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Sponsoring a Women Does it Mean She Only Sleeps With Me?
« on: February 14, 2017, 12:27:08 PM »
Just wondering as far as I see if you sponsor a women it means you just support her financially and get some sex chucked in when your about town.

Otherwise its her lover who gets all the attention and help spend the money you send to her each month?



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Re: Sponsoring a Women Does it Mean She Only Sleeps With Me?
« Reply #1 on: February 14, 2017, 12:31:44 PM »
Just wondering as far as I see if you sponsor a women it means you just support her financially and get some sex chucked in when your about town.

Otherwise its her lover who gets all the attention and help spend the money you send to her each month?

I suspect it depends on the arrangement ~ there are other forums and web sites you can consult ~ I suspect RUA posters are amateurs
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Re: Sponsoring a Women Does it Mean She Only Sleeps With Me?
« Reply #2 on: February 14, 2017, 12:53:12 PM »
Just wondering as far as I see if you sponsor a women it means you just support her financially and get some sex chucked in when your about town.

Otherwise its her lover who gets all the attention and help spend the money you send to her each month?

Texan could provide a comprehensive answer, perhaps? What freebies does he get?
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Re: Sponsoring a Women Does it Mean She Only Sleeps With Me?
« Reply #3 on: February 14, 2017, 12:59:32 PM »
Just wondering as far as I see if you sponsor a women it means you just support her financially and get some sex chucked in when your about town.

Otherwise its her lover who gets all the attention and help spend the money you send to her each month?

Texan could provide a comprehensive answer, perhaps? What freebies does he get?

Tain't nuthin free but he seems happy. that's all that counts and hopefully she is too.

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Re: Sponsoring a Women Does it Mean She Only Sleeps With Me?
« Reply #4 on: February 14, 2017, 01:05:05 PM »
Just wondering as far as I see if you sponsor a women it means you just support her financially and get some sex chucked in when your about town.

Otherwise its her lover who gets all the attention and help spend the money you send to her each month?

Texan could provide a comprehensive answer, perhaps? What freebies does he get?

Tain't nuthin free but he seems happy. that's all that counts and hopefully she is too.

Confederate, I like the 'accent'. One tends not to comment on others existing relationships (Moby excepted) as a sort of unwritten rule on RUA.
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Re: Sponsoring a Women Does it Mean She Only Sleeps With Me?
« Reply #5 on: February 14, 2017, 01:16:38 PM »
From my experience an FSUW views sex as an important part of ones health. If you are only visiting every few months, it's kinda doubtful that you would have exclusive access.
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Re: Sponsoring a Women Does it Mean She Only Sleeps With Me?
« Reply #6 on: February 16, 2017, 04:00:25 AM »
From my experience an FSUW views sex as an important part of ones health. If you are only visiting every few months, it's kinda doubtful that you would have exclusive access.

You would probably get credits just like on a dating site..

1. Credit = ****

2. Credits = ****

And so on.. I guess you tip them up via Western Union just before you arrive. No money no honey!

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Re: Sponsoring a Women Does it Mean She Only Sleeps With Me?
« Reply #7 on: February 16, 2017, 03:37:04 PM »
I can't help but think that, whatever a bloke who visits from another country, cleans his pipes and leaves thinks he is doing, his pipe cleaning assistant does not think of the arrangement as sponsorship - and, almost certainly, neither would her local boyfriend or husband.

I think there are many guys who think they have some kind of relationship with some bird in foreign parts where the aforementioned bird thinks there is much less going on than the bloke does.

Steve, was your question about exclusive access to a woman's baby making bits or whether the relationship is based only upon sex?
I assume the former.

I am sure that you know much more than you are implying from your question, but, for the other readers, my understanding is that the answer depends upon the arrangement. A bloke who was paying for a woman's apartment, paying for her living expenses etc is, if sensible, going to do what he can to enforce exclusivity.

A sensible bloke would, for example, ensure that the lease on an apartment was in the girl's name, that a car would, likewise, be leased in her name, jewelry - apart from cheap costume jewelry would be kept by the man and bought out by him for appropriate occasions and that payments in cash would be limited in amount and cease when any suggestion of infidelity occurred. The first two techniques mean that the guy is ensuring that the woman has to bear the cost of those items and thus her continued fidelity is rendered more profitable for her. She is more dependent upon her keeper while he can, and should, walk away at his convenience or desire.

Of course, the less sensible bloke will buy the apartment and put it in the name of his inamorata and send regular large payments for housekeeping and incidentals.

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Re: Sponsoring a Women Does it Mean She Only Sleeps With Me?
« Reply #8 on: February 16, 2017, 04:51:42 PM »
Reminds me of a story, after finishing my deed with a girl, i put 75 pence on the corner of the bed and told her "take it". SHe looked at me blankly, laughing but starring into my eyes deeply, she replied with "what the  :censored: ?", she slapped me across the face. i knew i messed up, so i said "my bad", took off 25 pence, overpaid the girl. True story.

Another was a different girl, she was pissed because i misplaced my £20. She told me , "you could have spent that on a meal for the two of us", a couple were walking towards us, just as they were in close proximity, i kiss my girl at the time on the head, and said loudly, " baby, you are not worth just £20........ i would spend atleast £50 on a hooker".

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Re: Sponsoring a Women Does it Mean She Only Sleeps With Me?
« Reply #9 on: February 16, 2017, 05:03:55 PM »
Which sink estate do YOU live on?

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Re: Sponsoring a Women Does it Mean She Only Sleeps With Me?
« Reply #10 on: February 16, 2017, 05:04:14 PM »
Reminds me of a story, after finishing my deed with a girl, i put 75 pence on the corner of the bed and told her "take it". SHe looked at me blankly, laughing but starring into my eyes deeply, she replied with "what the  :censored: ?", she slapped me across the face. i knew i messed up, so i said "my bad", took off 25 pence, overpaid the girl. True story.

Another was a different girl, she was pissed because i misplaced my £20. She told me , "you could have spent that on a meal for the two of us", a couple were walking towards us, just as they were in close proximity, i kiss my girl at the time on the head, and said loudly, " baby, you are not worth just £20........ i would spend atleast £50 on a hooker".
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Re: Sponsoring a Women Does it Mean She Only Sleeps With Me?
« Reply #11 on: February 16, 2017, 05:16:19 PM »
Which sink estate do YOU live on?

Trust me, these girls gave it as good as they got. Plenty of tears of laughter, when i was in russia, a friend of my ex's was driving, she asked me how was his driving as i looked queasy. I told her, if this is how the men in russia drive, i would hate to see the women drive, her mum was in the car with us, guys were in tears. I rolled up in a defensive curl saying "sorry, sorry, sorry".

I remember my russian ex used to think blow jobs are what prostitutes do. Well her cat was licking my hand, she asked me which of her cats i liked, i said the one that was licking my hand. I told her i am going to make the cat my wife, well she was sort of pissed, and told me "i don't know why you are so happy, she licks everyone's hand". I turned to her in shock and said, "so she is a prostitute?". her mum broke out laughing.

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Re: Sponsoring a Women Does it Mean She Only Sleeps With Me?
« Reply #12 on: February 16, 2017, 05:41:22 PM »
Obviously when first dating i do things differently, maybe you amateurs can learn a thing.

With my Russian ex, for the first 5 minutes she was looking at me and just smiling. i found out then and there that her english was nearly nonexistent. So i told herin plain english, "look, if you don't say anything in the next 30 seconds, i am going to need to kiss you", she laughed and panicked, mumbled anything. Date was hilarious for both of us, no need for interps, just use your  :censored: ing balls.

Another girl in the west, i was walking with her on towr bridge, stopped a random guy, happened to be a polish man, wrapped my girl around the waist, and asked him rhetorically, "isn't this the most beautiful girl ever?", he said "yes". Balls, you lot need some, i can go in a phone call with a russian girl, western and make them laugh, if you decide to be a boring  :censored: , make sure your wallet is good and shower your future wife with gifts, you will need it when there is no substance in your marriage. 

Something i use the majority of the time, is to ask the girl if i can give her a peck on the left cheek, tell her if i can get the right cheek, as she rotates give them a peck on the lips.Balls, maybe something a lot of guys lack.



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Re: Sponsoring a Women Does it Mean She Only Sleeps With Me?
« Reply #13 on: February 16, 2017, 07:47:23 PM »
I've never understood why, after meeting a woman, that a man feels the need to support,and or sponsor her?  These women have survived their entire life without you, why after meeting you should it be any different?

To me it seems one would lack the confidence to get the woman and keep her, with his own personal merits.
Few years ago I came across a discussion of was either 6 or 7 guys all sponsors for the same Ukrainian girl. The funny part is even after she had been outed, some of the guys continued their so called relationship.
For the fun of it I contacted the girl, and the poor thing told me she had not been with a man for Avery long time. She was more than willing to meet me.
My advice is if you're sponsoring a woman, make sure you have some foot spray so you don't get athletes foot from your house slippers. Lord only knows who might have been wearing them.
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Re: Sponsoring a Women Does it Mean She Only Sleeps With Me?
« Reply #14 on: February 17, 2017, 12:09:28 AM »
There are plenty of wealthy Russian and Foreign men in St Petersburg who sponsor women, basically it just means they pay for everything in return its really nothing more than sex, most of the men are married..and so are the majority of women.
Once we were out with a friend she has a kind of sponsor ..we sat at a big table with four guys from Italy all living in Russia and all very wealthy the champaign was coming non stop at $150 a bottle, each had a women they sponsored.. It was pretty funny really what the women were saying, they basically did not give a shit about the men, just wanted cash in the bank every month and expensive gifts , the conversations from the women were pretty hilarious really , I was just thinking "stupid dumb ass women" The men couldn't really care either they had plenty of cash all the men spoke fluent Russian so were not stupid.

If you have plenty of money its easy to sponsor several women in Russia if you like company of beautiful women and lots of sex..I can't see how it can be of any use sponsoring a women from another country though, waste of money and nothing in return other than waiting each 3/4/6 months for the next meeting. A better option in that situation is just to pay for a local hooker on a weekly basis.

From what I see most foreign men sponsoring a women in another country usually do not have vast some of money and probably use the credit card to help  :laugh:

If you want to sponsor a beautiful women in Russia you need lots and lots and lots of liquid cash or they will bankrupt you within a few months..If you haven't the cash there are plenty who have!