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When you are married
« on: November 05, 2016, 10:41:32 PM »
I have a question, im sorry but it is long :p* I have a small question about Russianwomen. I learned that on your dates, the man pays the bill (what i think is normal). But i wonderd if you are married if the woman pays something (like rent or food) I know that the man makes the money but isn't hard for the man to do that alone? Even if she is housewife, she gets some money from the state (€400-€500) do they give that to the man? For me this is every important because i'm considering to find a Russian wife.Thank you, Jordy

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Re: When you are married
« Reply #1 on: November 05, 2016, 11:32:41 PM »
I have a question, im sorry but it is long :p* I have a small question about Russianwomen. I learned that on your dates, the man pays the bill (what i think is normal). But i wonderd if you are married if the woman pays something (like rent or food) I know that the man makes the money but isn't hard for the man to do that alone? Even if she is housewife, she gets some money from the state (€400-€500) do they give that to the man? For me this is every important because i'm considering to find a Russian wife.Thank you, Jordy

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If you get married, they will start behaving like normal wives for some odd reason.

And every woman is different, some will contribute to the family and some won't.
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Re: When you are married
« Reply #2 on: November 05, 2016, 11:37:26 PM »
I have a question, im sorry but it is long :p* I have a small question about Russianwomen. I learned that on your dates, the man pays the bill (what i think is normal). But i wonderd if you are married if the woman pays something (like rent or food) I know that the man makes the money but isn't hard for the man to do that alone? Even if she is housewife, she gets some money from the state (€400-€500) do they give that to the man? For me this is every important because i'm considering to find a Russian wife.Thank you, Jordy

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Re: When you are married
« Reply #3 on: November 06, 2016, 04:19:24 AM »
I have a question, im sorry but it is long :p* I have a small question about Russianwomen. I learned that on your dates, the man pays the bill (what i think is normal). But i wonderd if you are married if the woman pays something (like rent or food) I know that the man makes the money but isn't hard for the man to do that alone? Even if she is housewife, she gets some money from the state (€400-€500) do they give that to the man? For me this is every important because i'm considering to find a Russian wife.Thank you, Jordy

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Russian women are not for you.


What would be a healthy and balanced approach? 

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Re: When you are married
« Reply #4 on: November 06, 2016, 04:26:48 AM »
I have a question, im sorry but it is long :p* I have a small question about Russianwomen. I learned that on your dates, the man pays the bill (what i think is normal). But i wonderd if you are married if the woman pays something (like rent or food) I know that the man makes the money but isn't hard for the man to do that alone? Even if she is housewife, she gets some money from the state (€400-€500) do they give that to the man? For me this is every important because i'm considering to find a Russian wife.Thank you, Jordy

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Re: When you are married
« Reply #5 on: November 06, 2016, 10:04:09 AM »
I have a question, im sorry but it is long :p* I have a small question about Russianwomen. I learned that on your dates, the man pays the bill (what i think is normal). But i wonderd if you are married if the woman pays something (like rent or food) I know that the man makes the money but isn't hard for the man to do that alone? Even if she is housewife, she gets some money from the state (€400-€500) do they give that to the man? For me this is every important because i'm considering to find a Russian wife.Thank you, Jordy

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If you get married, they will start behaving like normal wives for some odd reason.

And every woman is different, some will contribute to the family and some won't.
Thank you for answering, i know that love is more inportant than money, but i read a lot of blogs and sites about marrying a Russian woman and i really wanna find love their. But non of these sites said something about the financial part when you are married and i found this important because in Belgium we say: A warned man is worth two. So you said that after you marry them they will become "normal" ;)  Can you explain that please?  tiphat

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Re: When you are married
« Reply #6 on: November 06, 2016, 10:46:00 AM »
I have a question, im sorry but it is long :p* I have a small question about Russianwomen. I learned that on your dates, the man pays the bill (what i think is normal). But i wonderd if you are married if the woman pays something (like rent or food) I know that the man makes the money but isn't hard for the man to do that alone? Even if she is housewife, she gets some money from the state (€400-€500) do they give that to the man? For me this is every important because i'm considering to find a Russian wife.Thank you, Jordy

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If you get married, they will start behaving like normal wives for some odd reason.

And every woman is different, some will contribute to the family and some won't.
Thank you for answering, i know that love is more inportant than money, but i read a lot of blogs and sites about marrying a Russian woman and i really wanna find love their. But non of these sites said something about the financial part when you are married and i found this important because in Belgium we say: A warned man is worth two. So you said that after you marry them they will become "normal" ;)  Can you explain that please?  tiphat


Much better you find a normal one BEFORE you marry them, makes for a much easier life  :chuckle:

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Re: When you are married
« Reply #7 on: November 06, 2016, 02:06:28 PM »
Be very wary of NYE.  ;D

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Re: When you are married
« Reply #8 on: November 06, 2016, 04:10:26 PM »
I have a question, im sorry but it is long :p* I have a small question about Russianwomen. I learned that on your dates, the man pays the bill (what i think is normal). But i wonderd if you are married if the woman pays something (like rent or food) I know that the man makes the money but isn't hard for the man to do that alone? Even if she is housewife, she gets some money from the state (€400-€500) do they give that to the man? For me this is every important because i'm considering to find a Russian wife.Thank you, Jordy

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Bloody hell, which countries pay women to be housewives???

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Re: When you are married
« Reply #9 on: November 06, 2016, 04:11:58 PM »
I have a question, im sorry but it is long :p* I have a small question about Russianwomen. I learned that on your dates, the man pays the bill (what i think is normal). But i wonderd if you are married if the woman pays something (like rent or food) I know that the man makes the money but isn't hard for the man to do that alone? Even if she is housewife, she gets some money from the state (€400-€500) do they give that to the man? For me this is every important because i'm considering to find a Russian wife.Thank you, Jordy

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Re: When you are married
« Reply #10 on: November 06, 2016, 04:14:07 PM »
I have a question, im sorry but it is long :p* I have a small question about Russianwomen. I learned that on your dates, the man pays the bill (what i think is normal). But i wonderd if you are married if the woman pays something (like rent or food) I know that the man makes the money but isn't hard for the man to do that alone? Even if she is housewife, she gets some money from the state (€400-€500) do they give that to the man? For me this is every important because i'm considering to find a Russian wife.Thank you, Jordy

PS:  Please this is very important for me, contact me on [edited by mods] thank you  :thumbsup:
If you get married, they will start behaving like normal wives for some odd reason.

And every woman is different, some will contribute to the family and some won't.
Thank you for answering, i know that love is more inportant than money, but i read a lot of blogs and sites about marrying a Russian woman and i really wanna find love their. But non of these sites said something about the financial part when you are married and i found this important because in Belgium we say: A warned man is worth two. So you said that after you marry them they will become "normal" ;)  Can you explain that please?  tiphat

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Re: When you are married
« Reply #11 on: November 06, 2016, 06:06:22 PM »
I have a question, im sorry but it is long :p* I have a small question about Russianwomen. I learned that on your dates, the man pays the bill (what i think is normal). But i wonderd if you are married if the woman pays something (like rent or food) I know that the man makes the money but isn't hard for the man to do that alone? Even if she is housewife, she gets some money from the state (€400-€500) do they give that to the man? For me this is every important because i'm considering to find a Russian wife.Thank you, Jordy

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Bloody hell, which countries pay women to be housewives???
Netherlands, does, but its only 1100 Euro/year.
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Re: When you are married
« Reply #12 on: November 06, 2016, 06:14:16 PM »
So you said that after you marry them they will become "normal" ;)  Can you explain that please?  tiphat
With Normal I mean that they will behave like a wife. If you never have dated long-term, I would not recommend finding a Girl in Russia,Ukraine or anywhere else. It adds extra difficulty to relationships. Plus it costs a ton of money on top of what a woman normally needs (either by working or getting free meals from you/gov't).



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Re: When you are married
« Reply #13 on: November 06, 2016, 06:31:36 PM »
So you said that after you marry them they will become "normal" ;)  Can you explain that please?  tiphat
With Normal I mean that they will behave like a wife. If you never have dated long-term, I would not recommend finding a Girl in Russia,Ukraine or anywhere else. It adds extra difficulty to relationships. Plus it costs a ton of money on top of what a woman normally needs (either by working or getting free meals from you/gov't).

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Re: When you are married
« Reply #14 on: November 06, 2016, 08:53:32 PM »
So you said that after you marry them they will become "normal" ;)  Can you explain that please?  tiphat
With Normal I mean that they will behave like a wife. If you never have dated long-term, I would not recommend finding a Girl in Russia,Ukraine or anywhere else. It adds extra difficulty to relationships. Plus it costs a ton of money on top of what a woman normally needs (either by working or getting free meals from you/gov't).

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