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Offline CzechMate

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Re: Stalking
« Reply #15 on: December 09, 2012, 12:52:45 AM »
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Re: Stalking
« Reply #16 on: December 10, 2012, 05:05:04 AM »
Even in jest, I do not think one should invoke ideas of a paid beating in the FSU. That kind of mob mentality very easily gets out of control.  :o

It does seem Italians, in fact any of the "latin" cultures men don't do rejection well.

No use just trying to block the sms's, since he knows the phone number and can call it, or create any other kind of havoc.
 
Question? how the hell does he know everyone in the families phone number?

Anyway, they all need to change sim cards together. Cheap as chips, just a temporary pain to get rid of a longer term problem.

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Re: Stalking
« Reply #17 on: December 10, 2012, 09:23:36 AM »
I have a Russian friend and she is being stalked by an
Italian man. She receives 60 sms per day (sometimes
more) He also gives similar treatment to her mother,
friends and family.

What can she do to stop this?

Udachi !

Bill

Make him an offer he can't refuse.  :smokin:


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Re: Stalking
« Reply #18 on: December 10, 2012, 11:50:01 AM »
Have the guy visit and have a couple guys give him the business.  I know 5 years ago the price to kill a Ukraine politician was $4,000 usd.  A mob style ass beating probably $200.
Real stand-up advice, classy :thumbsup:

Maybe they (lady + family) just change sim cards - I know its radical but it might just work!!!
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Re: Stalking
« Reply #19 on: December 10, 2012, 01:07:50 PM »
antidate.org

I am very hesitant to send a friend of mine to them.

gogabber.com is friendlier version with many of the same participants and mostly in English.

Is that the site that was going to shut down, but then a white knight came riding in on a mighty steed and saved the site from extinction?
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Re: Stalking
« Reply #20 on: December 10, 2012, 10:56:16 PM »
The term is Sociopath.  The person is so obsessed with himself that he doesn't care how he ruins the quality of life for other people.  He knows that he has absolutely no chance with her.  But he would rather ruin her life for his own satisfaction then leave her alone.

There are reams of documents written about sociopaths.  The best way to get them out of your life is to totally ignore them.  In the US we have restraining orders.  It is possible, over a six week period, to have a restraining order filed.  I don't know if there is a similar legal operation in Russia. 

But have your friend read up on sociopaths.  It will give her insight and assist her family in dealing with him.

Ultimately the best way to get rid of him is to have some other woman be the object of his obsession.

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Re: Stalking
« Reply #21 on: December 11, 2012, 07:32:27 AM »
The man is Italian and lives in Italy so doing something in Russia
wouldn't likely be of any use. Probably changing phone numbers
or sim cards is the best idea.

Although maybe having his photo on antidate might make the guy
want to do something to have it removed.

FSUW are not for entry level daters. FSUW don't do vague FSUW like a man of action so be a man of action  If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane. There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.
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Re: Stalking
« Reply #22 on: December 11, 2012, 08:32:31 AM »
Not just on antidate.  I'd try to find a forum from and news commentary section in a paper in his hometown and post it there, post it here, post it at another forum, on all the FSUW forums, and then text to let him know she's done that, and will continue doing so until he stops harassing her.

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Re: Stalking
« Reply #23 on: December 11, 2012, 01:44:17 PM »
Not just on antidate.  I'd try to find a forum from and news commentary section in a paper in his hometown and post it there, post it here, post it at another forum, on all the FSUW forums, and then text to let him know she's done that, and will continue doing so until he stops harassing her.
Faced with exactly the same problem that was one measure we used-- also on facebook for all to see--need to be sure of getting wording correct-- but driving home accountability is the key.Of course not much will work in the case of guys who are completely crazy-- so these are not issues to be dismissed lightly.

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Re: Stalking
« Reply #24 on: December 11, 2012, 01:54:47 PM »
Not just on antidate.  I'd try to find a forum from and news commentary section in a paper in his hometown and post it there, post it here, post it at another forum, on all the FSUW forums, and then text to let him know she's done that, and will continue doing so until he stops harassing her.

Those are-- excellent ideas-- but-- also important-- an attempt should be made-- to contact-- the man's wife-- should he have one.
"Get away from the keyboard little man. I know where you live." (Message left in my facebook mailbox by our resident psychopath.)


 

 

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