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I have asked her her opinion about sex
« on: December 18, 2015, 06:13:26 AM »
Hi, 4 month a go I met (online) a woman from Kiev, she should come here in 2 weeks (with her money) but I have a lot of doubts about her.
Just to probe her after a month I asked her: "I know is a delicate matter, something I don't like to discuss freely except with my partner but what do you think about sex?"

Here are her answers (translated with google):

of course, I also think about sex, and I know that you and I have come to this, too. In truth, I thought that might now better to talk about it with you, so you know our preferences. If you want to? I am not opposed to discuss it. That's what you like and do not like in bed? What are you in bed, you are dominant, or do you like it when a girl takes the initiative?

Yes, sex - is a game between two lovers. I would have liked to flirt with you and thereby give you to understand that I want to have sex with you. I think that such flirting is one of the best that can be before sex. This is a state where you know that soon it will happen. It gets crazy! What do you think about that? I also think that sex is important to think not only about themselves but also about their partner. Ideally, when two people get pleasure. Then sex is really lovely. Do you like oral sex?

I like oral sex. So as much as I like and normal. I do not understand those couples who refuse it. After oral sex makes people closer. After all, when you love a person, and when he you care about, what's the difference how to please him, and in what place? What do you think, my dear? Oh, I could flirt with you. The restaurant I would put your hand on the reed and held up to. Or I would have shot you in the eyes and gestures would be that I want to immediately be with you in one bed. I hope you do not mind that?

You lived in me the idea of sex and now I can not stop thinking about it. You did this on purpose, to be honest? Today I even had a wet dream in which you participated. Action dream happened in my apartment. The bell rang and I went to open the door. On the threshold of my apartment was you and you was holding a bottle of either wine, or champagne. And a box of chocolates was! Then immediately we were in bed. My cunning brain decided to skip the part where we're drinking and talking. Immediately I went to the fun! I dreamed that you lozhishsya on top of me, starts kissing my neck and my chest, and then I feel as you enter into me. God, it was so exciting. In the morning I woke up and, unfortunately, discovered that you were not around! You dream today something of such things?

What do you think about this answers?
At first I thought she was a he but then I met her on Skype.
It could be that she wanted to probe me like I did with her?

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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #1 on: December 18, 2015, 06:23:45 AM »
It's not normal for a woman that you have not met in person to be so graphic.

Doesn't look good, don't be surprised if she's robbed on the way to the airport,and needs you to send money.
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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #2 on: December 18, 2015, 06:28:02 AM »
Well I suppose IF she's real what is wrong with it. I mean you don't want to get to the bedroom and have to hire a translator to stay under your bed do you? Or it may be a little awkward halfway through some sexual fantasy to see how it may end without using Google translate.  :laugh:

If she's real, I mean not after something , get on in there!! Just remember the most important thing! When it comes to Shopping YOU DONT UNDERSTAND!! Of course unless you had a good night before with her in which case you may feel like treating her :smoking:

But for sure nothing wrong with a women you have come to know writing something like that.
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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #3 on: December 18, 2015, 06:29:36 AM »
It's not normal for a woman that you have not met in person to be so graphic.

Doesn't look good, don't be surprised if she's robbed on the way to the airport,and needs you to send money.

A women being so graphic can depend! If its a young women why not?? Of course I would expect it to be normal with some 50 year old babushka  :laugh:
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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #4 on: December 18, 2015, 06:34:18 AM »
Personally I think 24/48 hours before she arrives there will be some problem requiring financial assistance (A little like the RAC in the UK)
Let us know  :)
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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #5 on: December 18, 2015, 06:45:48 AM »
Rubbish, this a scammer no decent woman would type such drivel and no right-minded bloke would believe it.

Sex comes naturally when the time is right thought interactions, ennui and nuance. Not this shite.

Bin her.
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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #6 on: December 18, 2015, 06:51:10 AM »
Rubbish, this a scammer no decent woman would type such drivel and no right-minded bloke would believe it.

Sex comes naturally when the time is right thought interactions, ennui and nuance. Not this shite.

Bin her.

Your probably old and past it! Are you saying if your communicating with a young sexy women the question of sex and what you like to do in bed doesn't arise?? Of course it is something for discussion!!

But yes I think this women will show her cards in 12 days time :laugh:
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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #7 on: December 18, 2015, 06:54:48 AM »
Rubbish, this a scammer no decent woman would type such drivel and no right-minded bloke would believe it.

Sex comes naturally when the time is right thought interactions, ennui and nuance. Not this shite.

Bin her.

Your probably old and past it! Are you saying if your communicating with a young sexy women the question of sex and what you like to do in bed doesn't arise?? Of course it is something for discussion!!

But yes I think this women will show her cards in 12 days time :laugh:

I'm 55 and not past it!

I like rumpy-pumpy just like any male but alluding to sexual relations without ever having met is a bit rich. The poor woman might be up for it but what if the OP is fugly as they come? Pics are ok but F2F is what it'll about.

This sort of thing is fine if there is a relationship but here there isn't. 

Who else's member is she dreaming of having inside her? the Agency owner's?  :8) :8)
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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #8 on: December 18, 2015, 07:02:24 AM »
Hi, 4 month a go I met (online) a woman from Kiev, she should come here in 2 weeks (with her money) but I have a lot of doubts about her.
Just to probe her after a month I asked her: "I know is a delicate matter, something I don't like to discuss freely except with my partner but what do you think about sex?"

Here are her answers (translated with google):

of course, I also think about sex, and I know that you and I have come to this, too. In truth, I thought that might now better to talk about it with you, so you know our preferences. If you want to? I am not opposed to discuss it. That's what you like and do not like in bed? What are you in bed, you are dominant, or do you like it when a girl takes the initiative?

Yes, sex - is a game between two lovers. I would have liked to flirt with you and thereby give you to understand that I want to have sex with you. I think that such flirting is one of the best that can be before sex. This is a state where you know that soon it will happen. It gets crazy! What do you think about that? I also think that sex is important to think not only about themselves but also about their partner. Ideally, when two people get pleasure. Then sex is really lovely. Do you like oral sex?

I like oral sex. So as much as I like and normal. I do not understand those couples who refuse it. After oral sex makes people closer. After all, when you love a person, and when he you care about, what's the difference how to please him, and in what place? What do you think, my dear? Oh, I could flirt with you. The restaurant I would put your hand on the reed and held up to. Or I would have shot you in the eyes and gestures would be that I want to immediately be with you in one bed. I hope you do not mind that?

You lived in me the idea of sex and now I can not stop thinking about it. You did this on purpose, to be honest? Today I even had a wet dream in which you participated. Action dream happened in my apartment. The bell rang and I went to open the door. On the threshold of my apartment was you and you was holding a bottle of either wine, or champagne. And a box of chocolates was! Then immediately we were in bed. My cunning brain decided to skip the part where we're drinking and talking. Immediately I went to the fun! I dreamed that you lozhishsya on top of me, starts kissing my neck and my chest, and then I feel as you enter into me. God, it was so exciting. In the morning I woke up and, unfortunately, discovered that you were not around! You dream today something of such things?

What do you think about this answers?
At first I thought she was a he but then I met her on Skype.
It could be that she wanted to probe me like I did with her?

Can you post your photo here and hers ? Will be able to give you a good answer very soon , if your worried about anyone seeing your photo there is an option here to make it "Self-destruct " after 6 hours  :)
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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #9 on: December 18, 2015, 07:07:52 AM »
She's not mentioned anal though, one is not a real man without having had a bit of brown on his sword......
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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #10 on: December 18, 2015, 07:14:14 AM »
Not too many women in Ukraine have to fund their own trip just to get laid.
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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #11 on: December 18, 2015, 07:42:49 AM »
She's not mentioned anal though, one is not a real man without having had a bit of brown on his sword......

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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #12 on: December 18, 2015, 07:47:41 AM »
I've read your other posts, and looks like you are being taken by a scammer. You have already spent a good amount for translation.
You should have been able to communicate with the help of Google at no cost.
The odds of her arrival to you are zero, so don't get too caught up in the fantasy.
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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #13 on: December 18, 2015, 07:55:47 AM »
she will be sending you lots of letters like that now probably just to get you in the mood for it, you will probably go and buy some new thong or something to look good in the bedroom for her :chuckle:
Every day you will be getting more and more excited, two days before she arrives you will not be able to think straight and have a job holding yourself back :chuckle:
Then the bombe shell will come  :( She missed her flight and loves you dearly, can you send here $1000 Western Union asap so she can get to you! She has no money left after spending t on flights to meet you and a whole new wardrobe of sexy underwear :ROFL:

What happens next is ?
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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #14 on: December 18, 2015, 09:27:47 AM »
she will be sending you lots of letters like that now probably just to get you in the mood for it, you will probably go and buy some new thong or something to look good in the bedroom for her :chuckle:
Every day you will be getting more and more excited, two days before she arrives you will not be able to think straight and have a job holding yourself back :chuckle:
Then the bombe shell will come  :( She missed her flight and loves you dearly, can you send here $1000 Western Union asap so she can get to you! She has no money left after spending t on flights to meet you and a whole new wardrobe of sexy underwear :ROFL:

What happens next is ?

This is what I expect even if she was very caution, no other mail like that, no sexi picture, no promises,  no "love" words.
But since another woman probe me speaking about sex I'd like to know if is normal for some women to probe men speaking about sex

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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #15 on: December 18, 2015, 09:31:55 AM »
she will be sending you lots of letters like that now probably just to get you in the mood for it, you will probably go and buy some new thong or something to look good in the bedroom for her :chuckle:
Every day you will be getting more and more excited, two days before she arrives you will not be able to think straight and have a job holding yourself back :chuckle:
Then the bombe shell will come  :( She missed her flight and loves you dearly, can you send here $1000 Western Union asap so she can get to you! She has no money left after spending t on flights to meet you and a whole new wardrobe of sexy underwear :ROFL:

What happens next is ?

Where did you meet these women ? My wife is on holiday fro two weeks soon  :laugh:

This is what I expect even if she was very caution, no other mail like that, no sexi picture, no promises,  no "love" words.
But since another woman probe me speaking about sex I'd like to know if is normal for some women to probe men speaking about sex
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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #16 on: December 18, 2015, 09:32:05 AM »
Can you post your photo here and hers ? Will be able to give you a good answer very soon , if your worried about anyone seeing your photo there is an option here to make it "Self-destruct " after 6 hours  :)


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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #17 on: December 18, 2015, 09:32:40 AM »
Where did you meet these women ? My wife is on holiday fro two weeks soon  :laugh:
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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #18 on: December 18, 2015, 09:33:38 AM »
Can you post your photo here and hers ? Will be able to give you a good answer very soon , if your worried about anyone seeing your photo there is an option here to make it "Self-destruct " after 6 hours  :)

She's a fake for sure! Where did you meet the suka ?
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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #19 on: December 18, 2015, 09:34:27 AM »
FWIW I met my now wife the same way (holiday destination, she paid for her ticket etc) the only real difference was it was in a visa free country and she didn't butter me up with sex talk prior to our meeting!

This whole story is red flag overload - if you are prepared to drop everything if the money request appears on departure day then all's good - if not me thinks you'll be our first scam victim of the new year!!!
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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #20 on: December 18, 2015, 09:34:31 AM »
she will be sending you lots of letters like that now probably just to get you in the mood for it, you will probably go and buy some new thong or something to look good in the bedroom for her :chuckle:
Every day you will be getting more and more excited, two days before she arrives you will not be able to think straight and have a job holding yourself back :chuckle:
Then the bombe shell will come  :( She missed her flight and loves you dearly, can you send here $1000 Western Union asap so she can get to you! She has no money left after spending t on flights to meet you and a whole new wardrobe of sexy underwear :ROFL:

What happens next is ?

Where did you meet these women ? My wife is on holiday fro two weeks soon  :laugh:

This is what I expect even if she was very caution, no other mail like that, no sexi picture, no promises,  no "love" words.
But since another woman probe me speaking about sex I'd like to know if is normal for some women to probe men speaking about sex
Tell me wher do you met your wife and I'll tell you where I met those women  :ROFL:

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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #21 on: December 18, 2015, 09:35:25 AM »
she will be sending you lots of letters like that now probably just to get you in the mood for it, you will probably go and buy some new thong or something to look good in the bedroom for her :chuckle:
Every day you will be getting more and more excited, two days before she arrives you will not be able to think straight and have a job holding yourself back :chuckle:
Then the bombe shell will come  :( She missed her flight and loves you dearly, can you send here $1000 Western Union asap so she can get to you! She has no money left after spending t on flights to meet you and a whole new wardrobe of sexy underwear :ROFL:

What happens next is ?

This is what I expect even if she was very caution, no other mail like that, no sexi picture, no promises,  no "love" words.
But since another woman probe me speaking about sex I'd like to know if is normal for some women to probe men speaking about sex

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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #22 on: December 18, 2015, 09:35:39 AM »
FWIW I met my now wife the same way (holiday destination, she paid for her ticket etc) the only real difference was it was in a visa free country and she didn't butter me up with sex talk prior to our meeting!

This whole story is red flag overload - if you are prepared to drop everything if the money request appears on departure day then all's good - if not me thinks you'll be our first scam victim of the new year!!!

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I have already other plan ;)

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Re: I have asked her her opinion about sex
« Reply #23 on: December 18, 2015, 09:36:20 AM »
she will be sending you lots of letters like that now probably just to get you in the mood for it, you will probably go and buy some new thong or something to look good in the bedroom for her :chuckle:
Every day you will be getting more and more excited, two days before she arrives you will not be able to think straight and have a job holding yourself back :chuckle:
Then the bombe shell will come  :( She missed her flight and loves you dearly, can you send here $1000 Western Union asap so she can get to you! She has no money left after spending t on flights to meet you and a whole new wardrobe of sexy underwear :ROFL:

What happens next is ?

This is what I expect even if she was very caution, no other mail like that, no sexi picture, no promises,  no "love" words.
But since another woman probe me speaking about sex I'd like to know if is normal for some women to probe men speaking about sex

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« Reply #24 on: December 18, 2015, 09:37:14 AM »
she will be sending you lots of letters like that now probably just to get you in the mood for it, you will probably go and buy some new thong or something to look good in the bedroom for her :chuckle:
Every day you will be getting more and more excited, two days before she arrives you will not be able to think straight and have a job holding yourself back :chuckle:
Then the bombe shell will come  :( She missed her flight and loves you dearly, can you send here $1000 Western Union asap so she can get to you! She has no money left after spending t on flights to meet you and a whole new wardrobe of sexy underwear :ROFL:

What happens next is ?

Where did you meet these women ? My wife is on holiday fro two weeks soon  :laugh:

This is what I expect even if she was very caution, no other mail like that, no sexi picture, no promises,  no "love" words.
But since another woman probe me speaking about sex I'd like to know if is normal for some women to probe men speaking about sex
Tell me wher do you met your wife and I'll tell you where I met those women  :ROFL:

I met my wife at a club about five years ago :)
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