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Re: Does your FSU wife have a job?
« Reply #30 on: February 06, 2018, 01:10:18 PM »
I had a hired cleaner for about a month or 2. Real sweatheart aged 66 who wanted to amend her pension.

Wife said: She's really nice , but I'd rather clean myself than inspect her work because that inspecting makes the wife feel bad.

Because the cleaning was too good or because it wasn't good enough?
No, because she had to check the work.

Usually it was good, sometimes a bit lacking but easily corrected.
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Re: Does your FSU wife have a job?
« Reply #31 on: February 06, 2018, 01:13:03 PM »
No, because she had to check the work.

Usually it was good, sometimes a bit lacking but easily corrected.

I see. And I don't think there's anything wrong with that... it's good to keep hired hands in check!
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Re: Does your FSU wife have a job?
« Reply #32 on: February 06, 2018, 02:10:43 PM »
No, because she had to check the work.

Usually it was good, sometimes a bit lacking but easily corrected.

I see. And I don't think there's anything wrong with that... it's good to keep hired hands in check!

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Re: Does your FSU wife have a job?
« Reply #33 on: February 06, 2018, 02:46:51 PM »
You Fascist!  :chuckle:

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Hey, someone's gotta do it.  :)
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Re: Does your FSU wife have a job?
« Reply #34 on: February 07, 2018, 12:37:16 AM »
Its hard to explain for me in English.

The act of "Checking the maids work" was what made her feel bad. Regardless of whether it was necessary or not (usually not).

In the end, the maid quit her job because of tragedy in her own family and my wife decided we should not re-hire her or a new maid, she wants to do it all on her own.
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Re: Does your FSU wife have a job?
« Reply #35 on: February 08, 2018, 10:50:38 AM »
Its hard to explain for me in English.

The act of "Checking the maids work" was what made her feel bad. Regardless of whether it was necessary or not (usually not).

In the end, the maid quit her job because of tragedy in her own family and my wife decided we should not re-hire her or a new maid, she wants to do it all on her own.

I would never have a maid or cleaner, don't need it! Its just a status symbol nothing more...

I can clean my own shit up thanks!!   :laugh:



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Re: Does your FSU wife have a job?
« Reply #36 on: August 29, 2018, 12:16:45 AM »
 Justadude- Seems your fiancee will arrive reasonably soon?, so hopefully you already know what she'd really prefer to do regarding  work/not work.


What other people have done,or wanted, probably isnt that relevant?

I will say I think her finding work in the smaller mountain town you've decided to live in would help assimilation.

I know I would love the area,but be bored out of my mind without some type of regular employment or business.

As far as my wife,she did not need to,but wanted to work when she first moved here 7 years ago.
   She's an accountant and work here was fairly easy to find, however when we had our little one, she wanted to stay home ,and  we both agreed her time was much better spent on the 24/7 job of raising our child/homemaker..  While she really enjoys  being a mother as occupation  for now ,and it's a busy job! ,she does plan to work  again ,at least part time, after any kids are in school.
Shes certainly  far far far closer to the stereotypical *soccer mom*, than the FSU stereotypes bantered about on RW forums.
You would be really hard pressed to note a difference ,to any of our local suv child taxi/pilots, other than the accent.lol



  I know this part is more relevant to your trip thread,but for what it's worth, some women would really struggle in the location you've planned to live,particularly coming from a large FSU metropolitan area, or even a provincial city. Others, while likely a small  minority, would welcome and embrace it(my wife would)
The thing is you cant know really,
and honestly she cant either until actually living it?

So,as others have advised,  if you can hold onto the suburban home and try both ,I would suggest it.
The flip side is what area she prefers in the next year or two, might change  by year 3 or 4. So just assume you can be flexible on that part...











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