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Re: Married Guys: Tell Us How You Did It?
« Reply #30 on: October 19, 2018, 06:51:12 PM »
but until you meet them in person and can pick up all the non-verbal vibes you don't really know who they are.

Actually,

You don't really know each other - until you have eaten fifty tonnes of salt, together  ..

Lots of FSU folk say that - but I only found out, recently, that it was Aristotle who may have coined the proverb

There was me thinking this thread was about those who have married FSU women







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Re: Married Guys: Tell Us How You Did It?
« Reply #31 on: October 19, 2018, 06:51:32 PM »
nice story Markje!  can relate to the Skype thing, have talked to some ladies for a period and all seems well. but until you meet them in person and can pick up all the non-verbal vibes you don't really know who they are.

Like Markje, you can Skype initially but until you meet there is no way to know. It explains why I am cynical of those who begin a relationship on the basis of one meeting.
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Re: Married Guys: Tell Us How You Did It?
« Reply #32 on: October 19, 2018, 07:17:54 PM »
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Not sure what you mean - unless you suggest folks that meet once and marry - THEN live together ...

I 'met' my Siberian wife online - she didn't want to SKYPE - ( loves it now and her internet was crap) ) and came to ME in Cyprus for the first meeting - five days.

She had been contacted by enough guys - but they were too lazy to bother to fly to Siberia or invited her for a few days to Moscow on visit many trips and wondered why she declined  :'(

I visited her in the depths of a Siberian winter and we lived together for 5 months before marrying, in Cyprus..   

That it didn't work out was certainly not because we 'rushed' into it ...








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Re: Married Guys: Tell Us How You Did It?
« Reply #33 on: October 21, 2018, 05:50:14 AM »
I think most guys who experience "the feeling" know when it's THE girl. You both know it within the first few minutes and there is an immediate connection. I for one felt the same back in 2000 and we're still married.

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Re: Married Guys: Tell Us How You Did It?
« Reply #34 on: October 21, 2018, 09:50:28 PM »


Why DO guys -  who've never been married to a FSU women -  feel they are 'experts' ?

stop twisting words around, this ain't about marriage. this is about Skype meetings and girls. Has nothing to do with you.

btw are you still legally married to FSU #1 while cavorting with FSU #2.  I see they have both taken on your last name even though you are supposed to be divorced.

 Pretty sure I dated more Russians and have more lady friend in Russia than you ever will. 

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Re: Married Guys: Tell Us How You Did It?
« Reply #35 on: October 22, 2018, 12:46:17 AM »


Quote from: sting123link=topic=17821.msg486081#msg486081 date=1540180228
btw are you still legally married to FSU #1 while cavorting with FSU #2.  I see they have both taken on your last name even though you are supposed to be divorced.

So, you've been stalking their FB accounts ?  .. :Did you find my first wife and daughters, yet, 'Sherlock'...  ? :coffeeread:


Quote from: sting123link=topic=17821.msg486081#msg486081 date=1540180228
Pretty sure I dated more Russians and have more lady friend in Russia than you ever will.

Did you marry one? ... Do check the thread title.. 


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Re: Married Guys: Tell Us How You Did It?
« Reply #36 on: October 22, 2018, 06:56:00 AM »

So, you've been stalking their FB accounts ?  .. :Did you find my first wife and daughters, yet, 'Sherlock'...  ? :coffeeread:

Did you marry one? ... Do check the thread title..

Like you stalking my location and IP?  You put up your own Facebook link on here. Not too hard to figure who you are Sherlock. You mean your British wife and estranged daughters?  Read what I was replying to you idiot, you aren't even married to one legally. 

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Re: Married Guys: Tell Us How You Did It?
« Reply #37 on: October 22, 2018, 01:14:33 PM »

So, you've been stalking their FB accounts ?  .. :Did you find my first wife and daughters, yet, 'Sherlock'...  ? :coffeeread:

Did you marry one? ... Do check the thread title..

Like you stalking my location and IP?  You put up your own Facebook link on here. Not too hard to figure who you are Sherlock. You mean your British wife and estranged daughters?  Read what I was replying to you idiot, you aren't even married to one legally.

Guile, I am and I'm sure most of the membership are getting fed up with your incessant stalking and insulting of Moby, he might have his faults, but don't we all, but there is no need to make him the subject of every post you make, you are basically value negative here.

This is your one and only warning, any more of the same and you will be given a time out, without further notice!

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Re: Married Guys: Tell Us How You Did It?
« Reply #38 on: October 22, 2018, 01:19:29 PM »

So, you've been stalking their FB accounts ?  .. :Did you find my first wife and daughters, yet, 'Sherlock'...  ? :coffeeread:

Did you marry one? ... Do check the thread title..

Like you stalking my location and IP?  You put up your own Facebook link on here. Not too hard to figure who you are Sherlock. You mean your British wife and estranged daughters?  Read what I was replying to you idiot, you aren't even married to one legally.

Guile, I am I'm sure most of the membership are getting fed up with your incessant stalking and insulting of Moby, he might have his faults, but don't we all, but there is no need to make him the subject of every post you make, you are basically value negative here.

This is your one and only warning, any more of the same and you will be given a time out, without further notice!


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Re: Married Guys: Tell Us How You Did It?
« Reply #39 on: October 22, 2018, 05:15:20 PM »

Guile, I am and I'm sure most of the membership are getting fed up with your incessant stalking and insulting of Moby, he might have his faults, but don't we all, but there is no need to make him the subject of every post you make, you are basically value negative here.

This is your one and only warning, any more of the same and you will be given a time out, without further notice!

fair enough Chris, I'll lay off him.  But he does the exact to me any many other members.

Banning Moby never works as another mod indicated he'll just create more account from elsewhere to bypass the ip ban.

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Re: Married Guys: Tell Us How You Did It?
« Reply #40 on: October 22, 2018, 05:32:51 PM »

Guile, I am and I'm sure most of the membership are getting fed up with your incessant stalking and insulting of Moby, he might have his faults, but don't we all, but there is no need to make him the subject of every post you make, you are basically value negative here.

This is your one and only warning, any more of the same and you will be given a time out, without further notice!

fair enough Chris, I'll lay off him.  But he does the exact to me any many other members.

Banning Moby never works as another mod indicated he'll just create more account from elsewhere to bypass the ip ban.


Chris good call.

Guile, True enough, but you do not need to throw gas on this fire. I suspect you are smarter than this behavior.
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Re: Married Guys: Tell Us How You Did It?
« Reply #41 on: October 22, 2018, 05:41:03 PM »
I think most guys who experience "the feeling" know when it's THE girl. You both know it within the first few minutes and there is an immediate connection. I for one felt the same back in 2000 and we're still married.

Are you the same person who posted that you have two mistresses in another thread?  Does she feel OK about this arrangement?  I recently saw an over 40 year old movie from the UK about a bloke who was married and then arranged to spend some "time" with a fellow lady who was recently widowed so that she would not be in want for male companionship.  Someone notified his wife about his flagrante delicto  and she went to discuss the matter with her neighbor.  She decided not to divorce the bloke and instead invited her neighbor to move in with the couple.  The bloke was shocked at the arrangement, but gladly accepted it.  So he had a wife and mistress which shocked his mother in law who tried to get her daughter to divorce her husband. The wife was infertile, but the mistress was not and she got pregnant with twins and gave one of them to the wife to raise.  So it all ended happily ever after.    :chuckle: :loving: (:) :thumbsup:
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Re: Married Guys: Tell Us How You Did It?
« Reply #42 on: October 22, 2018, 06:00:28 PM »


I don't know about the rest of you but I will have been married 19 years next March. I also have two mistresses here in Yoshkar-Ola as the regional (Mari-El Respublika) ratio of women to men teeters around 6 to 1. I am in paradise!

yeah he did post that he had 2 mistresses... so he probably gets THAT feeling alot when he sees THE girl.

Could be another feeling that's getting a rise, if you know what I mean.

Russian women are known to put up with mistresses if the guy is rich...




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Re: Married Guys: Tell Us How You Did It?
« Reply #43 on: October 22, 2018, 09:50:39 PM »


I don't know about the rest of you but I will have been married 19 years next March. I also have two mistresses here in Yoshkar-Ola as the regional (Mari-El Respublika) ratio of women to men teeters around 6 to 1. I am in paradise!

yeah he did post that he had 2 mistresses... so he probably gets THAT feeling alot when he sees THE girl.

Could be another feeling that's getting a rise, if you know what I mean.

Russian women are known to put up with mistresses if the guy is rich...

Yoshkar-Ola sounds like the place to be!  :chuckle:
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Re: Married Guys: Tell Us How You Did It?
« Reply #44 on: October 22, 2018, 11:03:11 PM »
that 6-1 ratio sounds a bit too high unless he is in a farm land area and all the men have left to the cities for work.  I got friends in that region and there are alot of ethnics there, Mari and Tatar.  They are Russian in mentality but also have their own culture.