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Offline sharonhaber00

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Miracles do happen.
« on: April 19, 2012, 02:11:06 PM »
I just found it today. I thought it worth to post it here...for newbies...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=iv&annotation_id=annotation_707788&src_vid=NBMCDLlKPNw&v=LN58os8v8FU

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PFB2UbtBKzc&context=C4fc5722ADvjVQa1PpcFMM_x8JoeqN_ks-gk3pzUMeVS9YdOZYMUQ=
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Re: Miracles do happen.
« Reply #1 on: April 19, 2012, 02:33:23 PM »
This guy is selling tour packages at www.SheIsThere.com

I've sent Mark an e-mail inviting him to join and participate on RUA as a Commercial member.

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Re: Miracles do happen.
« Reply #2 on: April 19, 2012, 03:09:14 PM »
Yep,

         25 year age gap,she was 18 when they met.A big no no for the "experts" on here.

They met at a AFA social.Another big no no for the "experts" on here.

Well,they've been married 5 years now,and seem happy enough together,so i guess miracles can happen. :)

Mark does actually participate on the other main forum.


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Re: Miracles do happen.
« Reply #3 on: April 19, 2012, 03:50:10 PM »
Yea
The "experts" wanted to teach me about age difference. Should I avoid writing to young girls just because the doctors say so? Why not try your luck with the age group you are attracted to just because they say it won't work?   
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Re: Miracles do happen.
« Reply #4 on: April 19, 2012, 04:19:23 PM »
I've sent Mark an e-mail inviting him to join and participate on RUA as a Commercial member.

He is already a member. Has been for some time. He doesn't participate because he seems to be all about links [that have been deleted as spam in the past] to his sites rather than useful content. We see through that here. He gets away with drive by link drops on other sites though.....
I apologise.
And so he should.........

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Re: Miracles do happen.
« Reply #5 on: April 19, 2012, 04:21:22 PM »
Yea
The "experts" wanted to teach me about age difference. Should I avoid writing to young girls just because the doctors say so? Why not try your luck with the age group you are attracted to just because they say it won't work?

A 25 year age gape is not recommended and will rarely work. Of course it does happen, but when it does you can be sure that the couples involved are quite special, not to mention unique.

Its possible that the ‘experts’ are not recommending this to you for a very good reason.

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Re: Miracles do happen.
« Reply #6 on: April 19, 2012, 05:05:00 PM »
Yea
The "experts" wanted to teach me about age difference. Should I avoid writing to young girls just because the doctors say so? Why not try your luck with the age group you are attracted to just because they say it won't work?

 You seem to be looking for justification to do it no matter what anyone says here. So why are you even discussing it with us?

 Judging from what I've seen on your other threads anyone who tried to give you advice was just wasting their time. You could have 100 people come here and tell you its a stupid idea but if you have one who comes along and agrees with you then you'll forget everything everyone else said anyways.   :'(   

 So, go ahead... try and hook up with a 20 year old. You might get lucky and be one of those 1% who make it happen. Is that what you want to hear?   (:)

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Re: Miracles do happen.
« Reply #7 on: April 19, 2012, 05:25:02 PM »
There are different opinions about this matter. When I see it works, I think why that guy won such a girl? Some members here have tendency to discourage. If you think I waste your time - don't waste your time on me.
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Re: Miracles do happen.
« Reply #8 on: April 19, 2012, 06:27:53 PM »
Sharon,

It does happen but the man has qualities that I suspect you lack. Sorry to brutal but women want to see a big rock and a monthly stipend.

Think vacation in St.Moritz and an 30+ meter yacht at St. Tropez.

Yes there are other relationships that have big age differences but they are exceptions.

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Re: Miracles do happen.
« Reply #9 on: April 19, 2012, 07:27:27 PM »
When I see it works, I think why that guy won such a girl?


Anna complained about the "old guys" at the socials and the way that they were showing off their assets. Yet, she married a California man old enough to be her father who owns several businesses, has substantial assets and wasn't afraid to spend them in pursuit of Anna. Don't you see the obvious contradiction in that video?
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Re: Miracles do happen.
« Reply #10 on: April 19, 2012, 07:38:07 PM »
The universal truth is that men want youth and beauty, and women want financial security.  Many women whether they want to admit it or not, put money above all else.  Most men will admit they put youth and beauty on top.  Personally I try to find a happy medium.  30 years old is my target range.  I am in better than average physical shape so if I am older than her by 15 years, so what.  If I can outclimb her, ride a bike further, etc etc she is certainly not going to complain about my physical prowess in the bedroom.  The important thing to me is that we have the same attitude about money, which in my case I prefer to wait and buy quality, and I always want to have more than enough money in the bank for a rainy day.  Some women get that, and others want to spend it all until you are completely broke.  More and more it seems to me that the women looking to go abroad (as in leaving Ukraine or Russia) are just looking for a sugar daddy.
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Miracles do happen.
« Reply #11 on: April 19, 2012, 07:50:03 PM »
There are different opinions about this matter. When I see it works, I think why that guy won such a girl? Some members here have tendency to discourage. If you think I waste your time - don't waste your time on me.

Surely you should ignore any advice you get here. You can find hundreds of
20 year old hotties on RLM or Anastasia Date or other pay by the letter sites.
Just search the pay by the letter sites.

You want somebody to tell you that there is a chance with you and a 20 year old
girl?

OK, there is a small chance that you can make things work with a 20 year old girl.
There is also a small chance that you can win the lottery too. I don't recommend
buying lottery tickets but they only cost a dollar or so each so it's no big deal if
you lose. 

I don't recommend that 50+ year old men pursue a 20 year old girl.
I don't recommend that 30 year old men pursue a 20 year old girl for
marriage.

So when you find a 20 year old girl, and get happily married please remember to
come by and tell us that we were all wrong.

UspEhov! hatzlacha !!

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Re: Miracles do happen.
« Reply #12 on: April 19, 2012, 07:56:20 PM »
I don't recommend that 50+ year old men pursue a 20 year old girl.
I don't recommend that 30 year old men pursue a 20 year old girl for
marriage.

The latter guys have more time to recover in case of failure, though.
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Re: Miracles do happen.
« Reply #13 on: April 19, 2012, 08:10:11 PM »
The latter guys have more time to recover in case of failure, though.


For sure they do! however anytime there is a 20 year old girl involved there will
probably be a baby along shortly which tends to extend the recovery period. 


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Re: Miracles do happen.
« Reply #14 on: April 19, 2012, 11:15:13 PM »
That girls are at the peak of their fertility more than a decade before they are at the peak of their reasonableness illustrates the great cosmic sense of humor. Men are no less afflicted, though; we pursue lush girls whether we desire progeny or not. Short of castration, I see no exit to this dilemma.
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