:26 AM »
Welcome to the forum. I hope you find what you seek. Yeah, and what someone else said about Chickenbrah....  Wanting to learn the tongue of the love of your life is not "a waste of time," in my opinion.


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Re: Hello From Scotland
« Reply #9 on: March 22, 2017, 12:05:13 PM »
Welcome to the forum. I hope you find what you seek. Yeah, and what someone else said about Chickenbrah....  Wanting to learn the tongue of the love of your life is not "a waste of time," in my opinion.


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Scotland is a beautiful place, lovely weather, the melodic sound of the bagpipes and the food is literally to die for....

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Re: Hello From Scotland
« Reply #10 on: March 23, 2017, 02:29:56 AM »
Hi, just wanted to say I bought the book and am now on the web site to try and find my Soul Mate. I am genuine about finding Russian Love. I am interested in learning the Russian too. If anyone has any tips or help to give me any form of direction I would appreciate it. I was already a victim of a scammer, but I didn't pay any money.

Welcome Kev.

I'm from the same part of the world as you and have been married to my wife coming on 5 years now. Plenty to learn on here and also lots of debate and argument to keep you interested in between.

Learning Russian is very important if you want to maximise the experience. Obviously communication is fundamental to a relationship but it'll also make your holiday experience much better with independence. When I first visited, I knew very little and had a great time. However, not being able to ask for simple stuff felt feeble and I started finding it very frustrating not knowing what was going on around me.

Normal rules apply, better to speak some local lingo when travelling alone because a tight T-shirt wont do shit.

Ask questions and enjoy.  :thumbsup:

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Re: Hello From Scotland
« Reply #11 on: March 23, 2017, 02:47:33 AM »
Hi, just wanted to say I bought the book and am now on the web site to try and find my Soul Mate. I am genuine about finding Russian Love. I am interested in learning the Russian too. If anyone has any tips or help to give me any form of direction I would appreciate it. I was already a victim of a scammer, but I didn't pay any money.

Welcome Kev.

I'm from the same part of the world as you and have been married to my wife coming on 5 years now. Plenty to learn on here and also lots of debate and argument to keep you interested in between.

Learning Russian is very important if you want to maximise the experience. Obviously communication is fundamental to a relationship but it'll also make your holiday experience much better with independence. When I first visited, I knew very little and had a great time. However, not being able to ask for simple stuff felt feeble and I started finding it very frustrating not knowing what was going on around me.

Normal rules apply, better to speak some local lingo when travelling alone because a tight T-shirt wont do shit.

Ask questions and enjoy.  :thumbsup:

I also think it's important to learn all you can about each other's cultural identity. I know it's not easy to learn Russian for a native English speaker (it's true of the opposite as well); but can you really bond with another person without understanding their identity?
No matter the level of education, each and everyone of us is formed within predominant cultural patterns of our respective society. Of course it's possible to have body-mate level of relationship, but i don't that's what the OP is looking for.
Besides, Russian culture is exciting and wonderfully deep. It's not a tedious task to study it  :)
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Re: Hello From Scotland
« Reply #12 on: March 23, 2017, 04:07:26 AM »
Hi, just wanted to say I bought the book and am now on the web site to try and find my Soul Mate. I am genuine about finding Russian Love. I am interested in learning the Russian too. If anyone has any tips or help to give me any form of direction I would appreciate it. I was already a victim of a scammer, but I didn't pay any money.

Welcome Kev.

I'm from the same part of the world as you and have been married to my wife coming on 5 years now. Plenty to learn on here and also lots of debate and argument to keep you interested in between.

Learning Russian is very important if you want to maximise the experience. Obviously communication is fundamental to a relationship but it'll also make your holiday experience much better with independence. When I first visited, I knew very little and had a great time. However, not being able to ask for simple stuff felt feeble and I started finding it very frustrating not knowing what was going on around me.

Normal rules apply, better to speak some local lingo when travelling alone because a tight T-shirt wont do shit.

Ask questions and enjoy.  :thumbsup:

I also think it's important to learn all you can about each other's cultural identity. I know it's not easy to learn Russian for a native English speaker (it's true of the opposite as well); but can you really bond with another person without understanding their identity?
No matter the level of education, each and everyone of us is formed within predominant cultural patterns of our respective society. Of course it's possible to have body-mate level of relationship, but i don't that's what the OP is looking for.
Besides, Russian culture is exciting and wonderfully deep. It's not a tedious task to study it  :)

Are you trying to tell us that Russian ladies are deeper than listening to short blokes who smash the gym and act all cocky?  :popcorn:

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Re: Hello From Scotland
« Reply #13 on: March 23, 2017, 04:31:55 AM »

Are you trying to tell us that Russian ladies are deeper than listening to short blokes who smash the gym and act all cocky?  :popcorn:

Rosco, my friend, there's a wonderful advantage to the situation when you don't speak the language. Your significant other ascribes to you all the wonderful qualities that only a Russian soul can ascribe to a mortal... You (generic you) come across as charismatic and charming foreigner... Don't speak! Even if you learn Russian as a native, keep silent and repeat: Моя твоя не понимать!!! *

*the expression is in very broken Russian, it's commonly used when someone pretends not to understand  ;D
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Re: Hello From Scotland
« Reply #14 on: March 23, 2017, 05:01:34 AM »
I get the feeling we've spoken about this one before Volshe  :-X but for the benefit of our new member from that wonderful country;

IMO - FSU ladies are far more impressed by men who are deeper, kinder, more thoughtful, resourceful, brave, reliable, ambitious and hard working, than a bloke who cares more for himself than he does for his date, talks utter nonsense and confuses confidence with hidden insecurity.

That's not aimed at anyone in particular but once you meet a lovely lady and her family, they'll care less about your biceps and more about the characteristics described above. The more of them you possess = the more of a man you are = more attraction. Physical attraction is important but it only gets you a seat in front of your date.

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