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Author Topic: Scammer in Mogliev, Belarus  (Read 7866 times)

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Re: Scammer in Mogliev, Belarus
« Reply #30 on: August 22, 2018, 04:00:33 AM »
My English is very bad. I'll write slowly.

It's not bad at all, we get far worse from the natives on here.

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Re: Scammer in Mogliev, Belarus
« Reply #31 on: August 22, 2018, 04:03:57 AM »
My English is very bad. I'll write slowly.

My English usage is not perfect either.

You can perhaps ask for assistance from Manny who owns this site. Again there is a possibility that all leads will be a dead end.

My guess you need to proceed with an attorney and personal appeal to Irina. But I would first define your goals.
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Re: Scammer in Mogliev, Belarus
« Reply #32 on: August 22, 2018, 09:39:21 AM »
[Trolling removed]
I support no government anywhere, ever, never. No institution, No religion!!


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Re: Scammer in Mogliev, Belarus
« Reply #33 on: August 22, 2018, 09:44:31 AM »
about 19 years ago, when I was a student, I met Irina. We talked a few times, drank alcohol, but we didn't have sex.
4 years later, in 2003, when I was working, she found me and offered to meet. Shortly before that, I got divorced and wanted to walk. We met Irina several times and we had sex. She wanted more, introduced me to her family, and there was talk of a wedding. Of course, after the divorce, I didn't want a new relationship and told her about it. She accused me of using her sexually and we broke up. But two months later, I found out she was pregnant. I asked her to have an abortion and get rid of the baby, but she said she wanted a baby and wouldn't have a problem with me. So I lived until 2010.
In 2010 she sued and I was recognized as the father of the child, having carried out examination. The court ordered me to pay her monthly payments.
I did not challenge the court's decision and did not want to communicate with her and the child. But she found me again and offered me a deal where I let her and her son go to live in Turkey, and she has no problem with me.
I agreed and we had nothing to do. However, in July 2018, she again appealed to the court and demanded to resume payments. Of course I don't want to pay money to the person who cheated on me and the child I've never seen.

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Re: Scammer in Mogliev, Belarus
« Reply #34 on: August 22, 2018, 10:09:16 AM »
I have other plans. I have to make sure her husband knows everything and everyone who knows her.

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Re: Scammer in Mogliev, Belarus
« Reply #35 on: August 22, 2018, 10:47:57 AM »
Revenge is a rather bitter drink.

On one side to me it sounds like you are avoiding responsibility. But she accepted responsibility for the child.

You were found to be the father, but how was this discovered? DNA or by the court based on a time line. Also said sproglet is ten plus years old, have you had any direct contact per the agreement? I assume you have an attorney/lawyer?

I think she can moan to the moon, scream to the sun, but even if she is an attorney I tend to doubt she can do anything from Turkey while you are in Belarus.

All the above is prefaced with the reality there is no serious money or assets involved
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Re: Scammer in Mogliev, Belarus
« Reply #36 on: August 22, 2018, 11:17:43 AM »
It was DNA test.

She had a court decision to collect alimony from me. But in exchange for some documents, she refused financial claims. And now I have them again

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Re: Scammer in Mogliev, Belarus
« Reply #37 on: August 22, 2018, 11:47:22 AM »
 :dh: :fighting0025:
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Re: Scammer in Mogliev, Belarus
« Reply #38 on: August 22, 2018, 11:49:17 AM »
[Trolling removed]
I support no government anywhere, ever, never. No institution, No religion!!

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Re: Scammer in Mogliev, Belarus
« Reply #39 on: August 22, 2018, 12:20:52 PM »
Could Steve stop trolling and others feeding him please and let SOkol tell his story and discuss without off topic distractions.
please tell me where I'm being / have been 'dishonest'? 
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Re: Scammer in Mogliev, Belarus
« Reply #40 on: April 15, 2019, 02:55:00 AM »
Manny,

This is ‘alohakindness.’ I can confirm who I say I am and what’s actually True about Irina (images, documents, etc.). Please contact me via Private Message about the continuing Irina saga. Thanks.

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Re: Scammer in Mogliev, Belarus
« Reply #41 on: April 15, 2019, 03:17:39 AM »
wow, this is a story and a half

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Re: Scammer in Mogliev, Belarus
« Reply #42 on: April 15, 2019, 04:22:14 AM »
So, we have an advantage taking tart who is, by now, past her sell by date and a load of blokes following her, and each other, around the Internet. Guys, the woman is now old, the kid is grown up and none of you is gonna get anything out of the kid or its mother.

Go find proper women, enjoy your middle age and let this Irina bint enjoy her fading beauty on the shores of the Mediterranean Sea.

It isn't worth doing anything else!
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Re: Scammer in Mogliev, Belarus
« Reply #43 on: April 15, 2019, 05:10:29 AM »
[Note to self: I am not the language police and that is why my post has been removed for off topic trolling]




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Re: Scammer in Mogliev, Belarus
« Reply #44 on: April 15, 2019, 06:41:13 AM »
So, we have an advantage taking tart who is, by now, past her sell by date and a load of blokes following her, and each other, around the Internet. Guys, the woman is now old, the kid is grown up and none of you is gonna get anything out of the kid or its mother.

Go find proper women, enjoy your middle age and let this Irina bint enjoy her fading beauty on the shores of the Mediterranean Sea.

It isn't worth doing anything else!

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