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Re: uadreams - Any thoughts on this site?
« Reply #15 on: May 05, 2015, 09:25:22 PM »
Quiet simply its best to keep away from any agency nothing more can be said on the matter. 95% of all sites/agencies bla bla bla are just a scam.

You cannot "Trust anybody in the field" Trust only yourself!

http://www.david-brunner-scam-fake-elenas-models.com

 :offtopic:The problem is whats between a mans legs usually rules! You can tell him 500 times until you are blue in the face "Don't waste time writing to women half your age, or who look like models" So what happens time after time again and again? He writes to women over half his age. Then what happens? He complains he has been scammed. Look at it this way if you was 65 years old and going about your local town buying gifts for 20 year old women , you would be locked up for being a pedophile!

Its the exact reason the "Russian brides" industry is about.

You don't need any help in any FSU countries from any robbing agencies/translation bureaus/advisors  you just need some common sense and if you haven't got that then its probably the reason your still single. What women would want to marry a guy with no common sense?


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Re: uadreams - Any thoughts on this site?
« Reply #16 on: May 06, 2015, 02:37:27 AM »
Well.  I do like the videos. But wow, after reading their fees it seems they are every bit as expensive if not more expensive than uadreams.

If you have the skills to do it without an agency, then fine. At least you can learn from the videos if you have what it takes, the conditions of success. Some go by themselves over and over again without help and without success. The total amount of money spent might be then more expensive than what they would pay to an agency(?)
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Re: uadreams - Any thoughts on this site?
« Reply #17 on: May 06, 2015, 03:30:11 AM »
Well.  I do like the videos. But wow, after reading their fees it seems they are every bit as expensive if not more expensive than uadreams.

If you have the skills to do it without an agency, then fine. At least you can learn from the videos if you have what it takes, the conditions of success. Some go by themselves over and over again without help and without success. The total amount of money spent might be then more expensive than what they would pay to an agency(?)

No its better not to use any agency!!  They are all after your money, of course they need to make a living but not by stealing money from clients.

I know why so many men return over and over again without success , they are usually (Not always) chasing something that does not exist. Usually a blonde half their age or something like and usually because they have wrongly been informed in one way or another that it is possible to find a women half your age who has just walked off the catwalk. Its 2015 not 1998. Some guys can do this (I did but I'm not normal anyway)but very few.
Another reason is many guys (Not all) actually have some kind of mental problem (probably why they are still single at 40/50 and living at home) When it comes to meeting the women, she cannot get away fast enough!!

There is no need to be searching for years!! If I was single now I could find 20 good women this week to maybe marry. If you register at a good site which has thousands of regular women how can you possibly fail using common sense and being realistic in your searches? Its impossible to fail!! A couple of weeks chatting via Skype is enough for anyone to tell if there is any chemistry there. If you are realistic in your searches you will never ever need to use any agency.

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Re: uadreams - Any thoughts on this site?
« Reply #18 on: May 06, 2015, 03:43:54 AM »
Its unbelievable that so many guys will register at a site and then use a mail filter to block mail from certain age groups. Not all but below is pretty common.

50 year old guys will block women over 35 writing to them.

60 year old guys will block women over 40 writing to them.

70 year old guys will block women over 45 writing to them.

That just about sums it up and why so many guys fail.

I had a very nice lady of 50 a short while back for her age she was stunning, she also had a verified profile. She wrote a letter asking why despite so many letters to men she had very little response. Its very hard to reply to women like this.
Its also strange why so many guys over 50/60 are looking for a women with no kids.

There is no hope for many unfortunately:(







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Re: uadreams - Any thoughts on this site?
« Reply #19 on: May 06, 2015, 04:20:41 AM »
Wow, Steveboy talks some sense sometimes...  ))

What ever happened to the 'Babushka' tag ?!



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Re: uadreams - Any thoughts on this site?
« Reply #20 on: May 06, 2015, 05:22:54 AM »
Some guys can do this (I did but I'm not normal anyway)but very few.

Mind you to elaborate? :coffeeread:
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Re: uadreams - Any thoughts on this site?
« Reply #21 on: May 06, 2015, 07:37:27 AM »
If I was single now I could find 20 good women this week to maybe marry. If you register at a good site which has thousands of regular women how can you possibly fail using common sense and being realistic in your searches? Its impossible to fail!! A couple of weeks chatting via Skype is enough for anyone to tell if there is any chemistry there. If you are realistic in your searches you will never ever need to use any agency.

Quite......

But some guys don't understand the vital differences in mentality / customs that those who get on a plane - without 'hand-holding' only learn by their mistakes..


Finding a woman in another country - is the domain of guys who run their own biz - as it is time consuming.... Executive types can pay for in-country 'hand-holding' and it has worked.

Just because you and I would rather 'go it alone' doesn't mean other guys should adopt our methods....

I know of many 'hot Babuskas' who STILL prefer to be on a marriage agency list - rather than go on a dating site....They want the guy to go through a third party and feel he may be more 'serious' if he is prepared to pay....


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Re: uadreams - Any thoughts on this site?
« Reply #22 on: May 06, 2015, 08:20:13 AM »
If I was single now I could find 20 good women this week to maybe marry. If you register at a good site which has thousands of regular women how can you possibly fail using common sense and being realistic in your searches? Its impossible to fail!! A couple of weeks chatting via Skype is enough for anyone to tell if there is any chemistry there. If you are realistic in your searches you will never ever need to use any agency.

Quite......

But some guys don't understand the vital differences in mentality / customs that those who get on a plane - without 'hand-holding' only learn by their mistakes..


Finding a woman in another country - is the domain of guys who run their own biz - as it is time consuming.... Executive types can pay for in-country 'hand-holding' and it has worked.

Just because you and I would rather 'go it alone' doesn't mean other guys should adopt our methods....

I know of many 'hot Babuskas' who STILL prefer to be on a marriage agency list - rather than go on a dating site....They want the guy to go through a third party and feel he may be more 'serious' if he is prepared to pay....

It may be so for just a few, but most will get scammed in one way or another simply because you cannot trust any "hand holders"
And just having a fat wallet and paying for a service will not help.

Another big stumbling block is mens inability to be proactive. So many guys will pay for membership allowing them to write to as many women as they wish! If they want to write a copy paste letter to 500 women a day and make the most of their subscription it takes time and is boring but it works!

However probably 60% will log in and expect thousands of women to of written to them, when they realise they haven't they are usually disappointed even though often they haven't even bothered uploading a photo. Many will think "Scam scam scam, I was expecting to be inundated with requests from beautiful women looking to be reused from a life of poverty"

Then you have the guys who will answer any mails with  "Ok" "Thank you"  "I am tony" "thats nice" if you cannot be bothered to follow letters up with an answer longer than 3/4 words its hardly surprising the women gets bored!

No body needs any help other than getting their ass in gear and being proactive from day one.

If they cannot manage that how on earth do these executive types manage any business! paying for a "hand holder" won't help if you just sit there like a lemon:)
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Re: uadreams - Any thoughts on this site?
« Reply #23 on: May 06, 2015, 08:33:24 AM »
Some guys can do this (I did but I'm not normal anyway)but very few.

Mind you to elaborate? :coffeeread:

Thats a trade secret  :) But a very good sense of humour always goes a long way.
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« Reply #24 on: May 06, 2015, 10:16:40 AM »
Steveboy.  I hear ya.  And I agree with what you say.  That's why I asked before.
I also am not the average fellow.  I am without mental problems and am realistic in my search...

So, throw a little advice my way.  Which sites do you like?  russiancupid?...?  What sites would you use?  It seems as if there were so many fake profiles.  The first day I registered and verified on one site I got 165 emails.  Quite frankly I didn't know what to do from there.  165 emails.  They can't be real.  LOL. And even the ones that were.  Where to start?

What are your thoughts?

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« Reply #25 on: May 06, 2015, 10:21:24 AM »
Its unbelievable that so many guys will register at a site and then use a mail filter to block mail from certain age groups. Not all but below is pretty common.

50 year old guys will block women over 35 writing to them.

60 year old guys will block women over 40 writing to them.

70 year old guys will block women over 45 writing to them.

That just about sums it up and why so many guys fail.

I had a very nice lady of 50 a short while back for her age she was stunning, she also had a verified profile. She wrote a letter asking why despite so many letters to men she had very little response. Its very hard to reply to women like this.
Its also strange why so many guys over 50/60 are looking for a women with no kids.

There is no hope for many unfortunately:(

I'm mid 40s looking for mid 30s and up.  Only a fool of 60 would become involved with a 20 year old only to have her drop him the moment she reaches his country.  Being realistic is important.  Can't argue with that.  And you know what?  I don't mind the "babushkas".  Some are still stunning and outshine the women of my own country for decades.  :)

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Re: uadreams - Any thoughts on this site?
« Reply #26 on: May 06, 2015, 10:58:58 AM »
Steveboy.  I hear ya.  And I agree with what you say.  That's why I asked before.
I also am not the average fellow.  I am without mental problems and am realistic in my search...

So, throw a little advice my way.  Which sites do you like?  russiancupid?...?  What sites would you use?  It seems as if there were so many fake profiles.  The first day I registered and verified on one site I got 165 emails.  Quite frankly I didn't know what to do from there.  165 emails.  They can't be real.  LOL. And even the ones that were.  Where to start?

What are your thoughts?

Unfortunately our Steve likes to talk the talk but when it comes to walking the walk he’s left wanting.

He’ll tell you that Ukrainian ladies are not a good choice yet he has thousands on his website.

He’ll tell you that young ladies are not a good choice yet he has thousands on his website.

He’ll tell you that large age differences are not a good choice yet he brags about marrying someone much younger.

You get the drift …

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Re: uadreams - Any thoughts on this site?
« Reply #27 on: May 06, 2015, 02:06:47 PM »
Steveboy.  I hear ya.  And I agree with what you say.  That's why I asked before.
I also am not the average fellow.  I am without mental problems and am realistic in my search...

So, throw a little advice my way.  Which sites do you like?  russiancupid?...?  What sites would you use?  It seems as if there were so many fake profiles.  The first day I registered and verified on one site I got 165 emails.  Quite frankly I didn't know what to do from there.  165 emails.  They can't be real.  LOL. And even the ones that were.  Where to start?

What are your thoughts?

Unfortunately our Steve likes to talk the talk but when it comes to walking the walk he’s left wanting.

He’ll tell you that Ukrainian ladies are not a good choice yet he has thousands on his website.

He’ll tell you that young ladies are not a good choice yet he has thousands on his website.

He’ll tell you that large age differences are not a good choice yet he brags about marrying someone much younger.

You get the drift …

I do not say Ukrainian women are not a good choice! Its just an unfortunate fact of reality that if your set on chasing a Ukrainian women your probably very likely to be scammed at some point on top of wasting much time and money. there are a few guys who don't get fooled by all the shit, but not many!! There are better options. Especially for new comers. No doubt there are many thousands of nice genuine Ukrainian women, but why make a rod for your back when there are easier options:)

I never said at any time "Young ladies are not a good choice" at any time? I said to many guys have un realistic ideas and pursue women often 30/40 years younger! I see it happen day after day!
usually because they are living in 1985 forgetting  that intact its 2015. If your a young guy say 30/35 there are plenty of young women/girls but its considerably harder for young guys to find a young women/girl who is serious many young women on the sites are just curios and soon loose interest. Its easier when your a little older as the women are more serious.


A big age difference does not work for many couples and never will. For some lucky ones who either have :

1. Lots of money (Though this will usually end in divorce)

2. The correct mentality ( Maybe like Peterpan lol..) It is possible.

My other half is not so much younger 18 years younger to be exact, Im the other side of 50 (The lower)and just waiting for a cure for ageing  :smokin:

I know what Im talking about I have hundreds of mails each week from members relating to dating!
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Re: uadreams - Any thoughts on this site?
« Reply #28 on: May 06, 2015, 02:23:14 PM »
Steveboy.  I hear ya.  And I agree with what you say.  That's why I asked before.
I also am not the average fellow.  I am without mental problems and am realistic in my search...

So, throw a little advice my way.  Which sites do you like?  russiancupid?...?  What sites would you use?  It seems as if there were so many fake profiles.  The first day I registered and verified on one site I got 165 emails.  Quite frankly I didn't know what to do from there.  165 emails.  They can't be real.  LOL. And even the ones that were.  Where to start?

What are your thoughts?

Yes Russian Cupid and my own site:) None others unless you want to waste your time. New members to any site can often receive many messages in the first couple of weeks its normal if you post some reasonably good photos or have some good bio, but usually the mails will slow up as fresh guys sign up.
Its not rocket science, if you have paid a subscription you should be writing to a min of 50/100 women every day, same copy paste mail to start with then weed out the ones your not so keen on. If I was single again I would be writing to hundreds non stop every day..lol Its best to be writing to plenty of women like a production line lol If your writing to say 2000 women surly its possible to find your match within a few months???
Another big problem is the "Candy shop syndrome" This is where a guy will be writing to some women for 2/3 days until a slightly better option comes along then he will dump her, the same will happen 2/3 days later and then again 2/3 days later, this can go on for 1/2/3 years! When you think you have found a good women stick with her and see it through, don't just dump her because a slightly better model wrote to you
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« Reply #29 on: May 06, 2015, 03:09:09 PM »
I gotcha.  What is your site?  I would like to visit it.