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Offline Chickenbrah

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ChickenBrahs trip report
« on: February 17, 2017, 10:57:18 AM »
So a bit of details

- Been to russia, only dated one girl, i was there for a month
- Decided to go and try out ukraine, as it is an easy place for me to gain temporary residency permit on a self employed basis , as opposed to Russia which is considerably harder and more expensive.
- Know nobody there, haven't been in the online dating game for a few months now, plan on returning in may after i get some good photos taken.
- Plan on going for 6 to 8 weeks, from July to September
- Not sure if i should book to go to kiev of kharkiv.
- Plan booking my tickets next week when i have had time to digest everything.
Plan on returning again in the Christmas period for 2 weeks. My schedule may look like 6-8 weeks summer, 2 weeks Christmas, with short trips here and there if i am in a relationship
- Aim of this trip would be just to go and see, get a feel of living in ukraine, before deciding if it is right for me. I will only move there if i find someone that i actually like a lot


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Re: ChickenBrahs trip report
« Reply #1 on: February 17, 2017, 12:03:12 PM »
Good fortune. I hope it works for you.

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Re: ChickenBrahs trip report
« Reply #2 on: February 17, 2017, 12:07:10 PM »
Don't brits get 90 day visit visa waiver for Ukraine?
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Re: ChickenBrahs trip report
« Reply #3 on: February 17, 2017, 12:26:05 PM »
Don't brits get 90 day visit visa waiver for Ukraine?

Yes we do, then we need to stay out for 3 months. It is good method short term, but if i had a relationship, long term i would need to move there, spend a few years, get to know the person really, then take the plunge with a marriage and kids.

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Re: ChickenBrahs trip report
« Reply #4 on: February 17, 2017, 01:28:42 PM »
went on the site, browsed through 200 profiles my age group, focused only on pics to give me an idea. Saw 2 girls i fancied, hence why i prefer russia, larger bunch of women available. I am going to need to sign up to as many sites as possible.

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Re: ChickenBrahs trip report
« Reply #5 on: February 17, 2017, 02:36:48 PM »
Not sure how it is today, but I would also consider Loveplanet.ru

Is active in both Russia and Ukraine.
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Re: ChickenBrahs trip report
« Reply #6 on: February 17, 2017, 02:44:26 PM »
Don't brits get 90 day visit visa waiver for Ukraine?

Yes we do, then we need to stay out for 3 months. It is good method short term, but if i had a relationship, long term i would need to move there, spend a few years, get to know the person really, then take the plunge with a marriage and kids.

That can really bugger up your life, neither in one place or the other.

Can I make a suggestion, by way of a question?
Are there any opportunities in Ukraine to have a job that gets you a 'proper' visa but where attendance for work is not mandatory? That used to be a possibility in Russia years ago and I know of people having done similar stuff in other countries. Of course such a thing is very much 'under the table' but possibly a language school might be able to help you? Either that or be a student, again a language school might be able to help you - that used to be a 'thing' in the UK. :)

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Re: ChickenBrahs trip report
« Reply #7 on: February 17, 2017, 04:40:40 PM »
Don't brits get 90 day visit visa waiver for Ukraine?

Yes we do, then we need to stay out for 3 months. It is good method short term, but if i had a relationship, long term i would need to move there, spend a few years, get to know the person really, then take the plunge with a marriage and kids.

That can really bugger up your life, neither in one place or the other.

Can I make a suggestion, by way of a question?
Are there any opportunities in Ukraine to have a job that gets you a 'proper' visa but where attendance for work is not mandatory? That used to be a possibility in Russia years ago and I know of people having done similar stuff in other countries. Of course such a thing is very much 'under the table' but possibly a language school might be able to help you? Either that or be a student, again a language school might be able to help you - that used to be a 'thing' in the UK. :)

Thanks for the advice, i know a British law firm in Ukraine that will sort out everything, accounting fees, legal work, for around $300-400 a month. I could find a job, and pay them under the table for my papers, but for a few hundred, it wouldn't be worth it for me. Russia on the other hand, is $1500 a month, business registration, legal fees, accounting, not something i was willing to do. In all honesty, i see Russia as slightly better than ukraine, bigger population, less competition as guys are scared off by the visa fees. But what really matters is bringing my A game, focusing on my diet down for may, getting some good photos, and rolling up my sleeves. It will be harder, but doable.

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ChickenBrahs trip report
« Reply #8 on: February 17, 2017, 08:48:33 PM »
I wish you success and good luck!

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Re: ChickenBrahs trip report
« Reply #9 on: February 17, 2017, 11:05:27 PM »

I don't know if this is helpful but Georgia is close by and they are very relaxed about long stays. You can stay up to a year without a visa with a renewal for another year by doing a quick border jump into and out of Armenia. A lot of Ukrainian women would love to tour Georgia. And starting a business here is very easy. It can officially be done in a matter of an hour or two. Learning English from a native speaker is desired. I've been asked and I have not asked about doing it.

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http://nomadcapitalist.com/2016/05/03/how-to-start-an-offshore-company-in-georgia/

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Re: ChickenBrahs trip report
« Reply #10 on: February 18, 2017, 01:04:16 AM »
I know a bit about Armenia, definitely has a higher ratio of marriage material women compared to russia/ukraine. But that being said, i would need to move there, which i am not willing to do. I may do in a decade or so, if i don't find anyone in russia or ukraine. Armenia is a cheap country, easily could buy a 5 bedroom house, big garden for under $50k, and i would probably reside in one of the villages.

But for short 6 to 8 weeks, not worth it. Girls date differently there, take their time with stuff, and if i do deflower a girl, and decide to abort, i could find myself in big trouble. One of my ex's friends contacted me, i got talking to him,he was telling me he could hook me up with virgins like my ex. I then received a message from her saying "if you tell him anything, i will make big problems for you". Her dad was connected on good terms with senior officers in her town, she told me if i ever got in trouble, he would sort it out no problem, plus he would help me with my papers. Thinking back now, i was lucky i made it out alive, luckily she wasn't the type of girl to hurt me, but not the same could be said about other women.

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Re: ChickenBrahs trip report
« Reply #11 on: February 18, 2017, 01:10:18 AM »
If you know all this stuff why are you here?

In other words spare us the BS and show us some proof of your deeds and abilities.
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Re: ChickenBrahs trip report
« Reply #12 on: February 18, 2017, 01:24:21 AM »
If you know all this stuff why are you here?

In other words spare us the BS and show us some proof of your deeds and abilities.





I don't have many questions, dating is relatively simple, just go there with your A game, if i do get into a relationship, i may need help from the guys here though. As it is different from sustaining a relationship in the west. This is a journey for me, i am using it as something to work towards rather the find success on my first, second, third trip, i am going to let things happen naturally, and try and improve myself each time i step foot into the fsu. Now i am much better than my first trip, hopefully i can sustain that personal growth, and eventually meet someone that i love as much as they love me.

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Re: ChickenBrahs trip report
« Reply #13 on: February 18, 2017, 01:48:59 AM »
This is a journey for me, i am using it as something to work towards rather the find success on my first, second, third trip, i am going to let things happen naturally, and try and improve myself each time i step foot into the fsu. Now i am much better than my first trip, hopefully i can sustain that personal growth, and eventually meet someone that i love as much as they love me.

I understand your methods. I am on a similar path.

Quite a knockout I'd say!

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Re: ChickenBrahs trip report
« Reply #14 on: February 18, 2017, 06:35:00 AM »





Cute female, do not know about the ping pong ball next to her.  :-X  She looks Tartar or perhaps Turkic.
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