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What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband

Handsome appearance ....он красив
5 (4%)
Nice Body ....он имеет хорошие физические данные
1 (0.8%)
Honesty .... он честный
9 (7.1%)
Must be taller than me ....  Должен быть выше меня
4 (3.2%)
Language skills..... он может говорить на моем языке
0 (0%)
Education...... он образованный
8 (6.3%)
Must help with house work / kids он должен помогать мне в работе по дому / с детьми
0 (0%)
Financially Secure он материально обеспечен
8 (6.3%)
Must be R-I-C-H !! !!! он богат
3 (2.4%)
Must understand me Он понимает меня
5 (4%)
A real (true) man  реальный мужчина
4 (3.2%)
Makes me laugh sense of humor он должен иметь чувство юмора
12 (9.5%)
He should have no previous kids у него не должно быть детей от предыдущих браков
1 (0.8%)
He must love my kids Он должен любить моих детей
1 (0.8%)
He should not want more kids Он должен не хотеть больше детей
0 (0%)
He should want more kids Он должен хотеть больше детей
1 (0.8%)
He must be Great Sexually or at least good (need help translating)
4 (3.2%)
He must NOT snore Он не должен храпеть
0 (0%)
He must be neat and not a slob Он должен быть аккуратным, не быть неряхой
1 (0.8%)
He should not be a fat он не толстый
1 (0.8%)
He should not be bald он не лысый
0 (0%)
He must love me он любит меня
9 (7.1%)
My parents must like him мои родители любят его
0 (0%)
He should make me feel like a princess Я его принцесса
3 (2.4%)
He should have things in common like interests and hobbies
2 (1.6%)
We should have the same or similar religious views (or the same lack of them) у нас иметь одинаковые или схожие взгляды на религию
1 (0.8%)
We should feel comfortable together нам должно быть уютно вместе
4 (3.2%)
He should be cultured он культурный человек
1 (0.8%)
He should have good manners он имеет хорошие манеры
1 (0.8%)
He should be attentive он внимателен
2 (1.6%)
He should be understanding он понимающий
1 (0.8%)
He should be patient терпеливый
1 (0.8%)
He should not lose his mind just because I do sometimes не теряет голову, просто потому, что я иногда делаю это
1 (0.8%)
He should ask my advice он советуется со мной
0 (0%)
He should be able to make decisions
4 (3.2%)
He must trust me
0 (0%)
I must trust him
1 (0.8%)
He ...................I will explain
0 (0%)
Something else ............Please explain
0 (0%)
Something else ............Please explain 2
0 (0%)
Something else ............Please explain 3
0 (0%)
He should be Bill or just like Bill !!! он Билл или похож на него
0 (0%)
Bill is an idiot and he should not be anything like him !!! Билл- идиот и он не похож на него
2 (1.6%)
Men? it doesn't matter they are all the same мужчины? какая разница, они все одинаковы  
0 (0%)
He must live in Europe Он живет в Европе
1 (0.8%)
He must live in USA Он живет в USA
0 (0%)
He must NOT live in USA
1 (0.8%)
He must live .........I will explain
0 (0%)
He Must NOT Smoke
0 (0%)
He must NOT drink Он не пьет алкоголь
0 (0%)
He must NOT .........I will explain
0 (0%)
He must ...........I will explain
0 (0%)
We should have similar tastes in Music, Art, etc Мы должны иметь что-то общее, интересы или хобби например
1 (0.8%)
He should be close to my age мы близки по возрасту
1 (0.8%)
He should not be more than 5 years older than me он старше меня не более чем на 5 лет
1 (0.8%)
He should not be more than 10 years older than me он старше меня не более чем на 10 лет
0 (0%)
He should not be more than 15 years older than me он старше меня не более чем на 15 лет
0 (0%)
He should not be more than _____ years older than me I will explain он старше меня не более чем на __лет (я объясню, почему)
0 (0%)
I don't care about age возраст меня не волнует
4 (3.2%)
He must win my Heart он должен завоевать мое сердце
2 (1.6%)
I must LOVE him я доложна любить его
10 (7.9%)
HE must keep his promises он должен держать слово
4 (3.2%)
He must not have bad habits (drinking, drugs, gambling) У него не должно быть вредных привычек (наркотики, пьянство, азартные игры)
0 (0%)
He must not be LAZY Он не должен быть ленивым
0 (0%)

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Offline Larry

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #25 on: February 13, 2011, 08:18:11 AM »
Asya has some serious anger problems.  I'm glad very few RW are like her!

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #26 on: March 09, 2011, 06:23:06 AM »
He must love me
I must LOVE him
He should want more kids
He must be neat and not a slob
He should have things in common like interests and hobbies

I would like to add - He must not have bad habits (i.e. drugs, alcohol, gambling)
             and             He must be not lazy

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #27 on: March 09, 2011, 08:51:32 AM »
He must love me
I must LOVE him
He should want more kids
He must be neat and not a slob
He should have things in common like interests and hobbies

I would like to add - He must not have bad habits (i.e. drugs, alcohol, gambling)
             and             He must be not lazy

Jinny, the bad habits  is a good one I have seen it many times in profiles. I will add it
and lazy to the list. Maybe you can help with the Russian translation?

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #28 on: March 10, 2011, 03:53:35 AM »
He must love me
I must LOVE him
He should want more kids
He must be neat and not a slob
He should have things in common like interests and hobbies

I would like to add - He must not have bad habits (i.e. drugs, alcohol, gambling)
             and             He must be not lazy

Jinny, the bad habits  is a good one I have seen it many times in profiles. I will add it
and lazy to the list. Maybe you can help with the Russian translation?

Spasibo

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OK, with great pleasure!

He must not have bad habits (i.e. grugs,alcohol,gambling) - У него не должно быть вредных привычек
                                                                                                  (наркотики, пьянство, азартные игры)
He must not be lazy - Он не должен быть ленивым

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I am going to invite a few FSUW to take part in this poll
« Reply #29 on: September 13, 2011, 01:53:20 PM »
I am going to ask a few FSUW to take part in this poll.

Please welcome them.

Spasibo

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FSUW are not for entry level daters. FSUW don't do vague FSUW like a man of action so be a man of action  If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane. There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #30 on: September 13, 2011, 01:57:35 PM »
My goodness.... can there be an option 'I am a man and only want to see the results of this poll..'?

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #31 on: September 13, 2011, 02:40:21 PM »
My goodness.... can there be an option 'I am a man and only want to see the results of this poll..'?

No you shouldn't vote, however there is a "view results button"

Udachi

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FSUW are not for entry level daters. FSUW don't do vague FSUW like a man of action so be a man of action  If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane. There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #32 on: September 13, 2011, 03:06:22 PM »
My goodness.... can there be an option 'I am a man and only want to see the results of this poll..'?

LOL That's funny...  :laugh:

Great thread... So what do they want? I see the top 2 items as they want someone who will love them and make them laugh. How much more down to earth can those requests be?

Sure, they want to know that their basic needs with respect to food, shelter, clothing, ..., etc. will be met. No one should fault them for that. They are, however, secondary to love and happiness and that speaks volumes in my humble opinion.

Carry on...

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #33 on: January 27, 2012, 12:35:30 AM »
had a laugh reading this  :saint:

why are we restricted only to 5 things, not fair   :8)

well i voted for
Honesty ....
I must LOVE him
He must love me
Makes me laugh sense of humor
He must be Great Sexually or at least good

and of course there most be trust to each other and He must win my Heart ... but i run out of allowed choices lmao
actually surprised that more girls care if husband is taller then them or able to make decisions instead of being satisfied in bedroom department (dont think its so in real life  :hidechair: )
Hypocrisy is the state of pretending to have beliefs, opinions, virtues, ideals, thoughts, feelings, qualities, or standards that one does not actually have. Hypocrisy involves the deception of others and is thus a kind of lie.

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #34 on: January 27, 2012, 03:40:55 AM »
Voted  :king:
1. Financially Secure (certainly)
2. A real (true) man  (for sure)
3. He should make me feel like a princess ( as sure as a gun)
4. Bill is an idiot and he should not be anything like him !!! ( ;D no doubts)
5. HE must keep his promises (пацан сказал - пацан сделал... не сделал - еще раз сказал  ;D)
6. (additional) His voice must not resemble the sound of drills  :fighting0025:
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #35 on: January 27, 2012, 07:50:05 AM »
Voted  :king:
1. Financially Secure (certainly)
2. A real (true) man  (for sure)
3. He should make me feel like a princess ( as sure as a gun)
4. Bill is an idiot and he should not be anything like him !!! ( ;D no doubts)
5. HE must keep his promises (пацан сказал - пацан сделал... не сделал - еще раз сказал  ;D)
6. (additional) His voice must not resemble the sound of drills  :fighting0025:

So what about love? You don't care if you love him?

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #36 on: January 27, 2012, 07:52:02 AM »
Voted  :king:
1. Financially Secure (certainly)
2. A real (true) man  (for sure)
3. He should make me feel like a princess ( as sure as a gun)
4. Bill is an idiot and he should not be anything like him !!! ( ;D no doubts)
5. HE must keep his promises (пацан сказал - пацан сделал... не сделал - еще раз сказал  ;D)
6. (additional) His voice must not resemble the sound of drills  :fighting0025:

So what about love? You don't care if you love him?


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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #37 on: January 27, 2012, 08:06:31 AM »
I suspect Millaa loves us all, she just is not sure where she wants to kick us!
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #38 on: January 27, 2012, 10:26:13 AM »
had a laugh reading this  :saint:

why are we restricted only to 5 things, not fair   :8)


You can vote for only 5 things otherwise girls would vote for every item
including not to be like Bill  :snivel: and nobody would know what the most
important qualities are.

So feel free to make a list here with everything you seek.

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #39 on: January 27, 2012, 12:09:04 PM »
Curious whatever happened to the 1,000 FSUW - all on vkontact and left myspace ???

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #40 on: January 27, 2012, 06:56:24 PM »
Something I see, I like,, all mention Love!
Funny how so many talk about money,,, good women.
good lists :)
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #41 on: January 27, 2012, 07:39:21 PM »
Something I see, I like,, all mention Love!
Funny how so many talk about money,,, good women.
good lists :)

A real man is with money ... others are machos  :king: how to translate самцы to english properly?)
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #42 on: January 27, 2012, 07:41:50 PM »
3. He should make me feel like a princess ( as sure as a gun)

So what about love? You don't care if you love him?

Its about love in my opinion  :king:
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #43 on: January 27, 2012, 09:51:21 PM »
It is about love and true friendship that makes for the best relationship.

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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #44 on: January 28, 2012, 07:26:27 AM »
@Millaa
how to translate самцы to english properly?
the direct translation just MALES  :ROFL:
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #45 on: January 28, 2012, 09:26:32 AM »
actually surprised that more girls care if husband is taller then them or able to make decisions instead of being satisfied in bedroom department (dont think its so in real life  :hidechair: )

Well, maybe you haven't met those who can't make their own decisions.
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #46 on: January 28, 2012, 09:32:41 AM »

Well, maybe you haven't met those who can't make their own decisions.
those didnt even pass stage of dating, so they simply not included on the list   :ROFL:
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #47 on: January 28, 2012, 09:32:49 AM »
and of course there most be trust to each other and He must win my Heart ... but i run out of allowed choices lmao
actually surprised that more girls care if husband is taller then them or able to make decisions instead of being satisfied in bedroom department (dont think its so in real life  :hidechair: )

Perhaps they have been in relationships with men who were good in bed and were more than happy to share their expertise with many other women incapable of truly deciding what woman they really wanted  :laugh:
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #48 on: January 28, 2012, 09:35:39 AM »
@Rasputin
Perhaps they have been in relationships with men who were good in bed and were more than happy to share their expertise with many other women incapable of truly deciding what woman they really wanted
lmao i didnt considered such option  :party0031: live and learn  :ROFL:
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Re: What top 5 things do (or did) you look for in a husband
« Reply #49 on: January 28, 2012, 09:50:59 AM »
Maybe she can have a guy who can make decisions and is good in bed.
That would mean he makes good decisions in bed :chuckle:
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