It’s been years since I’ve done this. I’ve tried the international dating in the past but wasn’t lucky enough to meet a wonderful lady. Then over the summer I was watching the Olympics and saw the Ukrainian ladies competing. It made me think of EM so I decided to do some window shopping.
One profile stuck out. I signed up just to talk to her and decided if it worked great, if not, lesson learned. Move on.
So far, things are going very well. We video chatted for 3 or 4 hours today. We had a lot of fun. I like her. Great sense of humor. She’s a total goofball. We’ve already discussed me coming to Ukraine. I’m up for it. I’ve got money saved, but there’s a problem. At the very end of July I started a new job so I don’t have any vacation time to go and meet her. I figured to be able to go visit for 8 or 9 days will take me to the beginning of January to earn the vacation time. I told her. She wasn’t exactly happy, but definitely didn’t make a big deal of it. She just said, “Oh well, what are you gonna do.”
So the reason for this post is to ask how I keep her interested. How we keep this fun for both of us until January. For example, today, when we were talking, she giggling most of the time. She was having fun with me. That’s the way I’m going to work to keep it. But being on the new end of this, I could use an idea, a thought or two on how others handled this kind of situation. I do know it’s common…the long waits.