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Offline Steveboy

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Re: Your partner may go through this when arriving in your country
« Reply #30 on: August 29, 2018, 10:36:24 AM »
I think there can be a culture shock for many especially if they move to another country with a guy who does not have much cash and living in some file pit...

BUT... the end of the day if a couple click and really do get on with each other just like they have known each other for 100 years and the sex life is great.. I guess you can live anywhere ?

I could live in the North Pole if I had to wouldn't make the slightest difference..all depends on the couple and the relationship..
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Re: Your partner may go through this when arriving in your country
« Reply #31 on: August 30, 2018, 06:48:30 AM »
IMHO culture shock happens to all of us who make a big move. Some are more affected than others, I have known people for whom the effects were strong enough to cut short their planned new life.

I know that it affects me but having gone through the process multiple times it is something that I know, understand recognize and can deal with. Knowing that it happens is possibly the most important thing that somebody who needs to support a newcomer to his/her culture can have in their support toolbox.

And, yes, I too am pretty sure that having a life that is not one of lack of material resources does make matters much, much, easier. However, no matter how pretty the cage might be, if the new environment is a cage then ultimately the project is likely to fail.
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