Is this young woman marriage material?

[Chickenbrah]

...this girl is pretty, and deserves the best she can get. That does not mean a middle aged man earning $100k a year, and goes to the gym twice a week. I know these women, because I talk to them, they are not financial pots, they want the best man they can get. If that means a young wealthy, decent looking guy, then so be it. How many of you guys can go toe to toe with this man? Yes you may earn more than him, but realistically, do you compete physically? These women want more than just money. And with this man, they get that.

One thing you haven't learned yet, because you're still a young guy, is that there are basically three groups of young women.

A.  Those who want a man who is no older that they are by ~4 years.  Anything older is "grody" or whatever the kids say these days. 

B.  Women who are open to a relationship with an older man, but prefer a man close to their age.

C.  Women who actively prefer an older man.

The first group is the largest, let's say half.  Then the next group is 30%, which leaves about 20% in the last group.  Whatever the percents don't matter.  The point is that they're out their and, if one is an older man who prefers younger partners, then it's up to one to find them.  They tend to keep it on the down low, because the girls in the first group shame them for their preferences.

Yes, majority of the women that seek older men are interested in the financial comfort. Twist it how you like, but those women are bigger gold diggers than the woman in this video.

Don't forget some of these women lack options, they are probably not that attractive for local guys, let alone young foreigners, or have kids which puts off many men. Their lack of choice gives them two choices , give up going to the West, or pursue an older man.

If a woman is beautiful enough find a half decent looking man, who is wealthy, and gets excited over that. In my eyes, there is nothing wrong. I am far from rich, I hold nothing against these women that maximise what they can get.

End of story

The irony here, is that whilst you slam the women/older guys and accuse them using cash as bait, you can only spend months in the gym hoping you find a vain young lady, willing to give you a turn because you're in shape. It bothers you that you have nothing else to offer and seeing an older bloke with a young hotty fills you with jealousy and resentment.

From where I'm sitting, both strategies are completely flawed unless the people in the relationship are honest with themselves.

I am Typing this from my phone, as I actually got gains to be made ?

Firstly the irony is you and your wife arguing over money. You didn't marry a woman half your age, and yet she treats you like a door mat. That is a situation I never want to be in. Not much to add, you say you earn good money, your wife works, isn't she happy?

You are trading looks for financial support, yet her looks fade, and your finances improve.

Regarding women, I am getting women now just fine. I have a girl now that offered me to stay at her dad's place, for free, even though I told her I could pay. Another offered to come from Russia to Ukraine, I get random adds from vk from slender gym bunnies.Heck some women have told me they thought I was fake. I am no Calvin Klein model, but looks is not something I lack. Regarding my finances, It is not that bad, soon I my disposable will increase by a couple of grand soon. There is a reason why I am hesitant to get married, and will live in FSU temporarily if I find someone.I could go get married if it don't work out oh well, but I have a bit to lose.

Regarding my gym stuff, I don't just want to lose a couple of pounds. I am 173cm , weighing 77kg with my top abs. Just hit 80kg bench for 12 reps. This girl told me I don't need to change I am perfect, but I want more, much more. I want to fitness model physique. I want to see how far I can go. I even told the girl I am talking to, it is for me, not her.

[Chickenbrah]

I just can't stand bitches, and I am talking about men, not women. This girl in the video found a well off , fairly attractive man. He is no fitness model, but he delivers a package better than the majority of guys on here. I have no problem with a marriage purely financial based, as long as it is HAPPY, AND BOTH PARTIES ARE NOT ARGUING OVER MONEY


Rosco, your mistake was assuming that I was implying an average Joe like you is wealthier than this Russian. You proved that is not the case with you and your wife's heated arguments about money. I was talking about the fellows who make several hundred k a year.

[Steveboy]

Russian women are no different from any other women really. Most women do not need any guy who works out at the gym every day and looks like Tarzan, we have a few Tarzan friends here all divorced. Its just a short term thing like a craze and nothing more.
A real women needs only a few things:

1. A guy that makes her laugh and smile.

2. A guy who is great company to be with.

3. A guy she can trust 100% and who will look after come Hell or High water.

Anything else is just extra! If a guy can do that with a women it doesn't matter if he's fat, thin, bald, has a big nose, has a twitch or anything else..

[Chickenbrah]

Russian women are no different from any other women really. Most women do not need any guy who works out at the gym every day and looks like Tarzan, we have a few Tarzan friends here all divorced. Its just a short term thing like a craze and nothing more.
A real women needs only a few things:

1. A guy that makes her laugh and smile.

2. A guy who is great company to be with.

3. A guy she can trust 100% and who will look after come Hell or High water.

Anything else is just extra! If a guy can do that with a women it doesn't matter if he's fat, thin, bald, has a big nose, has a twitch or anything else..

I spoke to a few women where they say there needs to be a basic attraction, and then the soul needs to be there. But one thing they do not disclose is the importance of money, which I think you need. How much depends on the woman and what she wants, women need a home, and the basics in life. You can find many different women that require different things, but generally women are the same. I get the impression the guy in the video, supplies money and basic attraction, he is no fitness model, but he has a package. That is why the girl was over the moon, not because he was just rich, otherwise if that was the case, they would have used a middle aged bloke driving a £500k Lamborghini.

[Chickenbrah]

Shallow women these days 





No such thing as a bad woman, there is someone for everyone. All you can have is a bad marriage, stop trying to judge who people should pick, and be more analytical on if there is compatibility. If both people are happy with what they are getting from the relationship that is all that matters. A woman who picks a man for his money, can make her husband happy, as long as she is taken care of. Same goes for personality and physical attributes. Sounds like people here want women to pick them, otherwise those women must be bad.

[Boris]

...this girl is pretty, and deserves the best she can get. That does not mean a middle aged man earning $100k a year, and goes to the gym twice a week. I know these women, because I talk to them, they are not financial pots, they want the best man they can get. If that means a young wealthy, decent looking guy, then so be it. How many of you guys can go toe to toe with this man? Yes you may earn more than him, but realistically, do you compete physically? These women want more than just money. And with this man, they get that.

One thing you haven't learned yet, because you're still a young guy, is that there are basically three groups of young women.

A.  Those who want a man who is no older that they are by ~4 years.  Anything older is "grody" or whatever the kids say these days. 

B.  Women who are open to a relationship with an older man, but prefer a man close to their age.

C.  Women who actively prefer an older man.

The first group is the largest, let's say half.  Then the next group is 30%, which leaves about 20% in the last group.  Whatever the percents don't matter.  The point is that they're out their and, if one is an older man who prefers younger partners, then it's up to one to find them.  They tend to keep it on the down low, because the girls in the first group shame them for their preferences.

Yes, majority of the women that seek older men are interested in the financial comfort. Twist it how you like, but those women are bigger gold diggers than the woman in this video.

Don't forget some of these women lack options, they are probably not that attractive for local guys, let alone young foreigners, or have kids which puts off many men. Their lack of choice gives them two choices , give up going to the West, or pursue an older man.

If a woman is beautiful enough find a half decent looking man, who is wealthy, and gets excited over that. In my eyes, there is nothing wrong. I am far from rich, I hold nothing against these women that maximise what they can get.

End of story

The irony here, is that whilst you slam the women/older guys and accuse them using cash as bait, you can only spend months in the gym hoping you find a vain young lady, willing to give you a turn because you're in shape. It bothers you that you have nothing else to offer and seeing an older bloke with a young hotty fills you with jealousy and resentment.

From where I'm sitting, both strategies are completely flawed unless the people in the relationship are honest with themselves.

I am Typing this from my phone, as I actually got gains to be made ?

Firstly the irony is you and your wife arguing over money. You didn't marry a woman half your age, and yet she treats you like a door mat. That is a situation I never want to be in. Not much to add, you say you earn good money, your wife works, isn't she happy?

You are trading looks for financial support, yet her looks fade, and your finances improve.

Regarding women, I am getting women now just fine. I have a girl now that offered me to stay at her dad's place, for free, even though I told her I could pay. Another offered to come from Russia to Ukraine, I get random adds from vk from slender gym bunnies.Heck some women have told me they thought I was fake. I am no Calvin Klein model, but looks is not something I lack. Regarding my finances, It is not that bad, soon I my disposable will increase by a couple of grand soon. There is a reason why I am hesitant to get married, and will live in FSU temporarily if I find someone.I could go get married if it don't work out oh well, but I have a bit to lose.

Regarding my gym stuff, I don't just want to lose a couple of pounds. I am 173cm , weighing 77kg with my top abs. Just hit 80kg bench for 12 reps. This girl told me I don't need to change I am perfect, but I want more, much more. I want to fitness model physique. I want to see how far I can go. I even told the girl I am talking to, it is for me, not her.

Are you one of the Hodge Twins, C? :-))))

[Contrarian]

...this girl is pretty, and deserves the best she can get. That does not mean a middle aged man earning $100k a year, and goes to the gym twice a week. I know these women, because I talk to them, they are not financial pots, they want the best man they can get. If that means a young wealthy, decent looking guy, then so be it. How many of you guys can go toe to toe with this man? Yes you may earn more than him, but realistically, do you compete physically? These women want more than just money. And with this man, they get that.

One thing you haven't learned yet, because you're still a young guy, is that there are basically three groups of young women.

A.  Those who want a man who is no older that they are by ~4 years.  Anything older is "grody" or whatever the kids say these days. 

B.  Women who are open to a relationship with an older man, but prefer a man close to their age.

C.  Women who actively prefer an older man.

The first group is the largest, let's say half.  Then the next group is 30%, which leaves about 20% in the last group.  Whatever the percents don't matter.  The point is that they're out their and, if one is an older man who prefers younger partners, then it's up to one to find them.  They tend to keep it on the down low, because the girls in the first group shame them for their preferences.

Yes, majority of the women that seek older men are interested in the financial comfort. Twist it how you like, but those women are bigger gold diggers than the woman in this video.

Don't forget some of these women lack options, they are probably not that attractive for local guys, let alone young foreigners, or have kids which puts off many men. Their lack of choice gives them two choices , give up going to the West, or pursue an older man.

If a woman is beautiful enough find a half decent looking man, who is wealthy, and gets excited over that. In my eyes, there is nothing wrong. I am far from rich, I hold nothing against these women that maximise what they can get.

End of story

The irony here, is that whilst you slam the women/older guys and accuse them using cash as bait, you can only spend months in the gym hoping you find a vain young lady, willing to give you a turn because you're in shape. It bothers you that you have nothing else to offer and seeing an older bloke with a young hotty fills you with jealousy and resentment.

From where I'm sitting, both strategies are completely flawed unless the people in the relationship are honest with themselves.

I am Typing this from my phone, as I actually got gains to be made ?

Firstly the irony is you and your wife arguing over money. You didn't marry a woman half your age, and yet she treats you like a door mat. That is a situation I never want to be in. Not much to add, you say you earn good money, your wife works, isn't she happy?

You are trading looks for financial support, yet her looks fade, and your finances improve.

First of all you don't have any woman at all. Get back to us after you've been happily married for 5 years or more. Otherwise you're just sampling the milk without paying for the cow; which is sometimes a good way of life.

In regards to Rosco's wife I read it entirely different than you. She had to adjust to a new culture and new way of looking at money. Which is likely highly normal initially. After that she adjusted and became a contributing member and part of the team.

[2tallbill]

There really is a scabbard for every sword, a woman for every man. What one
woman truly wants would annoy the heck out of another. Women are multifaceted. 

I've always considered the pursuit of a wife as a numbers game. You have to
sort and sift though many to find one who's gears mesh with yours. You also
must have the ability to see it when it happens.

[Contrarian]

There really is a scabbard for every sword, a woman for every man. What one
woman truly wants would annoy the heck out of another. Women are multifaceted. 

I've always considered the pursuit of a wife as a numbers game. You have to
sort and sift though many to find one who's gears mesh with yours. You also
must have the ability to see it when it happens.

 

[Chickenbrah]

First of all you don't have any woman at all. Get back to us after you've been happily married for 5 years or more. Otherwise you're just sampling the milk without paying for the cow; which is sometimes a good way of life.

I will just say this, rosco was screaming that the women that have interest in me are shallow. I just reminded the guy, his wife came to the west in search for gold, she didn't like the gold her had, so decided she will get some gold for herself. 5 years on, still discussing if she is ready for kids. People in glass houses should not throw stones i didn't say anything to rosco, he started it. The irony is strong in here..... Oh yeah, please give me shallow women any day of the week. I never had the use lube ,makes this whole search a lot cheaper.

 Otherwise you're just sampling the milk without paying for the cow; which is sometimes a good way of life.

In regards to Rosco's wife I read it entirely different than you. She had to adjust to a new culture and new way of looking at money. Which is likely highly normal initially. After that she adjusted and became a contributing member and part of the team.

Bro i explained it above, you are not that stupid. It is not like she didn't like the chicken korma in the UK. she wanted gold, and Rosco did not deliver what she wanted. I have no clue if they are happy now or not, but by the sounds of it, 5 years later, paid university fees, she is starting to come around the having kids. Now rosco can have a happy family and be blessed! No sarcasm, my point throughout this whole thread was the blatant hypocrisy on here. Whatever you sue to get a woman, as long as it leads to a happy marriage, that is all that matters. If rosco is getting butt hurt because HE THINKS i am bashing guys who use gold (maybe i hit a nerve with him), i am not, Hopefully Rosco will prove to us soon, that love, and financial support can win a woman's heart and lead to a happy family.

[Contrarian]

Rosco is a good guy, however I'll drink to that  (getting the milk w/out paying for the cow) 

 

[Contrarian]